I look way less than I weigh

So I am 30 years old, I currently weigh 178lbs and I am 5'4. I currently wear size 3-5 or 25/27 in jeans. Everything on the internet says my ideal weight is about 135lbs but I weighed 135lbs a few years ago and I looked sickly, I had to shop in the little girls section and you could see all the bones in my chest. I would like to loose about 30lbs so I would weigh around 150- 155 that's where I feel and look best. I don't think anyone should listen to those sights that tell your ideal weigh listen to your body and find a place you feel most comfortable. Dont stress yourself out if you don't make your goals on time just be patient and keep on trying. Every person is different every body reacts different and what works for one person might not work for the next.