Quit Smoking..and...and...and...advice and advise pls

Anjaza
Anjaza Posts: 12
edited October 1 in Chit-Chat
i'm seriously considering (deciding / decided?) to quit smoking on the 1st September. However I've also at the same time (today) :noway: made this huge (important) decision about health and lifestyle and weight loss and starting to excercise and returning to the gym...I'm in serious doubt now whether it's a good idea and possible to do this all at the same time?? I've read some on the internet and a few advised that I should first do the one and then later the other but defnitely not all at the same time... What do you think?? Could this work?? :frown:

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  • Could work. Might not. Only one way to find out ;)

    disclaimer: I keep punting my quit day down the calendar...
  • maysflower
    maysflower Posts: 180
    Do one at a time. Trying to change too many habits at once is just setting yourself up for failure. As an ex-smoker I know how hard it is to quit, and I could not imagine trying to quit smoking AND lose weight at the same it.

    My suggestion would be to quit smoking first, then work on your overall health. Good luck, and don't give up....it will get easier :)
  • capeto
    capeto Posts: 5 Member
    Hi, I also want to quit smoking. But first I start loosing weight!! then I will try to quit. I don't know if I will gain some weight when I quit smoking, but in my opinion try first one thing at a time.
  • stormieweather
    stormieweather Posts: 2,549 Member
    I did it!! Just focus on your health and fitness instead of the next cigarette. I used my extra cash to pay for a gym membership and some nifty workout clothes.

    My secret was to be determined. I decided that a PLANT would not have that much power over me. I could and would be the one in charge of my body and choices and I chose not to smoke anymore. I had a weeks worth of activities and snacks and tricks to get me through that first week, and after that, I was golden.

    You can do it, don't just try or give it a shot or anything else half-way, decide that you WILL do it and when, then show those sticks who's boss! I worked out a lot, spent my time learning about nutrition and health and lost 15 pounds within a few months.

    If I can do it, after 34 years of smoking 1-4 packs a day, YOU can do it (if you want it badly enough).
  • soknurdy
    soknurdy Posts: 74 Member
    If you're strong, you could do both. As you wean off smoking you'll begin to see how much better your cardiovascular abilities become. Takes a LOT of will power though!
  • Anjaza
    Anjaza Posts: 12
    LOL...geeez yes I suppose I just have to try it and see.. :bigsmile: I've been smoking for almost 20+ years...I'm actually petrified at the mere thought of having to give up my crutch and "comfort"
  • SunshineKisses_2012
    SunshineKisses_2012 Posts: 471 Member
    My two cents on this one is opposite of maysflower. I started on the road to health a month and a half ago and I still smoke. I do want to quit smoking, but when I'm more emotionally secure with knowing that I won't use food as the alternative to smoking. I did that in the past and gained and gained and gained...

    I'm working on the emotional aspect of the food. I know smoking has it's own emotional attachments to it as well. Once I slay one evil, I'll go after the next. Good luck and welcome!
  • Anjaza
    Anjaza Posts: 12
    Thanx stormieweather ... I guess I just needed someone out there to affirm that they have done it as well..and could do it . You're right it's not a matter of just giving it a shot..it's a willpower crunch-time decision and commitment :tongue:
  • Tralee1111
    Tralee1111 Posts: 2,039 Member
    I quit cold turkey after smoking on and off for 25 years. You have to want to do it or it won't work. My trigger point was social gatherings and when I was around other smokers. That was the tough part. The majority of my friends smoke, so at first it was difficult to sit around with them, especially during happy hour or on breaks at work.

    I actually quit smoking first. And I too was worried about the weight gain, but then after I got to the two month mark or not smoking, I started dieting.

    It depends on your willpower and determination. If you go into it half-heartedly, you probably won't be able to totally quit. I knew I was ready and I haven't had one in 2 1/2 years. And won't pick up another one either. Food on the other hand, I am still working on that one!

    Good luck with it!
  • Giddeaon
    Giddeaon Posts: 43
    I would suggest that you quit smoking first. There are multiple reasons for this...

    1 - Smoking will lessen any attempts you make at trying to get in shape and/or lose weight. Your cardio can't/won't be as good, so all the efforts you make won't be as effective. Why put in all the work if you're only giving yourself 50% of the results by sandbagging your own efforts.
    2 - Whatever positive results you see in terms of weight loss will likely be reversed when you do finally quit smoking. Most people put on a few pounds, gain water weight and more due to the poor food choices made while irritable and/or the chemical changes that your body goes through as it is weened off an addictive chemical. Quitting smoking later on can cause you to mentally stumble when you see some results reversed.

    I will readily admit that these are both anecdotal issues I personally battled with many times over the last 10 years. Finally, just over 1 year ago (August 18th 2010) I decided to quit smoking for good. I started my work outs and diet exactly one month later. It was the first time I was able to really get into the swing of things without any missteps or stumbling. Trying to quit while also dieting and/or working out was completely counterproductive for me.

    Whatever you decide, I wish you the best of luck. Quitting smoking is not easy, but is very worthwhile. Keep your head up and stay strong and you will succeed. Good luck to you!
  • kennethmgreen
    kennethmgreen Posts: 1,759 Member
    Don't know what part of the world you are in, but I find quitting smoking easier when it's hot outside, so your timing couldn't be better if you are in the US.

    Quitting smoking is really hard. You probably already know that.

    I can see the struggle with changing too much at once, and normally, I would agree. But I do think making healthier eating and exercise choices will compliment a non-smoking lifestyle (and vice versa).

    Different techniques for different people, of course. I liked the idea of picking a quit date and sticking to it. Something about knowing my smoking was coming to an end seemed to help. I'd light up knowing it was one of my last. Nicorette gum can help, as can Trident (any regular gum).

    The first week is a nightmare. Be prepared. I'm not going to lie about it. In fact, that first week is probably what kept me from going back the last time. (No smoking for hmm... 6 years?) It's been awhile. I don't even want to go through that first week again, even though I had quit before.

    Week two is tough, but will see improvement. This is where healthy eating and exercise should really help. After two weeks, it's all the mental/habit stuff. Just prepare yourself. For me, coffee was a big trigger. I just made sure I was psyched up, ready for the craving when I had my coffee. The cravings pass. You will feel better.

    Don't do it alone. Find someone who can put up with a lot of your whining. Talk to that person every day. It will help. For me, the biggest thing with putting the cigs down was replacing the behavior with something. For me, it was porn. ;) Seriously, this is another reason for quitting while you are changing your behavior with healthier eating and exercise.
  • Anjaza
    Anjaza Posts: 12
    Thanx all for your comments and input.. BC you're right with the replacement of food with smoking and vice versa.. Currently when on the munchies it can be stilled with smoking and it usually does work.... I'm trying my best to imagine what I'd do without the smokes and food I'm so used to...LOL .. I'll cross that bridge when I get there and for now adapt the one-day-at-a-time motto :tongue:
  • taso42_DELETED
    taso42_DELETED Posts: 3,394 Member
    It sounds like a lot to do all at once. But exercising may help. A long time ago, the first time I tried quitting, I got on a bicycling kick and somehow that helped. Of course, I went back to smoking. It was years later that I really quit, independent of any sort of real health kick (other than quitting cigs), and then years after that I started working out and eating well.

    I think it can work. Good luck to you. It does get easier over time.
  • UltraRunnerGale
    UltraRunnerGale Posts: 346 Member
    I guess it all depends on what your motivation is. I was diagnosed with breast cancer nine years ago. the day the surgeon told me I was going to lose my breast, he also told me I would need to quit smoking as the reconstruction surgery wouldn't work if I continued to smoke (I wanted to use my own tissue instead of having an implant). He explained to me that smoking damages our blood vessels so badly that the tissue would turn black and die if I wasn't smoke-free for a year.

    I had my last cigarette at 3 or 4AM the next morning. I also became a vegetarian and started running. I changed my life 100% practically overnight. I have had wonderful success but I had a lot of motivation to do so. :drinker:

    You can do it if you want to and if you are truly committed to a whole new lifestyle change. Go get 'em!! :flowerforyou:
  • deanzie
    deanzie Posts: 2 Member
    Unfortunately, I got back into smoking because of recent stresses. Before that, i was doing really well during my cessation, and started exercising immediately. There's that period of time when your body needs to sweat out all the toxins, but as you continue trying to sweat everyday, your metabolism kicks in, and you start making better choices naturally regarding healthier intake. I was feeling so much better for doing both at the same time. If you take away a toxin, it is best to start sweating it out, immediately. Cut down, if need be, but the most important thing is to help your body remove the toxins through sweating. It doesn't even have to be everyday, but when you do, the results are more significant that much more quickly.

    I recently started smoking again recently for a number of bad reasons - I let myself get swept up into joining in with all the smokers I have been spending time around. I have to make a very difficult choice right now, and extricate myself from a musical band because I am to weak to be around the lifestyle of constant smoke breaks. I love playing music, I love the guys, but hate the stress of performing, which causes me to smoke even more fiendishly. Unfortunately, my husband starts when I start, but he'll quit with me again - another big help. He has a better regimen on the stationary bike, but I am getting right back into that saddle, myself.

    Smoking zaps my energy level, and actually creates more stress during times of stress. It is such a false form of de-stressing, and exercising while still smoking is just a bad trick on the body.

    I wish you luck, and a healthy relationship with positive energy.

    Cheers,
    Dizzydeano
  • Anjaza
    Anjaza Posts: 12
    @Kenneth - I'm in South Africa and it's starting to warm up here for the summer as well :happy:

    Thanx again for everyone's good wishes and advise and sharing their own stories and experience's... sure makes a difference and helps me a lot by giving and sharing your valuable input :smooched:
  • I suggest you just go cold turkey and quit. Even cutting back you have the same cravings as going cold turkey just for a longer period of time that will cause you to give in and go back to you old ways. I tried for years to quit that way and it does not work. Just go cold turkey and keep your mind and body busy so you dont think about it. After a couple weeks you wont have the cravings anymore.

    Just like dieting you need to be self motivated and have a goal and have support of friends. And if you have trouble motivating yourself sit in the waiting room of a local cancer treatment center. Talk to the people and their families. When you see what they are going through and how close they are to death hoping for just one more day, you will never want to smoke again.
  • robin52077
    robin52077 Posts: 4,383 Member
    I did both at once. Focusing on my food diary and logging everything carefully and forcing myself to exercise took my mind off wanting a smoke.
    After about a month people could smoke in front of me without it "tempting" me at all. Now after over a year I find it disgusting and aren't tempted in the slightest.

    Quitting CAN be easy.
    But you have to REALLY want it..
    It's all in your head.
  • Cait_Sidhe
    Cait_Sidhe Posts: 3,150 Member
    Today is day 31 without a cigarette for me. It's still really hard. I still want one. But not enough to start smoking again. Who knows, maybe I'll always crave one.

    Yes, the weightloss has stalled. For the past month I've been gaining and losing the same 4 lb over and over. I'm ravenous. I want to eat and eat. I haven't let myself though, for the most part. I've found baby carrots really help with the munchies. I log everything I eat and my food diary is open so I am accountable and I am invariably within my calorie goal because I will not let myself go over.

    Also, electronic cigarettes. I wouldn't have been able to do it without one. No, it's not the same thing. The one I got at 7eleven for $20 is harsh and nasty tasting. It's also clunky and plastic and nothing like an actual cigarette. But it's SOMETHhING. Plus it's so unpleasant I don't think I'll have and trouble weaning myself off it in a month or so.

    Good luck! I smoked for 26 years. It can be done. It can even be done at the same time!
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    Tell EVERYONE your quit date to hold yourself accountable. Then, just stop.

    I found that knowing the improvements my body was making when I quit really helped motivate me. http://quitsmoking.about.com/cs/afterquitting/a/after_quitting.htm
  • Peep_chic
    Peep_chic Posts: 369 Member
    If you feel its time to do both go ahead dont let no one stop you. Dont be discouraged over a
    fall and keep going. With new healthy habits, support and will power you can do it.
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    I suggest looking at this as time for a total life and health makeover and just do it all. Why struggle twice when you can fight like hell and struggle once? Food and cigarettes are SUPER hard addictions to battle but no better time than the present to get going! Maybe just ween yourself into it slowly over the coming weeks until youre ready to throw them out entirely. YOU CAN DO IT!!
  • Anjaza
    Anjaza Posts: 12
    Hi All :happy:

    I'm truly grateful and very thankfull for everyone's pea in the pot !!

    I can't describe what it means to know there's actually a lot of people out there with similar and different stories and having gone through the same what I'm attending to do! Just knowing this is seriously a big help and in the days to come I'll be reading the comments and posts over and over again just to keep up the motivation and inspiration and give me the strenght to see this through. I know my sister would have approved and would have been there for me if she didn't pass away in December 2010 :cry: She never smoked in all her life and always wanted me to stop smoking and nagged without end. I know she would have been proud of me when I see this through. :heart:

    D-Day : 2 days to go!!! :drinker:
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