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  • britterbrittney
    britterbrittney Posts: 256 Member
    Just stay on track and then when you get to the point that you are feeling and looking good, that is when you should think about that.

    I have this stupid fear, of not being fat. Is that weird?
    It's more like....what if I'm still not happy.
  • JoanNLV
    JoanNLV Posts: 83 Member
    Well...I am just happy for whomever does win!!!
  • hush7hush
    hush7hush Posts: 2,273 Member
    Just stay on track and then when you get to the point that you are feeling and looking good, that is when you should think about that.

    I have this stupid fear, of not being fat. Is that weird?
    It's more like....what if I'm still not happy.

    I was reading...somewhere...that someone....anyway, they think that binge-ing might be caused by fear of success.

    Same thing?
  • britterbrittney
    britterbrittney Posts: 256 Member
    Hush, you need to get page 15 too!

    And yes, probably the same thing. Although I binge when I can't handle whatever emotion I'm feeling. But, yea that makes sense.
  • ziggy67
    ziggy67 Posts: 351 Member
    Bet you thought you'd seen the back of me...well its amazing what 8 hours of beauty sleep can do!! I'll make a head start this morning while you lot are napping!
  • hush7hush
    hush7hush Posts: 2,273 Member
    I'm aiming to get page 15, too. I don't want the even numbered one.
  • britterbrittney
    britterbrittney Posts: 256 Member
    Maybe I can get the even one.
  • hush7hush
    hush7hush Posts: 2,273 Member
    Go for it! Even numbers freak me out.
  • britterbrittney
    britterbrittney Posts: 256 Member
    I like all numbers. I don't discriminate!
  • ziggy67
    ziggy67 Posts: 351 Member
    I don't discriminate either but I do like the number 20!
  • JoanNLV
    JoanNLV Posts: 83 Member
    Just stay on track and then when you get to the point that you are feeling and looking good, that is when you should think about that.

    I have this stupid fear, of not being fat. Is that weird?
    It's more like....what if I'm still not happy.

    I was reading...somewhere...that someone....anyway, they think that binge-ing might be caused by fear of success.

    Same thing?
  • britterbrittney
    britterbrittney Posts: 256 Member
    I like the numbers on my paychecks.
  • JoanNLV
    JoanNLV Posts: 83 Member
    In the weight loss game, it seems like we know that we are overweight. The majority of my life has been like that. In the early 90s, I went to Nutrisystem...when I got down to my weight loss goal, I would put all my keys in my pocket and sometimes some other things so that they wouldn't know that I had lost more. I look at some of my pictures from that time and I do not look good. But the mirror didn't show me that image, and I wanted to keep losing.
  • hush7hush
    hush7hush Posts: 2,273 Member
    Every time I look in the mirror all I see is fat rolls and gross thighs.
  • britterbrittney
    britterbrittney Posts: 256 Member
    Body image is the devil
  • hush7hush
    hush7hush Posts: 2,273 Member
    Isn't it, though?
  • britterbrittney
    britterbrittney Posts: 256 Member
    Yup:explode:
  • JDNOX
    JDNOX Posts: 619 Member
    Every time I look in the mirror all I see is fat rolls and gross thighs.

    hey stop looking in my mirror that is private
  • hush7hush
    hush7hush Posts: 2,273 Member
    And then I go clothes shopping and pick up a bunch of 13s (my starting size) and realize that's not going to work.

    I cringe when I pick up 7s. Then they fit. And I feel like something must be wrong.
  • JoanNLV
    JoanNLV Posts: 83 Member
    Yes. I don't have a mirror that I can trust...LOL
    What is worse than the mirror is the camera in my laptop...the pictures there make me look like someone 30 years older and no definition to anything. I have to get my neighbor to take my picture so that I can have a before and after.
  • britterbrittney
    britterbrittney Posts: 256 Member
    The funny things our minds do.


    p.s great job :) pat yourself on the back (do it, right now!!!)
  • NotGoddess
    NotGoddess Posts: 1,198 Member
    Are you still awake?
  • britterbrittney
    britterbrittney Posts: 256 Member
    yessss, only for another 42 minutes (hopefully). .....I'm going to fall over in my bed when I get home.

    So. Tired.
  • hush7hush
    hush7hush Posts: 2,273 Member
    Me? I don't deserve a pat on the back. I'm still a cow.



    Moooooooooooooooo.
  • britterbrittney
    britterbrittney Posts: 256 Member
    I eat cows.
  • britterbrittney
    britterbrittney Posts: 256 Member
    Also, give yourself credit where credit is due.
  • NotGoddess
    NotGoddess Posts: 1,198 Member
    You are doing something about it-that's better than most of the population.
  • JoanNLV
    JoanNLV Posts: 83 Member
    That's right hush7hush. You have done a great job and you need to realize that.
    I think that our bodies lose the weight and our minds cannot accept that at the same time.
  • JoanNLV
    JoanNLV Posts: 83 Member
    And, if you continue to use this site and plan your meals with it, then you will be able to maintain...and then you won't even think of your old body image.
  • NotGoddess
    NotGoddess Posts: 1,198 Member
    That's right hush7hush. You have done a great job and you need to realize that.
    I think that our bodies lose the weight and our minds cannot accept that at the same time.
    I think you've got something there. Until your mindset is changed you struggle to lose. I wonder if there's another 'this is me, now' period you have to go through before you finally accept your changed self.
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