Why are you single? 🤔

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  • amyjsparkles
    amyjsparkles Posts: 6,165 Member
    LyndaBSS wrote: »
    I'm single because I lost my husband, my soulmate, to ALS a year ago. ❤

    There are some amazing people in this thread. I just wanted to say that there ARE great people out there waiting to meet you. You are someone's person. You just need to believe in yourself, put yourself out there and, most importantly, don't settle.

    This made me cry. I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine.

    I went through a painful divorce 4 years ago. I just had my first really serious relationship and it ended with heartbreak as well. I do still believe in love though. I just have to keep looking for it. 💕

    Much love to you.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    I love my life in this moment, so I'm not looking.
    Twice married, so now I'm just enjoying the many benefits of singledom.

    But should someone come along that ticks all my boxes I'd see where it could go, I'm open to it.
  • amyjsparkles
    amyjsparkles Posts: 6,165 Member
    I think because I have a lot of baggage and I think I'm not worthy of love, so I give too much of myself and lose myself and then the person is overwhelmed.
  • USAFProud
    USAFProud Posts: 1,293 Member
    1-7 for me!!
  • mbaker566
    mbaker566 Posts: 11,233 Member
    maybe because i have dogs. and not normal dogs. quirky dogs. and foster dogs which means poop and pee and dog fights are a normal part of my life. and that's not for everyone
  • Mama_runs_slow
    Mama_runs_slow Posts: 1,078 Member
    I don't believe in dating for the sake of dating. I want someone who is going to add value to my life and my daughter's life, until I find that person, I just keep focusing on myself and my daughter :)
  • eddied38
    eddied38 Posts: 47 Member
    Because I enjoy it
  • Scotty2HotPie
    Scotty2HotPie Posts: 146 Member
    4 & 8

    Keeping things casual these days... not ready (don't want) anything serious for now
  • Versicolour
    Versicolour Posts: 7,164 Member
    5 and 7
    I am another undateable one. My high standards do not match the leftovers I can offer
  • s1im62
    s1im62 Posts: 31,602 Member
    Too busy posting on MFP forums to go on a date.
  • Cutemesoon
    Cutemesoon Posts: 2,646 Member
    s1im62 wrote: »
    Too busy posting on MFP forums to go on a date.

    Lol. 😂
  • halflingpie
    halflingpie Posts: 1,582 Member
    Definitely #7
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    s1im62 wrote: »
    Too busy posting on MFP forums to go on a date.

    Priorities 👍😁
  • Jzaback004
    Jzaback004 Posts: 45 Member
    Maybe because no one is gay
  • Cutemesoon
    Cutemesoon Posts: 2,646 Member
    I keep choosing the wrong type of men.
  • nighthawk584
    nighthawk584 Posts: 2,024 Member
    because I prefer to be happy. ☺
  • Cutemesoon
    Cutemesoon Posts: 2,646 Member
    nighthawk584 wrote: »
    because I prefer to be happy. ☺

    Relationships make you sad? What kind were you in? :D
  • forestfreek
    forestfreek Posts: 5,770 Member
    Cause I’m a commitment-phobe bee-otch😁
  • FitAddiction9
    FitAddiction9 Posts: 494 Member
    forestfreek wrote: »
    Cause I’m a commitment-phobe bee-otch😁

    I’m waiting on your call. Hello 👀
  • cynthiabickham
    cynthiabickham Posts: 1,009 Member
    Because my ex won't leave me alone and it stresses me out, and I haven't clicked with anyone on the dating sites I'm on.
  • s131951
    s131951 Posts: 3,776 Member
    cynthiabickham wrote: »
    Because my ex won't leave me alone and it stresses me out, and I haven't clicked with anyone on the dating sites I'm on.

    It'll happen. I can't seem to find someone else that likes communicating via grunts and odors.
  • nighthawk584
    nighthawk584 Posts: 2,024 Member
    edited September 2019
    Cutemesoon wrote: »
    nighthawk584 wrote: »
    because I prefer to be happy. ☺

    Relationships make you sad? What kind were you in? :D

    some good, some ok, some toxic. I'm so much happier outside of them! I answer to nobody but myself.
  • Cutemesoon
    Cutemesoon Posts: 2,646 Member
    nighthawk584 wrote: »
    Cutemesoon wrote: »
    nighthawk584 wrote: »
    because I prefer to be happy. ☺

    Relationships make you sad? What kind were you in? :D

    some good, some ok, some toxic. I'm so much happier outside of them! I answer to nobody but myself.

    At least you are honest with yourself about that. Wish more people were. It would save people from dealing with foolishness.
  • FitAddiction9
    FitAddiction9 Posts: 494 Member
    cynthiabickham wrote: »
    Because my ex won't leave me alone and it stresses me out, and I haven't clicked with anyone on the dating sites I'm on.

    I’m here to save the day.
  • Cutemesoon
    Cutemesoon Posts: 2,646 Member
    Cuz I keep getting ghosted. :'(
  • bojack5
    bojack5 Posts: 2,859 Member
    Cutemesoon wrote: »
    Cuz I keep getting ghosted. :'(

    Thats sad :(.......
  • ladychris29
    ladychris29 Posts: 4,657 Member
    Because the guy I want is a feelings-phobic... go fig 🤣
  • Cutemesoon
    Cutemesoon Posts: 2,646 Member
    bojack5 wrote: »
    Cutemesoon wrote: »
    Cuz I keep getting ghosted. :'(

    Thats sad :(.......

    A lil but i'm managing it. Out here making fun things happen!

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