Anybody else hit a wall at 2 months?

"just wanted to post something about what to expect during the phases of weight loss.

Overview (why I'm posting this)
Over the course of about 7 months on here, I have seen many people suceed, I have also seen some drop off the map. I expect this is because some succumb to the demon that is temptation, and some to the devil that is dissapointment. I wanted to give a few "heads up"s to both new commers and vetrans to the site. Some may know already, some may not. But either way, if this helps anyone to set more realistic goals in their own head, I feel like it has done it's job.

Phase 1. The start of a brand new day! (or week, or month, or year)
Expectations are sky high, usually so is motivation and intentions. This is where most people lose the most weight. At the start it's not uncommon to see 4 to 8 lb losses per week. The reasons for this are mostly (sorry to disappoint) water weight. You drop excess water quickly, and you can have up to 5 lbs of water weight. The next biggest reason is the fat that is right next to the blood vessels, the stuff that you put on in the last month or three, it will melt like butter usually.

Phase 2. Reality setting in.
At about week 3 to a month or so, people suddenly realize that they are no longer dropping 8, 6, or even 4 lbs a week. This is a crutial phase in your journey. Expect this, it is natural. You have shocked your body by changing both eating habits and exercise routine. Now it has had a little while to become used to the new lifestyle, it's going to compensate. Your body still doesn't believe it's permenant yet, so it will still try to store some fat, so now that it knows how to regulate it's new metabolic levels, it tryies to store fat in earnest. It's not uncommon for people to hit a wall here, no loss for weeks. Expect this as well.

Phase 3. The routine.
At about 2 months or so, your routine is pretty much set, your body is beginning to believe that you really want to STAY the way you are going now. You will start to see more consistant (but lower, usually 1 to 2 lbs a week) loss, also, you should start seeing some muscle tone (depending on how much you had to lose in the first place). If you stop to think, you should realize that you have improved dramatically in your exercise levels. If you do cardio, you should notice how much longer and harder you can work. This is important to realize as it is just as big of an indicator as weight loss. Also, by now you may notice that your clothes no longer fit right. This is also very important. The weight may not be falling off anymore, but you are becomming a smaller person. Weight is arbitrary, if you are building muscle (which your body is doing at a furious pace by now) you won't notice huge losses, but you will notice wholesale changes in the mirror!

Phase 4. Really digging in.
This is where the second wall can happen. You're probably at between 3 and 4 months by now, and if you have gone this far, you feel like you have already suceeded. This is where many people stumble. they are tired of the routine, tired of eating different things from all their friends, limiting their alcohol intake. Basically the shine has worn off. this is when your really need to plant your feet. Maybe change up your exercise routine, make a concentrated effort to find different, but still nutritional food. Talk to people. And examine how far you have come. At this point, no matter how much external motivation you receive, it's all about believing in yourself!

Phase 5. End game.
5 or 6 months in you are probably working on that "last 10 pounds". This can be discouraging for many as it is a slow burn. Remember, your body probably feels like it is where it needs to be, your brain might think you need to lose 10 more, but your body is quite proud of itself now, it feels like it has "Done enough" and it wants to stay RIGHT HERE. The body LIKES to have a little fat around just in case, especially for the ladies (sorry girls, it's just human physiology). If you feel like you still need to lose it, prepare yourself for some guerrila warfare against your body. Design an exercise regimen that is very dynamic, forget the "same thing every day". Make a plan that challenges you both physically and mentally. Make sure you give yourself a day off here and there to just veg. And by all means, remember, muscle burns fat at rest. So get some weight or resistance training involved.
The last 10 may take 3 to 6 months to lose. I know nobody wants to hear that, but it's true. And forget the idea of increasing your calorie deficite, healthy bodies need good nutrition, your body no longer has the fat reserves to handle the large deficites you could when you were 30 40 or 50 pounds overweight. Better to make it a 3 or 400 calorie deficite (NET, please count your exercise calories too!). It may take a bit longer, but your body will like you for it. Plus it feeds those new muscles and keeps them burning fat, keeps your skin healthy (elasticity is important when you want those places that were stretched out to "snap back") and keeps you from getting head aches and depressed.

Conclusion:

this is what I have learned, not just from my journey, but from others as well on here. It saddens me sometimes to see people hit one of these stages and not recognize it for what it is, a part of the process. If we all can have realistic expectations, then we are more prone to win the fight and stay healthy in the long run. Note that some people will hit these stages harder then others, some may take longer, but for the most part, this is the rule that the exceptions will come from.

Best health to you all!

-Banks "

Not really 2 months - for me it's the 8 month wall. I like to post above though - it makes sense.

Yes! Two months in, I felt like something in me just completely stopped. I was really down for a week and gave myself the weekend to just relax. When Monday came around, I started up again. Sometimes, you have to make that spark and keep on going. I did not want to exercise that Monday but afterward I thought, "Huh. That wasn't very difficult." Sometimes, you just have to force feed yourself, regardless of being in a funk. At first, I was pissed at myself, because I wasted a week but without it, I don't think I would still be here. Sometimes we need to experience our old life in order to appreciate the new one we're building. You'll get through it as long as you find a way to break through the wall. I wrote about it a lot too which helped.

My first wall lasted for about 8 years. My second wall lasted about 13. The next wall hit at about 3-4 months and lasted for 3 weeks. My last wall lasted for about a month and I've climbed over it and continuing on. Walls are what we allow to stand in our way. They will return over and over again. Don't fear the walls, just be determined to conquer them, not to be conquered by them. You will slow down, it's almost certain, but that doesn't mean you need to stop - or stay stopped. Keep your chin up and press on!

Oh Alex, I've been going thru this exactly the same as you! Didn't lose any weight for weeks, and slowly my motivation slipped away. Ive been half-heartedly logging food and exercise but not putting in the effort I started with. I could see what was happening and was so disappointed with myself but I just couldn't force myself back on track. I've just got back from a weeks holiday and although I ate quite a lot (A LOT!) we were active everyday. It reignited my enthusiasm for exercise. if we pick fun activities that we enjoy doing then it doesn't feel like a chore that we'll soon get bored with. Its great you've regained your enthusiasm for running. You should look into joining a club or entering a race, that gives you a reason to carry on.

I've realised now that I have worked hard, and so have you! We don't want to undo all of our hard work now hey?! Remember how good it felt when you realised those jeans fit better, or your skin looked healthier, or whatever you nsv's have been? Let's get back on it!!!

Now I'm off to reacquaint myself with jillian michaels, and plan my healthy meals for this week.

Good luck honey )