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Losing 50lbs in your 40s

Posts: 36 Member
edited December 2024 in Motivation and Support
I need a support system ... please help!

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  • Posts: 23 Member
    Feel free to friend me! I started with about 63 to lose, now down to needing to lose about 35. And I'm definitely in my 40's! :smiley:
  • Posts: 23 Member
    Oh, and I started this journey in 2013. Which is nuts, when I think about it. So many stops and starts!
  • Posts: 95 Member
    Feel free to add me. I'm 47 years old, and eat 1250-1300 calories per day. I started in September of 2018 with 50 pounds to lose. I've lost 35.
  • Posts: 1 Member
    Feel free to add me ! I’m 43 and trying very hard to loose these darn 50 pounds I gained ! Lost 8 so far
  • Posts: 17 Member
    I'm 41 and have lost some weight already but still have a ways to go. 50 definitely! I will send a friend request :)
  • Posts: 36 Member
    I don’t know how to add people🤷🏻‍♀️😂🤦🏻‍♀️
  • Posts: 36 Member
    I tried to add Amiskell28 ... but I have no idea how to 😂 ... I’m usually pretty good with technology ... but this app is terrible lol
  • Posts: 25 Member
    I’m in the same boat! You can friend me too- I think you just click on the profile picture and then there is a person with a plus sign to add someone
  • Posts: 36 Member
    Ahhhhh! That’s what I’ve been doing! Thought I might be inviting people to my post 😂😂
  • Posts: 23 Member
    I tried to add Amiskell28 ... but I have no idea how to 😂 ... I’m usually pretty good with technology ... but this app is terrible lol

    You added me Angie! :smile:
  • Posts: 36 Member
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  • Posts: 36 Member
    I’m back ... after a 7lb gain ... I’m surprised it wasn’t 20 the way I was eating! 🤷🏻‍♀️
  • Posts: 18 Member
    Oh my goodness yes!
  • Posts: 36 Member
    I don’t want to just Diet. I do not want to be flabby. My biggest fear is getting bat wings - personally id rather be a little overweight. I need something that is going to push me to my limit - that is my nature - unfortunately I must keep all sweets out of my home. I wish I had the willpower - but I don’t.
  • Posts: 36 Member
    It’s a lifestyle change - and we have to accept it. That’s the only way to keep it off. 🤷🏻‍♀️
  • Posts: 440 Member
    It’s not willpower, it’s discipline. There is a reason Nike’s slogan is “just do it”, because at the end of the day that’s what you have to do. Eat right, workout, keep picking yourself up and carry on. There’s not magic just grim determination and discipline
  • Posts: 36 Member
    That’s a great idea to look back at gains!
  • Posts: 36 Member
    edited October 2019

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  • Posts: 236 Member
    edited October 2019
    I'm a 46 year old female, 5 feet tall. I had never really exercised let alone gone to a gym before this year. Going up hills and stairs was agonising - I was out of breath, my legs hurt ... I hated going on walks with others because I was always the slow one left behind, gasping like I was dying and then by the time I caught up to everyone waiting for me, they'd start walking again and I'd have to gasp to keep up again.

    I was eating like a pig without even thinking about what I was eating - lots of baking, lots of eating out, lots of chocolate, buying tonnes whenever I went to the bakery .... I also have a very sedentary job - at my desk most of the day. I realised I had spent my life trying to improve my mind (studying, reading, languages, writing etc) without giving a single thought to my body and over the last two decades or so, really piled on the weight. At my heaviest, I was 86.6kg (191 pounds) which was my starting weight this year. I'm now down to 54-55kg (119 pounds approx).
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    I really, really like food and wasn't prepared to cut out carbs, give up junk food (chocolate, cake, biscuits, fries etc) so I've used exercise as a way to let me still eat all the things I want to eat, but just make sure I eat in moderation (portion control) and within my calorie budget. If I want to eat another biscuit, a giant gelato waffle cone with two scoops of super dulche de leche caramel ice cream .. I exercise more. There are times when i decide that that extra slice of cake, that extra row of chocolate, that extra biscuit are worth taking the dogs for an extra long walk ... but equally, there are days when I decide I can live without the extra snack. But here's just a snap shot of the yummy food (in addition to the healthy food) I was able to eat and continue to eat but still managed to lose weight, so long as I stayed within my budget:
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    For me it was important to find an exercise I enjoyed, so it was a combination of:
    - elliptical
    - walking the dogs
    - zumba and Just Dance
    - strength training (nothing mega heavy)
    - HIIT class / circuit

    I discovered I didn't like tread mill, step classes, running although I enjoy walking/jogging to Zombies Run and audiobooks. When I found a fun exercise, it made things easier.

    Good luck! You can totally, totally do it.


  • Posts: 20 Member
    In my 40's also, looking to lose 60 pounds. Always open to new friends to help motivate, feel free to add me!
  • Posts: 2 Member
    That is amazing
  • Posts: 2 Member
    Just eat healthy 5 times a week, exercise every day, and 1 or 2 times a week eat something that you really enjoy but in the mean time keep exercising and you will be good. Hope that will help. 👌👌👌
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