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  • lauragreenbaum
    lauragreenbaum Posts: 1,017 Member
    OK
    Asking for seconds at a dinner party
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,074 Member
    Not ok

    Agreeing to not give each gifts on vday but still buying them an extravagant gift
  • epangili
    epangili Posts: 818 Member
    lauragreenbaum wrote: »
    OK
    Asking for seconds at a dinner party

    More than ok at a Filipino dinner party because it's a compliment to the host
  • epangili
    epangili Posts: 818 Member
    happimess01 wrote: »
    Not ok

    Agreeing to not give each gifts on vday but still buying them an extravagant gift

    Not ok.

    Only including two of your children on your will and million dollar house deed, the 3rd child on a 25k life insurance.

    (Sorry, i messed this up because as I typed someone answered but i had to put my 2 cents)
  • PaperDoll_
    PaperDoll_ Posts: 32,857 Member
    Guess it depends on your relationship with your children.

    Asking people to not get you anything for Christmas?
  • Itsa11sma11stuff
    Itsa11sma11stuff Posts: 8 Member
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »

    Asking people to not get you anything for Christmas?

    Ok, but don’t get mad if they don’t get you anything.

    Scheduling a 2 hour meeting on a work from home day so you can take a nap alone in your house without husband and kids (when you work all hours on salary and get more than your share of work done)
  • KelleyCakes
    KelleyCakes Posts: 6,609 Member
    If you're salary I think it'd be fine. LOL! Sleep is important.

    Not taking your mother's phone call because you're watching TV.
  • epangili
    epangili Posts: 818 Member
    edited November 2019
    Ok depends on your relationship with your mom, healthy boundaries if she calls often or not ok if she rarely calls only if important

    Listen to someone talk about themselves for over an hour about the mundane ordinary daily life stuff
  • Ironwoman1111
    Ironwoman1111 Posts: 3,913 Member
    edited November 2019
    Ugh! Boring! Not okay, unless you care enough for them that you put up with it. That’s what friends do sometimes.

    Giving your opinions to others about their relationships.
  • epangili
    epangili Posts: 818 Member
    edited November 2019
    Ok only if they ask for it. Otherwise shut up unless they are in danger of being harmed

    "Should" ing people. Example, "You should..."
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,074 Member
    Not ok and obnoxious

    Giving out TMI in a conversation
  • Silver_Gent
    Silver_Gent Posts: 61 Member
    No. Please god no.

    Using someone’s salad dressing in the office fridge
  • lauragreenbaum
    lauragreenbaum Posts: 1,017 Member
    Ok only if you ask
    Asking someone in an airport to watch your stuff while you run to the bathroom
  • PAPYRUS3
    PAPYRUS3 Posts: 13,259 Member
    It's ok...but if you don't know them, then your idiot too lol!

    PDA?
  • lauragreenbaum
    lauragreenbaum Posts: 1,017 Member
    OK as long as they are PG-13
    Asking someone at another table at an outside bar to put his cigar out
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,074 Member
    difficult to say

    piercing your own ear at home
  • s1im62
    s1im62 Posts: 31,617 Member
    Ok - your ear, your consequences

    Saying something at dinner you know may make someone angry.
  • PAPYRUS3
    PAPYRUS3 Posts: 13,259 Member
    not ok...dinner is so not the time- plus if your stating something knowing it will anger someone else, perhaps you need to address your approach to the opinion if that person is there.

    Taking home the leftover food you brought to someone's dinner party after dinner?
  • StephBlair2018
    StephBlair2018 Posts: 51 Member
    i'd say its probably ok. you brought it. but i'm sure there would be plenty of splitting up of leftovers

    using the phrase "you people"
  • lauragreenbaum
    lauragreenbaum Posts: 1,017 Member
    Probably not ok
    Leaving your empty water bottle in the back of an Uber
  • riffraff2112
    riffraff2112 Posts: 1,756 Member
    ok but a little classless
    gas station sushi?
  • epangili
    epangili Posts: 818 Member
    Not ok courtesy wise nor environmentally

    Knocking on neighbors door to talk about a common mice infestation on a Saturday morning 10am even though they have your number and have always text communicated
  • epangili
    epangili Posts: 818 Member
    edited December 2019
    riffraff2112 wrote: »
    ok but a little classless
    gas station sushi?

    Not ok not fresh


    Knocking on neighbors door to talk about a common mice infestation on a Saturday morning 10am even though they have your number and have always text communicated
  • s1im62
    s1im62 Posts: 31,617 Member
    OK, as long as they have not specifically told you not to. A few minutes of face-time can be worth more than a thousand text messages.

    Mulching the leaves in your front yard when all your neighbors are bagging theirs.
  • Ironwoman1111
    Ironwoman1111 Posts: 3,913 Member
    Okay 👌🏽 it’s a good, free fertilizer

    Not wiping down the machines at the gym
  • epangili
    epangili Posts: 818 Member
    s1im62 wrote: »
    OK, as long as they have not specifically told you not to. A few minutes of face-time can be worth more than a thousand text messages.

    Mulching the leaves in your front yard when all your neighbors are bagging theirs.

    True but I was still in bed and not decent. I don't like being seen by my good looking neighbor just having rolled out of bed.
  • epangili
    epangili Posts: 818 Member
    Not ok especially if you profusely sweat

    Being 30 minutes late meeting with a friend but texting apology prior and forewarning 30 minute delay
  • lauragreenbaum
    lauragreenbaum Posts: 1,017 Member
    Never ok- get your *kitten* together
    Ordering two drinks at once because it's 5 minutes til Happy Hour prices are over
  • Ironwoman1111
    Ironwoman1111 Posts: 3,913 Member
    Definitely okay.

    Not making your bed every morning
  • FabulousFantasticFifty
    FabulousFantasticFifty Posts: 195,832 Member
    Ok

    Changing the sheets immediately after a guest leaves

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