Dont you hate it when...

SergeantSunshine_reused
SergeantSunshine_reused Posts: 5,382 Member
edited October 2 in Motivation and Support
Someone hotter/thinner then you hits on your boyfriend/girlfriend??

Some ***** did it right in front of me!

It makes me want to either stuff my face later or run till i pass out :grumble:

Anyone else have this happen or experience jealousy?
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  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    I'm the least jealous person on the face of the earth... Can't say that I would have even noticed.
  • megamoo04
    megamoo04 Posts: 269
    I am not jealous, i usually pick the girls out for him to look at lol
  • jacksonpt
    jacksonpt Posts: 10,413 Member
    I'm the least jealous person on the face of the earth... Can't say that I would have even noticed.
    same here. Or maybe I'm just naive...
  • SergeantSunshine_reused
    SergeantSunshine_reused Posts: 5,382 Member
    I'm the least jealous person on the face of the earth... Can't say that I would have even noticed.

    Im usually not either xD but when its like right in front of me? Im just like cmon.... xD
  • deadstarsunburn
    deadstarsunburn Posts: 1,337 Member
    yuuup
  • SamiSamiBoBlammy
    SamiSamiBoBlammy Posts: 868 Member
    Personally I see myself as the hottest thinnest person alive, so naturally nobody would fit into the category of thinner or hotter than me.

    Some call it confidence, some call it arrogance - either way it works for me.
  • morganhccstudent724
    morganhccstudent724 Posts: 1,261 Member
    Oh no...I love it!!!

    Afer her comment...I would lean over and give my man the kiss of a lifetime....

    My response, "I know...isn't he great? Maybe you'll met someone....someday."
  • bry_all01
    bry_all01 Posts: 3,100 Member
    nah, I'm hotter. KIDDING, but no, I don't get jealous, because we're married. If anything, it probably happens in reverse in our house, but NEVER in front of him, except this one time and he went and had a chat with the guy. He didn't say another word to me. But, most guys are smarter than that, because he's a big guy.
  • SiltyPigeon
    SiltyPigeon Posts: 920 Member
    I take it as a compliment when someone flirts with my husband. I know he's coming home to me and our kids, so why get my panties in a bunch?
  • gsnap30
    gsnap30 Posts: 67
    I don't like it when a hot, skinny girl walks by. My boyfriend knows how I feel about my body and he is so supportive but sometimes I think he would like for me to look that way. They just make me have super low self esteem or want to stuff my face.
  • ambermichon
    ambermichon Posts: 404 Member
    I am not jealous either...if anything I would be like "wow babe that hot chick just hit on you" lol
  • philOHIO
    philOHIO Posts: 520 Member
    I used to be jealous. If you are with the right person, then you know who his/her heart belongs to without being jealous over remarks of an outsider. Take it as a complement, he IS still with you, right?
  • Kitty412
    Kitty412 Posts: 152
    I am a verrry jealous person. I probably would have yelled at my husband and blamed him even though it wasn't his fault. That's just how I am. lmao
  • SnuggieMeeko
    SnuggieMeeko Posts: 68 Member
    I find it to be funny. It happened the other day and when I brought it up to my boyfriend he looked at me odd for a moment and said, "What girl? I didn't even notice her." Now we have this joke that he doesn't notice anything like that at all :)
  • ilookthetype
    ilookthetype Posts: 3,021 Member
    I'm the least jealous person on the face of the earth... Can't say that I would have even noticed.

    I once tried to get my boyfriend to leave his number for the waitress who was hitting on him through our entire meal. Apparently that's not the right move, she was cute! I didn't care...
  • SergeantSunshine_reused
    SergeantSunshine_reused Posts: 5,382 Member
    I take it as a compliment when someone flirts with my husband. I know he's coming home to me and our kids, so why get my panties in a bunch?

    Very true :] Just shows how people handles things differently xD I dont show it usually but it bothers me still xD
  • Izable2011
    Izable2011 Posts: 755 Member
    I get more annoyed of my husband checking out a girl in front of me. He does not do it on purpose but I know him so well to know what he is thinking.. it's like.. if I think shes hot I know he's checking her out but who cares b/c soon I will be the hot one & he won't be able to keep his eyes off me. :laugh: :love:
  • Kristhin
    Kristhin Posts: 442 Member
    The only time anybodys ever hit on my boyfriend was very early on in our relationship this stupid co worker of his and then she started getting invited along to hang out with our group and I was just steam coming out of my ears mad and upset every single time. Eventually I blew up at him really bad one night and told him we were not going to have anything to do with her whatsoever anymore if he wanted to stay with me. I don't think he ever really liked her that way, but I hated being around her knowing she wanted him because she was such a slut about it.
    That was years ago.
    Fortunately, he never even looks at girls. I check out and comment on girls and he checks out and comments on guys. LOL! So we get along great.
  • MrsCon40
    MrsCon40 Posts: 2,351 Member
    This happens to me all the time - IRL and on FB. My husband is kind of hot :wink:

    Doesn't bother me at all... he was single for 44 years and chose to marry me. There's a reason why he chose me and I feel incredibly secure.
  • SweetStrawberry
    SweetStrawberry Posts: 72
    I'm jealous... It makes me mad b/c when i have a boyfriend and I"m like " you like her" and they swear to the end of the earth they dont....................... I'll find out later there dating or have dated after we broke up. Jealously is probably my downfall but I dont care! I like being single.
  • Nich0le
    Nich0le Posts: 2,906 Member
    I take it as a compliment when someone flirts with my husband. I know he's coming home to me and our kids, so why get my panties in a bunch?

    I feel the same way, matter of fact I laugh at it because my husband is a chef and whenever we have an event there are always women who are touching him or laughing at everything he says and even men hit on him and he doesn't seem to notice and it's always nice to know you have what someone else wants anyway :wink:

    Jealousy can be ugly, you can't control the thoughts that come into your head but you can control what you do with them :wink:
  • yummy♥
    yummy♥ Posts: 612 Member
    i think it's pretty hot. i see no point in being jealous.
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    I usually just stab them. It makes me feel better and then we laugh about it. Good times...
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    Personally I see myself as the hottest thinnest person alive, so naturally nobody would fit into the category of thinner or hotter than me.

    Some call it confidence, some call it arrogance - either way it works for me.

    *smooches*
  • SergeantSunshine_reused
    SergeantSunshine_reused Posts: 5,382 Member
    Haha I guess i forgot to mention that i am certain he would never cheat or leave me! Just gets under my skin when girls do that xD

    He didnt even notice either actually lol he isnt used to that xD

    ahhh boys lol
  • Tuffjourney
    Tuffjourney Posts: 971
    I think you should just biotch slap her. :devil:
  • chocolateandvodka
    chocolateandvodka Posts: 1,850 Member
    not at all.

    my "skills" give me quite a bit of confidence. sure, there are hotter/thinner/funnier/smarter/insert desirable adjective here people in this world that probably also would like to get their paws all on my honey, but i have kind of interesting policies on the subject.

    if you must do it, do it. but tell me, or include me, or be honest with me about it. don't lie about it or hide it, and if you do... don't be upset when i walk away...

    that's just me.
  • iAMaPhoenix
    iAMaPhoenix Posts: 1,038 Member
    My wife's response to the flirty ones..."We are swingers, you like to party?" That usually does it. LMAO.
  • corinaspaiuc
    corinaspaiuc Posts: 11
    I am a very confident person, it would piss me off but i trust my bf and he loves me like crazy,so....yeah...he wouldn't even glance at her:d
  • SergeantSunshine_reused
    SergeantSunshine_reused Posts: 5,382 Member
    I am a very confident person, it would piss me off but i trust my bf and he loves me like crazy,so....yeah...he wouldn't even glance at her:d

    ^^ this exactly xD Makes me jealous for the day and i get over it... doesn't mean it doesn't bug the hell out of me when im in a raunchy mood lol
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