feeling a wee bit ignored

sammyj321123
sammyj321123 Posts: 46
edited October 2 in Chit-Chat
bin talking to ppl but never seem to get a reply, just general things when they update their "status" how ever you call it and non of them reply it's like im invisible :(

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  • patriot201
    patriot201 Posts: 117 Member
    I'm sorry. :( I am not great about "talking" to my friends on MFP, either. I go in spurts. :p
  • brittanyjeanxo
    brittanyjeanxo Posts: 1,831 Member
    Whoa, who said that???




































    Nah, I'm kidding. Maybe you just need more supportive friends :)
  • tnc9424
    tnc9424 Posts: 47 Member
    I think the same thing some times. I wish it had a thing that alerted you when you had a new comment, like facebook does. I really try to reply to every comment that people say but really without a notification I don't know if they replied to it... so confusing. I wish you luck :)
  • mestupscout
    mestupscout Posts: 82 Member
    I'm guilty of not responding. I'm usually looking at a time when I shouldn't and I mean to get back but I usually don't. Don't take it personally.
  • luvmycandies
    luvmycandies Posts: 489 Member
    Im pretty talkative...Ill add you and then we can chat. :)
  • bbjnkidz
    bbjnkidz Posts: 32 Member
    :wink: Maybe because you don't have a head?
  • ckdub428
    ckdub428 Posts: 453 Member
    sent you a friend request. I am able to check MFP when slow at work so I stay fairly active on here.
  • audigal2008
    audigal2008 Posts: 1,129 Member
    Im always ignored (in real life) Im very supportive!
  • starting0vern09
    starting0vern09 Posts: 79 Member
    add me i may not say much but i almost always reply to mfp updates when i get on at night
  • Banks01
    Banks01 Posts: 945 Member
    Im always ignored (in real life) Im very supportive!

    Riiiiiiiiiight
  • shydaisi
    shydaisi Posts: 788 Member
    You have the wrong friends! Feel free to add me! :)
  • DeHaase
    DeHaase Posts: 18 Member
    I have great friends on here, but I can always use more, I check on here at night and am always wanting to chat and give encouragement. You can add me if you would like.:bigsmile:
  • hbunting86
    hbunting86 Posts: 952 Member
    Hey - I'm usually on here a few times a day and try to be as chatty as poss! Feel free to add me if you like, I'm always up for a MFP natter!

    H :)
  • sammyj321123
    sammyj321123 Posts: 46
    thanks everyone i shall add away, and yes i do have a head it's holding my eye balls up (just about), i meant i ask questions or show support and other comment and they reply to them but ignore me
  • Kirabelly
    Kirabelly Posts: 60
    haven't read the rest of the responses, but after reading your profile my instinct is that a lot of people on MFP have serious weight issues (not all, but a lot) and might not be able to relate to your situation. I know when I read earlier that someone posted about how hard it was to weigh 129 lbs when she usually weighed 123 I had to log off because I couldn't think of anything to say that was encouraging or sympathetic. All I could think was "are you effing kidding me?! I weigh over FOUR HUNDRED POUNDS! my GOAL weight is 170 after surgery. all I can think is GET OVER YOURSELF." However I realize this isn't helpful or positive.
  • Johnnyswife
    Johnnyswife Posts: 1,447 Member
    bin talking to ppl but never seem to get a reply, just general things when they update their "status" how ever you call it and non of them reply it's like im invisible :(
    Happens a lot to me as well. Even posting on the boards can make you feel invisible at times, but stuff moves so fast its hard to keep up.


    Jeeeeze...I killed another one... :( Killer of threads and gingerbread men.
  • angelicdisgrace
    angelicdisgrace Posts: 2,071 Member
    bin talking to ppl but never seem to get a reply, just general things when they update their "status" how ever you call it and non of them reply it's like im invisible :(

    aww. I feel so bad because I know what you mean. I try to reply to my peeps and it's so hard with work and gym. I do try my best to squeeze in some mfp time.
  • melanie3103
    melanie3103 Posts: 246 Member
    I get inspiration from all the posts I read, whether it's great advice or just a snippet that I can relate to. Either way I get something from it, often just what I need. The posts spur me on, cheer me up, make me smile, empathisize that I'm not the only one struggling sometimes, and we all have one thing in common - wanting to look after ourselves and lose weight/increase fitness etc. So....

    I guess what I am trying to say, sometimes I don't reply but I read the post and it's great. Keep it up, sometimes I find people respond, sometimes they don't. It doesn't mean you are being ignored necessarily. We're all busy people and should probably take more time to support others, but I find when I've time, I do just that. Not every time, and not every day. Hang in there.

    And if you want to add me as a friend, we can spur eachother on.... big hugs...
    Mel x
  • maria1113
    maria1113 Posts: 508 Member
    I know the feeling :( I have only few friends, but when they reply to me, it's really worth it :)
    I also think that Kirabelly might have a point there, but still, I know it sucks. I have gotten used to being ignored in my real life too, and sometimes it's easier that way. I can do what ever I want without anyone noticing :wink:
  • adross3
    adross3 Posts: 606 Member
    bin talking to ppl but never seem to get a reply, just general things when they update their "status" how ever you call it and non of them reply it's like im invisible :(
    I agree. You give love all the time and nothing in return. I'm leaving and you can keep the cat. :
  • Liquid741
    Liquid741 Posts: 292 Member
    i try to respond when i see a post, but not always on everyday, all day....this site is all about helpfulness, which is why i try to repay with all the help that i have received from fellow members..
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