new member looking for friends

hello and Good evening,
I am back. new member again. i would love some new friends. need to lose some serious weight. about 130 pounds. i went to my doctor today. I was so nervous. I thought he was going to yell at me for gaining but he was so nice. He said i should be taking in 1200 calories a day. boy, I had that wrong. every diet center told me 1500. no wonder i was struggling. day 1 for me is tomorrow at 1200 calories.