going to be honest...
tn92
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i have been eating less than 800 cals on most days and i workout on top of that (some days just 30day shred and 2x a week i do ellipticals for an hr) and i don't eat back my exercise cals. i have been at the same weight for a month and i know i should bump my intake to 1200 but I'm just so scared of doing that and then gaining all the weight that i have lost back. and today i tried to plan my meal so that i will be as close to 1200 as possible and it seems that no matter what i do I'm coming up to only about 850. I don't know what to do. I know my diary is closed and I'm not comfortable with opening it up to the public.
What I Ate Today:
Breakfast:
1 pack of low sugar oatmeal (120)
1/3 skim milk (40)
1/3 cup of sliced bananas (40)
1/2 watermelon (25)
Total: 225
Lunch:
1 whole wheat english muffin (130)
1 tb of pb (95)
Total: 225
I wasn't even hungry at lunch but i forced myself to eat. oh and i drink anywhere from 6-12 glasses of water a day. no soda or juice of any kind. i have also given up coffee.
What I Ate Today:
Breakfast:
1 pack of low sugar oatmeal (120)
1/3 skim milk (40)
1/3 cup of sliced bananas (40)
1/2 watermelon (25)
Total: 225
Lunch:
1 whole wheat english muffin (130)
1 tb of pb (95)
Total: 225
I wasn't even hungry at lunch but i forced myself to eat. oh and i drink anywhere from 6-12 glasses of water a day. no soda or juice of any kind. i have also given up coffee.
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Bump (:0
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You will probably lose weight if you eat 1200 to be honest0
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Something is not adding up.......you're not telling us the whole story.0
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Whats for dinner? You are going to have to re-train your body to eat and then feel hungry. Right now it's broken. You can trust it to send hunger signals. Maybe east into it. Eat 900 today, 1000 tomorrow, 1100 the next day...0
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This makes me sad, because I eat roughly 1600 - 1800 calories a day, or make every attempt to, yet today, my body was not feeling the food at all, like an aversion or repulsion and I WANTED to eat.
I did force down some food, but was very upset that I could not enjoy my food, the way I like to. I maybe have had around 900 calories myself, but, for me, lately, this is very unusual and not at all fun.
I'm not really sure what you are asking, but I hope you do consider at least attempting to bump up your calories, so your body does not go into starvation mode. Best of luck!0 -
You have to eat more...your body is going into "starvation mode" and is slowing down its metabolism. You are actually sabotaging your own efforts to lose weight!0
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Most people will tell you that your starving your body.. When you don't take in enough calories your body goes into starvation mode and holds on to anything and everything you eat, because it does not know when your going to feed it again.0
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I am going to be honest, if you are not willing to be honest with the public diary, you probably arent willing to take the advice given.
if you know you should be doing something, and you aren't... and you dont want to make changes, you can't expect results.
Not trying to be a douche, but its reality.
Eat more fruit.. more veggies.. drink milk eat yogurt, make a wrap, have a salad with lean meat and cheese and nuts... there are tons of ways to bulk up the calories. you get in the mindset of hitting a "magic number" and its going to seem like an unatainable goal. You think of how many serivings that you have had from the food pyramid and in no time you will be meeting goals.
But again, if you aren;t willing to make changes.. you cant expect to see anything.0 -
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I am the same, I eat 700-1100 usually and eat back nothing. My weight has been stuck for over 2 weeks. I am trying various things to help out my metabolism like more exercise, front-loading calories and mixing up my exercise routine. So far no luck.0
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Man alive, get some protein down you!!0
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I don't know how old you are...or your age/height/weight but most likely, even 1200 is too low -- especially if you're exercising.
Some simple things to do....
1. Eat more oatmeal for breakfast...or add a fiber bar, greek yogurt
2. Add some protein shakes --- not only good for you, but keep you feeling full so you dont binge at meals
3. Eat more protein -- you have almost none on your list
4. Add chicken, turkey, fish etc.0 -
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God, people like you annoy me. She's trying, she might be suffering from mild symptoms of an ED so don't type the word "eat" to her in capital letters. Jesus christ, give the girl tips instead of this crap.0 -
You have to eat more...your body is going into "starvation mode" and is slowing down its metabolism. You are actually sabotaging your own efforts to lose weight!
You need to eat more. If you eat more, you will start losing weight.0 -
i have been eating less than 800 cals on most days and i workout on top of that (some days just 30day shred and 2x a week i do ellipticals for an hr) and i don't eat back my exercise cals. i have been at the same weight for a month and i know i should bump my intake to 1200 but I'm just so scared of doing that and then gaining all the weight that i have lost back. and today i tried to plan my meal so that i will be as close to 1200 as possible and it seems that no matter what i do I'm coming up to only about 850. I don't know what to do. I know my diary is closed and I'm not comfortable with opening it up to the public.
What I Ate Today:
Breakfast:
1 pack of low sugar oatmeal (120)
1/3 skim milk (40)
1/3 cup of sliced bananas (40)
1/2 watermelon (25)
Total: 225
Lunch:
1 whole wheat english muffin (130)
1 tb of pb (95)
Total: 225
I wasn't even hungry at lunch but i forced myself to eat. oh and i drink anywhere from 6-12 glasses of water a day. no soda or juice of any kind. i have also given up coffee.
If you can't "eat" your calories "drink" your calories. Low fat milk, 100% fruit juice, something! You're starving yourself! There's a saying, "Doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results - that's the definition of lunacy" You're repeating a meal plan that obviously isn't working yet you think you will get a different outcome. You have to eat more, and more fat also!0 -
i have been eating less than 800 cals on most days and i workout on top of that (some days just 30day shred and 2x a week i do ellipticals for an hr) and i don't eat back my exercise cals. i have been at the same weight for a month and i know i should bump my intake to 1200 but I'm just so scared of doing that and then gaining all the weight that i have lost back. and today i tried to plan my meal so that i will be as close to 1200 as possible and it seems that no matter what i do I'm coming up to only about 850. I don't know what to do. I know my diary is closed and I'm not comfortable with opening it up to the public.
What I Ate Today:
Breakfast:
1 pack of low sugar oatmeal (120)
1/3 skim milk (40)
1/3 cup of sliced bananas (40)
1/2 watermelon (25)
Total: 225
Lunch:
1 whole wheat english muffin (130)
1 tb of pb (95)
Total: 225
I wasn't even hungry at lunch but i forced myself to eat. oh and i drink anywhere from 6-12 glasses of water a day. no soda or juice of any kind. i have also given up coffee.
Try adding a glass of orange juice or milk with your lunch. That's a good way to get calories up and it'll leave you refreshed.0 -
Same as everyone else said, you really do need to eat more. Your body needs the nourishment and is probably holding onto everything you do eat because it needs more. Eat more fruits and veggies, and up your calories. You will likely see movement, but please take care of yourself.0
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Whats for dinner? You are going to have to re-train your body to eat and then feel hungry. Right now it's broken. You can trust it to send hunger signals. Maybe east into it. Eat 900 today, 1000 tomorrow, 1100 the next day...
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ive been fixing my metabolism since january because i did this all during college...bad news! EAT. You probably have been losing muscle too so make sure you are getting at least 80 g of protein (really, over 100 is best)0 -
Not a whole lot of info to go by, but you are right - you need to eat more. I'm sure lots of people on here will have good ideas - I myself am not a very healthy eater :laugh: , but don't you snack at all? Fruit, nuts, some protein? What about dinner? How much did you used to eat before you lost weight?
I don't have any problem getting my calories in. Just today so far I had cereal with almond milk for breakfast, grapes for a mid- morning snack, a turkey sandwich, celery and a peach for lunch, and some yogurt for an afternoon snack. On top of that, I had a couple handfuls of cereal to supplement my afternoon snack. I still have to fit in dinner, and I'll probably have a snack later this evening. See - no problem for me. :sad:0 -
Start with protien shakes. Protien, some carbs, and it will help you get more calories in every day. Good luck.0
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Your metaboism has almost definitely bottomed out, sending you into a cycle of undereating. I would try to force yourself to eat small high-fiber or high-protein calorie-dense foods every couple of hours.
Almonds
Walnuts
Berries (almost any kind)
Broccoli
Greek Yogurt
Oatmeal
Spinach
Chicken breast
Power foods like these will help inject sorely-needed nutrients into your system to help get you a metabolic kickstart and let your body know that you are not stranded on a raft somewhere with no rescue in sight. 1/4 cup of raw almonds is 170 calories. I can guarantee you can eat 1 cup of almonds over the course of a day. Nibble on them continuously to get them all into your system. That's 680 calories right there
A very good multivitamin would also likely be a godsend for you at this point.0 -
You HAVE to eat more to stay healthy, but you already know that already.
Don't increase your calories all at once if it is too hard, try going up 50 cals, stay there for a few days, then increase again.
Plan your meals, add small snacks that are calorie and nutrient dense (nuts, avocado of wholegrain crackers, yoghurt (not fat free) with banana etc).
Don't wait to feel hungry, I think that mechanism is right out of whack at the moment, so you need to retrain your body to get used to regular meals that have lots of nutrients and energy to keep you healthy and provide good fuel so you can keep working out.
If you can't do all that on your own, go to your doctor and ask for a referral to someone who can help get your eating back on track.
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thanks everyone. i guess what i wanted was someone to tell it to me straight and just shake me out of this. im gonna try to increase my intake a little bit everyday. thanks again! and the reason that i got stuck in this starvation mode thing is because my mom has been eating like this and she lost 25lbs and she has been able to keep it off for 4 yrs. i guess what works for her wont work for me.0
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I can understand your concerns, but increasing your calorie intake to healthy levels will not make you gain the weight back, of this I am sure. Now in the immediate you may notice a little increase, but that is because you've basically been putting your metabolism on standby (or turning it off), so it will take an adjustment. Over the long term, however, you'll feel better, have more energy, and actually lose more weight (if you so desire). -- My recommendation is to open your dairy to a select few friends, then have them help keep you accountable to a baseline calorie number (which should be at least 1200, especially with exercise).
Our bodies aren't made to run on E all the time, and the calories are our fuel, so please take the time to fuel up. You're going to do great!
P.S- Last week I lost nearly 4lbs, and my calorie intake was 1600+ daily. I am not a "big" guy either, as my weight is 185 and my BMI is in the perfect range, so you can absolutely lose weight even while taking in the calories. Exercise is the key.0 -
I don't know much about eating disorders, but it sounds to me like you may be dealing with feelings and habits that can turn into one. I think meeting with a nutritionist (or at least a doctor) would be a good idea. It seems like you are so worried about gaining weight or not losing weight that you are convincing yourself that you aren't hungry and don't need to eat. I hope that you find help with the stress of eating and can move forward with your weight loss in a healthy manner.
Reading success stories, especially the ones who outline how they did it, should be helpful too. I don't recall reading a single one where the person said they lost weight by eating 850 calories per day. Most are around 1200 PLUS exercise calories. Maybe that will help you gain the confidence and ability to eat the calories recommended here.
Best of luck to you.0 -
You probably have been losing muscle too so make sure you are getting at least 80 g of protein (really, over 100 is best)
Sadly, this is almost guaranteed. the body will catabolize muscle very quickly if not fueled properly.0 -
Sounds like you need to see a doctor about a possible eating disorder.
When my weight stops going down at a normal pace, I UP my calories and the pounds fall right off. So don't be scared.
But since your metabolism is more than likely super slow now from not eating, you might gain a pound or two back until your body is working properly again.0 -
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i know how hard it is to get up to 1200 i agree with some of the other posters- try going up to 1200 slowly, hopefully it won't be as scary if you're only adding 100 calories a day
if your menu for today is typical, maybe you could try adding some veggies? i'm kind of at a loss, since i'm having trouble getting my calories up too *watches thread closely for ideas*0 -
I just did a quick look at what your BMR might be (your profile doesn't give any height and weight so I made a conservative estimate - a 5'4" female who weighs 150 lbs). I'm getting numbers in the 1400-1700 ballpark.
Let's be SUPER conservative and assume that your BMR is 1200 calories (I don't see how that's even possible. It HAS to be higher. But we'll stick with this for the sake of argument).
That means that on a day that you don't exercise and you sit and do nothing, you're running up a 400 calorie deficit and you'll lose about a pound a week. But what about exercise? If you're running up deficits of 700, 800, or even 1000 calories a day then your body is going to start hanging on to the food you eat and you won't drop weight.
Two months ago I was on a 2-month plateau. I was working out incredibly hard, eating 1800 calories a day (so already 1000 calories more than you) and dropping no weight. I met with an RD, increased my intake to 2100 calories a day (my rBMR is 1780, fyi) and started losing weight again.
You are starving yourself. No person can function on 800 calories a day. There's no way you are getting the appropriate amounts of macro- and micronutrients. Start eating more and give your body 2-3 weeks to adjust. I think you'll see a difference.
That said, I also want to point out that the behavior you're demonstrating is very similar to that of my sister's and she has an eating disorder. If you find that you're trying to whittle your body down to nothing, please seek professional help .If that's the case, this site and it's users can't provide you with the help and support you need.0 -
As everyone else has said, you are not eating enough. You are starving yourself . I consider 800 calories a day anorexia.0
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