How does everyone cope with the stress of exercising?
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springlering62 wrote: »Podcasts. Only drawback is, I’m addicted to the true crime ones and my neck is getting an extra workout spinning back and forth to make sure no ones following me!
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How does everyone cope with the stress of daily exercise? The time to think and the non-stop brain chatter during my workouts are driving my stress levels sky high. How does everyone calm their minds while working out? This added stress cannot be good for me.
Remember you are allowed to have rest days! You don’t have to (nor should you) exercise vigorously every single day. I agree with the majority of the thread responses that say exercise actually helps relieve stress, not cause it. Maybe sit down and try to pinpoint what aspects of working out stress you out and try different strategies to alleviate them. Try different activities until you find something that feels more like fun and less like work. I started out from a lifetime of being sedentary and now I’m an avid runner, but it took years and lots of trial and error to get to this point. Start slow and gradually work your way up to more challenges but definitely go easy on yourself!
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How does everyone cope with the stress of daily exercise? The time to think and the non-stop brain chatter during my workouts are driving my stress levels sky high. How does everyone calm their minds while working out? This added stress cannot be good for me.
Exercising is more of a mental challenge than a physical one and having the right mindset before starting a workout is important. What are your goals for that workout? If you do not set any, then you're more likely to fail than to succeed. If you're lifting weights, are you lifting more? If you're doing more body weight moves, can you do more than the last time? How is your tracking been? Once you set your mind right, you'll find it relieves stress.
If you still feel stressed after doing that, then I think you're doing the wrong type of exercise.
Find a few quizzes on google and see what the best exercise would be for you based on your goals and what you enjoy might assist. I found this one but it doesn't mean you shouldn't try others and find a good fit: https://www.psychologies.co.uk/tests/what-is-the-best-workout-for-you-2.html0 -
I have the same problem (and for the record, I have been diagnosed with Generalized Anxiety Disorder, so I won't disagree with the poster that said it may be it as it may be a symptom). I tend to think through my day, think about the emails I need to send when I go back to work, etc.
I listen to music. I manage the thoughts by turning up the volume and switching to a song I am more into.
I really only get this at the beginning of my workout, by the end I'm completely absorbed in the workout. Taking too long of rest periods allows me to get distracted, so timing my rest periods helps.
Exercise is my stress relief. It's part of my anxiety management plan. It helps so much. I don't look forward to rest days, I wish I didn't have them. I honestly want to do a 5 or 6 day a week program now, but getting to the gym without childcare is hard. Like I realized that tomorrow and the next day are rest days, and I was disappointed.0 -
I like listening to The Honest Guys meditations on Youtube. In particular, the "Running with Wolves" 18+ minute session is great for walking or running. Consider it to be "directed daydreaming." Let the calm voice have your attention and let go of other thoughts. Worries can be put aside until later.2
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I guess I should have included some background. Coming from a family history of VERY large people, I rely on daily exercise to keep me from becoming yet another VERY large person, not because I enjoy exercise at all Also, I have severe vertigo, motion sickness, and balance issues, so I am extremely limited in the kinds of exercise I can do. I HAVE to be sitting to stay safe. I lift weights, do resistance training, and ride a recumbent trike. I set distance goals to keep myself motivated, and usually cycle about 150 miles a week.
Working with my doctor and my nutritionist, all that cycling, 1300 calories a day, and under 75 carbs a day keep me at a healthy weight. Any slacking in exercise, calories, or carbs and I pack on the pounds like right now! Exercising is NOT a choice if I want to stay healthy. But I hate every last minute I spend exercising; it's the worst chore I have to do every day.
Maybe it's because I have never experienced any of those much touted endorphins; whether a casual ride or pushing myself to my limit, no endorphin rush. Under doctor and nutritionist supervision, we have determined that I am not having issues with glucose, hydration, or fueling my body that would account for my horrible moods after exercise; but rather simply that I REALLY don't enjoy it. I honestly cannot think of any kind of exercise that I would enjoy; I'd rather hole up with a book or be researching on a project than ever exercise. A different form of exercise, even if I could do it, isn't going to change my hatred of being active. Moving and being active is simply a soul sucking experience for me.
My stress and brain chatter ONLY happen at two times. First, when I am exercising, probably because I despise doing it so much. And second, I have horrific nightmares about exercising. Skip a couple days of workouts and I am ecstatically happy again, and no nightmares, but six pounds heavier.
I cannot even begin to explain how much I hate exercising, but it has to be done. And how does one make a hated activity tolerable? I don't ever listen to music, and podcasts don't interest me at all. Besides it's extremely dangerous to have music or a podcast on while cycling; I need to be aware of traffic.
I need to figure out how to start enjoying activities that I've spent half a century hating. But until that happens, I need to find away to manage the stress caused by that exercising.6 -
Have you thought about getting a stationary bike at home? Then you could read while riding. At least you could incorporate something you enjoy to take the focus off of what you hate. Or maybe find some other form of exercise that isn’t a chore and that would would actually enjoy.
Virtually no one continues to stick with it if they hate it, so you need to come up with a way to stop hating it or find some form of exercise that you enjoy.5 -
I thought about cycling on a stationary bike as well, you could safely listen to music or a podcast or meditation, watch TV - or you could read while you ride. It's much more comfortable.
Do you have somewhere you can walk? Does your vertigo make regular walking difficult? My dad walks for exercise. He walks outside, but you could do it on a track or at a mall (if they are open, with a mask and social distancing of course).
Do you have access to somewhere you can swim for exercise? Would that help?
There are people on this site that lose and maintain weight with diet alone. You don't have to force yourself to exercise, but it definitely helps.0 -
@betsycech - I sympathize with you - I absolutely hate hate hate exercise, too. The only physical activity I like doing is swimming (splashing around) in ocean waves, and I really can’t do that anymore due to geographic location. I currently do yoga, which helps keep me kinda flexible, and low impact aerobics, but really hate doing any exercise at all. You are not alone! Hugs and good luck to you.0
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It is extremely likely that your apparent weight change when you stop exercising may have something to do with changes in carbohydrate intake that may take place at the same time.
If you are a low carb eater there are extreme water weight changes associated with eating at a reduced carb level and eating at a more traditional level of carbs. This is NOT FAT WEIGHT. But it IS scale weight.
ANY CHANGE IN WEIGHT you see at the LBS PER DAY LEVEL are WATER WEIGHT. Unless you managed to consume an extra 3500 Cal ABOVE MAINTENANCE per lb of weight change between your two scale measurements.
PLEASE DISCUSS THIS with your advisors as it is a major stressor for people who eat low carb but occasionally "slip".
Furthermore please consider that "exercise" doesn't have to be "exercise". I am more active and burn more calories when I am visiting my dad (because I am trying to sort out and clean out his place) than when I am at home where I regularly "exercise". Seriously. More calories burned there. Because at home I am at a computer for 14 hours and "exercising" for 2. But at his place I am up and about moving around for 14 hours. At the computer for two. And exercising for ZERO.
And I am going to be a *kitten* disturber and even tell you that you don't even have to be out of breath for your moderate level activity (as defined by WHO / MET level criteria) to be a net contributor to your health and caloric burn.
If you don't enjoy the activity, consider doing activities that you could combine with listening to music, podcasts or audiobooks, talking to people on the phone, or even watching tv/videos (though I feel that the last on often results in relatively more reduced performance levels as compared to the others)1 -
Dogmom1978 wrote: »Have you thought about getting a stationary bike at home? Then you could read while riding. At least you could incorporate something you enjoy to take the focus off of what you hate. Or maybe find some other form of exercise that isn’t a chore and that would would actually enjoy.
Virtually no one continues to stick with it if they hate it, so you need to come up with a way to stop hating it or find some form of exercise that you enjoy.
I have a stationary bike as well and I spend every rainy/snowy day in the damn thing. It's a tedious few hours, but I do it. I don't enjoy music or podcasts and I cannot watch TV because of the vertigo. Seated cycling and seated strength training are about the only exercising I can do without the vertigo and motion sickness setting in2 -
ExistingFish wrote: »I thought about cycling on a stationary bike as well, you could safely listen to music or a podcast or meditation, watch TV - or you could read while you ride. It's much more comfortable.
Do you have somewhere you can walk? Does your vertigo make regular walking difficult? My dad walks for exercise. He walks outside, but you could do it on a track or at a mall (if they are open, with a mask and social distancing of course).
Do you have access to somewhere you can swim for exercise? Would that help?
There are people on this site that lose and maintain weight with diet alone. You don't have to force yourself to exercise, but it definitely helps.
I do have a stationary bike and I spend every rainy/snowy day on the thing. I don't enjoy music or podcasts and I cannot watch TV or read while pedaling because of the vertigo and motion sickness. That means when I am on the stationary bike, it's simply two hours of tedious pedaling.
I cannot safely walk without falling and swimming sets of vertigo like there is no tomorrow.
I work with my doctor, trainer, and dietician, and without any exercise, they cut my caloric intake down to a stupidly low amount to maintain my weight. Remember, I am only on 1300 calories a day and under 75 carbs WITH 25 miles of daily cycling as MAINTENANCE. Without the exercise, those calories and carbs get cut even more.1 -
It is extremely likely that your apparent weight change when you stop exercising may have something to do with changes in carbohydrate intake that may take place at the same time.
If you are a low carb eater there are extreme water weight changes associated with eating at a reduced carb level and eating at a more traditional level of carbs. This is NOT FAT WEIGHT. But it IS scale weight.
ANY CHANGE IN WEIGHT you see at the LBS PER DAY LEVEL are WATER WEIGHT. Unless you managed to consume an extra 3500 Cal ABOVE MAINTENANCE per lb of weight change between your two scale measurements.
PLEASE DISCUSS THIS with your advisors as it is a major stressor for people who eat low carb but occasionally "slip".
Furthermore please consider that "exercise" doesn't have to be "exercise". I am more active and burn more calories when I am visiting my dad (because I am trying to sort out and clean out his place) than when I am at home where I regularly "exercise". Seriously. More calories burned there. Because at home I am at a computer for 14 hours and "exercising" for 2. But at his place I am up and about moving around for 14 hours. At the computer for two. And exercising for ZERO.
And I am going to be a *kitten* disturber and even tell you that you don't even have to be out of breath for your moderate level activity (as defined by WHO / MET level criteria) to be a net contributor to your health and caloric burn.
If you don't enjoy the activity, consider doing activities that you could combine with listening to music, podcasts or audiobooks, talking to people on the phone, or even watching tv/videos (though I feel that the last on often results in relatively more reduced performance levels as compared to the others)
I have worked with my doctor, trainer, and dietician for years. I have been low carb for decades so I can avoid diabetes meds and do not "slip". It has been years since I have "slipped". Increasing carbs to try and "repair" my metabolism only resulted in huge increases in blood sugar levels. All I keep getting told is that it's not fair, but my genetic predisposition is to be obese and that I will have to work hard my entire life to stay at a healthy weight. The people in my extended family who eat and have an activity level that would be normal for most people, are instead three or four hundred pounds.
I CANNOT do other types of exercise; because of severe vertigo and motion sickness, I am a fall risk. I can only do seated exercising. I don't enjoy music or podcasts and I cannot watch TV because of the vertigo and motion sickness.
And years ago, we discovered that "moderate" exercise just doesn't accomplish anything for me. I stationary bike or recumbent trike hard for a minimum of two hours every day and more like four or five hours simply to maintain my weight.
I've been back with the dietician these last few weeks. The discussion went to the inevitable I am getting older, my hormones are changing, and now it's probably going to mean eating even less and exercising even more to maintain rather than gain and to keep my glucose levels out of meds range.
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You mention not enjoying music and podcasts but on the off chance that you hadn’t considered it, how about audio books? There are several subscription services (audible, nextory etc) and I believe some libraries also have a selection free of charge.
I also have a habit of watching certain series in the background when I do chores (the Big Bang theory and the Good place to mention two) a the experience is basically audio only. Would you be able to listen to a TV series you are familiar with and get any benefit from that? I’ve never considered it for working out but don’t see why it couldn’t serve as a distraction.
Apart from that, given the severe limitations you are experiencing, the only other advice I can offer is to see if there is any way to work on your headspace to decrease the negative feelings associated with these activities? Either way I wish you the best of luck, hang in there!4 -
AwesomeSquirrel wrote: »You mention not enjoying music and podcasts but on the off chance that you hadn’t considered it, how about audio books? There are several subscription services (audible, nextory etc) and I believe some libraries also have a selection free of charge.
I also have a habit of watching certain series in the background when I do chores (the Big Bang theory and the Good place to mention two) a the experience is basically audio only. Would you be able to listen to a TV series you are familiar with and get any benefit from that? I’ve never considered it for working out but don’t see why it couldn’t serve as a distraction.
Apart from that, given the severe limitations you are experiencing, the only other advice I can offer is to see if there is any way to work on your headspace to decrease the negative feelings associated with these activities? Either way I wish you the best of luck, hang in there!
I came to say this. I have audiobooks dedicated to exercise, and I pick the most exciting ones for that purpose to keep wanting more and coming back. I don't listen to them outside of my exercise time, and that's a rule, so my choices are: exercise or miss out on that very exciting book. I also play games and watch shows but that won't work for you because of your issue.
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How does everyone cope with the stress of daily exercise? The time to think and the non-stop brain chatter during my workouts are driving my stress levels sky high. How does everyone calm their minds while working out? This added stress cannot be good for me.
The time to think is precisely what I like about exercise. It gives me "quiet time" to sort things out.
And then, it gives me time to focus on the exercise and my immediate surroundings. My favourite exercise is cycling outside. I enjoy the scenery. 0 -
Exercise, specifically cardio (cardio dance, kickboxing, step classes), is my Prozac.
Find something you enjoy, and then do it at the same time that fits your schedule everyday. Be very consistent in the beginning with whatever you choose, meaning be sure to show up (at same time if possible) every day whether you feel like it or not.
Within a few short weeks the exercise routine will become a habit and once the habit is established, you will become stressed/disappointed if you have to break your routine to miss an exercise.
The key is to find what you enjoy. I could not stick with running, Pilates/yoga, or main gym, because it was boring to me. Everything changed when I found some awesome cardio dance, turbo kick, and step group fitness class before quarantine happened. Since the quarantine happened, I’ve been able to find new favorite gym classes online (free on YouTube) that have become my new favorite classes. I show up every morning for at home workout because I previously took the time establish good habits. These workouts are non-negotiatable and make me feel good the rest of the day.
Once you find what you enjoy and able to stick with, exercise will become your stress relief.1 -
Have you considered getting a second (or third or fourth) opinion from doctors? Because “having” to exercise for HOURS each day with 1300 calories just to maintain your current weight does not sound right. I’m not an expert but I would keep digging to see if you can find someone else who might be able to help you find a more healthy balance.13
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A big hug from me for having to cope with all these challenges!3
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Have you considered getting a second (or third or fourth) opinion from doctors? Because “having” to exercise for HOURS each day with 1300 calories just to maintain your current weight does not sound right. I’m not an expert but I would keep digging to see if you can find someone else who might be able to help you find a more healthy balance.
It doesn't sound right to me either. Anybody needs around 1100-1200 calories just to sit there and lead a sedentary life. If you are only eating 1300, plus doing HOURS of exercise, you will be losing weight (not maintaining).
I think this is an honest conversation you need to have with your doctor. Your feelings about your health are important. Your feelings about how to maintain your health are important. If you have such a close relationship with your doctors, you shouldn't be at this point of hating what they tell you to do so much, you should be more honest.7 -
ExistingFish wrote: »Have you considered getting a second (or third or fourth) opinion from doctors? Because “having” to exercise for HOURS each day with 1300 calories just to maintain your current weight does not sound right. I’m not an expert but I would keep digging to see if you can find someone else who might be able to help you find a more healthy balance.
It doesn't sound right to me either. Anybody needs around 1100-1200 calories just to sit there and lead a sedentary life. If you are only eating 1300, plus doing HOURS of exercise, you will be losing weight (not maintaining).
I think this is an honest conversation you need to have with your doctor. Your feelings about your health are important. Your feelings about how to maintain your health are important. If you have such a close relationship with your doctors, you shouldn't be at this point of hating what they tell you to do so much, you should be more honest.
I second these opinions. And I can’t believe I’m even writing this, but... if you have to spend hours every day to maintain your current weight (and second opinions from other specialists don’t change the direction) and you hate every second of those hours, would it be possible that you’d actually be happier at a heavier weight where you didn’t have to exercise as much?
I’m definitely not trying to advertise for obesity, but I have to say this. I’m obese and I’m happy with my life, and I certainly don’t spend hours every day doing something I hate. Of course obesity comes with its own health issues, but at the point you’re at I would personally be willing to consider if having some weight-related physical health issues was a worthy trade for being otherwise happier and having so much more time to do activities I actually enjoy. Life is too short to stay miserable.
Before the disagrees come rolling, I’d like to add that in general I advocate for healthy weight loss and reaching/maintaining a healthy weight. Still, I also think physical health isn’t the only thing that matters. Mental health, enjoyment and joy are vitally important for quality of life, and sacrificing too much of one thing (joy and enjoyment, in this case) to keep up with on (physical health) migh tip the overall balance negatively. You can love your body and have a great life at any size.
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Also, have you had a thyroid panel done recently? If not I would ask for one, plus a full blood work up. Thyroid issues can greatly affect your weight and metabolism and adding a medicine can help straighten things out fairly easily.1
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It is extremely likely that your apparent weight change when you stop exercising may have something to do with changes in carbohydrate intake that may take place at the same time.
If you are a low carb eater there are extreme water weight changes associated with eating at a reduced carb level and eating at a more traditional level of carbs. This is NOT FAT WEIGHT. But it IS scale weight.
ANY CHANGE IN WEIGHT you see at the LBS PER DAY LEVEL are WATER WEIGHT. Unless you managed to consume an extra 3500 Cal ABOVE MAINTENANCE per lb of weight change between your two scale measurements.
PLEASE DISCUSS THIS with your advisors as it is a major stressor for people who eat low carb but occasionally "slip".
Furthermore please consider that "exercise" doesn't have to be "exercise". I am more active and burn more calories when I am visiting my dad (because I am trying to sort out and clean out his place) than when I am at home where I regularly "exercise". Seriously. More calories burned there. Because at home I am at a computer for 14 hours and "exercising" for 2. But at his place I am up and about moving around for 14 hours. At the computer for two. And exercising for ZERO.
And I am going to be a *kitten* disturber and even tell you that you don't even have to be out of breath for your moderate level activity (as defined by WHO / MET level criteria) to be a net contributor to your health and caloric burn.
If you don't enjoy the activity, consider doing activities that you could combine with listening to music, podcasts or audiobooks, talking to people on the phone, or even watching tv/videos (though I feel that the last on often results in relatively more reduced performance levels as compared to the others)
I have worked with my doctor, trainer, and dietician for years. I have been low carb for decades so I can avoid diabetes meds and do not "slip". It has been years since I have "slipped". Increasing carbs to try and "repair" my metabolism only resulted in huge increases in blood sugar levels. All I keep getting told is that it's not fair, but my genetic predisposition is to be obese and that I will have to work hard my entire life to stay at a healthy weight. The people in my extended family who eat and have an activity level that would be normal for most people, are instead three or four hundred pounds.
I CANNOT do other types of exercise; because of severe vertigo and motion sickness, I am a fall risk. I can only do seated exercising. I don't enjoy music or podcasts and I cannot watch TV because of the vertigo and motion sickness.
And years ago, we discovered that "moderate" exercise just doesn't accomplish anything for me. I stationary bike or recumbent trike hard for a minimum of two hours every day and more like four or five hours simply to maintain my weight.
I've been back with the dietician these last few weeks. The discussion went to the inevitable I am getting older, my hormones are changing, and now it's probably going to mean eating even less and exercising even more to maintain rather than gain and to keep my glucose levels out of meds range.
How tall are you?
When was the last time you've been for a complete physical?
Do you weigh your food?
It just doesn't add up that you would have to exercise 4-5 hours a day while eating 1300 calories to maintain your weight.11 -
Vjmikesell wrote: »Exercise, specifically cardio (cardio dance, kickboxing, step classes), is my Prozac.
Find something you enjoy, and then do it at the same time that fits your schedule everyday. Be very consistent in the beginning with whatever you choose, meaning be sure to show up (at same time if possible) every day whether you feel like it or not.
Within a few short weeks the exercise routine will become a habit and once the habit is established, you will become stressed/disappointed if you have to break your routine to miss an exercise.
The key is to find what you enjoy. I could not stick with running, Pilates/yoga, or main gym, because it was boring to me. Everything changed when I found some awesome cardio dance, turbo kick, and step group fitness class before quarantine happened. Since the quarantine happened, I’ve been able to find new favorite gym classes online (free on YouTube) that have become my new favorite classes. I show up every morning for at home workout because I previously took the time establish good habits. These workouts are non-negotiatable and make me feel good the rest of the day.
Once you find what you enjoy and able to stick with, exercise will become your stress relief.
Uh, no! I have been exercising religiously for DECADES because I must to maintain a healthy weight. At least five days a week for more than twenty years, I get my hour+ of exercise in. And I still despise it. And you know what else? I feel 200% better mentally on the days I DON'T exercise.0 -
Have you considered getting a second (or third or fourth) opinion from doctors? Because “having” to exercise for HOURS each day with 1300 calories just to maintain your current weight does not sound right. I’m not an expert but I would keep digging to see if you can find someone else who might be able to help you find a more healthy balance.
I am in doctor #4 in eleven years for that exact reason. Unfortunately, I come from an extended family of VERY large people. One of two things happens, I am either repeatedly told by medical professionals that this is just the genetic hand I was dealt or, like the last, told I am outright lying about my diet and exercise.3 -
Also, have you had a thyroid panel done recently? If not I would ask for one, plus a full blood work up. Thyroid issues can greatly affect your weight and metabolism and adding a medicine can help straighten things out fairly easily.
Yup. And hormones. Every doc does the whole shebang every time. Everything is good, except the cortisol is always high, high, high, and that is why I am told to knock down my stress levels. Of course, that's usually in the same breath as "exercise more", which is by far the biggest cause of stress in my life. 🙄2 -
It is extremely likely that your apparent weight change when you stop exercising may have something to do with changes in carbohydrate intake that may take place at the same time.
If you are a low carb eater there are extreme water weight changes associated with eating at a reduced carb level and eating at a more traditional level of carbs. This is NOT FAT WEIGHT. But it IS scale weight.
ANY CHANGE IN WEIGHT you see at the LBS PER DAY LEVEL are WATER WEIGHT. Unless you managed to consume an extra 3500 Cal ABOVE MAINTENANCE per lb of weight change between your two scale measurements.
PLEASE DISCUSS THIS with your advisors as it is a major stressor for people who eat low carb but occasionally "slip".
Furthermore please consider that "exercise" doesn't have to be "exercise". I am more active and burn more calories when I am visiting my dad (because I am trying to sort out and clean out his place) than when I am at home where I regularly "exercise". Seriously. More calories burned there. Because at home I am at a computer for 14 hours and "exercising" for 2. But at his place I am up and about moving around for 14 hours. At the computer for two. And exercising for ZERO.
And I am going to be a *kitten* disturber and even tell you that you don't even have to be out of breath for your moderate level activity (as defined by WHO / MET level criteria) to be a net contributor to your health and caloric burn.
If you don't enjoy the activity, consider doing activities that you could combine with listening to music, podcasts or audiobooks, talking to people on the phone, or even watching tv/videos (though I feel that the last on often results in relatively more reduced performance levels as compared to the others)
I have worked with my doctor, trainer, and dietician for years. I have been low carb for decades so I can avoid diabetes meds and do not "slip". It has been years since I have "slipped". Increasing carbs to try and "repair" my metabolism only resulted in huge increases in blood sugar levels. All I keep getting told is that it's not fair, but my genetic predisposition is to be obese and that I will have to work hard my entire life to stay at a healthy weight. The people in my extended family who eat and have an activity level that would be normal for most people, are instead three or four hundred pounds.
I CANNOT do other types of exercise; because of severe vertigo and motion sickness, I am a fall risk. I can only do seated exercising. I don't enjoy music or podcasts and I cannot watch TV because of the vertigo and motion sickness.
And years ago, we discovered that "moderate" exercise just doesn't accomplish anything for me. I stationary bike or recumbent trike hard for a minimum of two hours every day and more like four or five hours simply to maintain my weight.
I've been back with the dietician these last few weeks. The discussion went to the inevitable I am getting older, my hormones are changing, and now it's probably going to mean eating even less and exercising even more to maintain rather than gain and to keep my glucose levels out of meds range.
How tall are you?
When was the last time you've been for a complete physical?
Do you weigh your food?
It just doesn't add up that you would have to exercise 4-5 hours a day while eating 1300 calories to maintain your weight.
I am 5'10" and because of hereditary weight issues, I get a full physical every six months, the last being July 2 when they cut my calories down again from 1400 a day to 1300 a day. And yes, I weigh and measure every f-ing thing that I eat. Any recipe I make, I personally add to my recipes in this app. If my husband wants something like spaghetti, I make that for him and I make my own healthy, low carb meal.
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I'm not a doctor, but something's seriously wrong if you're eating so little with so much physical activity just to maintain. I can't even begin to imagine how frustrating that must be!
I'm 5'2" and I maintain on about 1300 kcal if I literally don't move all day. I think I can burn about 200 calories in an hour of very moderate biking. If I exercised like you, and didn't move except for those two hours of biking, I'd still be able to maintain on roughly 1700kcal or more. Of course, you're not me. But if you're as healthy as your doctors tell you and your logging is accurate, you should actually be losing weight with your lifestyle.
That leaves a few options:
Your high cortisol levels are seriously messing with your body and metabolism (again, I'm not a doctor, I don't know if it works that way). Maybe you'd be happier scaling back the exercise (too much exercise can put stress on you body), or find a different form of exercise that doesn't stress you out (which is difficult with your vertigo, but maybe your doctor has a suggestion). But I'm sure you already tried, since you have a trainer.
Or maybe cut back on the cardio and do more weights. Weightlifting burns less calories, but builds muscle that continiuously burns calories even when you're not exercising. So you're exercising less, but still burn fat. And if you're in a calorie surplus due to less biking, it'll actually help your body build muscle. Again, I don't know if that's a viable option due to your issues, but it doesn't hurt to ask your doctor.
I don't know what kind of condition you have, but it seems to defy the logic of calories in, calories out. If your doctor is telling you to just deal with it, I'd look for doctor #5. Something's not working correctly and there has to be a doctor who can find out what it is. I'd go so far as to getting my genetic code looked at and spend a few weeks in an inpatient facility to prove that it's not due to incorrect logging.
I admire your dedication to working out despite hating it, but I sincerely hope you don't have to work out as much in the future. As for your original question; I don't really experience a lot of stress during exercise, it just stresses me out if I skip training sometimes. During, I don't think much except about proper form and it actually frees my mind a lot. After, I feel really relaxed and often proud. It seems like whatever your brain is chatting about is stressing you out, maybe try to cut that source of stress out and the chatter will turn more relaxing?9 -
Even though you only have brain-chatter while exercising, you still may benefit from some CBT skills (cognitive behavioral therapy), such as distraction and reframing. Mindfulness skills may also be beneficial and please know that mindfulness is not exclusively meditation. Saving really good audiobooks just for exercising was a good idea, which was already suggested. A TV (listening only) or radio talk show, with more than one host, may help because unlike some podcasts, you have to follow a conversation. Also, which you may know, there are medications to lower cortisol levels. I hope you find some relief.5
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listening to audiobooks work best for me. i find using my exercise bike - also a recumbent - annoying, so listen to audiobooks that i like - that means good story, good narrator for my taste - and it goes by a lot more easily. i found that didn't work well when i disliked the narration, though. or you could pedal while watching your favorite shows, ones that really draw you in.
also if you really don't care for the bike, could you use a treadmill with side rails like this one?
https://www.amazon.com/Sunny-Health-Fitness-Treadmill-Multi-Grip/dp/B07K8HGCVB/
i know there's a cheaper one, but i can't recall who makes it.0
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