Menopausal weight gain

Hi, first of all, why is it a false menopause?
Menopause is the lowering of estrogen in a women body, so if you got your ovaries removed, is not false...

Talk to your doctor and ask for pills that are Estrogen like hormones that will help you prevent osteoporosis, weight gain, hot flashes and because they're not estrogen, they're estrogen like, you wont increase your chances of getting breast cancer.

Sorry to hear that you have to fight this fight, but the important thing is that you're trying and you can overcome this thing.
Eat healthy, get all the antioxidants you can by natural ways. exercise and don't leave your treatment.

Good luck!

I also was put into menopause in my 40s. On my 60th birthday I was in the best shape of my life (I've slipped by 12 pounds and but hope to be back at 62) and feel great.
I chose not to do HRT because at the time the estrogen came from pregnant mares--I own a mare and knew what happened to the horses and foals in Canada and just couldn't. I believe that may have changed now.
The night sweats and hot flashes were horrible but did finally end. It is harder to keep weight off than in my 30s and I don't relate to people who want that rockin bikini bod. I just want to be lead an active, healthy and functional life.
Talk to your doctor about your options....just keep singing: I AM WOMAN...I AM STRONG!!!!

Hi there,

I'm going through the menopause too and have put on a massive amount of weight, battled hot flushes and a lot of other menopausal symptoms too.

For several months I have been doing a massive amount of research to find the best ways to overcome symptoms of the menopause as I found my Doctor only had one answer ... HRT... and although there is a very slight increased risk of breast cancer the thought of adding horse estrogen to my already confused body put me right off the idea.

Two ideas to help combat hot flushes, which seem to be achieving approx. 75% success rate, are accupuncture and massage therapy. These two treatments target 'trigger' points on the body (mainly hands and feet) that can help combat what I call 'boil in the bag head' ... my hot flushes have driven me to the edge of sanity on occasions :-) Now I rarely get any and if I do they are very mild and I can cope with them.

I'm going to be writing a blog about my findings very soon, and if you would like to add me as a friend I will keep you up to date with my research and any tips that might help.

Just remember ... I AM STRONG ... I AM INVINCIBLE ... I AM WOMAN :-D

I am new here and I to have been in meopause for a few years. Last year I went to a hormone clinic for natural hormones. I was on pill from the doctor and had requested that I get sent there. My doctor admitted what she new about menopause and horones could fit on the heard of a pin. I would think a lot of doctors are like that. If you can get to a hormone clinic and get on natural ones it is the best thing, saved me big time. I was not sleeping and hot flashes were constant. Now I sleep all night and have not had a hot flash in I don't know how long. It takes about six months to get the dose right but it is worth it. Read Susanne Somnmers books they were a big help in understanding everything.

I had a total hysterectomy and went through the hot flashes and such. I also gained 20 lbs in a year before I changed my lifestyle. I was on a very very low dose of HRT and it was just enough to keep the flashes at bay and keep me from biting off my families heads. I because at risk of developing heart problems and decided to go off the HRT. I've been off it about a year now and over the last few months have returned to having the flashes. However, because I've lost so much weight and have no insulation, I welcome them now...even if I do get clammy and sweaty. It is a nice little warm up when I'm freezing But, losing weight after/during menopause is not impossible like we are programed to believe! I am living proof ...90lbs in 1 year and still going.

Prayers for a quick recovery and complete smashing of this disease!

Please people, stop playing doctor and telling her to get on hormones or this and that treatment! The poster is on Tamoxifen which is an anti-estrogen treatment used to prevent recurrent breast cancer. If my assumption is correct (that her treatment was breast cancer) then hormones are totally contraindicated and put her at risk of recurrent cancer. Sorry to be so harsh but I am so frustrated by everyone trying to give medical advice on these boards. She should talk to her doctor about the hot flashes which indeed can be caused by the Tamoxifen and yes, the 'artificial menopause' is likely due to the chemotherapy.

And yes I am a doctor but would never consider giving medical advice over the internet as so many people on these forums tend to do.

Just to clarify...I was by no means giving medical advice. She did ask what we were doing and how we got through it. I know my answer wasn't like some others. However, I agree...she needs to work with her doctor. I would hope anyone on here would talk to their doctors. But, nothing is being said on here that can't be found on google.

"Just to clarify...I was by no means giving medical advice. She did ask what we were doing and how we got through it. I know my answer wasn't like some others. However, I agree...she needs to work with her doctor. I would hope anyone on here would talk to their doctors. But, nothing is being said on here that can't be found on google."
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My response wasn't aimed at you, you indeed did state what you were doing but if you read carefully some of the other responses told the original poster to go get on hormones.