Has the pandemic altered your appetite for eating/ordering out?

Bella_Figura
Bella_Figura Posts: 4,330 Member
I'm curious about if the pandemic has altered people's attitudes to eating/ordering out.

Since the pandemic started, I haven't had a single bite to eat that wasn't prepared at home; it's been a weird 14 months! Prior to the pandemic, my customary routine was to eat out once or twice a week, most often for lunch, but occasionally for dinner. I might also go out for coffee and a small snack on a separate day. All the rest of my meals were home prepared and cooked. We'd maybe have a takeaway once every two months or so (usually indian or chinese). None of that home cooking made me skinny - I've spent most of my adult life overweight. I've always assumed, though, that if I'd eaten out more frequently it would have made me gain even more weight. Mentally, I equate eating/ordering out with indulgence, and always think of it as a 'treat'.

For those that ate out a lot pre-pandemic, has being forced to eat at home changed your attitude to food at all? Are you likely to continue to eat more at home once all social-distancing restrictions are lifted? Or can't you wait to put down your cooking utensils and get back to eating/ordering out?
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  • vanmep
    vanmep Posts: 410 Member
    I miss going out for breakfast! We used to do that every Saturday. Restaurants here are still closed except for takeout, so that’s not on the agenda for awhile. The one permanent change Will be my coffee. I used to get my Timmies every day. At the beginning of covid they stopped taking my refillable cup and I didn’t want to touch theirs either 😳. So I started bringing a thermos to work.I have grown to love my own coffee along with the reduction in calories and the $ saved 😆
  • Bella_Figura
    Bella_Figura Posts: 4,330 Member
    ninerbuff wrote: »
    For many they gained weight during pandemic. I actually lost 40lbs.
    Wow, that's amazing! Well done!
  • Bella_Figura
    Bella_Figura Posts: 4,330 Member
    vanmep wrote: »
    I started bringing a thermos to work.I have grown to love my own coffee along with the reduction in calories and the $ saved 😆
    I think that's one of the reasons even pre-pandemic I didn't eat out much - I'm too stingy! I think how much more cheaply I can prepare the same thing at home, and I'm too tight to spend the money! :D;)

  • Luke_rabbit
    Luke_rabbit Posts: 1,031 Member
    We used to eat out once a week, usually Saturday lunch. Plus the pretty occasional lunch out with coworkers or friends (maybe 4-8 times a year for each of us). And perhaps 1-2 times a month we would get snacks out (ice cream, Starbucks, etc). Also lots of food out on vacations, of course.

    At first last spring, we tried to order once a week for pickup, but that slowly decreased, and now it's about 1-2 times a month.

    I think if/when post pandemic happens, we will probably end up doing something in between. Likely a little less inside restaurants because I have really realized how stressful I find ordering in person to be compared to on a website or app.
  • penguinmama87
    penguinmama87 Posts: 1,155 Member
    Probably twice a month pre-pandemic I would visit a drive-thru while rushing around doing errands. I can't even remember the last time I had fast food now, just because I don't have days like that anymore. That was about convenience more than anything.

    For regular sit-down restaurants, we order out with more frequency because we make a deliberate effort to. My husband and I have a regular "date night in." Now that restaurants are back open with seating, I'd love to actually go in, but our regular babysitter is still isolating. It was hard to find a really good sitter before, and now it's even harder.
  • COGypsy
    COGypsy Posts: 1,365 Member
    Nothing really changed for me except ordering in instead of eating out. I still don’t enjoy cooking so I probably order in 2-4 times a week. I actually am really enjoying how many more places deliver now, I hope that keeps up once things open again.
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    edited May 2021
    Not really. But we didn't eat out all that much prior to the pandemic...usually just a date night here and there for my wife and I. We've had a pretty long tradition of pizza night on Fridays with either a game or movie for a long time, and that didn't change. We've pretty much always had that take-out or delivery. Wife and I still went out for anniversary, both our birthdays, and several date nights which is pretty much par for the course for us.

    The only thing that really changed was not popping out to lunch on a weekend while we were out running errands or after the boys soccer games...but that's mostly because there weren't any soccer games up until a couple weeks ago when we got the green light to start playing again and weekend running around has been pretty minimal over the last year.

    We're eating out Saturday afternoon after my boys' soccer game for mother's day...Sunday was too difficult to get reservations and my mom wanted to come watch the boys play on Saturday so it works out perfectly.
  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,454 Member
    I reallllllllly want fish and chips at the local place.

    Haven't had it in over a year and I used to go once a week.


    I'll survive. I've come up with all kinds of great seafood dishes, so at least I have that going for me.


    :neutral:
  • chocolate_owl
    chocolate_owl Posts: 1,695 Member
    Pre-pandemic we'd go out 2-4 times a week - maybe a couple of weekday lunches, a weeknight dinner, and a weekend dinner. When the pandemic first hit, we tried to keep that up and support our local businesses by ordering takeout. Mid-pandemic, I decided it was time to lose weight, and we switched to making all our meals at home except for Saturday night dinner. We're slowly changing Saturday night dinners in to Saturday night dinners out, but it's a big mental shift after we didn't eat in a restaurant at all for 14 months.

    My company is still work-from-home, so I haven't had any mid-week invitations to lunch from coworkers yet. That's the one thing the pandemic has definitely changed. Otherwise my husband and I are eating like we normally would.
  • wunderkindking
    wunderkindking Posts: 1,615 Member
    Sort of.

    We used to eat out a lot more because we used to be out a lot more. The biggest real change though is that we started buying our groceries online and that hugely cut down on the amount of impulse purchases in the grocery store. Which led to a lot fewer snacks.

    We're all vaccinated now, which means we could go back to in store shopping but. Not going to do that when I've developed a good 'add to your cart' purchase history that serves my weight goals LOL.
  • yirara
    yirara Posts: 9,984 Member
    No, nothing changed for me.
  • mpetersly
    mpetersly Posts: 14 Member
    With my husband, he only does take-out, so nothing much as changed since and after pandemic. If I go see my family in San Antonio, we went out a lot, pre-pandemic. Since the pandemic and in San Antonio, if we did go out, we wear masks, social distance, patio only.

    My husband and I are vaccinated. I think he's ready to go out to restaurants, so hopefully we'll go out more.

    I'm sick of carry-out food, it either cold or not that good.
  • goal06082021
    goal06082021 Posts: 2,130 Member
    When all the restaurants around here switched to curbside, we would order out occasionally to continue to support our favorites as best we could. There were some dishes/places that we realized just weren't as good after sitting in a plastic/styrofoam box for 10-15 minutes, versus the two-minute trip on a ceramic plate from the restaurant's kitchen to our table.

    We did split a huge 1900-calorie loaded-fries appetizer for dinner from one of those local places every week for the first 8 months of the pandemic. As a ritual and way to spend time with my husband, it was nice, but when I decided to get serious about weight-loss again, we had to stop. We've gotten the appetizer again a couple of times since then - like, literally twice - and it's much better as an occasional treat dinner. I pack up 1/4 of it, to save the rest of my half for later; my husband usually eats his half all at once, but he's not a 5'2" woman trying to lose, so it's fine.
  • Janatki
    Janatki Posts: 730 Member
    I miss a nice meal out with OH. Didn’t do it often, but every month or so!
    Have continued to have the odd takeaway - couple of Nandos & Pizza Express & the odd curry!
    Working from has meant no lunches out from the office, or with mates & that’s what I really miss - the camaraderie, probably not the coffee, lunches & treats.. though I agree I’ve save ££!
  • gothchiq
    gothchiq Posts: 4,590 Member
    I lost 40 lb too. I no longer had to gear my lunches to what would be safe and appealing at work, so I can just quickly throw an omelette together at noon while working from home. I haven't eaten out a single time since COVID began and I don't do takeout at all, so that means I have saved money and calories both. I have spent some time considering how it will be when we go back to the office and what I can batch cook and freeze ahead of time to maintain the healthier style of eating.
  • whoami67
    whoami67 Posts: 297 Member
    I miss restaurants, but don't see myself returning to them anytime soon. I liked them for the social aspect and that seems to be gone for good with eternal masking.

    I don't like eating out now. You have to scan a code to see the menu on the phone...and I don't want to read the menu on my phone. I don't want to rush through a meal while wearing a stupid mask where I can't understand a word anyone is saying. The food is more expensive and the portions are smaller. The menus are cut back to bare bones so there isn't much to choose from. Four of my favorite restaurants went out of business. And there's not even any salt and pepper available.

    I don't often order delivery; I think only twice during the pandemic. It's gotten so expensive that it isn't worth it to me to spend that much money. About once a month, I pick up takeout from my one remaining favorite restaurant (they don't have in-person dining yet), but I don't enjoy eating the food at home. It's a breakfast place and I wonder why I just spent $25 when I have eggs in the refrigerator and coffee in the cupboard and could easily make the same food myself. I did buy a bunch of gift cards from that one restaurant throughout the pandemic in hope of helping them stay in business, but I don't eat their food often anymore. At least their business seems to be thriving, but it's a niche healthy gluten free with vegan choices-style bakery/cafe.
  • penguinmama87
    penguinmama87 Posts: 1,155 Member
    whoami67 wrote: »
    I miss restaurants, but don't see myself returning to them anytime soon. I liked them for the social aspect and that seems to be gone for good with eternal masking.

    I don't like eating out now. You have to scan a code to see the menu on the phone...and I don't want to read the menu on my phone. I don't want to rush through a meal while wearing a stupid mask where I can't understand a word anyone is saying. The food is more expensive and the portions are smaller. The menus are cut back to bare bones so there isn't much to choose from. Four of my favorite restaurants went out of business. And there's not even any salt and pepper available.

    I guess things are more "normal" here than I realized - it's very atypical for people to wear masks while seated at restaurants here. The tables are spread further apart, but it doesn't seem very sensible to continually lift and lower a mask (thus touching it with your hands and all that jazz) for each bite of food.

    I'm sorry about the restaurants going out of business. The ones we order takeout from are all small local places that we really want to stay in business. While compliant with applicable restrictions I'm happy that they remain personable and friendly. Even though we're not really big restaurant people that kind of casual friendliness is something I am a little bit concerned about losing overall - when I go out now I try and make an effort to at least make eye contact and smile at passersby, and say hello, because it seems like sometimes we're all avoiding each other. And I'm actually quite introverted!
  • VegjoyP
    VegjoyP Posts: 2,773 Member
    I was heavily plant based and now full plus vegan ( animals, enviornment and concious) I didn't go out much or enjoy it before and now it's the same for the most part except I am definately interested in a few places that are vegan/ WFPB in Florida where I live. With the new way of life I am discovering so many amazing foods, creative dishes and recipes!
  • rosiekin
    rosiekin Posts: 80 Member
    Post pandemic, I ate out about 2-3 times a week, sometimes more, sometimes less. I've been maintaining my week since 2015, so in order for me to be able to eat higher calorie meals when I dined out, I had to reduce calories on the other days in order for my week to balance out.
    Since the pandemic, I have rarely eaten out (other than when rules allowed which has been rare), and I have really enjoyed being in more control of my weekly eating, and not having the regular juggling act that was required in order to meet my calorie goals. To be honest, now restrictions are being lifted (UK), I am actually quite anxious about going out to eat more regularly again. I have got VERY comfortable eating at home, eating the foods I like, and I don't really want to let go of that control. However, I know that in order to get back to real life, that anxiety is something I am going to have to overcome and deal with. This week I have 3 meals out planned so it's back to the juggling for me!
  • LazyBlondeChef
    LazyBlondeChef Posts: 2,809 Member
    edited May 2021
    Pre-pandemic we did dinner out 1-2 times per week and breakfast out nearly every Sunday. During the early part of the pandemic we were getting takeout 3-4 times a week primarily to support our favorite regular restaurants as we wanted them to stay in business. But that was becoming a problem for our weight (well that and the excess drinking) and also the scaled back menus in some cases causing boredom with the choices. In the fall we decided that we could only have one restaurant meal per week.

    Since a few months ago we started dining outside at restaurants. Many of them have improved their outdoor areas with heaters and other protection against the elements. I don't see us going back to more frequent dining out though now that we've both lost some weight. Restaurant meals are too caloric even with carefully made choices. It's going to be a long time before I feel comfortable eating inside.

    I remember reading back in late 2019 that the US was over saturated with restaurants and there wasn't sufficient population to sustain them. The pandemic certainly solved that problem.
  • suzij27
    suzij27 Posts: 199 Member
    Prior to the pandemic, we ate out 2-3 times per week, usually dinners, but sometimes a lunch. I would also meet friends for breakfast about once a month.

    Once restaurants closed I decided to try at least 2 new recipes per week to meet some of the cravings for variety. It was also during this period that my husband wanted to try plant based eating, and for those 2 weeks I made something new every day. The only take out my husband likes is pizza or Chinese. So once or twice a week I’ll pickup fast food for my kids and cook for us.

    Restaurants have been open here for a long time. I tried it but was really uncomfortable eating inside and refused to go with my family. Now that we are fully vaccinated I am willing to eat inside a restaurant but still prefer not to. I have grown accustomed to cooking and eating at home. It ends up being about once every other week that we dine out.

    Much easier to control what and how much I am eating when I cook at home.
  • Safari_Gal_
    Safari_Gal_ Posts: 1,461 Member
    Pre pandemic - ate out 4- 6 times per week.

    Right now.. maybe 2- 3 times per week. I tend to go for outdoor dining as much as possible.

    During the height of the pandemic in nyc in 2020 - did more take out than dine in.



  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,740 Member
    Honestly-- not much -- for me things only changed drastically during March-May 2020. Where I live, restaurants reopened (with extra measures of course) during the summer last year.

    I have a standing lunch "date" with my senior dad, and we still dine in. I also get takeout with my husband every Saturday for lunch and sometimes pick up dinner too. We've only been out to eat (dine in) maybe once a month or so, but we still get restaurant food with the same frequency.

    I don't like having food delivered - seriously have not done that at any time in the past decade.
  • Speakeasy76
    Speakeasy76 Posts: 961 Member
    I hardly went out to eat before, but when restaurants had to close down here I made it a point to order take out from local restaurants once a week. We did that for a couple of months before I realized we didn't need to keep doing that.

    I have not eaten inside here where I live since pre-Covid. I ate inside a restaurant twice when visiting my mom in Indiana back in March.

    I would've gone out to eat to my favorite Indian restaurant for Mother's Day (it's never crowded anyway), but because I'm on a limited diet right now (elimination diet for food sensitivities) we got Chinese takeout so I could get plain rice and steamed chicken and veggies :( .
  • DaffyGirl88
    DaffyGirl88 Posts: 5,173 Member
    We were never big on eating out prior, between the $$ and the calories it just wasn't worth it to me. Like many people, we did start ordering takeout to help out local restaurants. We never did that before. For me dining out was going to sit somewhere other than my kitchen and be waited on hand and foot. Eating lukewarm takeout in my kitchen didn't cut it.

    We went out to a local coffee shop recently (our first foray to inside seating) and were met with the QR code menu. For us who are chronologically gifted both the scanning and trying to read tiny print on a tiny screen were a challenge. Won't be going back there any time soon.
  • cyfehr76
    cyfehr76 Posts: 45 Member
    During the heart of the pandemic we as a family did curbside at least once or twice a week to support the local restaurants as they were struggling. Pre-pandemic we ate out once a month if we were lucky. Luckily for my family I love to cook and experiment so most of the cooking is done at home regardless of a pandemic.
  • mjbnj0001
    mjbnj0001 Posts: 1,272 Member
    Just the other night, we had our first not-cooked-at-home meal, Italian take-out, since March 2020. We are all now vaccinated, so this was a milestone for us. We did, however, depackage all the items, and re-heated them in our oven at 170F for 30 minutes per CDC recommendations. We declined all the side items.

    It's been a long siege for me. I do 90% of all the cooking, including bread baking. Our at-home daughter has been making occasional pizza meals for us from scratch, and some other dishes as well during this period.

    I miss the social and frankly, work relief, of eating out occasionally. On the other hand, we've cut expenses a lot this year as a result.
  • scarlett_k
    scarlett_k Posts: 812 Member
    Didn't eat out much before or eat take away. Made everything myself during the lockdowns pretty much although in the periods of the strictest measures easing we have had the odd click and collect roast dinner or afternoon tea just for the novelty. I think most take away and restaurant food is a colossal waste of money as the quality is rarely worth the price.