Wore shorts yesterday... for the first time in 15 years!
itsmira
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By glance, I am not overweight and yet for the longest time, I have had the crippling fear of wearing shorts out of fear that someone would look at me and think that I have no business showing my legs in public. Yesterday however despite not being where I want to be physically I said F it! It's too damn hot to be self-conscious. Wear the damn shorts (I've had them in my drawer for years...finally took the tags off). I came downstairs and my entire family stared. My husband seemed relieved that I had finally gotten over "it", my kids were super proud and kept telling me how great I looked and honestly, the only thing I was worried about was how obvious it was that my legs needed sun. So I overcame my fear and what happened? Nothing. I did not cook on my 6k walk with the pup, I got to teach my girls that self-acceptance is just as important as self-love... and the world did not stop to shame me. So conclusions.
Weare the damn shorts. Show your damn arms. If anyone has a problem with it tell them to cover their eyes. Life is too short to make everyone happy so just focus on you and yours.
Weare the damn shorts. Show your damn arms. If anyone has a problem with it tell them to cover their eyes. Life is too short to make everyone happy so just focus on you and yours.
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I struggle with shorts as well. I've had very noticeable spider veins on the back of my calves since high school and was always asked questions about them. I also have A LOT of cellulite and dimpling on my thighs, I'm not overweight and no amount of cardio or strength training has reduced it.
I went out to the grocery store today in full length jeans, we had a high today of 115 degrees. And I still am to self conscious to wear shorts. I KNOW no one else cares. I think I just need to follow your leaf and just do it. RIP of the bandaid, so to speak.
Thank you for sharing. I'm so sorry you also feel that way, but it's also nice knowing I'm not alone in that insecurity.5
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