Adults?? I the not

1Prettypain
1Prettypain Posts: 122
edited October 2 in Chit-Chat
you know this is an adult site! As adults we have the right to freedom of speech and our own opinions! This is suppose to be a place to be excepted fir our common goals, lose weight gain weight, maintain weight, build muscle, and get and stay healthy!!! So why, I'm asking can't we all be adults and remember we all are entitled to believe or not believe in whatever we want!! This country is going down hill in a handbasket when we can't voice our opinions without getting criticized!!!

I lost some good friends all because some so called adults can't handle someone else's opinions!! So my question is... Will I get a warning for flying an American flag as my avatar and speaking my mind???
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  • sassylilmama
    sassylilmama Posts: 1,493 Member
    Sadly yes you probably will. This crap is out of hand.
  • Thomasm198
    Thomasm198 Posts: 3,189 Member
    you know this is an adult site! As adults we have the right to freedom of speech and our own opinions! This is suppose to be a place to be excepted fir our common goals, lose weight gain weight, maintain weight, build muscle, and get and stay healthy!!! So why, I'm asking can't we all be adults and remember we all are entitled to believe or not believe in whatever we want!! This country is going down hill in a handbasket when we can't voice our opinions without getting criticized!!!

    I lost some good friends all because some so called adults can't handle someone else's opinions!! So my question is... Will I get a warning for flying an American flag as my avatar and speaking my mind???

    Well having a flag as an avatar in my opinion isn't in breach of the forum rules. It is not discussing politics, it only identifies what country you are from.

    As for speaking your mind, sadly the "report post" button makes it all too easy for anyone that disagrees with your opinion to go "running to tell teacher". So don't be surprised if somebody does take offence at your post.

    :flowerforyou:
  • Although I emphatically believe we should be free to speak our minds and offer our opinions on a public forum .. There still remains a need for some control. .. Because, as we all know .. There's nobody stupider than people.

    Some like to take their opinions or their mindset to the limits .. When conversations become demographically, religiously, ethnically, culturally (etc etc) abusive, you will have a big problem. I'm sure you can see why.

    Rules are necessarily put in place to keep the peace (so to speak) so we can all play nice nice in this sand box. Mind you some rule enforcement can also become over the top. I still have no idea what all the hubblub is about on this forum today. I totally missed it! Who crapped in who's cornflakes?
  • godblessourhome
    godblessourhome Posts: 3,892 Member
    Well having a flag as an avatar in my opinion isn't in breach of the forum rules. It is not discussing politics, it only identifies what country you are from.

    As for speaking your mind, sadly the "report post" button makes it all too easy for anyone that disagrees with your opinion to go "running to tell teacher". So don't be surprised if somebody does take offence at your post.

    :flowerforyou:

    just because someone reports a post or thread doesn't mean it gets deleted. it only gets deleted it if breaks a forum rule.
  • Grokette
    Grokette Posts: 3,330 Member
    I was told that we don't have freedom of speech on a privately owned website..................
  • lets hope you dont get in trouble.

    I believe in everyones right to free speech. I dont have to agree with it nor do you have to agree with me. But I will fight tooth and nail for someone to have their right just as I would for my own.

    Thats all folks!
  • what are we teaching our children when we stifle others and shove our own ideas down there throats? to be a bunch of followers and robots instead of individuals?? great way to turn this country into something its not, or wasnt suppose to be! makes me ashamed of people...........i hope my choldren dont have those rights takin away when we have so many soldiers who have lost their lives for our freedom........jus sayin, did we all forget what happened 10 years ago on 9/11 /2001?????????????
  • what are we teaching our children when we stifle others and shove our own ideas down there throats? to be a bunch of followers and robots instead of individuals?? great way to turn this country into something its not, or wasnt suppose to be! makes me ashamed of people...........i hope my choldren dont have those rights takin away when we have so many soldiers who have lost their lives for our freedom........jus sayin, did we all forget what happened 10 years ago on 9/11 /2001?????????????

    This
  • I was told that we don't have freedom of speech on a privately owned website..................

    i agree we should have a few rules but we as adults should be able to not bash others for their opinions....
  • Grokette
    Grokette Posts: 3,330 Member
    what are we teaching our children when we stifle others and shove our own ideas down there throats? to be a bunch of followers and robots instead of individuals?? great way to turn this country into something its not, or wasnt suppose to be! makes me ashamed of people...........i hope my choldren dont have those rights takin away when we have so many soldiers who have lost their lives for our freedom........jus sayin, did we all forget what happened 10 years ago on 9/11 /2001?????????????

    OUr kids are being taught to be over sensitive whiners in the world..............

    A lot of schools have implemented no touch recess and such and kids get suspended if they touch - which means they can't even play games like tag at recess..............

    The United States sucks and is way off track. We are all becoming a bunch of wimps.
  • Grokette
    Grokette Posts: 3,330 Member
    I was told that we don't have freedom of speech on a privately owned website..................

    i agree we should have a few rules but we as adults should be able to not bash others for their opinions....

    I agree about a few rules, but the one time I got suspended and questioned why my freedom of speech was violated - I was told I didn't have the right to free speech because this is a private website............

    I believe we should all be able to speak our mind and how we feel about something as long as it stays respectful.
  • I was told that we don't have freedom of speech on a privately owned website..................

    i agree we should have a few rules but we as adults should be able to not bash others for their opinions....

    I agree about a few rules, but the one time I got suspended and questioned why my freedom of speech was violated - I was told I didn't have the right to free speech because this is a private website............

    I believe we should all be able to speak our mind and how we feel about something as long as it stays respectful.

    i totally agree.....we need to be respectful but be able to be individuals
  • I was told that we don't have freedom of speech on a privately owned website..................

    i agree we should have a few rules but we as adults should be able to not bash others for their opinions....

    I agree about a few rules, but the one time I got suspended and questioned why my freedom of speech was violated - I was told I didn't have the right to free speech because this is a private website............

    I believe we should all be able to speak our mind and how we feel about something as long as it stays respectful.

    Pfffttt! A private website??? Private would suggest that you would have to apply for membership, and maybe even pay to become a member .. NEITHER is required. THIS is a public forum as much as any public forum.

    Private ... Pffffttt!
  • I was told that we don't have freedom of speech on a privately owned website..................

    i agree we should have a few rules but we as adults should be able to not bash others for their opinions....

    I agree about a few rules, but the one time I got suspended and questioned why my freedom of speech was violated - I was told I didn't have the right to free speech because this is a private website............

    I believe we should all be able to speak our mind and how we feel about something as long as it stays respectful.

    Pfffttt! A private website??? Private would suggest that you would have to apply for membership, and maybe even pay to become a member .. NEITHER is required. THIS is a public forum as much as any public forum.

    Private ... Pffffttt!

    i agree one person stared this, but i think it becomes public when you let others on the site
  • what are we teaching our children when we stifle others and shove our own ideas down there throats? to be a bunch of followers and robots instead of individuals?? great way to turn this country into something its not, or wasnt suppose to be! makes me ashamed of people...........i hope my choldren dont have those rights takin away when we have so many soldiers who have lost their lives for our freedom........jus sayin, did we all forget what happened 10 years ago on 9/11 /2001?????????????

    Sure that might apply is "some" aspect of free speech .. NOT all. Don't confuse 'rights' with privilledges. You have the right to free speech but you do not have the 'right' to be abusive or slanderous.
  • I was told that we don't have freedom of speech on a privately owned website..................

    i agree we should have a few rules but we as adults should be able to not bash others for their opinions....

    I agree about a few rules, but the one time I got suspended and questioned why my freedom of speech was violated - I was told I didn't have the right to free speech because this is a private website............

    I believe we should all be able to speak our mind and how we feel about something as long as it stays respectful.

    Pfffttt! A private website??? Private would suggest that you would have to apply for membership, and maybe even pay to become a member .. NEITHER is required. THIS is a public forum as much as any public forum.

    Private ... Pffffttt!

    i agree one person stared this, but i think it becomes public when you let others on the site

    Exactly .. ANYONE can join. .. ANYONE being a member of the open public.
  • what are we teaching our children when we stifle others and shove our own ideas down there throats? to be a bunch of followers and robots instead of individuals?? great way to turn this country into something its not, or wasnt suppose to be! makes me ashamed of people...........i hope my choldren dont have those rights takin away when we have so many soldiers who have lost their lives for our freedom........jus sayin, did we all forget what happened 10 years ago on 9/11 /2001?????????????

    Sure that might apply is "some" aspect of free speech .. NOT all. Don't confuse 'rights' with privilledges. You have the right to free speech but you do not have the 'right' to be abusive or slanderous.

    and i agreed with this..... respect is important to have and to teach younger generations
  • The problem is it is driving the knowledgeable people away...which is their main source of traffic.
  • audram420
    audram420 Posts: 838 Member
    The problem is it is driving the knowledgeable people away...which is their main source of traffic.

    Ding ding ding...correct answer. :indifferent:
  • The problem is it is driving the knowledgeable people away...which is their main source of traffic.

    Ding ding ding...correct answer. :indifferent:

    yes it is...or will get us deleted on a MODS accord....

  • this is perfectly said..........thank you T!!!!!!!!!!!
  • The problem is it is driving the knowledgeable people away...which is their main source of traffic.

    Ding ding ding...correct answer. :indifferent:

    yes it is...or will get us deleted on a MODS accord....

    Nah they won't delete us, if they do we would simply all join their competitors. I'm pretty much new here and enjoy the social side of things and sharing the knowledge, if they don't want it I would simply go elsewhere.
  • BigDaddyBRC
    BigDaddyBRC Posts: 2,395 Member
    It's Not an Adult site. Sadly, proof that you are misinformed. This is a FITNESS site. and yes, it has an open forum area. For those that are having serious issues with this, I think you may need to check yourselves.

    That being said, the perception of everyone's morality is at hand. And in a time in which decency and respect has lost all value, mabe "WE" as a community need to grow some skin, and recognize that there is a bigger issue than the immediate butt sore you feel because you are on a site that has the ability to SHUT YOU OUT. Dont' like it? go make a 1st ammendment site and enjoy.
  • LauraMacNCheese
    LauraMacNCheese Posts: 7,173 Member
    It's Not an Adult site. Sadly, proof that you are misinformed. This is a FITNESS site. and yes, it has an open forum area. For those that are having serious issues with this, I think you may need to check yourselves.

    That being said, the perception of everyone's morality is at hand. And in a time in which decency and respect has lost all value, mabe "WE" as a community need to grow some skin, and recognize that there is a bigger issue than the immediate butt sore you feel because you are on a site that has the ability to SHUT YOU OUT. Dont' like it? go make a 1st ammendment site and enjoy.

    *kitten* stirrer :tongue:
  • Thomasm198
    Thomasm198 Posts: 3,189 Member
    It's Not an Adult site. Sadly, proof that you are misinformed. This is a FITNESS site. and yes, it has an open forum area. For those that are having serious issues with this, I think you may need to check yourselves.

    That being said, the perception of everyone's morality is at hand. And in a time in which decency and respect has lost all value, mabe "WE" as a community need to grow some skin, and recognize that there is a bigger issue than the immediate butt sore you feel because you are on a site that has the ability to SHUT YOU OUT. Dont' like it? go make a 1st ammendment site and enjoy.

    Actually, technically it is an adult site.
    4. ELIGIBILITY

    BY USING THE WEBSITE OR SERVICES, YOU REPRESENT AND WARRANT THAT YOU ARE AT LEAST 18 YEARS OLD AND ARE OTHERWISE LEGALLY QUALIFIED TO ENTER INTO AND FORM CONTRACTS UNDER APPLICABLE LAW. This Agreement is void where prohibited.

    If the site requires that members are over 18, then by definition that would make it a site for adults.
  • It's Not an Adult site. Sadly, proof that you are misinformed. This is a FITNESS site. and yes, it has an open forum area. For those that are having serious issues with this, I think you may need to check yourselves.

    That being said, the perception of everyone's morality is at hand. And in a time in which decency and respect has lost all value, mabe "WE" as a community need to grow some skin, and recognize that there is a bigger issue than the immediate butt sore you feel because you are on a site that has the ability to SHUT YOU OUT. Dont' like it? go make a 1st ammendment site and enjoy.



    this is what i mean about being respectful...i never insulted anyone, im just asking that we be adults and be able to be respectful and not bash one another......and id say you might want to check your status as an adult if you think we shouldnt be able to express ourselves
  • what are we teaching our children when we stifle others and shove our own ideas down there throats? to be a bunch of followers and robots instead of individuals?? great way to turn this country into something its not, or wasnt suppose to be! makes me ashamed of people...........i hope my choldren dont have those rights takin away when we have so many soldiers who have lost their lives for our freedom........jus sayin, did we all forget what happened 10 years ago on 9/11 /2001?????????????

    OUr kids are being taught to be over sensitive whiners in the world..............

    A lot of schools have implemented no touch recess and such and kids get suspended if they touch - which means they can't even play games like tag at recess..............

    The United States sucks and is way off track. We are all becoming a bunch of wimps.
    Bless the military for protecting your right to sit in the comfort of your home and say that your own country sucks. Your statement sucks.
  • It's Not an Adult site. Sadly, proof that you are misinformed. This is a FITNESS site. and yes, it has an open forum area. For those that are having serious issues with this, I think you may need to check yourselves.

    That being said, the perception of everyone's morality is at hand. And in a time in which decency and respect has lost all value, mabe "WE" as a community need to grow some skin, and recognize that there is a bigger issue than the immediate butt sore you feel because you are on a site that has the ability to SHUT YOU OUT. Dont' like it? go make a 1st ammendment site and enjoy.

    We are not talking about that kind of adult site...you misread :laugh:

    We are talking about being locked down and modded for having a sense of humor and for example I had a viable question about sexual health this morning that got locked and deleted yet the information is vital to our well being and should be treated as information and not sexual content.
  • IMYarnCraz33
    IMYarnCraz33 Posts: 1,016 Member
    It's Not an Adult site. Sadly, proof that you are misinformed. This is a FITNESS site. and yes, it has an open forum area. For those that are having serious issues with this, I think you may need to check yourselves.

    That being said, the perception of everyone's morality is at hand. And in a time in which decency and respect has lost all value, mabe "WE" as a community need to grow some skin, and recognize that there is a bigger issue than the immediate butt sore you feel because you are on a site that has the ability to SHUT YOU OUT. Dont' like it? go make a 1st ammendment site and enjoy.


    Actually this IS an adult site.
    The TOU (Terms of Use) say you MUST be at least 18 to use MFP.
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