Bride-to-be in crises!

congrats on the wedding! I'd up the time you're exercising, cardio won't make you "gain" muscle, cardio is the best/only way to slim down. muscle helps you burn fat all day, even when working out, so I'm not sure all the gains are muscle, but if you watch your calories, drink your water, and get your heart pumping you will see a difference. If you don't have a scale, maybe you can grab a tape measure and track your progress that way? beats pulling out the dress every five days to try it on good luck..........

November is right around the corner. If you stick to your goals you will lose. Congratulations and good luck.:flowerforyou:

When I started exercising, I didn't see any change in the scale and I barely saw any change in my body. I definitely gained muscle before I dropped the fat.

I'll tell you that what really turned it around for me was using a personal trainer at my gym. It was a little costly, but I only really saw her for about 3-4 months about 1-2 days a week. I did 30 minute sessions. I still did my cardio and some boxing classes, but I tell you, I started seeing inches come off. That's what you will need. You want to keep the muscle, because it will help you burn the fat, but you want to lose inches so you can fit into your dress.

I recommend, if you can afford it comfortably, to see if there is a personal trainer at the Curves or a nearby gym that can see you 1-2 times a week for the next month. Not only will they push you harder than you can push yourself, but even after you stop seeing them, you can still do the exercises and keep yourself looking good. I still use some of the moves I learned with my trainer and I haven't seen her since last year. I even dropped my gym and started working out at home.

Good luck!!

I would definitely increase your cardio minutes/day and really get strict about logging what you eat so you can see how much fat/carbs/sugar etc. you're taking in. Congrats and good luck!

For me, building muscle is the only way TO burn fat. Each pound of muscle, at rest, burns more calories than a pound of fat. Plus you get the benefits of muscle repair also costing your body calories to engage in. Also for me, when eating at a deficit (I eat 1300) and doing cardio every day 30-60 mins (pretty intensly) and strength training three times a week, thats when I start to see the scale move down, even though I am building muscle. I agree with the other posters, it is time for you to make some tough choices, cutting down on sugars and processed foods and upping the protein, veggies and whole grains is key. You have time, and you are motivated, so I know you will get to your goal! I would just urger you to not be so worried about building muscle. As women, its pretty darn hard, especially while eating a deficit to "bulk up"

I would have to say just look at your food diary and see if you are making the right choices and cut back. Keep up the cardio. Weight training won't make you fat, it helps you lose inches. If you can't fit the dress, make the dress fit you, have them let it out if you don't get to your goal size by November. You don't need the additional stress of worrying about getting into it. Just like your marriage, your health and fitness is a lifelong process. Don't try any fad diets or weight loss pills or gimmicks. I wish you the best on your journey.

I think you are doing the right thing with the cardio I would definately cut back on doing heavy weights or anything of the like but do not cut out your strength training. (very) Light weights and many repetitions will not cause you to put on mass amounts of muscle but will help to burn fat especially in problem areas.

what I've "learned" from body-builders, {the one's I have asked on myfitnesspal} they say that you-cannot gain any serious amount of muscle eating with a calories deficit, and even if you were not eating on a calorie deficit then you said you eat quite a bit. I am not sure if that is mainly junk food, but you probably gained fat, not just muscle, but I'm sure you do feel stronger because of the strength training. long story short, change what you know is wrong. I'd say work on drinking even more water {even though you drink 8, but just a little more}. weigh yourself on someone else's scale if you want to know your weight, having your own scale will make you crazy, lol. eat your fruits/veggies/get enough sleep. maybe take a vitamin, which is all good for overall health.

exercise wise, I'd say to stop doing the heavy strength for a little bit, and get a dvd like ripped in 30days. It's one of the more intense Jillian Michael's dvd's you can get. and IDK what size weights you have, but the thing I like about her is that you don't have to have wimpy 3 pound weights, use 10, 15, 20 even if that's what you can handle and you will still be getting the mix of cardio and strength all in one workout.

But really, diet is so key just get that on track you should be good. remember it's better to eat 1500 calories of the "healthy" stuff than 1500 of snicker bars {that was one interesting test-study/diet though, lol} google if I just confused you.

Good luck, and if all else fails, just get your dress re-sized. Your fiance will love you either way, and hopefully all the people you invited to this special day won't care.