First NSV? :-S

I just went to the supermarket and bumped into a guy I know, former national rugby player, still ridiculously good looking, body to die for, you know the type. He has not seen me in a long time, and not since I started losing my weight. He looked at me, looked away, looked again, then eventually came over and said "wow, you are looking like your old self again" - now, 10 years ago I used to train with the rugby guys and he used to hit on me all the time but back then I was busy dating a tennis player (haha!). Anyway; I took his comment as a huge compliment! Feeling good, pep in my step I headed to the car and to hear a voice saying, wow now you are a gorgeous woman, sexy too bad!! I reluctanctly turned around there there was a vagrant, toothless, grinning, looking quite pleased with well me... is it wrong that I would rather NOT have that compliment come my way (shudder)? Ahhhh life in the tropics!!