What is a set weight?

ToffeeApple71
ToffeeApple71 Posts: 121 Member
edited January 2022 in Health and Weight Loss
Had a check up recently with my surgeon...My illness was not weight related, but in the three years since I've been seeing him, I've lost 60kg. He chats to me about my weight loss as part of my checkup.
When I mentioned that I hadn't lost anything for some time, about three months, he said "Oh, your body has found its new set weight. You probably won't lose any more weight."
Given that my target is still about 8kg less than what I weigh now, I found this disappointing.
Is there such a thing as a "set weight"? He drew a diagram to illustrate his point and sounded like he knew what he was talking about. But as a cancer specialist not a weight loss specialist, I wonder if he was actually knowledgeable about this.

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  • Lietchi
    Lietchi Posts: 6,826 Member
    Personally, I don't believe 'set weights' or 'set points' as some biological thing that will make our weight set in stone, no matter what we do.

    There might be a 'happy equilibrium' of habits though, both food and activity related, where we're comfortable and find it easy/easier to maintain.

    As for your own weight loss stall, there could be several reasons:
    - either you are simply eating at your weight maintenance level: this could be because you simply need to adjust your calorie intake to your lighter bodyweight, because of food logging inaccuracies,...
    - either there is some water weight retention going on, related to increased exercise, stress (for example by not eating enough)...
    Without knowing more (your stats, activity level, calorie intake...) it's hard to tell.

    Congrats on your weight loss, by the way: 60kg is impressive!
  • Walkywalkerson
    Walkywalkerson Posts: 456 Member
    I believe that our body chemistry wants us to be at a certain weight and it is a fight to go below that but not impossible.
    I think that keeping weight off means fighting your body’s energy-regulation system and battling hunger all day, every day, for the rest of your life.
    😳
    It sounds dramatic but if I am not vigilant every day then I will over eat.
    I haven't mastered feeling satiated on a deficit.
    But then I have always battled with my weight and probably find it harder than people who do not have issues with food.
    I have lost 50+ lbs over the last year I'm still 20+ lbs overweight and my body just isn't having it - I feel stuck.
    Or rather I feel that I can no longer be in a deficit!
    It's difficult.
  • ToffeeApple71
    ToffeeApple71 Posts: 121 Member
    There are a few articles about it, but it seems to just be a theory? Most of what I've read isn't particularly scientific, and just says it's true for mice but not sure about humans.
    It's got me intrigued though
  • SuzySunshine99
    SuzySunshine99 Posts: 2,989 Member
    It is just a theory.

    My take on it is that it is not a physical/biological "set point", but rather a psychological one.
    I think that there is a certain weight for everyone where you feel most comfortable maintaining. You're eating enough and in a way that keeps you satisfied, so you just kind of level off there for the sake of your own happiness.

    In my case, I never had a goal weight when I was losing weight. I just lost until I started maintaining with minimal effort. Luckily, that landed me within a healthy weight range. I could definitely stand to lose a few more pounds. For vanity sake, I'd love to look slimmer and lose the little squishy bits. But, the effort it would take for me to maintain that lower weight is not really sustainable for me.

    So, for me, it's kind of a chosen set point. I COULD lose more, but it wouldn't be comfortable for me.
  • I2k4
    I2k4 Posts: 188 Member
    edited December 2021
    No mention of either diet or exercise, and changes to those, since the surgery or currently. Something must account for the gradual weight loss, but if that post-op regimen has been stable, it's likely the body eventually adapted and stabilized its metabolic processes. If so the doctor has it right. But we're not all living like lab rats in a static and controlled environment.

    Generally calorie reduction by way of simple dieting at a given activity level will initially lose "weight" (euphemism for combined body fat and muscle tissue), full stop. Cardio / endurance exercise initially "burns" hundreds of calories, but over time adaptively lowers the metabolic rate and economizes on muscle use, requiring fewer calories. (Distance runners famously have those slow heart rates.) Meanwhile resistance / strength training doesn't "burn" so much during workouts, but increasing muscle mass over time is metabolically taxing and the body's adaptation is to require more food just to maintain it.
  • ToffeeApple71
    ToffeeApple71 Posts: 121 Member
    @I2k4
    "No mention of either diet or exercise, and changes to those, since the surgery or currently. Something must account for the gradual weight loss, "

    It was intentional. I log religiously. I run. I walk. I strength train. I bike. I stopped eating so much meat and dairy (my body didn't tolerate it well after the surgery). My deficit should have me losing half a kilo a week. I'm not worried about the stall, just a bit disappointed.

    I was just interested in this set point theory. I'd never heard it mentioned. Given the number of articles I found when I googled it, I don't know how I didn't hear about it ages ago!

  • ToffeeApple71
    ToffeeApple71 Posts: 121 Member
    @AnnPT77 wow! Thanks for the response.

    My deficit is my own calculations going off data from the last 18 months or so. Initially I worked with the given calories from MyNetDiary. ( Same as MFP but I preferred the interface). Now I use my own data, which gives me fewer calories than MND and MFP but I think my body has changed significantly over this period.

    My exercise changes regularly, depending on whether I'm teaching, on holiday, training for something, or if my arthritis is flaring up. I eat back some of my exercise calories but not all...just to allow for errors in any logging or calculations. I also do a wide variety of exercise, as I get bored easily and have some issues with reactive arthritis in my back and knee. I guess the biggest change in 3 months has been the addition of biking to work. Only 15-20 mins each way so not hugely significant.
    All of these will cause my weight to fluctuate, but I did expect a small downward trend which isn't happening.

    I'm actually ok with that! I know I'm healthier now than I've been for ages. The cancer has not returned. I'm happy, feel fit and have so much more energy. I'm also saggy in weird places, and I think I look older! But totally ok with myself.

    My current weight is what is was when I married... nearly 30 years ago. I don't ever remember being lighter than this as an adult.

    Yes...my carbs have increased due to eating less meat and dairy. I eat lots of legumes and soy-based products. Some chicken too, as I seem to tolerate this best in terms of animal products. Looking back at my data, my fat intake is slightly lower.

    I think my biggest change has been making myself finish eating when I'm sated. I was brought up to clean my plate...."no dessert until you've finished your main"...and being able to "waste" food was a major mind block for me. Now, I serve myself less and don't beat myself up if I leave food. Funny how such a small thing has had a major impact.

    I had two diet breaks. One for one month when I ate at maintenance and another for two weeks when I was away overseas and estimated my intake due to travelling around. I'm pretty sure I ate at or slightly above maintenance as I came home 500g heavier (negligible...and could have been water weight from flying).

  • threewins
    threewins Posts: 1,455 Member
    >Is there such a thing as a "set weight"?

    In some people at certain times, yes. Back in the day there was me. I had never dieted. I didn't even know what my weight was (even though we had a scale). My weight was totally stable, because my clothes never got tighter or looser, and I always used the same notch on my belt. That weight, whatever it was, was my 'set weight' (also known as set point).

    As far as I can work out, this is the equilibrium of my environment (an absence of high sugar food at home), my hormones controlling appetite, the lack of tiredness (which typically causes weight gain), the lack of stress (same). It lasted until the age of about 25, when I started to gain about 1 kilogram a year.
  • mtaratoot
    mtaratoot Posts: 14,241 Member
    If body weight had a set point, how would you gain weight and become overweight?
  • watts6151
    watts6151 Posts: 905 Member
    mtaratoot wrote: »
    If body weight had a set point, how would you gain weight and become overweight?

    Tbh honest I’ve always wondered how people gain so much weight, I’ve struggled this off season gaining weight, once I reach a certain weight my appetite decreases, I’m out of breath doing things that at 20lbs lighter are simple, I’m lethargic, BP
    And HR are significantly elevated.

    My training partner just hit 250lb and he’s hated the last 10 lb, he cannot wait to get back down to more sustainable weight for him
  • Speakeasy76
    Speakeasy76 Posts: 961 Member
    Just from my own personal experience, I don't think there are set points that we can't move past no matter what we do, but maybe weights or ranges where we feel most comfortable. I used to think my set point was around the low 150's as a 5'8 female, as I've never really been thin in my life without work ( and a borderline eating disorder that would classified as anorexia today). Then, I decided to see if I could get below that to my "ultimate" goal of 143. I was able to do that with slow, steady weight loss of about .5 pounds per week. Then, after about 7 months, I lost nearly 12 pounds rather quickly when I started an elimination diet, even though my caloric intake difference wouldn't have accounted for that amount of weight loss/rate alone. I have kept off all but 2 pounds of that, eating normally but continuing to track and not ever feeling excessively hungry or deprived. It's just the less junk I eat, the less I crave it.

    Having said all that, ahd I tried ot lose all that amount of weight at one time may have been very difficult, if not seeming "impossible." I think because I did that in phases and ate at maintenance or slightly below/even above at times which were essentially long diet breaks it made it a lot easier to get past "set points."
  • Walkywalkerson
    Walkywalkerson Posts: 456 Member
    I believe that our body chemistry wants us to be at a certain weight and it is a fight to go below that but not impossible.
    I think that keeping weight off means fighting your body’s energy-regulation system and battling hunger all day, every day, for the rest of your life.
    😳
    It sounds dramatic but if I am not vigilant every day then I will over eat.
    I haven't mastered feeling satiated on a deficit.
    But then I have always battled with my weight and probably find it harder than people who do not have issues with food.
    I have lost 50+ lbs over the last year I'm still 20+ lbs overweight and my body just isn't having it - I feel stuck.
    Or rather I feel that I can no longer be in a deficit!
    It's difficult.

    This belief will keep you stuck.
    FWIW, those last 20 pounds were pretty hard for me, too. The whole first year post-80 lbs-weight-loss was tough.
    BUT! ...and it's a huge but...after that my body and hormones settled and now I'm 13 years post weight loss and it's not hard. At all.
    Stick with it.
    There is some endocrine disruption during and after weight loss.

    Yes I am stuck.
    I totally lost the plot with food / alcohol over Christmas and got back to my routine only yesterday 🙄
    I had a solid 2 weeks of over eating.
    The binges / hormones are keeping me 20 lbs overweight.
    It's a constant battle.
    I hope what you say is true that hormones settle - because mine seem to want me to be overweight.
  • kshama2001
    kshama2001 Posts: 28,052 Member
    I've struggled with a personal "appetite" or "food intake" set point - I like to eat roughly the same amount of food despite my activity level. This works when I have an active lifestyle/job and obviously not so much when I'm sedentary.

    When simply ramping up activity isn't an option, I've found it helpful to tweak macros and increase fiber. For example, eating less fat, getting more carbs from higher fiber foods, eating less food made from wheat, and eating more rice & beans helps me feel satisfied despite being in a calorie deficit.
  • springlering62
    springlering62 Posts: 8,437 Member
    I have always battled with my weight and probably find it harder than people who do not have issues with food.

    Does anyone else find this as staggeringly ironic as I do?

    Kudos on your loss, and may you find the key and perseverance to successfully continue losing, but would people who don’t have issues with food have issues with weight? Kinda mutually exclusionary.

    (Outside of outliers like medically or pharmaceutically induced gain.)
  • paperpudding
    paperpudding Posts: 9,281 Member
    Well, No

    I dont think I have issues with food, I just, over time, ate more of it and dropped my activity level - gradually became over weight - the scenario commonly known as middle age spread
  • AnnPT77
    AnnPT77 Posts: 34,203 Member
    I have always battled with my weight and probably find it harder than people who do not have issues with food.

    Does anyone else find this as staggeringly ironic as I do?

    Kudos on your loss, and may you find the key and perseverance to successfully continue losing, but would people who don’t have issues with food have issues with weight? Kinda mutually exclusionary.

    (Outside of outliers like medically or pharmaceutically induced gain.)

    Oh, sort of, I guess.

    Lots of people have major issues with food, I know. Me, my main issue was that food is tasty, and I like pleasure. I also dislike unpleasantness, so I get that overcoming cravings and avoiding perceived hunger are useful things to accomplish.

    The sneaky thing about excess body weight was that it feels quite bad in reality, but that feeling comes on so gradually that it was astonishingly difficult to notice it, until I lost weight and felt So. Much. Better.

    However, I understand and respect that others may have some complex psychological issues regarding food, body image, eating, or activity that complicate any weight loss effort.

    I have to admit, the "weight loss as battle" analogy is deeply unappealing to me, as someone who dislikes and avoids drama. Even the more challenging aspects of weight loss seem more like opportunities for experimentation and wily problem-solving, not "battles". I know that's not universally true, though.