eating disorders anyone?

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ThinspiredButterfly
ThinspiredButterfly Posts: 176 Member
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im new [attended 4 days ago] here & i kinda feel funny if im the only 1 here who has one..obv. im here 2 get better & lose it the healthy way [still kinda iffy about that part, but hope it changes if im motivated].
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  • SophRW
    SophRW Posts: 93 Member
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    I've had one, still recovering mentally... it's a process to get out of it, but it is possible :)
  • Jemmuno
    Jemmuno Posts: 413 Member
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    I don't have one but I've seen a lot of people on here who have admitted to having so you are definitely not the only one and the fact that you can admit that you have an eating disorder is a huge step in the right direction! Good luck with your healthy weight loss journey it is definitely worth it!
  • Paulette56
    Paulette56 Posts: 66 Member
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    Peeked at your profile---Value yourself enough to eat a healthy diet and to lose weight FOR YOU if thats what you want. If your fiance is so shallow that he would rather have you sick and thin than healthy and a little heavier, then ditch the dude!!!

    Take care of you. Best wishes.
  • nikki91950
    nikki91950 Posts: 647
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    here's a little tough love for you- if you honestly believe in any of that CRAP you put on your profile, then being here is going to be completely pointless.
  • rockylucas
    rockylucas Posts: 343 Member
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    Yeah based on your profile, I would recommend that perhaps you supplement the support you get on here with professional eating disorder counseling. If that stuff is not meant to be funny and is real, you need it.
  • dia77
    dia77 Posts: 410 Member
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    I don't think it is completly pointles. You are here for help and you will find enough people to help you .But I think you should do everything you do , for yourself, not for your boyfriend. Ten years from now, if you are not thin anymore , he is not going to love you?
    Hang in here , kiddo , you worth it:)
  • jellybaby84
    jellybaby84 Posts: 583 Member
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    Nah, there's loads of us here, don't worry.
  • mem50
    mem50 Posts: 1,384 Member
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    Yes. Both ones. I would go without eating for 2-3 days then do a major pig-out and.......we all know the end of That story.

    I was diagnosed many years ago. Thank God I had a excellent Doctor (family practice) who got me on the road to recovery.

    I was always told "It's your fate to be fat", Genetics blow big-time. Yes I am at a healthy weight now. I am in maintenance but will never be "off" the diet. It took a very long time for me to recover. I just have to remember to eat every few hours. I still have issues with eating and purging every once and a blue moon and it's been over 10 years since I stopped doing that part. The not eating does not happen any longer. Was diagnosed hypoglycemic 3 years ago and if I don't eat I tend to pass out because sugar is way to low. Not fun to go though the shakes. I avoid it at all costs.

    It will get better. It takes time, a good therapist, loving support from friends and family and a good balanced diet.

    Plus, if your man can not love you for you, get rid of him. Love is supposed to be unconditional.
  • juliesummers
    juliesummers Posts: 738 Member
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    I've been fighting them for years. Feel free to add me.
  • smashleymcgee
    smashleymcgee Posts: 135 Member
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    Yeah based on your profile, I would recommend that perhaps you supplement the support you get on here with professional eating disorder counseling. If that stuff is not meant to be funny and is real, you need it.

    I agree with this 100%.
  • dia77
    dia77 Posts: 410 Member
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    Peeked at your profile---Value yourself enough to eat a healthy diet and to lose weight FOR YOU if thats what you want. If your fiance is so shallow that he would rather have you sick and thin than healthy and a little heavier, then ditch the dude!!!

    Take care of you. Best wishes.
    yes! thank you:)
  • myheartinsf1
    myheartinsf1 Posts: 70
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    I hope the best for you! I think you really should find someone you can talk to and be honest with. Im sure if your bf dream girl wasn't a porn star she wouldnt be his favorite. .. He would like another one.There is alot of beautiful women in that industry but also alOt of smoke and mirrors, airbrushing and tons of surgeries to look like that..
    Sometimes people have celebrity crushes it doesn't mean that it's actually what they want.
    Get healthy even if it takes you the rest of your life.
    One step forward is better than going backward.
    Maybe ditch the bf and find one who likes the *star in you.
    Also if his porn watching is too much for you maybe talk to him and let him know it makes you uncomfortable.
    Take care kid and work on your life now instead of waiting.
    It's a long story but I waited until I was 26 to turn my life around and wish I had done it sooner.....
    :)Sorry if this is hard to read I'm on my iPhone lol
  • Chelij
    Chelij Posts: 49
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    I'm currently in remission.
  • frailwingsofwax
    frailwingsofwax Posts: 5
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    there are lots of ed kids on here, both recovering and, well, not. try to stay healthy, though. make the right friends and such.
  • CindiBryce
    CindiBryce Posts: 438
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    im new [attended 4 days ago] here & i kinda feel funny if im the only 1 here who has one..obv. im here 2 get better & lose it the healthy way [still kinda iffy about that part, but hope it changes if im motivated].
    Why don't you at least try to lose weight healthily, instead of hoping that somehow you'll change your mind?
  • cowlover22
    cowlover22 Posts: 309 Member
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    Yes as you can tell there are lots of us here. I read your profile and am concerned as others seem to be. Even though I might not always meet my exchanges for the day 300 cals is not my goal. Why not trying things in a healthy way. Because as you prob know that once you start eating again it will just come back on and then some. Plus it really messes up with your metabolism. I gueess I cant blame you for wanting to lose weight for another person because the only reason I went into treatment one time was because of my family.They were afraid that I would die so I went in, but because I didnt want it that time..it didnt work. Now I want it and sometimes it still doesnt work. Regaurdless hope maybe you can focus on getting healthy and forgetting about the numbers and looking like some porn star. If he is controlling you like that now..what will marriage be like..I am just saying. If you are looking for healthy support feel free to add me, but I wont encourage that 300 cal a day crap lol
  • Chelij
    Chelij Posts: 49
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    im new [attended 4 days ago] here & i kinda feel funny if im the only 1 here who has one..obv. im here 2 get better & lose it the healthy way [still kinda iffy about that part, but hope it changes if im motivated].
    Why don't you at least try to lose weight healthily, instead of hoping that somehow you'll change your mind?

    Do you or have you ever had an ED???? Seems like not, because if you did, you would know it isn't as simple as just deciding to lose weight healthily. You think people with EDs WANT to have it??
  • ThinspiredButterfly
    ThinspiredButterfly Posts: 176 Member
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    thanks so much for everything guys. im relieved im not the only one here. haha. & im hoping to get better only bcuz its hard to get better after some time.i wouldn't be here if i didnt want to over come my ED. & im pretty much doing it for myself [by getting better] and for my fiance.
  • cowlover22
    cowlover22 Posts: 309 Member
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    You know I think it is great that people can support one another here with regaurds to their ed's. And even people who dont have them and support us. But it just gets me so mad when people try to glorify this disease. I dont have to explain it to any of us here(since we have it or have had it). But when people think it is something to take lightly or even people who still have it and want to lose more because they are jealous of another person not eating for 14 days straight. Are they going to be jealous when that person ends up having a heart attack or something. Sorry for ranting so much but I just dont get it..and I dont think they do either. They might by the time I am done talking but...lol I commend each and everyone of us who is brave enough to take on their ed. Just remember that you are not alone.
  • Watch_Me_Shrink
    Watch_Me_Shrink Posts: 24 Member
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    Yes I am diagnosed EDNOS, and am not in recovery at the moment. I think we are friends now anyway, I added you today :)

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