Trying something new

HI my name is Vanessa i'm 22 years old and i weigh 350lbs. I have tired many different ways to lose weight but nothing has worked, i have almost always gained weigh or stayed the same. I have been over weight my whole life so i dont really know what its life to be "normal" or average weight. My goal weight is 185, however my goal by June 2012 is 250-275 -Thats how much i weighed when i graduated High school. I will need all the help i can get so please add me as a friend :happy: