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What do you think???

Abbzzz
Abbzzz Posts: 49
edited October 2024 in Chit-Chat
Nothing to do with weightloss...sorry but i want to know what people think about this situation.
Your partner ecieves a call from a friend of a friend about doing some work around her sisters house. Nothing unusual about that. This girl is very flirty and single and have had split second thoughts about your partner being attacted to her but not serious enough to bring it up. A few hours later you recieve a call from your partner saying his football team won and spoke about the game. A bit later your partner calls you and says he accidently sent the flirty girl a msg meant for you and then sent her a msg saying sorry that was meant for someone else. The msg was simply about football and could've easily passed as a msg for anyone. You don't think much of it until your partner says she was the most recently used number and that's how it was sent to her accidently???? But your number was the most recently used, then he says no it was one of the most recently used????
Many weird points: Why would your partner need to call you to tell you he sent the msg to this girl anyway? Her number was not the most recently used and you have since found out he had called someone else after calling you so her number was the 4th most recently used with yours at the top of the list and someone else 2nd. And then, being a female and knowing ways in which to get someones attention, sending a sms and then another saying the first was meant for someone else is the best way to get someones attention. Your partner is well known for flirting and has done it in front of you many times, so how do you interpret this????

Replies

  • If it looks like a duck and walks like a duck...
  • beachgrl79
    beachgrl79 Posts: 12 Member
    This site is for fitness...and sounds like suspicious behavior. Probably best to move on.
  • bjs06
    bjs06 Posts: 316 Member
    I find a womans intuition can be pretty strong sometimes. I also know we can get a little crazy by times as well. At the end of the day you need to go with your gut.
  • If it looks like a duck and walks like a duck...
    um....what she said
  • JAllen32
    JAllen32 Posts: 991 Member
    I'm not really sure I followed. So your boyfriend sent a msg to a girl, then called and told you he sent it. But that it was supposed to be sent to you? And how do you know whos numbers are where on his recently used list?

    Ok, I re-read it. It makes a little more sense now. Well, thats a tough one, from out point of view it seems like a mistake. No big deal, but if you are questioning it, you might have a feeling and there might be other things that we don't know about. You may be on to something. But at this point it seems like a simple little thing, maybe don't blow it out of proportion until you better reason too. Ya know what I mean? Unless you really feel like it could be something bigger. Well, gl with all that. Sorry.
  • azlady7
    azlady7 Posts: 471 Member
    if your suspicious then something is up. with either one or both of you. if your with someone you dont trust then you shouldnt be together. and it is my belief that womans intuition is usually right :)
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,147 Member
    Sounds like a trust issue. And if he is doing something wrong and it's verified, then move on or you'll LIVE THIS WAY the rest of your life.
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