First day!
AmieStafford2023
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Hi! It’s my first day. What do you wish you’d known?
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That I was not eating about 1400 calories each day and still gaining weight. Yeah, I gained the weight because I didn't eat an awful lot of food. But I ate a ton of snacks next to it.2
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That losing weight was going to be much easier than I'd imagined (during decades of overweight/obesity), as long as I made it a point to seek out sustainable, relatively happy (or at least tolerable/practical) tactics that I could turn into routine habits.
That I'd get improvements in a mysterious sense of well-being (maybe from reduced systemic stress?) in addition to more obvious benefits like normal blood pressure, less joint pain, normal cholesterol/triglycerides, etc.
That I didn't have a "slow metabolism" despite being older and severely hypothyroid. I had a problem with portion sizes and too many calorie-dense treat foods.6 -
That it is perfectly normal for you weight to go down down down up up up down up down down up.
It's the line said most often in these forums, but it is so true. Weight loss is no linear. Just because you gained a kilo doesn't mean "it's stopped working". Just keep going. Keep doing it and it will come back down.4 -
The value of patience. I'm still learning it and reminding myself! If I'm prepared to be patient with losing weight, I'm less likely to make silly changes to my diet, exercise or lifestyle that just end up being unsustainable.4
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In the end for the loss to stick lifestyle changes are required. Making them all at once is a bad idea, small, consistent changes make a huge difference over time.
Set realistic goals! We're not all on "The Biggest Loser" and seeing double digit losses each week is not realistic. Most people doing it the "right" way will see 1-3lbs/wk. THIS IS NORMAL and what you SHOULD shoot for.
Don't eat back exercise calories unless you are just that hungry. (Calories eaten are typically undershot, and exercise is overshot so you could sabotage yourself quickly eating back all the calories) I have exercise calories turned off so they don't get auto added onto my daily goal.
Keep at it. Log accurately (we all have off days) Plan ahead if you know you've got an event or something you may overindulge in. (Holiday Dinners)
Portion Control and food choices: I find cutting out whole food groups/types is just a recipe for disaster as you will overeat them when you do finally break down. Focus instead on eating correct portions of those foods, or half portions (will be rough at first because lets be honest, serving sizes seem to be made for 4yr olds)
These are some of the things I've learned over the past decade or so struggling with my weight loss. Current iteration is going great, and I don't feel like its a chore or I'm missing out on anything. Good luck on your journey and feel free to add me as a friend.3 -
Try to pre- log all of your meals for the day in the morning when possible. That way if you are going over calories can adjust before it actually goes in your mouth! When eating out try to review the menu ahead of time so you can make a good choice rather than sitting at the table when everyone is ordering .3
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Pre-plan meals and then review nutrition to see where deficits are, the importance of water (even no sugar flavoured water)0
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That losing weight works better when you treat it more like washing the dishes than like redecorating the living room, more like getting the mail than like shopping for a prom dress. It's not a quick one and done, with beautiful results you'll celebrate wildly and then forget. It's more a lifetime chore, doesn't have to be hard, but lasts the rest of your life. It can be a very small part of your time and attention, but forget it and you'll suffer the consequences. The rewards are great, and continue the rest of your life. But the excitement you feel when you meet someone you haven't seen in a while, and they say "wow, look at you" only lasts a moment.2
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Another one: that exercise doesn't burn a ton of calories. I ran 4km today, and I got a tiny glass of milk out of it and three small chocolate easter eggs. It really was yummy, but it's not a lot.1
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First, you should not be looking at this time as a "phase" which you enter for a brief time, reach an objective, then go away from. Don't go on a "diet" as it's commonly used in media, as a short-term period of frenzied changes and activity which you will eventually stop when you reach your goal weight. Instead, go on a "diet" as the term is meant to defined: a plan of eating to sustain health. You are just entering a new stage in life; from childhood to adolescence to food-ignorant adult to the new, educated adult you are becoming. The changes you make now should be ones you can sustain for the rest of your life.
Second, human nature resists change. Habits and reflexes dominate much of what we do. You don't think about how you walk; you just walk. You haven't thought about how you ate; you just ate. Changing either of these habits takes time and effort...studies show it takes on average 3 months of consciously maintaining a new behavior for it to become ingrained enough for it to become a habit which you can continue without constantly thinking about it. So forgive yourself for slips as you adjust to your new routine; you are not a failure, not a bad person, you are simply on the road towards change. When you started walking as a young child you fell often; people never called you a failure or a bad person. They simply encouraged you to try again, and again, and again, as often as needed until it became a skill you'd mastered. Well, WE are the community who will encourage you to try again, and again, and again, as often as needed.
Third, change is far easier (for me at least) if broken down into small steps. I didn't go from drinking 2 liters of soda per day to 2 12-oz cans per week in a single step. I started by swapping a single glass for something else, once per day. Once that was habit, I made another small swap, and so on. Since we're in this for the long haul, if it takes 3 years to completely break an old habit, then it takes 3 years. That time will be (hopefully) dwarfed by the remaining years of your life.5 -
That deciplen is the most important key for success.1
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To look at the big picture. Time is going to pass, and pass quickly.
Would I rather “fall off the wagon” once, twice, even a dozen times and in six months have still reached some degree of success (whether it was some arbitrary goal or not) versus quitting in a week or two because I couldn’t do it, and whining about lack of results?
Time moves. It took me 55+ years to realize, so should I.2 -
AmieStafford2023 wrote: »Hi! It’s my first day. What do you wish you’d known?
I'm not sure there's anything in particular that I wished I'd known. I enjoy learning and the process of learning, which includes hiccups and mistakes...those can actually be some of the most enlightening and impactful occurrences in the process. Basically fail forward fast.
It's kind of like when I started wooden model ship building...when I was having a hard time just getting started on my first boat, an old timer to the hobby told me not to worry about making mistakes or worry about building the perfect boat..."just start building the boat...you're going to *kitten* up, learn from it and move on." My first boat is quite the piece of work (not in a good way) and I keep it on a pedestal in my room (not my wife's favorite piece of art) as a reminder of how to tackle my day to day and life in general.3
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