No flirting, need free work out Apps.
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Again, if you’re worried about being hit on don’t post a pic. If you want attention then do so and then say how you don’t want to be hit on….
The internet is a crazy place. Takes all kinds, keeps it interesting…..0 -
kelleyp1024 wrote: »Thank you to those that understand where I am coming from. I’m not going to address the negative comments. It’s not brain surgery- men can think and act dumb. I don’t post often mostly because of the responses that I did get here.
BUT ty to those who were kind and understanding.
I was looking for an app that has a program that says day 1 start with cardio, and strength training. But I’ll probably stick with peloton and my Apple Watch. Ty again for those that responded with good suggestions and understanding. And I have only been on here three months because I had to take a break after I had a heart attack. This is my second heart issues since I was 30. I had been using fitness pal for years, but unfortunately I have a lot of medical issues, but I’ve lost 38 pounds and plan on losing 50 more.
Have you looked online at heart charities in your country? For instance, in the UK there are free online videos for people who have heart disease and they might be a good place to start - here’s one vid https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=O5YX5xg8Seg
They won’t tell you what to do each day but they should be safe(r) for you given you have recently had a heart attack.1 -
tomcustombuilder wrote: »Again, if you’re worried about being hit on don’t post a pic. If you want attention then do so and then say how you don’t want to be hit on….
The internet is a crazy place. Takes all kinds, keeps it interesting…..
I thought hard about whether to reply to this, as I don’t want to get into a debate of this kind on social media. But by being silent I’m being complicit and I think it’s important I am an ally when I can be.
I don’t expect you to change your view or even reconsider your stance on this. But for others reading this - please understand that this perpetrates victim shaming. It is very close to “it’s women’s fault if they are groped when wearing revealing dresses as they should realise it will happen”: “don’t wear skirts on the tube if you don’t want to be upskirted”: “it’s your fault for being attacked if you were drunk in public”.
This is victim shaming. It shifts the blame from the person who was attacked or violated to the perpetrator (usually but not always a man). That’s saying it’s not the perpetrator’s fault for attacking someone, raping them or - in this case - sending me crotch pics.
I’m not getting into a debate here but I have worked with women who were sexually attacked. The shame and guilt put on them by society is so wrong and I can’t just let this pass without putting my personal opinion out there’s
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I use the Fitbod app personally. It's not free but there is a trial so you can see if it's for you. I know this doesn't exactly match what you're looking for but maybe you'll like the way it's structured in trying it out enough to look for a sale.
Fitbod can be used for cardio and strength training, and since you said you can't walk outside you can set the app to just give suggestions on exercises based on the equipment (or lack of equipment) you have available to you. It'll suggest just body weight stuff like pushups etc.
Hope that helps! (not flirting btw)2 -
I think people seem to be talking past each other.
Assaults are not acceptable. Period. "Flirting" can be inappropriate, and in my opinion this is not a place for flirting. I honestly don't understand why anyone would have any desire to flirt on an online forum where they'll never see the person. In my opinion likening flirting to assault does a disservice to those who are assaulted.
I am very sorry for anyone who has experienced inappropriate acts, whether that is assault or even unwanted flirting.
On the other side, to start out a thread like this is basically like going to a restaurant, having a waiter come up to the table and immediately saying to the waiter "please do not flirt with me, I just want to place my order." That's a bit of a strange way to start an interaction. And it is a subtle attack on that waiter.
I personally think LOL is the wrong response because there's a reason someone starts a thread like that, and it's because they were likely made uncomfortable in the past. We should try to practice empathy, and not be dismissive of people's concerns. By the way, this holds whether the action is inappropriate in the eyes of society or even if it's considered inappropriate solely in the eyes of the person the behavior is directed toward (I'm not saying the latter is the case here, just making the point).
I'm not going to comment on whether I think any of the responses are victim shaming since I think that's very much a matter of opinion and how it's delivered, which can be difficult to determine over text. But providing advice to people to avoid being subject to bad actors does not necessarily come from a place of bad intent. For example, if you go to a place that has a lot of theft or kidnapping you're well advised to not wear expensive clothing and jewelry. That does not mean the people giving advice think it's acceptable for others to steal from people who wear expensive jewelry.5 -
When talking free you normally get what you pay for. Be it fitness apps or forums. I belong to 2 paid fitness forums and never any mention of inappropriate activity.0
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