Struggle bus

If it were easy websites like this, fitness devices, fad diets.... essentially and entire industry would disappear for lack of need. We would just call it the "I didn't try and am super fit and a healthy weight" bus. It's called the struggle bus for a reason, because for many it is hard.

And just a tip, having seen your other post as well. Many don't read the introductions section as much as other sections. So if you are looking for friends and support, you will often find them easier in other sections that pertain to your goals... be that the fitness site, simply weight control, good nutrition, or any combination of the above.

If you find the right "fits" in people that can motivate each other without causing offense and such, all the better. That varies with each person, some like things kind and sugar coated, others would prefer the harsh truth at times.