WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR APRIL 2024
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“MFP Timeless Tale of Treachery and Treason in a Kingdom Far, Far Away”Part 1.
Our MFP Murder Mystery characters and players so far:Fairy Godmother [b/]- Rita (Still doting over the disappearance of her goddaughter, Felicity continues to hope that Cinderella will reappear and everyone will live happily ever after.)
Jinn ——————-Vicki (Jinn wants to get out of her lamp forever and become human. Perhaps her friendship to Rita is causing some mischief?)
Dwarf (Herbbette) ———Tracey (Like a sister to Sleeping Beauty, Allie’s dependence on Herbbette is endearing to some an annoying to others.)
Red’s Gran ———Barbara AHMOD (having escaped from the Wolf, Barbara is plotting something, but what or who will be affected?
Red ——————-Kylia (Red came to the Ball with her Gran. Unaware that she is plotting something. Red suspects something is wrong, but what?)
Rapunzel (Princess)————-Machka (Depserate to get out of her tower, this trapped temptress may have more than one offer on the table… the question is which one will she pick?)
Pixie ——————Rebecca (Pixie is flitting around the Ball everywhere. She is gathering information about each party guest to report back to??)
Nosey——————Michele (Nosey is walking from one group of guests to another. Not staying in any one place for very long. What’s this? She stops and writes notes in a notebook between each group. For what purpose??)
Sleeping Beauty——Allie (With hopes of moving out of the bed, this princess hopes to soon be known not as the daughter of an evil queen, but as the wife of prince that is charming.)
Cinderella ———-Lisa in AR (After being missing for a month, Cinderella shows up at the ball, dirty, tired, and ready to confront her kidnapper(s). She simply wants to rest first, but the Ball has disoriented her.)
Jasmoor———Heather (Heather thought that Jinn was her friend and would help her through anything. But now, she is questioning this friendship..)
Belle——Joy (Having tamed the ‘Beast’, Joy is happily going about her life. But no one knows her true motives…)
Grettel—- Linda (Wandering the woods and destroying the evil witch, Linda is becoming more confident and independent. But will that lead her to her goals?)
Griselda (Cinderella’s Stepsister)——Rusty (After years of animosity, Griselda has earned Cinderella’s trust and her place in the castle. Now that Cinderella is gone, will Griselda be next to disappear mysteriously?)
Prince Charming——Terri. (I (Prince Charming) am having second thoughts about looking for a new bride. Cinders is just to difficult to get out of my heart. I wish I knew where she has gone. I’m lying low for a bit 😝)
Aladdin————-Ginny
Hansel———-Lanette
“MFP Timeless Tale of Treachery and Treason in a Kingdom Far, Far Away”
“After the mysterious disappearance of Cinderella, Prince Charming is throwing a fancy dress ball to find a new bride. Some of the kingdom residents question how the prince could move on so quickly, while others are jumping at the chance to earn their spot as the new princess in the castle. No one has seen the Prince since Cinderella disappeared and the rumors are rampant!”
During the ball, as the dancing and rumors escalate, someone dies in the palace. Who died? Where? When? Why? How long was the victim dead? How did the victim die? What is happening?????
RVRita (Fairy Godmother) from the Kingdom of Roswell…….Part 2:
The Ball has begun and people are arriving in droves. The entire MFP Women’s 50 plus group have arrived. The band has begun with background quiet music to welcome the guests. The servers are wandering among the guests with low carb, low calorie snacks, water, flavored waters, wine and diet drinks.
Fairy Godmother stands at the entrance welcoming the guests. Look! Here comes Jinn, Dwarf, Red’s Gran, Red, Rapunzel, Pixie, and Nosey! No one has seen Prince Charming. When will he arrive? The party is for him to choose a new bride. The crowd talks about the missing Cinderella and what they feel the Prince is rushing the search for a new bride.
The night progresses with more questions as it is near Midnight now, but the Prince has not shown up for his own Ball. Questions are floating among the guests as the band plays on.
The guest gasps in shock as Sleeping Beauty has just shown up with Cinderella!!
Prince Charming = Terri. To Fairy Godmother “ (I am having second thoughts about looking for a new bride. Cinders is just too difficult to get out of my heart. I wish I knew where she has gone. I’m lying low for a bit…)
Fairy Godmother = RVRita To Prince Charming “ I will cover for you until Cinders is found. Please reconsider. Oh, my dear!!!! Cinders is at the door with Sleeping Beauty! I have to see what happened to her!!) {In her mind, she thinks ‘I need to do something more with her! My plan is not working!!}
Cinderella = Lisa in AR
Sleeping Beauty = Allie
Nosey==Michelle
Red’s Gran = Barbara AHMOD
Red === Kylia
Rapunzel == Machka
Pixie==Rebecca
Jasmoor= Heather
Aladdin == Ginny
Belle= Joy
Grettel == Linda
Hansel == Lanette
BabaYaga= KJ
Griselda== Rusty
Jinn = Vickie
Dwarf (Herbbette) = TraceyPART 3
Cinderella (AKA Lisa in AR) turns to Sleeping Beauty (AKA Allie) at the door, "Look, SleeBea, I REALLY am not up for this. Look at all these people dressed to the nines!" She gestures to her feet, which are in some seriously dirty white Crocs, with weeds and dirt scattering from the holes. "You know how the Prince feels about shoes, he can't see me in these..." and gesturing to the rest of her tattered, filthy ballgown, with a few shiny bits showing through the dirt here and there, "And I look like I've been rode hard and put away wet." Sleeping Beauty, who's hoping the Prince will finally see her at her best standing next to a bedraggled, less-than-spiffy Cinderella, drags her further into the ballroom. There they bump slap up against the Fairy Godmother, who had been greeting the rest of the guests, but looks completely shocked to see the two of them...
At the same time, Nosy and Pixie are working around the crowd gathering the gossip and any hints about where or when Prince Charming will appear, and what happened to Cinderella. Pixie is flying around and Nosy is walking around the talking groups. They plan on joining up and sharing what they found out to try to work out what is REALLY happening.
(Earlier, before the guests started to arrive), I don't know why Fairy God mother is so unaware that Aladdin swung by on his carpet to get is BF Prince C away for awhile so he could think things out. Aladdin thought introducing him so some of Jasmine's friend might help him realize the possibilities he has.
The Prince thinks: {I was quite pleased with Aladdin sweeping by with his carpet, and helping me to escape from the palace for a while. And then he goes and starts trying to pair me up with Jasmine’s friends. That’s a dead liberty! I’m perfectly capable of making up my own mind.}
Red is overwhelmed with all the people and conversations going on. She is curious as she notices all the note taking and flitting about. She is ready to jump to help Cinderella get presentable for the ball, but grandma is holding her back.
Meanwhile, Rapunzel is standing on the stage singing (because we all know she attracts her suitors with her lovely singing voice) and watching everything going on.
When she sees Cinderella and Sleeping Beauty come in, Rapunzel goes into a rousing rendition of "Do you believe in life after love?" Then Rapunzel slides into "I'm Gonna Wash That Man Right Outa My Hair" and then into a female version of Elvis Presley's - "I'm Moving On" with Grettel showing her stuff on the piano.
By the time Rapunzel breaks into "I Will Survive", Grettel begins to think something's up.
BabaYaga has shown up, much to Hansel and Grettel’s dismay. She has brought sweets to pass around to the guests. Nosy and Pixie are right there greeting her, then begin to follow her around.
Cinderella elbows Sleeping Beauty, and whispers, so the Godmother can't hear, "Are you listening to what Zel's singing? You think she's right? I need to just wash the Prince right out of my hair? I thought he was my destiny, but after this last business, when he didn't even show up to rescue me, I just don't know." Sleeping Beauty looks at her with wild speculation in her eyes. Could Drilly FINALLY be releasing her hooks from the Prince? Or was she just joshing her? Did Sleeping Beauty finally have a chance for her own one true love that didn't just go around waking people up for a living? Human alarm clocks were just sooo 1540s... and annoying.
In a corner of the ball room, we find the Jinn, BabaYaga, Red’s Gran, Herbbette, and Fairy Godmother with bent heads talking suspiciously.
Cinderella and Sleeping Beauty make their way through the crowd and up the back stairs to Cinderella’s room to get cleaned up. On their way up, they pass the kitchen to find all the servants bent over looking at……. A dead body!!! Cindy and Sleeping Beauty scream. The piano and singing play on…..
PART 4
Jinn is begining to think being in the bottle is the only safe place while others are missing, but who does she want to keep her company??
Gretel is sipping some wine when she notices BabaYaga walk in. She suggests to Hansel that since BabaYaga is here, this would be the perfect time to go to her house and eat it. They decide to sneak out the back so Fairy Godmother doesn’t see them. As they pass the kitchen, they notice Cindy, SB, and THE BODY!
Cindy and SB look down at what is very definitely a dead body, and Sleeping Beauty slaps her hands over eyes and starts screaming. So Cindy started screaming. Then she caught herself, and caught her friend by both shoulders. "Stop it, girl, stop screaming!" She gestured to the body in what looked like a pool of old red wine... "Screaming won't do them any good, now will it!" She turned, and saw Hansel and Gretel peeking at them, googly-eyed, "Go get the Godmother, you two! Someone's been murdered!" Sleeping Beauty, peeking between her fingers, said, "How do you know it's murder?" Cinderella opened her mouth, and as she began to speak, a voice interrupted...
Cindy and SB look down at what is very definitely a dead body, and Sleeping Beauty slaps her hands over eyes and starts screaming. So Cindy started screaming. Then she caught herself, and caught her friend by both shoulders. "Stop it, girl, stop screaming!" She gestured to the body in what looked like a pool of old red wine... "Screaming won't do them any good, now will it!" She turned, and saw Hansel and Gretel peeking at them, googly-eyed, "Go get the Godmother, you two! Someone's been murdered!" Sleeping Beauty, peeking between her fingers, said, "How do you know it's murder?" Cinderella opened her mouth, and as she began to speak, a voice interrupted...
At the screams, Jinn retreats to her bottle, Fairy Godmother, pops in by Cinderella, Red’s Gran and Herbette run into the kitchen to see what the fuss is about. BabaYaga takes her time walking to the kitchen to join the others. The rest of the guests begin to croud into the hallway to the kitchen.
In the kitchen, Sleeping Beauty drags Cindy out of the kitchen and pushes her up the stairs to her room to calm down and clean up. Aladdin has returned with the Prince to everyone’s surprise. They run to the kitchen just in time to spot Cindy and Beauty going up the stairs, but stay to help with the dead body. No one recognizes this body, and Aladdin discovers no visable reason for the person to be dead. Everyone is suspecting Jinn, but Jinn in is the bottle shaking in fear. Pixie and Nosey go to the kitchen with Pixie shinking and flitting around the body to see what she can find out. Nosey is roaming about the croud to see if there are any clues. The Prince makes everyone leave the scene and he covers the body until more can be discovered. The kitchen is now closed with the servents joining the guests in the Ballroom.
Fairy Godmother who is WHERE??????
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I'm hoping to spend some time this evening catching up with our mystery. It seems the last four weeks have caught up with me and I have no energy left.
I was hoping to spend the evening last night just watching my music competitions, having a bath and relaxing, but my friend came over for a visit. She is the one that sold her house and moved into a camper in February. She is moving the camper this coming week, she has been staying close to the area until she worked all of the kinks out with it. The next location she is going to will have no power, sewer or water, she wants to see how she does with that. It will still be close enough to civilization while she works it out. I am a little worried about her as she seems to be spending an awful lot of money, but not looking for work.
I am starting to feel a bit more comfortable in the school this week. Funny thing happened yesterday though. The schedule I was given has days labelled as Day 1-2-3-4-5, I have been following it as Day 1 is Monday, 2 is Tuesday, etc. Yesterday I showed up in one of the teacher's classes and she says aren't you with another teacher now? I said no, and showed her my schedule, that is when she explained the numbering system to me. I went to the other teacher who is my lead and she apologized for not explaining that to me. So today I am doing day 1 over again.
I have to contact the next school I'm going to today as well. I have the contract signed, I just need to set up my schedule.
I will know what age group I want to work with after this, although I am starting to enjoy the junior high kids.
Hope everyone has a great day.
Herbette, the dwarf
otherwise known as Tracey in Edmonton8 -
I am in the process of editing the inconsistencies in our story and will post that with each character’s actress in parenthesis so we can all keep the character’s straight. I know I need that so have made a list. How long do you all want this story to go? I put it in a Word Processor because it is now 13 pages long already. I don’t mind keeping it going but don’t want to bore anyone or run it too long if you all do not want to continue. I’m having fun so leaving it up to you. I know who the villain is so can work with whatever… Enjoy!!
Here is my latest hobby kit I finished. Up to 9 different hobbies so far. Way ahead of my goal!
RVRita in Mysterious Roswell, NM7 -
Today is: A good day to work on my Spanish (Duolingo). I’ve been neglecting it and with the busy season beginning, I will need it!!
RVRita del misterioso Roswell, NM3 -
Up early(hip hurting and had to get up and use the bathroom)so of course, if I get out of bed, that means all the cats think it is time to eat.
Making my second cup of tea while dh is in the bathroom. Need to get dressed.
We will stop at the store for his mom before going over there. I will walk the dog for a short walk before we bring him back to our house to give him a shower(first time doing this for us-regular groomer has been out on maternity leave and they don't know when or if she will be back). I have given our big, long haired dogs showers before so this should be too hard. We need to take him back then I have a dentist appt at 1- quick one. Just replacing the buildup on the back of the tooth I chipped(AGAIN, 4th time I think)from when I fell a year and a half ago. We will grab lunch then hopefully back home so I can work in my garden. He said we might stop at Black Friday again(were there yesterday)- $1 day there. We really need to work on finding places to put the stuff we already bought.
This is one thing I picked up there, thinking it was something else(boxes were sealed and only partial discription- thought it was baskets for plants(said bamboo baskets-outside)- bought 2 of them for $2 each.
https://www.amazon.com/MYELJO-Folding-Picnic-Table-Convertible/dp/B0CWNZ7Q2H/ref=sr_1_3?crid=1DP5YEG74FG66&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.sktrAR_VF5qHStLZ0qXu7wl9RdvDTEsPOBf08EMPyJljDYfxZbad-0vtBJnvCTpRQEj_d1blhuqvvjda9USUlJxARQYCyC2w61PT3iFI14BkrqaE3JHlu_ZV1RO1mybDHZ9WEN6OQWsCRtQrdCS0QQEFeNFtVJ0iUxJtoZ74AT-701MwxpxZu3Wy4KXDLejQSbv_y4jutKzjIKGh35oR6xNyzk0ZIEMaQoy2qeunepOnxWA7eCGgbyAcIpkti8m5JZ8ve3E8HlEkWRqvRBZw9FCa4wkvwPrBeaZG_PkLq98.VCmgGegTJdar20-8_EfLWoDqYbe6SBZ9NfN2BaP81CE&dib_tag=se&keywords=bamboo+folding+basket+to+picnic+table&qid=1713888411&sprefix=bamboo+folding+basket+to+picnic+table,aps,258&sr=8-3&th=1
got this and put it together for the cats- great deal for $2
https://www.amazon.com/VCEPJH-Scratching-Dispenser-Interactive-Dangling/dp/B0C16XFDPK/ref=sr_1_40?crid=UG0938WDYQMH&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.L3Yk1Eon8l6n6qd8Zb7Xjr_nUdvKqPD9VtUJXEdzwmzX0sjU5iITv_LDYueayw0u4vI8a8cpw5mDohs7egKvR75fmVlasKjdEf8Z3SxkoYV8FLVuSjjIz8HU-s-lgVN-Mb7a1LdWU6TlJbXeadhaTOoCwerjW-Jd-sgWpG3Ci9cLldckf13JTBxfPJUWbuKieDsv1_Llkx6i22OTw3u6Ni4MQSSQpkte5-faz3BIN6N-VGlK3t9qgRKlhcywfSYcPsgHz8TPeTYSc4WJkVcC7RDqBgYTIAGQSfAgwHLeXxI.99sFzw-CxIIwFcErVFgG5vAvQ7HgqBxL12ASq_IOMSg&dib_tag=se&keywords=wooden+cat+toy+and+feed&qid=1713889054&sprefix=wooden+cat+toy+and+feed,aps,165&sr=8-40
Dh bought some things to repurpose for his 3D printed stuff(bases,etc)
Debbie
Napa Valley,CA2 -
Good morning ladies!
Dipping a toe back in today, lol. Collette is here so Rosie and I are holed up out of the way.
Kim - sending hugs and good thoughts your way regarding your mom and thank you so much for checking up on Karen! We miss her so!
Rita and you creative writers - I feel like I'm out of the loop on the story but I can see some exciting adventures happening. Good job, gang.
Debbie - glad you were able to get some things done at your mom's. Next time you fix a meal and no one shows up, let me know and I'll hop in the teleporter, grab a few of us girls on the way and we'll dig in. Those little picnic table baskets are adorable, great find!
Rabbit hole this morning - I ran across a YouTube channel "LittlePoet". The gal, Susan, is in her late 60's. Beautiful with an inquisitive and gentle spirit. She lives alone and recently moved to another city to be near her grandchildren. The topic in this video is Battling Weight Gain, Loss & Estrangement - Women Over 60 Speak Up! and she relates a study she read addressing challenges of older gals, especially those of us living alone and how we move forward.
https://theconversation.com/loneliness-loss-and-regret-what-getting-old-really-feels-like-new-study-157731
Lots of food for thought, and as she spoke about her own challenges, it reminded me so much of what many of us here are going through.... even those who are not living alone. Some of the comments below the video had me counting my blessings. I am so grateful at how the stars lined up through my husband's decline and my coping now nearly 2 years after his death. 28 minutes.
The last couple minutes of the video - Susan and her dog - are so cute...
Margaret - I had a visit with Dr. Matt yesterday morning re my pre-diabetes. Reminded me a lot of what you are doing right now.
If any of you are interested in lower carbohydrate eating, here's a synopsis of my visit with Dr. Matt and some links.I caught him up on my unexpected pre-diabetes diagnosis last month and we discussed my plans going forward.
A few weeks ago, I ran across a lower-carb eating plan developed by Dr. David Unwin in the UK which he gave to prediabetes and diabetes patients, with remarkable success. This is it:
https://www.dietdoctor.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/Diet-sheet-of-what-to-eat-with-Dr.-David-Unwin.pdf
It reminded me a little of Dr. Matt’s “Shake the Sugar” program he had a couple years ago. (He is starting an advanced "Shake the Sugar" class soon, this one will be more interactive for $67.)
Dr. Jason Fung made a video about Unwin’s plan, and reported 93% of those with pre-diabetes who followed it were able to get better.
After following this plan for a few weeks, I've lost a couple pounds, clothing is fitting better - and hopefully insulin resistance and blood sugar issues are being addressed. Dr. Matt said as we continue to limit or avoid sugars and starches - especially the "white" ones (rice, pasta/flour, potatoes for example) our cells start to become more sensitive and become better at using up what carbs we take in for fuel and not converting them to fat.
So I’ll continue to follow Unwin’s plan with a few minor tweaks based on Ben Bikman's and the Glucose Goddess's research - (eating protein first in a meal, saving carbs for dessert), keeping up with walking, and keeping up with the Soleus Push-ups. The main challenge I'll have will be delaying my morning coffee for an hour or two or even until after breakfast as it might be giving me high fasting blood sugar readings. Though Dr. Matt said this might fix itself over time as cells become more sensitive as mentioned above.
Best part about it, this is easy to do and sustainable for me.
Lanette
SW WA State
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Got a covid booster and spent a solid day in post vaccine ick. This is the only vaccine I've ever reacted to, but it is terrible. Hope they improve it soon. I have a trip coming up and following the recommendations for the travel.
Trying to improve my eating habits by incorporating more beans and legumes, but miscalculated. My current transition period for my meals allows that I can eat non-starchy veggies. I didn't realize until I finished making a bunch of homemade black bean patties that they count as starchy. Good for a host of other nutritional reasons, but not right for this phase. I made a bunch and I'll finish them rather than waste the food. Since I used dried beans that I soaked and cooked they are low in salt...the only thing not ideal was the starchiness. I really want to improve my palate so I appreciate beans, legumes, tofu and assorted squashes.
The weather isn't fully committing to warm, yet. It is very spring-like, but still goes to freezing at night a lot of times. I cannot put plants on my porch. I turn the heat off and then have second thoughts when the whole place gets too cold (and I'm from Michigan so that is basically 60 degrees or lower). My cat and dog are fully committed to being on top of me anytime I settle anywhere to sponge off my warmth.
A robin with no sense made a nest by the entrance door to my place. I feel like it will be overcome by nerves when the eggs hatch, but hopefully not. It gives a lot of side-eye even though I try to never stare at it give the idea I'm approaching it. It is not my fault it is within arms reach of the fully open door.
Anna in Michigan6 -
I've bought some new Bluetooth earbuds. My (very) old ones need recharging every other day, even if I'm not using them, and they are uncomfortable and fall out. It's one of those tiny niggles I am in the process of removing from my life. It's only when you get the right thing that you realise how stupid you were for putting up with the daily frustration of the old one.
These new ones are a third of the price and have a long battery life. I had to buy a new charging plug for USB-C as I only have a European one.
Hoping for good things and they are noise cancelling. No money!
I'm now researching a cross body bag (purse) . My current backpack one causes me endless tiny problems. I want one with compartments for an umbrella and water bottle. No compromises.
I bought the backpack a few years ago because I walked everywhere. It's a pain if you just want to get your wallet out. The internal organiser doesn't fit properly. I'm always looking in the wrong pocket. Boo! Still looking, but close.
I just think, like Barbie, that the right tools make life so much more joyful. I'm all for ease.
Much love, Heather UK xxxxxxxx3 -
Rita--I am enjoying the story and looking forward to the next chapter.
Blessings, Vicki GRAND ISLAND, NE2 -
Barbara - remember my comment a couple weeks ago that my Pixma printer wasn't working with Windows 11 and apparently it was a Win11 problem? Lo and behold, it now works! I wonder if one of the recent Windows updates had a fix. Just an FYI.
Lanette4 -
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Lanette ~ I read parts of The Loneliness Project and must say it just made me sad. At my age (almost 76) and with my husband's declining health, I have had to take on so much of running our household that a part of me says, "I'm training to be a widow." I will go back and read more and look at the video. I know so many here have gone through this and I feel for each who has. I just hope that when my time comes, my faith will get me through.
Carol in GA12 -
Tired today3
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Lanette ~ I read parts of The Loneliness Project and must say it just made me sad. At my age (almost 76) and with my husband's declining health, I have had to take on so much of running our household that a part of me says, "I'm training to be a widow." I will go back and read more and look at the video. I know so many here have gone through this and I feel for each who has. I just hope that when my time comes, my faith will get me through.
Carol in GA
Carol - I didn't realize it at the time, but I was training to be a widow too when my husband was ill. I just never looked at it that way. Yes, check out the video - it's a little more upbeat.
You have your faith, family nearby, friends. Yes, life changes radically when your spouse is no longer in the household. I talk to my husband every day, and I imagine him saying "good job!" That gives me energy.
The other thing I discovered is... I can remember him however I want to. I can pull together the best parts of him and I choose to keep that "version" of him close.
Lanette12 -
Carol-I think many of us have trained to be widows. My husband's issues were different from what many of you have dealt with but they can still leave us before they go. Your faith will help you. And Lanette-I chose to remember the good.
I have been talking off and on to friend whose wife died a couple of weeks ago. As he is walking through the process I share my experience and in helping him process I'm reaching yet another level of healing myself. Everything is a process.
Take care all,
Ginny in Ohio7 -
Carol - If it helps, even though Corey is nine years younger than I am, and is in great shape, everything I do is somewhat of that same rehearsal. One of the reasons I am working so hard to get into shape, to do the work outside is just in case something happens to Corey. The tools that I get are tools I can use. Just for instance, I can't even begin to lift, much less use, the chainsaw Cor uses. So I bought a chainsaw I can use. I made sure that the legal trust was set up, which means that, no matter which of us goes first, the other will not have legal issues. The vehicles we own, the property, EVERYthing.
But I made it happen. Not Corey. Had I left it to him, it would not have been done. He's just not the guy that pushes things like that.
I see it less as rehearsing for widowhood than creating the possibility of a life independent of the other should the need arise. Either way.
Much love, dear heart,
Lisa in AR6 -
Stats for the day-
Walk w/family- 2hrs 18min 58sec, 41elev, 2.90ap, 80ahr, 96mhr, 7.15mi= 605c
Strava app =876c
Zwift home bike trainer- strava stats- 26min, 83aw, 207elev, 16.2amph, 56arpm, 116ahr, 146mhr, 7mi= 207c
Strava app= 123c
Zwift stats- 26.09min, 210elev, 82aw, 55arpm, 16.08amph, 7.01mi= 124c
Total cal 812
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Worked then stopped at the soup kitchen. Seems someone gets things at a church and brings them to BK so I take them to the soup kitchen.
Kim – thanks for the update about Karen. She’s so missed but I’m glad to hear that she’s doing well
Linda – I’m so sorry to hear about Tim but so glad that he’s doing better
Tracey – what is the numbering system?
Rita – honestly, I don’t care how long the story goes. You’re such an interesting writer, I can read it all day long. Lovely dreamcatcher. Macrame?
Debbie – I’ve never seen a cat “tree” with the treats. Looks neat. Oh, how did the Christmas tree work out?
Went to ceramics then WalMart. Now going to get to bed.
Michele NC4 -
Worked then stopped at the soup kitchen. Seems someone gets things at a church and brings them to BK so I take them to the soup kitchen.
Kim – thanks for the update about Karen. She’s so missed but I’m glad to hear that she’s doing well
Linda – I’m so sorry to hear about Tim but so glad that he’s doing better
Tracey – what is the numbering system?
Rita – honestly, I don’t care how long the story goes. You’re such an interesting writer, I can read it all day long. Lovely dreamcatcher. Macrame?
Debbie – I’ve never seen a cat “tree” with the treats. Looks neat. Oh, how did the Christmas tree work out?
Went to ceramics then WalMart. Now going to get to bed.
Michele NC
HAHA- There is a good chance that that Christmas tree may be headed to NC.!! The pictures look great but not sure I will be able to put it together plus then have to find a place to store it(don't think it comes apart after it is put together.
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I don't think of being independent as "training to be a widow", I think of it as being able to be single again.
I was married and together with my first husband for 12 years. About half way through that time I started setting myself up to be single again. It started as "just in case" and became more concrete as time went on.
I got education, a decent job, a bank account, and figured out how to do stuff.
I was single for about 10 years between husbands and that felt really comfortable. I was actually a bit reluctant to get married again.
But I did, and I made a mistake. I left some things up to my husband. Big oops!
When he had the accident, I struggled a bit to figure some things out. Fortunately I am in a better place now and there is documentation if either of us needs it.
When he goes, which will likely be before me given that he is 12 years older than I am, I would have very little difficulty being single again. Of course I would miss him! But I have no worries about being a single lady.
I also have no intention to marry again.
M in Oz4 -
A neglected corner at the bottom of our garden is surprising us with its dedication to spring.
The cherry tree was already here when we moved in. This year the blossom has been the best ever. It's coming to an end now. The Spanish bluebells arrived unasked. No idea where they came from. The garden has sprouted them everywhere. The tulips are old ones we threw out of the pot last year after they had finished flowering. John must have scraped a hole, but with zero expectation!
Nature is so wonderful 💖 😍
I ended up shopping in my own closet for a new handbag. Remembered I had one which is uncomfortable to use for long walks, but perfectly fine for the taxi rides I am taking now. It was an expensive present from John about a decade ago. Hardly used. I've bought a felt organiser for the inside as it's quite large and things rattle around in it. I want to find my wallet and my phone easily. Very pleased!!!!
I'm going to take a taxi to my son's house tomorrow, when John picks both girls up, as I'm missing them. I haven't seen Bea for ages. John says he is more than happy for me to run up Uber bills on the joint account, so that I can go out.
It might only be for an hour, but it's worth it.
I'm doing an easy dinner tonight. Falafel and hummus. Lots of salad, and puffy pittas. I adore it, but John is not so enthusiastic, but I've used up all the fresh vegetables, so this will work, as we have salad stuff. I have a fresh red chilli to add to mine.
Lunch is smoked mackerel and horseradish sandwiches.
Love Heather UK xxxxxx
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Rita – honestly, I don’t care how long the story goes. You’re such an interesting writer, I can read it all day long. Lovely dreamcatcher. Macrame?
Michele NC
You can participate too Nosey.
Nosey——————Michele
(Nosey is walking from one group of guests to another. Not staying in any one place for very long. What’s this? She stops and writes notes in a notebook between each group. For what purpose??)
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Morning all
I am officially fed up with the UK weather at the moment. I am tempted to run away to a Greek island I just need to feel some sun on my bones. We usually have a winter sun holiday but have not managed it this year as my youngest cannot fly due to the wound on his stomach and I have really missed it.
Usually it would be getting warmer and sunnier at this time of year but not this year, wind and rain with occasional cloudy days are not what's needed.
I think I need a lottery win and relocate!
I cannot believe that we are almost at the end of April. January-March seemed to last forever and then wooosh! It's almost May
Rusty in Yorkshire
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Good Wednesday,
We too are warm days followed by freezing nights. Playing havoc with me! I need it to get warm. I actually wore my long johns under my dress on Sunday.
Work....that is what happened Monday. Yesterday was just a mess or I was just a mess. DH in shower late so I didn't get in, just threw up the hair with lots of hairspray. About noon, my oldest daughter texted me about the play last night! I forgot!!!!! No change of clothes, no snacks, hadn't planned on leaving work early, and had shop truck (not my car). Oh well.....I had a great time in spite of wearing work clothes and tennis shoes both with some grease on them. "SIX" was good. In spite of the rain, I still got home at a decent hour. (The theater we go to is an hour away from me in Cincinnati).
I am trying to deal mentally with the sister in law's comments again. It's those sly, sideways comments that just get to me. The latest is that she can't handle the 5 hours we will be gone on a Saturday in May. Really? She leaves me with my blind DH often. I am NOT giving up my plans that weekend. Everything I want to do is second place to what she wants to do. Part of that is my work commitment (she has little to none). I hate letting my customers down. To her, more than one customer at a time is busy. DH said they were busy after I left an hour early yesterday. They had 3 customers at once . Really?!? I don't consider that busy. That is normal. I have a problem with SIL not knowing things she should. This is on me. I just need to reframe it in my mind so that her comments don't piss me off. She is off again today. I am starting the day wayyyy behind as I didn't bring any work home with me last night. I'VE GOT THIS!!!
Otherwise...... I am thankful for having you all in my life. I love all the sharing and caring! You are all thought provoking and full of information.
I feel blessed to be friends with you!
May your day be full of sunshine and great choices!
Kylia in Ohio where the sun is shining but it is cold.6 -
How about all the story characters have a conversation ......about how I ended part 2 of the Great MFP Mystery. I will repost it here to refresh your memories. I will hold off on continuing until you all add how you would have reacted in your character’s shoes when that happened. Below is the list of characters and the story so far:…….Part 1.
Prince Charming = Terri. To Fairy Godmother “ (I am having second thoughts about looking for a new bride. Cinders is just too difficult to get out of my heart. I wish I knew where she has gone. I’m lying low for a bit…)
Fairy Godmother = RVRita To Prince Charming “ I will cover for you until Cinders is found. Please reconsider. Oh, my dear!!!! Cinders is at the door with Sleeping Beauty! I have to see what happened to her!!) {In her mind, she thinks ‘I need to do something more with her! My plan is not working!!}
Cinderella = Lisa in AR
Sleeping Beauty = Allie
Nosey==Michelle
Red’s Gran = Barbara AHMOD
Red === Kylia
Rapunzel == Machka
Pixie==Rebecca
Jasmoor= Heather
Aladdin == Ginny
Belle= Joy
Grettel == Linda
Hansel == Lanette
Griselda== Rusty
Jinn = Vickie
Dwarf (Herbbette) = Tracey
Please continue the conversation for part 3. Let your personalities show through! 😊
Previous parts in spoiler:
Our MFP Murder Mystery characters and players so far:
Fairy Godmother [b/]- Rita (Still doting over the disappearance of her goddaughter, Felicity continues to hope that Cinderella will reappear and everyone will live happily ever after.)
Jinn ——————-Vicki (Jinn wants to get out of her lamp forever and become human. Perhaps her friendship to Rita is causing some mischief?)
Dwarf (Herbbette) ———Tracey (Like a sister to Sleeping Beauty, Allie’s dependence on Herbbette is endearing to some an annoying to others.)
Red’s Gran ———Barbara AHMOD (having escaped from the Wolf, Barbara is plotting something, but what or who will be affected?
Red ——————-Kylia (Red came to the Ball with her Gran. Unaware that she is plotting something. Red suspects something is wrong, but what?)
Rapunzel (Princess)————-Machka (Depserate to get out of her tower, this trapped temptress may have more than one offer on the table… the question is which one will she pick?)
Pixie ——————Rebecca (Pixie is flitting around the Ball everywhere. She is gathering information about each party guest to report back to??)
Nosey——————Michele (Nosey is walking from one group of guests to another. Not staying in any one place for very long. What’s this? She stops and writes notes in a notebook between each group. For what purpose??)
Sleeping Beauty——Allie (With hopes of moving out of the bed, this princess hopes to soon be known not as the daughter of an evil queen, but as the wife of prince that is charming.)
Cinderella ———-Lisa in AR (After being missing for a month, Cinderella shows up at the ball, dirty, tired, and ready to confront her kidnapper(s). She simply wants to rest first, but the Ball has disoriented her.)
Jasmoor———Heather (Heather thought that Jinn was her friend and would help her through anything. But now, she is questioning this friendship..)
Belle——Joy (Having tamed the ‘Beast’, Joy is happily going about her life. But no one knows her true motives…)
Grettel—- Linda (Wandering the woods and destroying the evil witch, Linda is becoming more confident and independent. But will that lead her to her goals?)
Griselda (Cinderella’s Stepsister)——Rusty (After years of animosity, Griselda has earned Cinderella’s trust and her place in the castle. Now that Cinderella is gone, will Griselda be next to disappear mysteriously?)Prince Charming——Terri. (I (Prince Charming) am having second thoughts about looking for a new bride. Cinders is just to difficult to get out of my heart. I wish I knew where she has gone. I’m lying low for a bit 😝)
Aladdin————-Ginny
Hansel———-Lanette
“MFP Timeless Tale of Treachery and Treason in a Kingdom Far, Far Away”
“After the mysterious disappearance of Cinderella, Prince Charming is throwing a fancy dress ball to find a new bride. Some of the kingdom residents question how the prince could move on so quickly, while others are jumping at the chance to earn their spot as the new princess in the castle. No one has seen the Prince since Cinderella disappeared and the rumors are rampant!”
During the ball, as the dancing and rumors escalate, someone dies in the palace. Who died? Where? When? Why? How long was the victim dead? How did the victim die? What is happening?????
RVRita (Fairy Godmother) from the Kingdom of Roswell…….
Part 2:
The Ball has begun and people are arriving in droves. The entire MFP Women’s 50 plus group have arrived. The band has begun with background quiet music to welcome the guests. The servers are wandering among the guests with low carb, low calorie snacks, water, flavored waters, wine and diet drinks.
Fairy Godmother stands at the entrance welcoming the guests. Look! Here comes Jinn, Dwarf, Red’s Gran, Red, Rapunzel, Pixie, and Nosey! No one has seen Prince Charming. When will he arrive? The party is for him to choose a new bride. The crowd talks about the missing Cinderella and what they feel the Prince is rushing the search for a new bride.
The night progresses with more questions as it is near Midnight now, but the Prince has not shown up for his own Ball. Questions are floating among the guests as the band plays on.
The guest gasps in shock as Sleeping Beauty has just shown up with Cinderella!!
Fairy Godmother in the mysterious land of Roswell…… 🧞♂️🧚♂️🧚🧝♀️🧙♀️🪄Machka wrote:Meanwhile, Rapunzel is standing on the stage singing (because we all know she attracts her suitors with her lovely singing voice) and watching everything going on.
When she sees Cinderella and Sleeping Beauty come in, Rapunzel goes into a rousing rendition of "Do you believe in life after love?"
Then Rapunzel slides into "I'm Gonna Wash That Man Right Outa My Hair" and then into a female version of Elvis Presley's - "I'm Moving On" with Grettel showing her stuff on the piano.
By the time Rapunzel breaks into "I Will Survive", Grettel begins to think something's up.
(Like Machka, Zel knows the words to a lot of songs. Unlike Machka, Zel can sing them well.)Mystery: Gretel is sipping some wine when she notices BabaYaga walk in. She suggests to Hansel that since BabaYaga is here, this would be the perfect time to go to her house and eat it. They decide to sneak out the back so Fairy Godmother doesn’t see them. As they pass the kitchen, they notice Cindy, SB, and THE BODY!
Linda
Jacksonville, FL
Zel and Gretel have taken a break from the stage and passed the singing onto Pixie (Rebecca). Pixie, has taken a break from gathering information and has opted to watch the crowd from the stage while entertaining them with a popular selection of opera favourites.
Zel slips over to Griselda (Rusty), and asks her if she knows where Cindy was and why she looks so dirty. Why did Cindy look like she had been digging? Griselda notices that Zel seems quite edgy ... almost nervous.
"She better not have been digging around my tower", mutters Zel as she moves off to try to find Fairy Godmother who doesn't appear to be in the ballroom.
"Everyone is disappearing around here!" complains Zel. "Who would know what Cindy was up to? Pixie? She's singing. Oh, maybe Nosey (Michele). Nosey seems to know everything."
Zel rushes up and grabs Nosey by the shoulder, "Nosey ... you must know what's going on. What happened to Cindy? Where was she?"
Nosey shakes her (his?) head to indicate she (he?) doesn't know then says, "But someone saw a light on in your tower window this evening while you were here. Did you leave the light on?"
Zel looked horrified for a moment and then ran out of the ballroom.
Zel tied her hair around her waist and sprinted across the drawbridge and down the road, through the wood and into the meadow ... then disappeared from view.
A few minutes later, she sprinted up the winding stairs to her tower floor.
Sure enough.
There stood the old witch herself, Dame Gothel.
"How did you get out? The door at the bottom is sealed!", screamed the old witch, "Where have you been?"
"How did you get in?", asked Zel
"They have created ladders, little girl. I had to go and get a ladder! And now I am going to cut your hair off and close you in this tower forever!
As Gothel lunged for Zel, a hand reached out, grabbed Zel's hand and pulled her down the stairs and into Zel's secret tunnel.
Gothel ran after the pair, but lost her footing and tumbled down the stairs before she could see where they had gone.
The couple popped up in the meadow and ran into the wood, then stopped to catch their breaths behind a tree.
"Won't everyone be surprised to see YOU!", cried Zel.
Machka in Oz3 -
Attended an Aged Care Quality conference the last couple days ... virtually ... while producing a report.
Tomorrow is ANZAC day, so it's a day off.
Friday is my usual Friday off.
So I've got a 4-day weekend.
I climbed 25 flights of stairs up ... and 33 flights of stairs down.
Machka in Oz5 -
Good morning ladies!
Dad did something to our electrical system yesterday. The fridge in the garage isn't working, and some other outlets are dead. We called the electrician yesterday but they aren't coming until Friday.
So I need to clean out and rearrange refrigerators today. We have three, which is overkill for two people who don't entertain. I guess going up and down the basement stairs will be good for me.
There was a bee down there last night. I will have to be careful.
My diet is not going well. Yesterday I ate a pint of ice cream, and it wasn't even that good. I skipped my normal dinner because I was too lazy to prepare it.
I know better. I've been moody lately. It seems like a lot of things are not going right, but that's because I'm in a funk. Time to kick myself out of it!
Have a great day my friends! May you be happy, healthy, safe and free!
Annie in Delaware
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Rita - You're doing great! Let the story tell you how long it will run, no worries.
Meanwhile, back at the castle, up in one of the many bedrooms, Sleeping Beauty finishes combing the bits of tree trash out of Cinderella's hair. Cindy is oblivious to the yanks and mild curses, simply smoothing the same gown the Fairy Godmother made her what seemed like a hundred years ago, and saying as much to Sleeping Beauty. "Don't even TALK to me about a hundred years until you've slept that long," said SB. Finishing Cindy's hair with one last yank, she lays the ornate hairbrush on the dresser, and they both head for the door of the room and then down the stairs once more. There, the Prince is just coming out of the kitchen, looking harried and worried.
"Who is it," Cindy asks, "And what happened?"
"I don't know," the Prince said, and in a low voice, "But whoever, or whatever, did the killing, they may still be here in the castle." And then, realizing who he's talking to, "And where have you been?"2 -
One of the comments from the Quit Sugar Summit is that one of the biggest motivators for people to change their diets is their brains are not working they way they want. Creating the diet that works for you that causes your blood sugar to be healthy results in a brain that works in a healthy manner.
The second speaker I listened to went onto to say that a diet of highly processed foods sets you up to become addicted to foods that do not support your health. Again and again I hear the message the more you eat foods that are not processed or filled with sugar, flour, and too much of the wrong kind of fats the better you will feel. She went onto to say if someone is addicted to alcohol to address their diets. The roots of their addiction can be found in diet and trauma. Ways to help with this is change your diet, address your trauma, and use methods like meditation, breath work, support groups to help find your way out or unhealthy addictions.
The second speaker said it also helps to find a like a like minded group because we do need that support to make the changes needed and we are wired to copy one another. There is a strong need to fit in whether we admit it or not. One caution for me with this is falling into the reformed alcoholic syndrome where you get obnoxious wanting everyone to believe as you do. Others need to be honored for who they are and when they are ready to make changes that will help them. Fortunately there are many resources and others out there to help someone on their way to better health.4 -
Good morning, my chickens, from the swiftly warming morning of the Arkansas River Valley,
The rain was supposed to come in by 1 pm, then they said 4 pm, and now not until 5 am tomorrow... SMH. Then supposedly rain all morning Thursday, all day Friday, Saturday and Sunday, then back to dry again. We'll see how well Corey's hügelkultur raised beds do with lots of rain... All his plants have been very happy so far. That's if the rain shows up, of course. Always a guess.
But, since it's warming fast, I think I will get my yoga done, then work outside, and then go back to the quilt. Sounds like I might have lots of time inside to work in the craft room the next few days.
Those are my two priorities - the quilt and the yard. The best part of being retired is how few decisions there are and how trivial they are, in all honesty. Corey wouldn't care if I sat and read a book all day. The only thing driving me is... me. And a number of people who worked for me would be quite surprised at how little I play the role of taskmaster these days.
But first... breakfast! Or maybe yoga, then breakfast. Decisions, decisions....
Love y'all!
Lisa in AR
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