Picky about friends..........but looking... :)

kissthis_goodbye
kissthis_goodbye Posts: 11
edited October 3 in Introduce Yourself
I am not new to the site but this is my 3rd profile, i have deleted the other 2 because i friended people that i should not have....I am looking for friends but i do not want any that are negative or that get upset because i don't post on their status or reply to their comments.....
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  • SadieluvzWolvez1
    SadieluvzWolvez1 Posts: 15
    O O O PICK ME AND this is my 2nd account!! :3<3 YEA!!
  • Zen_Master_B
    Zen_Master_B Posts: 78
    Well, I don't have a lot of friends either and am sorta picky myself. If you're only criteria is not being needy or negative, that sounds like me. I will make my opinion known but I do so respectfully. So add me if you want.
  • SixCatFaerie
    SixCatFaerie Posts: 690 Member
    I'm not easily offended, not negative either. I won't get upset if you don't have time to post or comment on things. Please feel free to add me. :-D
  • Dragonzfyre11
    Dragonzfyre11 Posts: 24
    hello and welcome to my fitnesspal my name is Joseph and I was wandering if you would like to be friends? if u dont post on my status or comments that doesnt bother me and I wouldnt get upset about it. but I will do anything to keep you motivated if you ever ask for anything!
  • efriling
    efriling Posts: 58 Member
    Feel free to add me...I'm fairly new to the site & def drama-free, best of luck to you and your health goals :D
  • CMmrsfloyd
    CMmrsfloyd Posts: 2,380 Member
    I like to keep things positive and I sent you a friend request. :-)
  • AZackery
    AZackery Posts: 2,035 Member
    I can't and will not post to everyone on my friend's list status or make comments. Lately, I have been doing a general comment to everyone. If I had to comment on everyone's comment that would take a lot of my time. I do like to check up on people, if I'm aware they haven't been on here in a while.
  • dmpizza
    dmpizza Posts: 3,321 Member
    whatever
  • susanloveszumba
    susanloveszumba Posts: 182
    I am basically the same...don't have a lot of time to comment on everything... usually just say good job on calories burned! i work long hours during the week and don't have access to mfp until i get home. i am not negative and try to motivate when i can. add me if you want:)
  • kissthis_goodbye
    kissthis_goodbye Posts: 11
    dmpizza-
    The "whatever" post .... is such a waste of your time and mine.......and exactly the kind of crap i was talking about avoiding......thanks for giving me an example to post.....
  • CMmrsfloyd
    CMmrsfloyd Posts: 2,380 Member
    dmpizza-
    The "whatever" post .... is such a waste of your time and mine.......and exactly the kind of crap i was talking about avoiding......thanks for giving me an example to post.....

    Isn't it amazing how helpful people can be when they didn't even know they were helping? LOL
  • starkid96
    starkid96 Posts: 12
    I am not negative nor will I get mad if you don't comment on my status! Fell free to add me if you'd like (:
  • owengem
    owengem Posts: 131 Member
    No negativity or moodiness here.
    This is hard and we need all the help we can get, not discouragement.
    Add me as you see fit :-) x
  • dmpizza
    dmpizza Posts: 3,321 Member
    dmpizza-
    The "whatever" post .... is such a waste of your time and mine.......and exactly the kind of crap i was talking about avoiding......thanks for giving me an example to post.....
    Its like shooting fish in a barrel.

    No harm meant, but your post was so high strung I couldn't resist.
  • janinab75
    janinab75 Posts: 147 Member
    Feel free to add me. I'm fairly quiet, encourage where I feel it can help, am not opinionated, don't post on everyone elses post every time and could also use positive friends.
  • TheBraveryLover
    TheBraveryLover Posts: 1,217 Member
    I'm very picky too. Like you, I can't (and don't) deal with Negative Nancies or people who constantly need my "wtgs!" for every status update. I'll comment when I feel like it and appreciate the same, but it's a not a big deal if they don't do it for a week or two. I'll still be reaching my goals regardless.:smile: Add me!
  • sherry_ann_mt
    sherry_ann_mt Posts: 100 Member
    I hope you ignore the "whatever"...I think it is good to be picky....I would love to be your friend....that is the point of MFP right? I am new to this site so I am going to be careful about friends now to.
  • doc_martin
    doc_martin Posts: 15
    I must be lucky. I haven't seen any negativity in my group of friends. Heck, if anything we tend to post things less about food and more about life in general. We even got a little smack talk going on when it comes to our local sports teams.

    Good luck to 'ya in weeding out the negatives.
  • jmelyan23
    jmelyan23 Posts: 1,648 Member
    Feel free to add me--I despise drama, and can't handle the really negative people either. I'm happy to comment on people's posts when I have the time and inclination, and if others comment on mine, then cool. If not, no biggie. This site is a tool for yourself and you shouldn't have to worry about "friends" bringing you down. :)
  • ahinescapron
    ahinescapron Posts: 351 Member
    Feel free to friend me. I don't do drama in my life or online. I also don't care about comments, etc.
  • koosdel
    koosdel Posts: 3,317 Member
    dmpizza-
    The "whatever" post .... is such a waste of your time and mine.......and exactly the kind of crap i was talking about avoiding......thanks for giving me an example to post.....
    Its like shooting fish in a barrel.

    No harm meant, but your post was so high strung I couldn't resist.

    I wonder how long until the fourth profile... such drama.
  • kellyisloved
    kellyisloved Posts: 434 Member
    Looking for more friends myself. I tend to be on late at night more than any other time, so I don't expect a lot of activity anyway. Add if you're still looking for more. :)
  • kissthis_goodbye
    kissthis_goodbye Posts: 11
    no, I don't think a 4th will be needed....I will just ignore those I am not friends with and delete the ones i am that decide they need the drama.....
  • kesteele
    kesteele Posts: 127
    I'm with you; don't see why people NEED to get comments every day; and/or get mad if they don't get commented....that shows they spend toooo much time on the computer just waiting for attention. I just comment milestones that show up on my profile and interesting/good things that people post about. Feel free to add me. I comment awesome things :) add if you wish, if not then good luck on your journey!
  • sarahkova
    sarahkova Posts: 245 Member
    feel free to add me! don't like negative either, and try to help people as much as possible!
  • crhaws
    crhaws Posts: 19 Member
    Feel free to add me - I don't always have time to reply or post either. Just here for support and want to encourage others too!
  • apee24
    apee24 Posts: 46
    I am new to the site myself, but I am very positive and very motivating. I have about 115 pounds to lose but look forward to waking each and everyday and doing it! If u need a good friend please feel free to add me.
  • dreamwriter
    dreamwriter Posts: 610 Member
    Feel free to add me. Friends should lift you up. We can be hard enough on ourselves.
  • airmazing
    airmazing Posts: 25
    hi add me i dont give a monkeys if you reply or not i just want to be here for myself i do comment on others but only in a + way and find any comments i get are welcome but if i dont get any im not bothered either
  • VemmaMom
    VemmaMom Posts: 82 Member
    Haa I was thinking the same thing OMG seriously!!!??? Anyways people who act like need to just get over it lol we are here to have fun and support one another. Id love to friend ya you crack me up!!!! who does have all that time....I figure some nights like today I can and most of the time I cant spend so much. I saw another post about the same thing earlier today and honestly I really dont get why someone would be mad or unfriend someone due to this reason....so is this a big issue on here for real>???? wow tpp bad cuz Ive met some great folks and we do what we can and thats all ya can do :flowerforyou:
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