WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR APRIL 2025

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  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 4,292 Member
    edited April 24

    OOh man bathroom and me today, we're close friends. My poor backside. Side effect from this new med. I was so loud that my dear husband woke up with a start when he was napping in his recliner, thinking the phone had rung from upstairs!😂😂🙃

    OOh geez!

    Rebecca Whidbey WA

    (With a gurgling constitution)

  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,756 Member

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  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 13,091 Member

    I had my hair trimmed yesterday, and, in the general chit-chat at the hairdressers, I mentioned my book. Well, I got a message last night that they want to put it on their social media! I said they'd better read it first to vet it, as there are a few darker moments in there! Still, it was a nice moment. 🤗

    Today is Zoom with my old schoolfriends. B just got back from Australia yesterday, so that will be a good catch-up. She has three grandchildren out there. A long way to go to see your loved ones. Her husband is well into his 80s. She said it all went well.

    I'm debating whether to go into town today. Because my hair is presentable, I feel I ought to make use of it! 👱‍♀️ IKEA have opened a pop-up shop while they are waiting for the big one to open in the autumn. I'm curious. Plus I can always use M&S food. 😋 It gets me walking, which is the main thing, and I can pick up something for John for our 22nd 'meeting anniversary' next month. It's the same day as Max's 14th birthday. Luckily, he only wants money this year and has been doing jobs to earn more. He cleared the whole overgrown garden of weeds for his parents. John has also got him a really good economics book.

    My 'author's copies' arrive today, so I will have to organise myself into a photo session with John the esteemed photographer. If I can face producing a quick video, I will. Doing new things enlivens the brain!

    Love to all, Heather UK xxxxxxxx

  • TerriRichardson112
    TerriRichardson112 Posts: 19,685 Member

    Tracey: MOT is annual Ministry of Transport test for car roadworthyness for all cars over 5 years old. Mine is 13 years old.

    🤗🤗🤗 and 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 for those who need them.

    🙋‍♀️ céad míle fáilte to our newbies

    ☘️ Terri

  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,859 Member

    (((Debbie, Barbara, and Rebecca)))

    I so understand your disappointment in not being given some of the things you cherished!

    Carol in GA

  • LisaInArkansas
    LisaInArkansas Posts: 3,286 Member

    Morning, my chickens,

    Waiting for it to get just a leeeeetle warmer outside. 60 degrees is a titch too cold (15c) for my hands to work well, even in gloves.

    Cleanup and outside work adventures:

    Got the lawn mowed yesterday, well most of it. The back meadow is still a water meadow from the rain, so putting that big half-ton zero turn mower on there would have been like trying to ice skate and would have just ripped the ground to shreds.

    Before I could mow, I had to air up both small front tires and one of the big back tires - when Corey got home, we walked out, figured out what "flat-free" front tires we could get and got them ordered. That will be helpful. He said replacing the back tires was not useful, apparently he can keep these going with slime and tire plugs. Works for me. And yes, we do have a small air compressor that works for tires as well as a number of tools he uses regularly. Cost a hundred bucks, and pays for itself over and over again if you build stuff.

    This morning is all tractor work for me, pulling about a 120 feet of chainlink fence or so. Every eight feet is another steel post buried in a concrete plug, so I have to pull the top line steel stabilizer poles that run 20 to 30 feet along the top edge of the fence, then push on five or six posts to loosen them, just gentle shoves with the tractor, then wrap a chain around each one and yank it out of the ground. Then do that again and again. That's the idea, anyway. We'll see.

    I'm going to try to get a little bit of video done of what I'm working on. We'll see. Haven't done a lot of taping that isn't on a stand and hooked directly to my laptop! I wonder if I can tape my battery-op camera to the sissybar on the tractor?

    Hmmm…

    Anyway - the temperatures rising slowly, already up two degrees since I started this, and there's a storm line marching across Oklahoma towards us. One source says it will rain by noon, one says by 4 p.m. They often seem to peter out over eastern Oklahoma and never reach us at all, so we'll see. But I should be able to get a couple hours work done this morning.

    Later, y'all,
    Love,
    Lisa in AR

  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,394 Member

    Morning all

    Last night didn't sleep well but that isn't unusual, and then my brother called at 6:45 this morning..he is just beside himself without his pup,and Jean is just a jerk and doesn't return his calls and ignores him..and when she does show up she is usually drunk and belittles him and just wants money..

    Taking my meds and the high of 78 today..yipee

  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,756 Member

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  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 4,292 Member

    In regarding stuff, I wanted to add living a simpler life doesn't really involve just getting rid of stuff, its about finding the stuff that really matters, and in doing that, you make your world shine. Removing the chaos of clutter does help.🤗💖

    Rebecca Whidbey Wa

  • mcmillonmail
    mcmillonmail Posts: 226 Member

    Hi Ladies;

    Margaret, you are a wealth of information. You look radiant in your pictures. You are enjoying life.

    Ginny, I would have had you come in to assess the wound. I am a safe than sorry nurse. Thanks for explaining everything. I didn't know exactly what surgery you were having and what was going on. You are in my prayers and heart. I would hate for you to be in an ER full of germs for 5 hours as well. I'm glad you're seeing the surgeon today. In the future, take pictures so they can visualize what you are describing. Parents show me videos of their kid's seizures or apneic spells, and it helps me know what they look like and what to assess. When they say a picture is worth a thousand words, they are not kidding. I love it when parents document wound progression or show me the accident to understand what I am dealing with. Chemo is no joke. I took care of my uncle when he had cancer. I worked in adult oncology during my nursing school years. I was a student nurse worker. I completed my preceptorship in it as well before graduating. I am so glad your family is helping you out.

    Lisa, please don't overdo it, and wear thick work gloves. Corey appears to love the tractor. Is Egg telling us we will have a cool spring? April is ending pretty stormy. My grass needs mowing, but it is too wet to get it done.

    Purple Cat, don't give up. We must continue to battle the bulge so we can live healthily for the rest of our lives. Please write down the top 5 reasons why you want to lose weight and live a healthy lifestyle and put it on your mirror and in the kitchen. I will do the same. We are here for you.

    Flea, the Easter egg hunt looked like a lot of fun. I miss doing all of that. I know I will be doing that again in the future when the grandkids come. Maybe even with my own if they can talk and heal from the past.

    Allie, I am worried about you. Please take care of yourself.

    Ladies, I'd better get to bed; I have busy work and a busy weekend ahead.

    XO,

    Mo in Mississippi

  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 4,292 Member
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    Oops it was Carla that sent me a cute handmade card, this nice planters one. The other one is from my eldest sister, handmade.

    This one with the bouquet is one she made and sent with the quilt and pillow.💖

    This one is by my coffee maker framed, another one of her creations. I guess she took a class.💖🤗

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    If you wanna send me a card though, feel free, I would love to display your creativity! Send me a pm for my address. I will write you back with my pen pal stuff.🙃😂

    Rebecca Whidbey Wa

  • kevrit
    kevrit Posts: 4,572 Member

    Thought for today:

    What do you call two primates that share an Amazon account?

    Prime-mates!

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    RVRita in Roswell

  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 4,292 Member

    Yes, the keeper of historical family documents can be daunting. My sister has acquired a huge box of albums that historically are amazing, all from her husband's side of the family. She has no idea who anyone is. If her city was bigger, and maybe if they had a historical society, she could've donated them to it. I donated all my HS yearbooks to my city's historical society, along with a vinyl record of some of us choir members singing in the All State choir. They were excited to have it. But it is hard to figure out what to keep and what not to. There is a certain amount of obligatory feelings to things like that. I have my grandmothers hope chest and everything fits in there, except our family photo albums. That task is daunting to me. I have 8 albums and one day the boys will go thru them together, taking what they want, and discarding them. Or one of them will be the newly selected keeper of the albums and hope chest.😁💖

    Rebecca Whidbey Wa

  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 4,292 Member

    In all honesty, stuff is just that, stuff. I never did need whole rooms of stuff to remember my mother or father.💖. I think being dismissed hurt more, but I know it wasn't intentional. Their lives were in Oregon, and I was off in CA. I wasn't in their realm. Do you know my eldest sister was angry at my husband for many years? She said that he had taken me from the family, my personality changed. She was more just mad at the Navy but the Navy didn't have a face so it was easier to blame husband. Crazy, but I suppose I understand. I adapted to the Navy way, my actions more disciplined, I guess.⚓👍🏼

    Rebecca Whidbey Wa

  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,756 Member

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  • dlfk202000
    dlfk202000 Posts: 3,451 Member

    Barbara and Rebecca- thank you for both understanding and for telling me your stories. Love to hear them.

    Got to walk with an old friend(former, YEARS ago) daycare parent. Her daughter was 5 when she was here, 27 yrs ago. She had been in my class when I taught at the preschool. I decided I wanted to do daycare again so gave my notice. Her and 5 other kids from the preschool all started coming to my daycare the following Monday. She was a sweet helper when son was born shortly after that. I haven't seen the girl in over 20 yrs I don't think. Saw her mom(the one I walked with 10 yrs ago). Found out she likes to walk her dog at the wetlands so we finally met up and walked today. Almost an hour and a half. Was nice to have someone to walk with but she did tend to focus the talk around herself, but that was ok.

    Going to mom's tomorrow so gassed up the car today. Will go get the roll away bed from MIL's house to take up so I will have a bed to sleep in.

    Took two corned beef out of the freezer to cook tonight to take up for Saturday dinner. I will leave the left overs for mom. I will freeze in small portions for her.

  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,394 Member

    Lately I've tried to put stuff on here and poof it just up and disappears..

    And anyway today I've been up and got a few things done,and also we got sweet Buddy down to the vet and he will be cremated..stopped to see the kids for about 1/2 hr,and then came home and took a nap.I will make a decision in the next week on whether to go to the in a few weeks or in October.

    Rita- my dad was an al- anon member 40 + yrs ,my mom was almost 20 yrs sober when she passed at 65 yrs old

    Wearing my binder and im hoping it takes care of the fluid problem..also I go back again on Monday down to new haven and then hopefully I can move to Wednesdays in Old Saybrook

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    Alfie roughing it ,when I went to the vets today,turned over the reins to Tom vet wise..

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    The ball pit queen,it made it through Miles,now onto little missy..

  • exermom
    exermom Posts: 6,687 Member

    Tracey – good for you starting walking! I enjoy it, to me it’s “me” time. Love the card

    Mo – I am so sorry for your loss. I just don’t feel it’s my place to tell W what to do. Personally, when their big boss comes, I think he should find the place sparkling, which would mean things like the walls should be cleaned, I know at the soup kitchen they clean the drains every Friday, there’s these drawers where they keep bacon things (maybe others, I don’t know), they can be cleaned. But I would have no idea if you need to use a certain cleaner or what. There are only certain cleaning cloths that you can use in the back. I need to use the red, not the blue or the yellow. Why, I have no idea.

    Lisa – like I’ve said, my gardening philosophy is “if God means for it to live, it’ll live”

    Margaret – would you believe that I didn’t get my first UTI until about 20 years ago. Haven’t had one since. My cousin had to tell me what it was!

    The plan for tomorrow is to do some spinning and then use the rowing machine. Then I need to go to WalMart. We have a zoom meeting at 10 for the condo. Then ceramics at night

    Rebecca – take care of yourself

    My neighbor gave me a hosta that I hope will work in the area I want. If not, no harm done

    Allie – What did Tracey use in those ice pops? I use a 32oz container of plain greek yogurt, a 12oz can of OJ concentrate not reconstituted, mix the two together.

    Thurs here: Did spinning then used the rowing machine. I think I should wait a couple more weeks before I go in the pool

    Went to ceramics and they were closed. Wish we’d known. Oh well. So I came home and planted a plant. I honestly don’t know if it’ll make it or not. It’s a hosta but I planted it in full sun. I know they usually like shade. Well, in our first house there were hostas on the side of the house in full sun and they did fine. If it dies, no big deal. At this price (free) I’m not about to worry if it doesn’t make it. Then I finished the weed whacking, did a bit of weeding on the hill, no big shakes. In a sense, glad I was able to get to that.

    Planting the plant was a pleasure. The ground was soft from the rain, I didn’t even need the pickax.

    Debbie – I feel your pain. I’m glad to see your husband is coming to terms with his mother’s situation

    Barbara – I don’t really understand what you mean by Vince covering for me at ceramics. What do you mean?

    After exercise went to WalMart, then home to put away the groceries. We had a zoom meeting for the condo and in the middle of it we lost power! A friend from down there called to see when we were coming and said not much more happened.

    The guy who is doing the bathroom said that he expected to be finished today so the plan right now is to go down there May 8 and stay until the 12th. I know when we get down there I have to do laundry since we used the sheets to cover the furniture and now there’s dust all over them. We’ll have to clean, just don’t know how much. I suspect that when I see it, I probably can’t wait to have the other bathroom done.

    Seems there was some sort of leak in the condo above us but if we had any damage, I’m sure C would have mentioned it since he was there every day.

    Made a chocolate cake for Vince today. Actually, it came out quite good. And low calorie, only 3T of oil but it had applesauce and yogurt in it

    Soup kitchen tomorrow. I hope it’s like this when I get out, not raining. If so, I may have tog et one or two more plants, but that will be it for this year….I think

    When my grandmother died all I wanted was her sewing machine. I did get it, but my aunt really cleaned it out. The memories of my pretending to use it and going thru the drawers. Wish she’d left things in the drawers, but at least I got the sewing machine. When my dad passed, the only thing I wanted was his rocking chair. I’d hoped to rock my grandchild in it but that didn’t happen.

    Well, we decided which contractor we are going with for the deck. It originally was between two of them, but one wanted us to take care of all the permits, etc. It seems to be quite involved. The other guy will do it all. He’s done it before so he’ll be on top of things. This was the guy who didn’t call when he was supposed to be here. But his quote was reasonable and the fact that he’ll take care of all the permits is a big factor to us.

    Lanette – Aldi used to not take credit cards, and they’ve changed so hopefully WINCO will also.

    I donated MIL and FIL’s highschool yearbooks to their schools.

    Michele

  • dlfk202000
    dlfk202000 Posts: 3,451 Member

    Barbara ,Tracey,Carol,Lynette and Rebecca- thank you for both understanding and for telling me your stories. Love to hear them.

    Rita- my dad was highly allergic to honey bees. He had the epi-pens in a few different places. He had 15 min to get into town after a sting. Scary when they lived 10 miles from town. One time, he almost didn't make it. The whites of his eyes were red by the time he got there.He was not allergic to wasps.I have not been stung that I can remember so I am afraid of getting stung now, just in case.My younger sister said she is allergic to them too but I don't know if hers is a severe as dad's was

    Got to walk with an old friend(former, YEARS ago) daycare parent. Her daughter was 5 when she was here, 27 yrs ago. She had been in my class when I taught at the preschool. I decided I wanted to do daycare again so gave my notice. Her and 5 other kids from the preschool all started coming to my daycare the following Monday. She was a sweet helper when son was born shortly after that. I haven't seen the girl in over 20 yrs I don't think. Saw her mom(the one I walked with 10 yrs ago). Found out she likes to walk her dog at the wetlands so we finally met up and walked today. Almost an hour and a half. Was nice to have someone to walk with but she did tend to focus the talk around herself, but that was ok.

    Going to mom's tomorrow so gassed up the car today. Will go get the roll away bed from MIL's house to take up so I will have a bed to sleep in.

    Took two corned beef out of the freezer to cook tonight to take up for Saturday dinner. I will leave the left overs for mom. I will freeze in small portions for her.