WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR APRIL 2025

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  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 4,306 Member
    edited April 24

    OOh man bathroom and me today, we're close friends. My poor backside. Side effect from this new med. I was so loud that my dear husband woke up with a start when he was napping in his recliner, thinking the phone had rung from upstairs!😂😂🙃

    OOh geez!

    Rebecca Whidbey WA

    (With a gurgling constitution)

  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,769 Member

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  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 13,103 Member

    I had my hair trimmed yesterday, and, in the general chit-chat at the hairdressers, I mentioned my book. Well, I got a message last night that they want to put it on their social media! I said they'd better read it first to vet it, as there are a few darker moments in there! Still, it was a nice moment. 🤗

    Today is Zoom with my old schoolfriends. B just got back from Australia yesterday, so that will be a good catch-up. She has three grandchildren out there. A long way to go to see your loved ones. Her husband is well into his 80s. She said it all went well.

    I'm debating whether to go into town today. Because my hair is presentable, I feel I ought to make use of it! 👱‍♀️ IKEA have opened a pop-up shop while they are waiting for the big one to open in the autumn. I'm curious. Plus I can always use M&S food. 😋 It gets me walking, which is the main thing, and I can pick up something for John for our 22nd 'meeting anniversary' next month. It's the same day as Max's 14th birthday. Luckily, he only wants money this year and has been doing jobs to earn more. He cleared the whole overgrown garden of weeds for his parents. John has also got him a really good economics book.

    My 'author's copies' arrive today, so I will have to organise myself into a photo session with John the esteemed photographer. If I can face producing a quick video, I will. Doing new things enlivens the brain!

    Love to all, Heather UK xxxxxxxx

  • TerriRichardson112
    TerriRichardson112 Posts: 19,695 Member

    Tracey: MOT is annual Ministry of Transport test for car roadworthyness for all cars over 5 years old. Mine is 13 years old.

    🤗🤗🤗 and 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 for those who need them.

    🙋‍♀️ céad míle fáilte to our newbies

    ☘️ Terri

  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,867 Member

    (((Debbie, Barbara, and Rebecca)))

    I so understand your disappointment in not being given some of the things you cherished!

    Carol in GA

  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,401 Member

    Morning all

    Last night didn't sleep well but that isn't unusual, and then my brother called at 6:45 this morning..he is just beside himself without his pup,and Jean is just a jerk and doesn't return his calls and ignores him..and when she does show up she is usually drunk and belittles him and just wants money..

    Taking my meds and the high of 78 today..yipee

  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,769 Member

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  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 4,306 Member

    In regarding stuff, I wanted to add living a simpler life doesn't really involve just getting rid of stuff, its about finding the stuff that really matters, and in doing that, you make your world shine. Removing the chaos of clutter does help.🤗💖

    Rebecca Whidbey Wa

  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 4,306 Member
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    Oops it was Carla that sent me a cute handmade card, this nice planters one. The other one is from my eldest sister, handmade.

    This one with the bouquet is one she made and sent with the quilt and pillow.💖

    This one is by my coffee maker framed, another one of her creations. I guess she took a class.💖🤗

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    If you wanna send me a card though, feel free, I would love to display your creativity! Send me a pm for my address. I will write you back with my pen pal stuff.🙃😂

    Rebecca Whidbey Wa

  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 4,306 Member

    In all honesty, stuff is just that, stuff. I never did need whole rooms of stuff to remember my mother or father.💖. I think being dismissed hurt more, but I know it wasn't intentional. Their lives were in Oregon, and I was off in CA. I wasn't in their realm. Do you know my eldest sister was angry at my husband for many years? She said that he had taken me from the family, my personality changed. She was more just mad at the Navy but the Navy didn't have a face so it was easier to blame husband. Crazy, but I suppose I understand. I adapted to the Navy way, my actions more disciplined, I guess.⚓👍🏼

    Rebecca Whidbey Wa

  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,769 Member

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  • dlfk202000
    dlfk202000 Posts: 3,460 Member

    Barbara and Rebecca- thank you for both understanding and for telling me your stories. Love to hear them.

    Got to walk with an old friend(former, YEARS ago) daycare parent. Her daughter was 5 when she was here, 27 yrs ago. She had been in my class when I taught at the preschool. I decided I wanted to do daycare again so gave my notice. Her and 5 other kids from the preschool all started coming to my daycare the following Monday. She was a sweet helper when son was born shortly after that. I haven't seen the girl in over 20 yrs I don't think. Saw her mom(the one I walked with 10 yrs ago). Found out she likes to walk her dog at the wetlands so we finally met up and walked today. Almost an hour and a half. Was nice to have someone to walk with but she did tend to focus the talk around herself, but that was ok.

    Going to mom's tomorrow so gassed up the car today. Will go get the roll away bed from MIL's house to take up so I will have a bed to sleep in.

    Took two corned beef out of the freezer to cook tonight to take up for Saturday dinner. I will leave the left overs for mom. I will freeze in small portions for her.

  • exermom
    exermom Posts: 6,695 Member

    Tracey – good for you starting walking! I enjoy it, to me it’s “me” time. Love the card

    Mo – I am so sorry for your loss. I just don’t feel it’s my place to tell W what to do. Personally, when their big boss comes, I think he should find the place sparkling, which would mean things like the walls should be cleaned, I know at the soup kitchen they clean the drains every Friday, there’s these drawers where they keep bacon things (maybe others, I don’t know), they can be cleaned. But I would have no idea if you need to use a certain cleaner or what. There are only certain cleaning cloths that you can use in the back. I need to use the red, not the blue or the yellow. Why, I have no idea.

    Lisa – like I’ve said, my gardening philosophy is “if God means for it to live, it’ll live”

    Margaret – would you believe that I didn’t get my first UTI until about 20 years ago. Haven’t had one since. My cousin had to tell me what it was!

    The plan for tomorrow is to do some spinning and then use the rowing machine. Then I need to go to WalMart. We have a zoom meeting at 10 for the condo. Then ceramics at night

    Rebecca – take care of yourself

    My neighbor gave me a hosta that I hope will work in the area I want. If not, no harm done

    Allie – What did Tracey use in those ice pops? I use a 32oz container of plain greek yogurt, a 12oz can of OJ concentrate not reconstituted, mix the two together.

    Thurs here: Did spinning then used the rowing machine. I think I should wait a couple more weeks before I go in the pool

    Went to ceramics and they were closed. Wish we’d known. Oh well. So I came home and planted a plant. I honestly don’t know if it’ll make it or not. It’s a hosta but I planted it in full sun. I know they usually like shade. Well, in our first house there were hostas on the side of the house in full sun and they did fine. If it dies, no big deal. At this price (free) I’m not about to worry if it doesn’t make it. Then I finished the weed whacking, did a bit of weeding on the hill, no big shakes. In a sense, glad I was able to get to that.

    Planting the plant was a pleasure. The ground was soft from the rain, I didn’t even need the pickax.

    Debbie – I feel your pain. I’m glad to see your husband is coming to terms with his mother’s situation

    Barbara – I don’t really understand what you mean by Vince covering for me at ceramics. What do you mean?

    After exercise went to WalMart, then home to put away the groceries. We had a zoom meeting for the condo and in the middle of it we lost power! A friend from down there called to see when we were coming and said not much more happened.

    The guy who is doing the bathroom said that he expected to be finished today so the plan right now is to go down there May 8 and stay until the 12th. I know when we get down there I have to do laundry since we used the sheets to cover the furniture and now there’s dust all over them. We’ll have to clean, just don’t know how much. I suspect that when I see it, I probably can’t wait to have the other bathroom done.

    Seems there was some sort of leak in the condo above us but if we had any damage, I’m sure C would have mentioned it since he was there every day.

    Made a chocolate cake for Vince today. Actually, it came out quite good. And low calorie, only 3T of oil but it had applesauce and yogurt in it

    Soup kitchen tomorrow. I hope it’s like this when I get out, not raining. If so, I may have tog et one or two more plants, but that will be it for this year….I think

    When my grandmother died all I wanted was her sewing machine. I did get it, but my aunt really cleaned it out. The memories of my pretending to use it and going thru the drawers. Wish she’d left things in the drawers, but at least I got the sewing machine. When my dad passed, the only thing I wanted was his rocking chair. I’d hoped to rock my grandchild in it but that didn’t happen.

    Well, we decided which contractor we are going with for the deck. It originally was between two of them, but one wanted us to take care of all the permits, etc. It seems to be quite involved. The other guy will do it all. He’s done it before so he’ll be on top of things. This was the guy who didn’t call when he was supposed to be here. But his quote was reasonable and the fact that he’ll take care of all the permits is a big factor to us.

    Lanette – Aldi used to not take credit cards, and they’ve changed so hopefully WINCO will also.

    I donated MIL and FIL’s highschool yearbooks to their schools.

    Michele

  • dlfk202000
    dlfk202000 Posts: 3,460 Member

    Barbara ,Tracey,Carol,Lynette and Rebecca- thank you for both understanding and for telling me your stories. Love to hear them.

    Rita- my dad was highly allergic to honey bees. He had the epi-pens in a few different places. He had 15 min to get into town after a sting. Scary when they lived 10 miles from town. One time, he almost didn't make it. The whites of his eyes were red by the time he got there.He was not allergic to wasps.I have not been stung that I can remember so I am afraid of getting stung now, just in case.My younger sister said she is allergic to them too but I don't know if hers is a severe as dad's was

    Got to walk with an old friend(former, YEARS ago) daycare parent. Her daughter was 5 when she was here, 27 yrs ago. She had been in my class when I taught at the preschool. I decided I wanted to do daycare again so gave my notice. Her and 5 other kids from the preschool all started coming to my daycare the following Monday. She was a sweet helper when son was born shortly after that. I haven't seen the girl in over 20 yrs I don't think. Saw her mom(the one I walked with 10 yrs ago). Found out she likes to walk her dog at the wetlands so we finally met up and walked today. Almost an hour and a half. Was nice to have someone to walk with but she did tend to focus the talk around herself, but that was ok.

    Going to mom's tomorrow so gassed up the car today. Will go get the roll away bed from MIL's house to take up so I will have a bed to sleep in.

    Took two corned beef out of the freezer to cook tonight to take up for Saturday dinner. I will leave the left overs for mom. I will freeze in small portions for her.