WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR MAY 2025

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  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,776 Member

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  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,871 Member

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  • minicooper452
    minicooper452 Posts: 713 Member

    Ohhh Tracey, you're such a good daughter. I'm so sorry. It's just heartbreaking; isn't it. Praying for you.

    I remember talking to my mommy about people she remembered and having to make up stories for her. It just broke my heart sometimes. Then the next day, she was clear as a bell. You never knew what you were going to get. Freddy dealt with that too with both of his parents. He was my rock with my mom. I hope you have someone to lean on.

    Just a lazy weekend here, playing with paper, scissor and glue. Still got loads of cards to send out to anyone who wants to message me with important dates and their address!

    Love and Blessings
    Carla, in MN

  • SophieRosieMom
    SophieRosieMom Posts: 3,888 Member
    edited May 3

    Debbie - once your tomato seeds germinate, do you then pot them up in progressively larger containers - let's say a gallon pot before putting them into the ground or a larger container? I start mine in the little "plugs", then move into 4" pots, then into 1 gallon pots and tie them to little stakes. I'm nearly out of the gallon pots left over from Master Gardener days but have saved a lot of the large cottage cheese and yogurt containers. I'll poke holes in the bottom and use them for the bigger plants. I really overplanted! Hope T can help me find homes for them, otherwise I'll drop them off at a weekly church foodbank down the street if they'll let me. Might have to do a drop and run, lol.

    Lisa - snakes? ACK! Are they poisonous? By the way, funny you mentioned your tummy might have been off due to the Activia. I'm just about done with the little 8-pack I bought a couple weeks ago and think I'll lay off for a while. For one thing, I'm not used to eating sweetened yogurt like that. Not sure that I'm getting any benefit from it - my digestion has been OK anyhow, probably from the other probiotic foods I normally eat. I thought the new bacteria might give things a boost and maybe it has, it's just not evident which is OK.

    Rita - your new temporary spot sounds wonderful. Enjoy the new sights, the water and the birds. Glad your son is back in rehab and you are connecting with the therapist.

    Carla - you crafty folks make me realize how much I miss it. Raising tomatoes aren't cutting it for me, lol. I got a message from T last night, she was busy having fun yesterday. I think our visit to the art gallery energized her - "I'm addicted to DIY cheap project videos! I'm so excited! I love making things!! Especially making things out of junk or things you normally would throw away like tin cans, cardboard, etc." I can't wait to see what she's been doing, she said she'd share some photos and video links. She's a scrap-booker and crafter from way back.

    Cutting back on protein….

    After some strict logging the past few days, I realize it's hard for me to cut protein back to under 100 gm per day. If I'm only eating 1500 calories a day, then it's doable. When I'm over 2000 calories per day, my options are to "up" carbs, which I don't want to do since lower-carbing has been working well for me.

    I'm putting effort into getting more plant-based proteins like beans and nuts and starchy veggies like sweet potatoes - and I already eat plenty. But I can certainly eat more. I'm making a list of nutrition talking points to go over with Dr. Lisa on Thursday. Since well over half of her patients are older like me, and in various states of health, she should have plenty of experience.

    Diabetes prevention classes almost finished — HOORAY!

    I am SO READY for the diabetes prevention classes to be done! I cannot emphasize this enough. Only two more classes; it's been a year of them which started out weekly, then they went to twice a month. I could have dropped out ages ago, but I like my classmates and generally pick up good info like the discussions about the CGM's (continuous glucose monitors.)

    I have learned a lot of useful tips for meal planning, exercise, etc., but the nutrition focus has been on a low-fat, low calorie program which just is not sustainable for me. And weighing each week or two and reporting it. Sigh. It's like WW all over again and even though there are no comments or criticism about our weight from the leader, there's a gal still living deep in my psyche who let the number WW scale rule her life and determine her happiness with her body for decades.

    I have noticed, with my recent weight gain, the "what the heck, you already blew it with that couple pounds you gained so go ahead and have a couple slices of buttered toast with honey" is an easy pattern to fall back into.😫

    I'm looking forward to just gauging my success by how my clothing fits, and using the bathroom scale for emergencies like smashing spiders. 😁 And being satisfied keeping my weight "within range."

    So far, the only appointment for next week is Thursday with Dr. Lisa then lunch with L right after. Having the rest of the week just staying home seems like a luxury after last week of having to be someplace/meet someone for three days straight. In a way, I'm looking forward to next week like some of you look forward to going on a vacation I suppose. 😁 That's an introvert for ya.

    Make it a fabulous weekend! 😍

    Lanette 😎

    SW WA State

  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,407 Member
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    Delia likes her new toy.. and they went to see Thomas the tank engine today..

  • margaretturk
    margaretturk Posts: 5,441 Member

    M I think you got why you have trouble on your stomach when your over bend your knees when you kick that drags you down and lifting your head out of the water will make it difficult to stay flat in the water. I taught swimmers to learn how to breath properly and keep their head in the water on the side of the pool. You always keep your mouth open. When your head is in you blow out and then quickly turn your head to the side like you are laying face down on your bed and need to turn your head to the side. You aim your chin to your shoulder. I am right handed so I always aimed it towards my left shoulder. I know some instructors will teach you to use both sides. Sometimes it worked better to practice this on land before trying it in the pool. Once they had the breathing down. I would have them add a stroke where as they were lifting their arm out of the water that is when you turn your head to take the breath. As you reach for the wall that is when you turn your head back into the water blowing air out. By learning how to breathe properly when swimming this helps you to keep your head in the water so it easier to stay afloat on your stomach. I would also help them to learn to kick with straight legs while holding onto the side of the pool. It does help to break up the components of swimming and then put the pieces together. I am delighted you are learning the skills of swimming especially since you have so many great places to swim.

    I would not attempt to swim in areas where there are rip tides. Even highly experienced swimmers can get into trouble with rip tides. I also learned as a life guard. Know your limits and do not attempt to help a drowning person directly if you know it is too much for you. You always start with pushing a life preserver of board in front of you to offer them first or if in a pool use a pole or hook for them to grab and brace yourself so you will not be pulled in.

    Also this is a good reminder this start of swimming season is sometimes people drown without all the thrashing. They get water in their lungs and cannot call out and will sink straight down. I remind parents and grandparents if you take you children swimming you keep your eye on them even if there is a lifeguard. The lifeguard has a wide area to keep track of and my miss if your child is having a problem.

    I am not fond of water wings. It gives a swimmer a false sense of security and they can up up in trouble because they try something beyond their skill set.

    The best gift you can give them is to get them in a good program to teach them how to swim!

    I still remember in college a young high school boy drowned in the pool because the college allowed the local basketball team the use of the pool after the game. The coaches were in the bleachers and assumed everyone there knew how to swim. They found the boy unresponsive at the boy at the bottom of the pool. He did not make it. He was probably too embarrassed to admit he did not know how to swim!

  • exermom
    exermom Posts: 6,698 Member

    Worked then had to buy gas. Stopped at Sam’s since they had Gatorade with a sale price. Came home and cut the lawn. Vince hurt his knee so I finished.

    Sue WA – have fun at the concert. Sure hope dd makes it

    leaving this Thurs to go to FL for only 4 days. I did ask the other gal at BK if W would work for me (asked thru Google Translate). As expected, she said “si” and I said “thank you”. I’m sure she understands “thank you”

    deb – I remember one year I was staying with my aunt and she had a garden. We ate so many tomatoes right out of the garden that when I got home I, literally, got sick. But I still love a tomato still warm from the sun

    I gave PJ an easel once, I haven’t seen it. Wonder if he ever got to use it?

    Cleaned the wall from the spa into the pool. For some reason, there’s always these gray streaks after the winter. So I just clean them and they come off. Then got leaves out of the spa. I’m sure there are more. Vince spray painted the green poles, I didn’t do it the way he would have so he did it. Started to rain so they’re drying in the garage right now. Hopefully, by tomorrow I will be able to get my car back in the garage. Put flags by the plants that I’ll ask my neighbor to water while we’re in FL (just one day). Church tonight.

    Took a short walk around the block but then it started to rain. Made a chocolate pudding pie because I had some heavy cream that I wanted to use up

    Since I don’t work tomorrow, the plan is to do a Firm Total Muscle Shaping DVD and then part of the 10 Minute Solution Yoga DVD. Then I think I’ll take a walk to Food Lion.

    Michele

  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,407 Member
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    Think today was a stellar day !!

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  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 26,101 Member
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 26,101 Member
    edited May 4

    Plant people … do you know what the tall, palm-like, plant is?

    We'd like to get more of them if possible, but it helps to know what they are. 😊

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    And a humorous article for you to enjoy about how Australia is different from other parts of the world. 😁

    https://www.escape.com.au/destinations/australia/things-we-take-for-granted-in-australia/image-gallery/234e4fe4d58ac60fae96173f112a63b0

    Machka in Oz

  • dlfk202000
    dlfk202000 Posts: 3,467 Member

    Lynette- Yes, I will transplant some of the starts in to bigger pots, just like you do. Especially the ones at mom's that are planted in flats
    I text the guy that lives in the motor home on her property and had him check the greenhouse- she has remembered to water it or my nephew who is visiting for two weeks is doing it.
    He also told me that they (nephew and mom) were going to go look at a truck for her after she totaled hers.

    Michele- Fresh tomatoes, still warm, are the best.

    Had the show today. It rained on the drive up to Vacaville and while we were setting up but then it cleared up. Stayed cool. About half the vendors as last year and about half the customers I think. Sales were really down. Barely sold $100 worth of stuff. Next Saturday will be better- We will be in Lodi.
    Dh did really enjoy talking about our stuff, telling them how he did things, etc. Not having the dread of dealing with his mom because he missed a day seeing her is making a big difference.

    Need to go to Lowes tomorrow- to pick up potting soil I ordered online. Ordered it the last day of the sale. Need to pick it up by Tuesday.
    Want to get more work done in the garden. Maybe tomorrow.

    Debbie
    Napa Valley,CA

  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 26,101 Member

    Cycling and gardening today.

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    Machka in Oz

  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 26,101 Member

    Lisa … after further research, we think the tall palm-like plants in the photo above are actually madagascar dragon tree (dracaena reflexa var. angustifolia).

    They're taller than me!

    I did wonder about bamboo or palm.

    Machka in Oz

  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,871 Member

    Allie ~ Delia is going to be walking before you know it! Love her blue eyes.

    Heather ~ Edie is a blessing to you and Johnny!

    Rebecca ~ So glad your son if feeling better.

    Lisa ~ I ordered some wildflower seeds this morning and just hope they come up. It may be too late for planting.

    Debbie ~ Good news that your DH seems to be less anxious.

    Tomatoes ~ I wish I could find some really good tomatoes. Maybe I can find some at one of the farm stands because the ones from the grocery never seem good. I have no idea how to grow my own and am probably too lazy to do so.

    We finally have sunshine today after several days of rain and storms. Will probably get more later in the week around Wednesday. Hoping the lawn people show up and get the yard done.

    Carol in GA

  • kevrit
    kevrit Posts: 4,582 Member

    Sorry about large pictures. I did select small for all of them, but when I posted, they went to full size! IDK

    Thought for today:

    Why can you never count on the weather when you move around?

    Rain drops!

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    RVRita in Dexter (Roswell)

  • dlfk202000
    dlfk202000 Posts: 3,467 Member
    edited May 4

    Thank you-

    The tomatoes at the stores are generally picked green or close to it, that is why there is no flavor.
    If they waited until they were ripe to pick, they wouldn't survive transport.
    You can plant them in just large pots- they do well in containers. Just need to stake them up.
    They don't need a lot of care really, just watering it. Loves lots of sun.
    All of my garden is in either raised beds(dad and mom built two of them for me years ago-LOVE them) or big pots. The soil is terrible here. I plant some tomatoes in one of the raised beds, the rest in pots(because I don't have room for all of them in the raised bed and the second one is for my cucumbers)

  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 4,312 Member
    edited May 4

    Pip

    I'm so sorry your friends cat didn't make it. Glad she has you there though.💖. My condolences.😥

    Rebecca Whidbey Wa

  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 4,312 Member

    I have noticed that correcting stuff as you go along is hard. Like if you want to make the photos smaller and you already posted is troublesome. Also like if you want to make a name bold, you have to do it when youre all done typing, but before you actually hit reply.

  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,407 Member

    Afternoon ladies

    Got Sean out early grocery shopping,and Jean hasn't paid the cable bill,phone internet ,and changed it to Seans name,and it's over 1000.00 ,she knows that he doesn't have the money and she doesn't care.. first of all he doesn't have the account #s or anything for it..

    She is just mean and vindictive. I'm taking him to State of Connecticut to get some stuff taken care of.

    Did my pills for the week,and got something from Yale saying that my kidney is good not really any chance of rejection. Yipee