WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR MAY 2025
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Kim - Ginny called it with your friend. I've been in a similar, though not quite the same situation, and it took some convincing, but was worth it to keep the friendship. Not saying yours is or isn't worth it, but if you decide that it is, it's worth putting in the energy to save. Mine was.
Which reminds me - to anyone I've skipped over or ignored in the most recent week, I've been all-consumed with the cleanup outside as well as the colonoscopy tomorrow, so my always faulty attention span has been oriented toward home and inward. Apologies… I do read everyone's posts and think of you all. More than you know.
Rori - good to see you. Enjoy your GG time!
Machka - So well done on the weight loss! And your walks are quite lovely.
Carol - For me, writing is a part of me, not quite as necessary as breathing, but very nearly as involuntary. I do tend to recommend it to everyone because of that. Hard to realize (for me) that writing could be hard—thank you for reminding me. I'm glad you're writing out your feelings about the current sitation that is causing you to need an outlet, though. I've deleted an awful lot of things, so you won't get an argument there. Why on earth keep something that you would want no one else to read and don't want to go back to yourself? It's why I genuinely didn't mourn the loss of my journals. By writing the autobiography, I picked what I wanted people to know about my life, and the loss of the physical journals meant little to me.
Barbie - That was my intent in mentioning my letters to my mother too, of course. What it did do, besides the actual writing of the letter themselves, was allow me to soften that stabbing pain of being unable to call her or see her, and replace it with, "I'll tell her about it in my next letter, she'll love that." Ginny's way of going about things makes a lot of sense to me too, and yours.
Heather - One thing that British and European schools have over the United States is travel for students to different countries without much fuss. It's a huge deal for a U.S. schoolkid to travel to any other country, and usually only open to the wealthiest students.
Moved over to tea this morning, a mixture of Yorkshire black tea and Good Earth Sweet & Spicy, to eke it out through the day. Don't feel like going to the store. Throw in a little sweetener, a bit of vanilla and a pinch of salt, and I'm happy. Coffee always needs creamer, and I can't use cream or non-dairy until after the test. Can't bear it black. And putting sweetener in black coffee is just putting lipstick on a pig, in my opinion. Yurk.
But - it's time to ferry some coffee in to the boy… he took yesterday completely off, as everything was soaked, plus a couple of rainshowers throughout the day. He was awake before I was this morning! But as soon as I got up, he scurried back and jumped in bed. His happy place is weekend mornings in our bed with an a/c running, Egg laying next to him, and a laptop on his knees. Like walking into a walk-in cooler. 😀
Love y'all,
Lisa in AR7 -
Machka -
So well done on the weight loss! And your walks are quite lovely.
Thanks! And that picture was taken about a mile from where I live (1.6, 1.7 or so km).
When I've talked about nearby swimming possibilities … if that is any good for swimming, I've got all of that! I've seen people wading and I know it is quite shallow for quite a way out. It's very tidal, so when the tide goes out, I can walk quite a way out.
But that's all I've discovered so far.
Machka in Oz
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😀 Today Annie is two years old. When I told some neighbors about her upcoming birthday they were almost pushy in their insistence that I should buy doggie cupcakes or some similar treat for her (yes, there are such things). It made me think about ow insistent people are about how we humans should treat ourselves with sugary treats on special days. Annie was much happier with the Benebone peanut butter flavored wishbone shaped chewy designed for dogs that are strong chewers.
😀 Ginny, thanks for what you said about talking to your DH even years later. Sometimes I feel disloyal as I notice all the things he bought and never used and the things he said he would take care of and never did.
😀 Rori, your last weeks with your husband and your brother were so difficult. I'm glad you've found a good life for yourself since then. Caregiving is one of life's toughest chapters and not every caregiver recovers.
😀 Machka, thanks for all your interesting info about staying hydrated. I started drinking more water at the suggestion of a medical professional and have continued for years. One morning at my dance class I felt slightly dizzy and realized that even though I had water with me, I hadn't been drinking it. Since then I've been even more focused on the water I drink. Water is all I drink, no juice, pop, coffee, tea, etc.
😀 Debbie, your description of your mother sounds like me.
😀 A long time ago I saw a cartoon some where of a sad man looking at big bags marked "husband chow". Since then I've called all the goofy meals I fix for myself "Barbie chow". They are things that I wouldn't fix for Jake or anyone else. I think Heather has a lot of meals that she fixes just for herself when Johnny is away with his friends or family. Rebecca's new meal plan sounds like it could be called "Rebecca chow".
😪 Rainy day today so now fence washing or weed pulling.
😍 Barbie in NW WA
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Tracey - Beth
and others who are familiar with nursing homes… do you know if effort is made to make sure the residents are hydrated? Perhaps offering soups, flavored drinks and other foods like fruits help make up for the hydration if the residents aren't keen on drinking plain water?Lanette … the staff are constantly pushing fluids! You should see how many beverage cups are at each person's plate during mealtime. My mom gets a 4oz glass of V-8 juice (her preference), an 8 oz glass of chocolate milk, a mini can of Coke, an 8 oz glass of water. But you know the saying "you can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink …" Most of those items remain untouched.
Lanette and Machka … thank you for the water/dehydration information. I do not drink enough and need to remedy that.
Carol … I don't know why you think you are not a "writer." Your posts are always thoughtful and well written.
Rebecca… my very good friend is on Zepbound. She has lost 80 pounds so far (not sure how long she's been on it, but I want to say around 9 months). There was a snafu one week where her recorded weight was not sent in on time to the insurance company and she had to go 3-1/2 weeks without the Zepbound until the problem/wait period was worked out. She gained 13+ pounds in that period. But she is very happy with the results and the positive effects it has had on her health (she has some health issues).
It's been a year now since my cochlear implant was activated. Meeting with my audiologist and the implant rep today to make some tweaks to the processor and test to see how well I'm hearing. Then I plan to visit the Verizon store and check into phones/new plans. If time, I want to also shop for a baby shower gift for a friend's daughter.
Have a great day!
Beth near Buffalo
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My UTI came roaring back this morning. I had twinges last night, but I'm always optimistic that I can deal with it myself. I never can. 😥 When the locum doc only gave me 3 days of antibiotics last week, I was doubtful. So, by 11 am I rang the surgery and by 1.45 John brought the fosfomycin back for me. It is a one dose, heavy duty antibiotic in a sachet you mix with water. I had to postpone my delicious lunch plate of food, as it has to be taken on an empty stomach. Here's hoping!
My previous experience of one dose antibiotics, is that they knock you for six! Fortunately, I have nothing pressing on the agenda. Lots of stuff has arrived from Amazon, but it can all wait. The bedlinen feels amazing! The painter keeps bringing parcels into us.😄
Well, I have some amazing news. 🤩 John said that my room looks so wonderful that he wants to do his!!!! It is a major undertaking, with window, carpet, furniture, etc etc all needing replacing. I suggested that he could have fitted wardrobes (IKEA) all down one wall, and he leapt at the idea! Then almost all the other furniture could go. There is one glass fronted cabinet that is worth keeping, maybe in his study if we got rid of a cheap bookcase.
Can you believe it! "Your room looks so nice!" 🤠
So, watch this space!
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
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Allie,
You can call them finger cats if you wanna!😂💖👍🏼 I read since I am on Zepbound, and one of the things I done is slow down your digestion a bit so you feel full, not have snacking urges. So when taking meds its slows down them being processed as well. So for me, I take my Nature's Bounty Sleep3 melatonin pill 2 hours before bed.
Sorry you didn't sleep well😥. Its a rainy day here on Whidbey and I felt like a rag doll at 6 am when I told husband to wake me up from v the gym. I WAS planning on attending the gym, but with my sister coming up to the house on the 4th I am thinking I need to spruce this place a bit. Yesterday I vacuumed the living room, dining room, hallway, and kitchen. Up ending couches, removing cushions and sweeping out, plus moving all tables, lamps etc. When I say I turn on the vacuum, its a whole thing. So having done that I was kinda sore as well this morning. I shall just do a bit of vacuuming up stairs and call it good.
Rebecca Whidbey Wa
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Tracey in Edmonton,
Aaack, sorry about your Pyrex cracking (I imagined). I hope you can order a replacement.
I know things that I do, don't make sense to all, (by the look of confusion when I tell them how I do things), but it makes sense to me. As I have gotten older I have gotten worse with my incentricities. I have become an odd bird, but husband hasn't thrown me out with the bathwater, so that's something! I did thank him yesterday, for putting up with all this Zepbound business, logging all my food, and my need to tell him all about it.😂
Rebecca Whidbey Wa
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M and Lanette Thanks for info and reminders about drinking more water/liquid. I have tried to up mine and see and feel a difference. I will say for me when I don't sleep well because of overdoing during the day which causes leg cramps at night I want to eat more. Eating does not make up for the lack of good sleep.
Until gardens and windows are in I am saying no to anything extra I am not already committed to. Hopefully by mid June the work will be done.
Rori I did not keep a journal during time with DH and DS. When appropriate and with the right person I do share certain details otherwise I keep my focus forward. I also look with gratitude for the love and what I learned having them in my life rather than what now is missing.
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Carol in GA,
Awe thanks for the encouraging words. I'm such an all or nothing person. I'm either in it to win it, or I delete it from my life. I need to learn to dial things back a bit, but its kind of who I am, so I need to just face facts. You writing down things is a great exercise. Think of it as "putting it physically someplace, and releasing it". I did it for a therapist once, after husband had had his transplant. Then I watched her shred it. Its a good visual and helped my brain understand it wasn't a burden I needed to carry mentally anymore.
I have been playing "words with friends", a FB app game, and its helped my spelling and weird creation of words.
Rebecca Whidbey Wa
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Beth near Buffalo,
I have been trying to drink 2 pint (12 oz), glasses of water with each meal. So with those, a 10 oz protein shake, plus a 12 oz cup of coffee, I get 94 oz a day. Just paying attention to 2 a meal makes me not lose track of how many I drink!🙃😂
How encouraging to hear of your friends weight loss success! Frustrating that her insurance company had a snafu on processing and she had to stop for a time. I understand that I will most likely be doing this for a long time. I am ok with that. Even when I get to maintenance I will be taking it, maybe not weekly but on another time schedule. Just the fact that for me it has stopped "the food noise" has renewed my commitment in this.
Rebecca Whidbey Wa
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Well, Lucy has figured out how to get on the bed. I will watch her and fix that for sure! She is a puppy and gets the ‘zombies’ puppy style which is a riot to watch. She tends to bounce and leap from one place to another in this mode, kind of like Tigger! I cut her nails yesterday after a good sized scratch on my face. She was good about that so far, so good. Now potty (paper) training is my focus!
I have Therapist and blood work tomorrow. Lucy has vet Wednesday for first shots and puppy checkup with plan for spaying. DH is wanting me to take Lucy with me on the trip next week. Only if I get the doggie purse by then that I ordered from Amazon.
Thought for today:
What do you call a can opener that doesn’t work?
A can’t opener!
RVRita in Roswell
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This month’s Diabetes class. The formatting is off because of the new format, but the info is there. I couldn’t just put a link in b/c you have to be logged into the website to get the info.
It’s on functional foods. RVRita in Roswell
Functional Foods
Overview
Functional foods are foods with extra health benefits. These
foods range from cereals with added vitamins to your
average tomato or cup of green tea. Many functional
foods have been shown to prevent diseases and improve
the health of your organs, which improves your overall
health. The goal of this session is to discuss the benefits of
functional foods and to give you tips for adding a variety of
these foods into your diet.
Phytonutrients
A food is often termed functional
because it contains a high
amount of phytonutrients.
Phytonutrients are natural
chemicals found in plants that
protect the plant in different ways.
For example, some phytonutrients
help protect plants against the sun’s powerful rays. When
you eat these plant foods, many of these natural chemicals
provide health benefits to you as well. Phytonutrients are
found in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, soy foods, legumes,
and many herbs and spices. Foods that contain
phytonutrients are often categorized by their color.
1The chart below provides ideas of phytonutrient sources.
Please note that the chart below includes only some foods,
not all foods.
Color Food Source Phytonutrient
Red Apples, kidney
Lycopene
beans, beets,
bell peppers,
cherries,
radishes,
strawberries,
tomatoes,
watermelon
Orange Apricots,
Beta-carotene
cantaloupe,
carrots, mango,
papaya, squash,
sweet potato,
turmeric
Yellow Banana, corn,
Beta-carotene
lemon,
pineapple, star
fruit
Green Artichoke,
Chlorophyll
asparagus,
avocado, bean
sprouts, broccoli,
cabbage,
celery,
cucumbers,
2peas, green tea,
limes, pear
Purple/Blue Berries, eggplant,
Flavonoids
figs, olives,
plumes, prunes,
raisins
Brown/Tan Cauliflower,
Sulfur-containing
coconut, garlic,
phytonutrients
ginger,
mushrooms, nuts,
onions, barley,
brown rice,
quinoa, oats,
wheat
✓ Skill Building Activity: Grocery Shopping for Phytonutrients.
(your coach will lead you through this activity)
Health Benefits of Phytonutrients
Evidence suggests that a diet filled with a variety of
phytonutrient-rich plant foods provides many health
benefits. Benefits include:
➢ Reduced risk of cancer and heart disease
➢ Reduced inflammation
➢ Strengthened immune system
➢ Improved skin health
➢ Sustained brain functioning during aging
➢ Improved liver health
Most phytonutrients also act as antioxidants which protect
our cells from damage.
3Antioxidants
Antioxidants are molecules within some foods that protect
cells from damage. For example, cigarette smoke, and
heavy metals like lead and asbestos are all harmful to our
cells. When cells are damaged, your health may be
compromised. Antioxidants act like an army to protect your
cells from damage.
The presence of antioxidants in a food is another reason it
may be termed “functional”. The chart below provides
some examples of foods high in antioxidants. Notice that
many of the same foods are listed in the chart above.
Again, the chart below does not include all foods.
Eggplant, berries, grapes
Red wine, tea
Sesame seeds, whole grains
Antioxidant Food Source
Anthocyanin Catechins Lignans Lutein Spinach, kale
Polyphenols Thyme, oregano
Phytonutrients vs. Antioxidants
Phytonutrients and antioxidants both have many health
boosting properties. But what are the differences? One
difference is that phytonutrients are found only in plant
foods. Antioxidants are found mainly in plant foods but
some animal foods as well. Antioxidants work solely to
prevent damage to your cells. Phytonutrients may protect
4healthy cells while also acting in other ways to promote
health. For example, a phytonutrient found in cabbage
stimulates enzymes that affect a hormone in your body and
may reduce the risk of some cancers.
Ways to Incorporate Functional Foods
There are many ways to add more functional foods into
your diet.
Here are 4 specific ideas:
1) Eat the recommended servings of fruits and vegetables
each day
2) Eat a range of colorful foods each day
3) Incorporate a wide variety of foods each day
4) Creatively substitute common staples
❖ See Handout: Fruit and Vegetable Serving Sizes
✓ Skill Building Activity: A Rainbow of Functional Foods. (your
coach will lead you through this activity)
❖ See Handout: Shopping List for Functional Foods
❖ See Handout: Functional Food Swaps
Summary
Functional foods are foods that contain health-promoting
molecules like phytonutrients and antioxidants.
Phytonutrients and antioxidants are both natural
5compounds found in plants. There are many health benefits
of functional foods including the reduced risk for many
diseases. By eating a diet that is filled with a wide variety of
colorful plant foods, you can ensure that you are adding
more functional foods into your intake.
❖ See Additional Handouts: Kale Chips, Mashed
Cauliflower, Sweet Potato Fries, Vegetable Stir-Fry
Keep Moving
Take some time to walk around your local farmer’s market
and see what types of phytonutrient and antioxidant rich
foods you can find.
Activities
□ Look over your food uploads for the last week. How
many functional foods did you find?
□ The amount of fruits and vegetables you need to eat
depends on your age, gender and level of physical
activity. With the help of your coach, determine how
many servings of fruits and vegetables you should
aim for each day.
□ Prepare on of the recipes that contain functional
foods this week.
6□ Goal setting: Work with your coach to set one goal
this week associated with this session. Example: I will
eat 3 servings of fresh fruit each day this week.
List your goal here or message it to your coach:
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Discussion/Questions
□ Ask your coach to help you determine a realistic
goal for daily servings of fruits and vegetables.
□ Discuss one way you currently incorporate a
functional food into your intake.
□ Let your group members know about a recipe you
tried and share how it tasted.
□ Create a plan for the week to add one new
functional food into your intake. Share this plan with
your group.
“You don’t need a silver fork to
eat good food.”
- Paul Prudhomme
7Fruit and Vegetable Serving Sizes
The amount of servings of fruits and vegetables you need
to eat daily depends on your age, gender, and level of
physical activity.
Your coach can help you create a goal that will ensure
you are incorporating sufficient plant foods into your
intake.
However, it may help to understand the common serving
sizes for fruits and vegetables before meal planning.
Common Serving Sizes for Fruits and Vegetables
✔ ½ cup cooked vegetables
✔ 1 cup raw leafy vegetables
✔ ½ cup vegetable juice
✔ 1 medium-sized piece of fruit
✔ ½ cup chopped, cooked or canned fruit
✔ ½ cup fruit juice (100% juice)
Tips:
When choosing canned vegetables, opt for low sodium.
Choose fruit and vegetable juices that contain no added
sugars and are labeled 100% juice.
Opt for fruit that is canned in water or fruit juice as opposed
to syrup.Shopping List for Functional Foods
Fruit Frozen Food
Avocados
Cantaloupe
Figs
Pineapple
Pomegranate
Frozen berries
Frozen mangoes
Frozen peas
Frozen collard greens
Frozen corn
Vegetables Herbs and Spices
Bell peppers
Kale
Onions
Sweet potatoes
Squash
Turmeric
Garlic
Ginger
Cocoa poweder
Bakery Canned / Dry Items
Whole grain bread
Whole wheat pita
Corn tortillas
Whole wheat tortillas
Dry beans
Brown rice
Quinoa
Nut butter
Mixed nuts
Sunflower seeds
Chia seeds
Ground flax seeds
Other
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__________________________________ _______________________Functional Food Swaps
Incorporating more functional foods into your diet may be
as simple as swapping out common staples for more
nutrient-dense options.
Below are easy swaps you can make:
Common Staple Functional Food Swap
Potato chips Kale chips or zucchini chips
Mashed potatoes Mashed sweet potatoes
White rice Brown, wild, or black rice
White bread Whole wheat bread
Flour tortilla Corn tortillas or whole wheat
tortillas
Milk chocolate Dark chocolate
Beer Red wine
Cappuccino Herbal tea
Ground beef Lentils
Cheese Avocado
Mayonnaise Hummus
Salt Garlic, lemon juice or vinegar
Creamy Ranch salad dressing Tahini and lemon juiceKale Chips
Kale is an excellent source of antioxidant vitamins A, C,
and K and phytonutrients.
The fiber content of this cruciferous vegetable adds
additional health benefits.
Try this quick and delicious alternative “chip” to give your
body a healthy boost.
INGREDIENTS:
● 1 head kale, washed and thoroughly dried
● 2 Tbsp. olive oil
● Sea salt, for sprinkling
DIRECTIONS:
1. Preheat the oven to 350°F.
2. Remove the ribs and stems from the kale, leaving only the
leaves.
3. Cut leaves into 1 ½” pieces.
4. Toss with olive oil and salt, and lay out on a baking sheet.
5. Bake until crisp (for about 5-10 minutes), leaves should just
be beginning to brown.
* Cook’s Note:
Try adding a sprinkle of your favorite spice, seasoning or
Parmesan cheese for added flavor.Mashed Cauliflower
This recipe is a nutritious and is a lower calorie alternative
to mashed potatoes .
INGREDIENTS:
● 1 large head cauliflower, cut into florets
● 3 cups chicken broth
● 3 Tbsp. of butter
● 1 cup shredded white cheddar cheese
● ¼ cup grated Parmesan
● Salt and pepper to taste
DIRECTIONS:
1. Bring cauliflower and chicken broth to a boil in a large
saucepan over high heat.
2. Reduce to medium heat and let simmer for 10 minutes.
Uncover and increase to medium-high heat for another 10
minutes. This will allow the cauliflower to soften as the
cooking liquid reduces to about ½ the original amount.
3. Remove from heat and add butter and cheese. Mash
with potato masher or use electric mixer on low until the
cheese has melted and the texture is smooth.
4. Season with salt and pepper as needed.Sweet Potato Fries
Sweet potatoes are an excellent source of
beta-carotene, a phytonutrient with many health benefits.
This recipe is a tasty twist on traditional fries.
INGREDIENTS:
● 2 medium-sized sweet potatoes
● 1 ½ Tbsp. olive oil (a couple of tablespoons or so, just
enough to lightly and evenly coat the fries)
● Salt, pepper and spices (cinnamon, cayenne, cumin,
curry powder, and paprika are all good options)
● 1 Tbsp. cornstarch (optional, can make fries crispier)
DIRECTIONS:
1. Preheat the oven to 425° F.
2. Peel the sweet potatoes and cut them into fry wedges or
rounds.
3. Toss the uncooked fries in a mixing bowl with cornstarch
(optional), olive oil, and seasonings. Mix thoroughly.
4. Pour the fries directly onto a baking sheet; arrange fries in
a single layer.
5. Bake for 25-30 minutes, flipping once during baking.Vegetable Stir-Fry
INGREDIENTS:
● 1 Bell pepper, sliced
● 1 cup button mushrooms
● ½ yellow onion, sliced
● 1 medium zucchini, sliced
● 1 Tbsp. butter, olive oil or refined coconut oil
● Dash of salt & pepper
● 3 - 6” whole wheat tortillas
DIRECTIONS:
1. In a saucepan over medium heat, melt butter or oil.
Add in sliced veggies & mushrooms.
2. Lightly season with salt & pepper.
3. Cook veggies until they begin to soften (you want
them to still have a bit of a crunch).
4. Layer in tortillas & enjoy!
Pair with a side of Spanish rice, refried beans, lettuce, and Pico
de Gallo for a real restaurant experience at home!
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Hello, my dears,
Just got off the phone with my best friend, who may be able to come by again in the fall. She's doing better with her dad's death, but is working on getting his house in good enough shape to rent to traveling nurses. Plans to do it through a property manager, and is renting mainly to keep the house in good shape as much as anything. They deteriorate so quickly if they're not lived in.
Sue in WA - I didn't tell her your horror story. Hopefully the renter from Hades was a one off! 😳 Did you ever rent it out again?
Heather - So sorry on the UTI. They really are a terrible feeling, glad you're staying on top of it.
Rebecca - So pleased it's working for you. Not thinking about food at all is such an amazing freedom. My current restriction has reminded me quite sharply of how it felt when I thought of food ALL THE TIME. Just a few more hours for me on this, though, and I'm grateful for that small mercy. Your awareness of Zepbound's capabilities and drawbacks will help you have lots of success.
Allie - I know you've got lots more advice for Rebecca than I ever could. I've been really impressed with your success, and I know your doctors are happy with it, as well.
Tracey - Loved the deck and the table - and glad you were able to get something you're happy with for the table! I think it looks great. My mother painting everything that wasn't moving or red hot left me with the urge to cover any surface I'm not happy with! 😜 Stick-on tiles are a big deal here, a lot easier to find.
Corey's in the back bedroom repairing what needs repairing and getting drywall put up on the other side of the small bathroom wall that he put up to expand that room a bit. After that painting and then flooring.
While he's doing that, I am going to be emptying the small workroom that makes up one wall of the carport, and getting the various tools, etc., into zones (in clutterbug terms) that make them make more sense and easier to find. We've spent a couple years throwing things in there that didn't go anywhere else, so a lot of that will come out as well.
It will keep me busy, distracted from my gut but close to the bathroom. The liquid prep starts in a couple hours, and this way I also won't be wandering around outside in the mud. Can also make a second pair of hands available if Corey needs to move something or have me hold something.
Later,
Love y'all,
Lisa in AR4 -
Ginny - this is often me. I wonder if our DH's were brothers. I think you are my sister! 😉 Lately, I've been telling DH I'm miffed at him for leaving me "friendless". The special type of close friendship/housemate, the memories and many good times over nearly 50 years that I won't be able to replicate with anyone else, and I don't want to go to all the work anyhow.
But, I do miss having someone say "I'm glad you're home safe" that isn't a dog or chicken looking for food. 😁 Ref your post this morning….
Barbie
- my DH will be gone 10 years in July. I still talk out loud to him at times (not as much as in the beginning). I have talked about my anger of him leaving, I have cursed over the stuff he was always going to do and I got left with the mess, I talk to him about the kids and grandkids and other various things. I have also given myself permission to not feel guilty for not missing some of the junk. Choosing which show to watch is an amazing freedom. Buying the food I want. Not having some of the disturbance that increased as his depression and other issues increased. You are doing great!
Rori - I think you've got it right. You don't appear to want to replace your DH and I don't think that's your goal. Your relationship with N reminds me of the fun dating years, but without the pressure of worrying about what's in store for the future. I figure if God has a plan for me like that, then it will happen. In the meantime, I'm getting a great opportunity to become a better friend to myself and develop closer friendships with others.
Heather - hope this antibiotic does the trick for your UTI. So glad John is inspired to decorate his bedroom! 😁
Machka - thank you for your research on hydration. The more info, the better.
Lisa - hope the colonoscopy results are what you're looking for. The 2 day prep is a lot of work.
Margaret - I loved your very wise comment about focusing on what I had rather than what is now missing. 😍
Fresh look at health goals - today is the last Diabetes Prevention Zoom class. I'm in the process of reassessing my health goals, analyzing where I spent my energy this past year and the results. The program encouraged many goals… lose weight, get the A1C and other lipid markers in line, eat healthy, up the exercise, etc. I learned a few tricks but it's time to re-prioritize where I'm going from here.
Make it a fabulous week.🤩
Lanette 😎
SW WA State
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Best laid plans …
Husband's truck has a dead battery so part of my plans for today have been delayed as he now has my vehicle to run about and get a new battery. But I did get to see the audiologist and cochlear implant specialist. At my last visit I was given a test where a recorded voice speaks random (and I mean ridiculously random) sentences that I have to repeat. Both male and female voices are used and, frankly, they speak very fast. Six months ago I was able to repeat 58% of what was spoken. A huge improvement over 0% pre-surgery. Today I was able to repeat 85% of what I heard. This is on par with people my age who do not have a history of hearing loss. (Corrected) So, yes, the implant is a success. I've been told it takes 2 years to reach full benefit of the implant so there may still be more improvement. Our plans are to start working towards correction with a traditional hearing aid in the other ear. I've been wearing the hearing aid since the surgery in tandem with the cochlear implant processor, but we've not been making any adjustments. Don't expect much improvement with the hearing aid but even a 3-4% boost is something.
Beth near Buffalo
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Beth - Great news! It must have changed your world. :-)
I was knocked out this afternoon, but now feeling better. Here's hoping. It meant that I got no work done towards the bedroom, but that's OK. My joy is that things seem resolved with John. I haven't been sleeping well being anxious about it. Now we seem on the same wavelength again.
My son rang to say that it wasn't necessary to pick Bea up tomorrow, but we could if we wanted to. We will. Then John is going to pick up Edie on Thursday, when her coach gets back from the airport at 1 pm. He can bring her back here, or to their house, and I will join them wherever, because I am out to lunch with G. Saturday is a jazz concert with the family, in honour of Max's birthday.
So, plenty to be getting on with.
Lisa - Commiserations! It will soon be in the past!
Itching to get on with my room!
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
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MFP Weekly Check-In for May 19, 2025
Debbie in Napa Valley CA - up, but just by .2. Not bad beings I have stopped walking the dog. Will start other walking or other exercise to make up for it.
Rita in Roswell NM - I haven’t checked in the last 2 weeks because my scale is DOA! I need to get batteries for it! It will be a surprise when I finally get it running again!
Barbara on the Southern Oregon Coast - Average WT UP again to 134.1 over last week's 133.5, not surprising considering all the meals and beers out with visiting friends. Average steps zoomed up over 1200 steps to 6763, we did a little hiking, a lot of walking, a little shopping ;}. Afraid to AF days, suspect its 0%. New potty sit-to-stands habit solid this week if no easier.
Busy week, with visiting BFF's sister and niece, Medford for dermatologist (only one precancerous zap) and TJ's, Tumble to groomer, me to chiropractor then visiting friends from Idaho for 3 days. I'm pooped, but looking forward to catching up with the thread in a few days.
Sue in WA - My average steps per day has fallen off this week. I made it to yoga last Mon but not to water exercise or yoga the rest of the week as my son was here visiting from San Diego. We also ate out twice during that time but I am still at 232 this morning. I just can't seem to move down past that 230 mark. Well I exercised at home this morning and this is a new week to eat less and move more.
Lanette SW WA – weight at the top of ideal range. Average daily steps 6881, off quite a bit from last week. Still walking with weights, PT stretches daily. Added heavier "farmer's carry" and working on balance on my "wobble board." In the process of re-prioritizing health goals.
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Went bowling and worked on my handicap. Found out that my neighbor who I’d been bringing lunch from the soup kitchen to had his open heart surgery. He also needs double knee replacement. I’m pretty sure that I’m entitled to a certain amount of food every day from BK so I’ll bring him an egg sandwich on M, T, and W (I don’t work on Th and am at the soup kitchen on F so I’ll bring him something from there.
Rori – hearing from you puts a smile on my face knowing all you went thru and now N, so happy for you
Well, I blew it today. The lady who runs our bowling’s birthday is tomorrow so they had a surprise cake, cheese, vegetables, chips for her. I had a piece of cake, some tomatoes, carrots, and cheese. Now making cookies for Colby to take back with him. He and a friend of his are coming and spending the night here because they are going to a concert in Asheville. They’ll probably be here late tonight and I’m suspecting they’ll be gone by the time I get home from work
barbie – happy birthday Annie. I made dog biscuits for Jess’ dog and according to the recipe you are to roll out the dough and cut it into bone shapes. I just dropped it by the spoonful. The dog doesn’t care what it looks like as long as it tastes OK. It’s really more for the owners
I am a big water drinker. You name the store, I can tell you where the bathroom is….lol I even know where the bathroom is at the hardware store in Florida!!! Occasionally I’ll have juice, and in winter I’ll have tea (no sugar or creamer). But that’s IT.
Heather – yippee that John wants to do his room. That’s wonderful
Rebecca – all the cleaning you did reminds me that I need to vacuum for when the guys come here tonight
Lisa – don’t ask me to explain it, but I don’t understand Vince’s organization. Like we had a pair of these old scissors that he used when he opened the bottles of muriatic acid. Yet, he wanted to keep them in the garage with the(sort-of) good scissors that we use. Why he didn’t want to keep them with all the pool stuff is beyond me. So I just put them there. Hasn’t said a word.
Beth – awesome improvement and I bet there will be more.
Put yogurt in the IP. I’ve found if I put it in in the morning, I can have it drain overnight.
Michele
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Rori - I have had moments where different things have let me know DH is at peace. Enjoy your time with N!
Barbie - Had quite the conversation with DH this afternoon. Basically told him to just hush. Making final decision on new bed and I am leaning to not the bargain basement one (but not the top of the line either.) I could hear Mr. Cheap chastising me for wanting to spend money. I carefully considered his arguments and decided I don't agree and the one left behind gets to chose.
Heather - outstanding break through with John! I understand we don't want to spend everything we have-but sometimes we can go too cheap (like my DH). John deserves to treat himself to some new things just like you do!
Beth - I continue to be amazed at what the implant has done for you. I realized while I have been sitting around during recovery that I haven't worn my hearing aids at all and part of wearing them is to help keep hearing loss from getting a lot worse. It must be amazing for you to be able to participate in this new way.
Michele - good of you to help neighbor with meals.
Lanette - good decision to reprioritize health goals. They need to change as we age. I think there are just some ways people are similar-and some of us have had husbands with similar traits!
Lisa - good luck with the test prep. I have it in my future once they call to schedule me.
Had a bad spell with back spasms from around 1:30-3 am. Got up, did some stretches, used heating pad-fell asleep in chair for a bit. Got up, went into bed and basically made a nest with body pillow and others and drifted back off for another few hours. Morning stretches helped. I had been debating between queen be and king bed. If I sleep with the body pillow I definitely need more room than my full size gives me. My cat, Zombu, who likes sleep with me ran out of space!
Podiatrist says toe is healing well. Switched to a new kind of pad with antibiotic in it that some how also helps dry things out. Go back in 2 weeks.
Off to do evening stretches and get trash out to curb for tomorrow. Workers are in basement. Should be near to finished tonight but I have the feeling there will be some final stuff tomorrow. Tomorrow I have to go get proof I have been insured to apply for Medicare B and then can start finalizing my insurance for retirement. Go back to work on Wednesday-that is going to be rough! Except for the surgery and side effects and toe, I have enjoyed not dealing with anything related to work. I will work on clearing up what I need to and may take some vacation in July. Definitely some days off to get move stuff started.
Take care all,
Ginny in Ohio
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Evening ladies
Had my phone consult today with pharmacy,no more needles ,just stay on the Trulicity once a week.hot diggity dog.. because of the 5mg of prednisone I'm on daily im not losing the weight I want,but im still at 154 lbs want to get down to 125 so its doable...the PT guy comes tomorrow hopefully for the last time..and will call my old insurance to let them know they are done at the end of the month.
Will see the kids tomorrow
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We had our church choir spring concert yesterday! I got a compliment from a church member who said he watches me because I bring so much joy and expression into my singing.
I got both houses lawns fertilized today. We are expecting rain tonight and tomorrow. I mowed son's lawn before I fertilized. It was good to get it done.
Still have plants to get into the ground. Hope to get more done Wednesday. I will make another flower pot to have at son's house that I can prepare indoors.
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stats for the day-
Walk w/family- 1hr 42min 15sec, 12638steps, 93elev, 3.01ap, 97ahr, 160mhr, 5.24mi= 526c
Strava app = 636c
ROUVY home spin bike- strava stats- 1hr 21min 54sec, 124aw, gear25, 40.9amph, 97ahr, 115mhr, 55.82mi= 483c
Strava app= 583c
ROUVY stats- 1hr 21min 54sec, 124aw, 61arpm, 40.9amph, 55.82mi= 583c
Walk kids- 6.12 min, 598steps, .21mi= 30c
Strava app = 26cTotal cal 1039
1474.42 miles ahead
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Forgot to tell you.. no more insulin,just my once a week Trulicity shot.yeahhhhhh
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Lisa,
Awe chin up tonight, its not fun, but its not your first rodeo. Big hugs!
I know this med is not a wonder drig, but a helper. I still need to do my part, and not eat crap, drink a lot of water, eat my protein, cut out sugar. Its a total flip of being (or trying to have been) an intermittent faster.
II wake up with determination and go to bed with satisfaction.💖👍🏼
Rebecca Whidbey Wa
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Allie,
Ooh that's great news!
Rebecca Whidbey Wa
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Cold, windy day today. We lost power around 2:30 pm and it came back on about 7:30 pm. PUD outage map said there were trees on the lines. Glad it was only a few hours.
Lisa - Part of our problem was that the nearest hospital to us quit hiring travel nurses. We had very good luck with them. The tenant from Hades lied to us and was not a travel nurse, not even a nurse. Your friend should be sure to check credentials.
Everyone take care, Sue in WA
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You can still do intermittent fasting. Just eat your good food during your eating hours. That's what I do.
Intermittent fasting works because it reduces the number of hours we eat, which should make us more careful and mindful of what we do eat. It doesn't allow us to mindlessly snack outside our eating time.
But we still need to be sure we eat fewer calories than we burn during the eating hours or we will gain weight.
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Heather: Men can be very touchy. We tread a tightrope with them Could John’s grouch be because the tummy problem was already bothering him? When we went into separate bedrooms, it seemed like an obvious solution to our divergent nocturnal wandering.
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