LESS Alcohol ~ July 2025 ~ One Day at A Time
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I love your menu @nbruns83 - and that you made an intentional choice for a glass of red wine.
Tonight I’m making filet mignon and mushrooms, peppers and zucchini. I bought a good red wine to try with the menu so am planning on 1-2 glasses. Moderation is my priority this week!
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Must try these too!
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@NonnieDoiron thank you for the pastry recipes, and some of the variations you listed sound great too.
@itladyee have a wonderful vacation.
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@NonnieDoiron, I'm adding my thanks for the pastry recipes. I'm going to try them - it'll be my first time with frozen puff pastry.
@Michieb125, Your dinner plans sound delicious, and I hope you truly savor that good red wine.
July Stats
AF 21
LA 4
A 3The rest of yesterday's wine is still in the bottle and corked. Maybe I'll have to cook with it before it decays. Or maybe DH will finish it, but lately he's preferred a cold beer. Anyway, it's a not a temptation tonight.
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@Michieb125 @itladyee @SparkSpringtime69 @nburns167 I was laying in bed last night trying to get to sleep when I realized I made an error in the Parmesan measurement. Should be 1/4-1/3 cup, not 1/2-1/3.
Ok, and this is why I typically drink. Laying in bed replaying every conversation, email, text message before I fall asleep is so annoying. I just want to turn off my brain. I can’t seem to find a way to do it. And still last night was AF… can you tell?🤦🏻♀️
AF-24
A-4Who dropped off the tracker? I went from line 6 to line 5? 🤔
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@itladyee I like your new group banner, the color, font and all. I like your organization of all the main information (I always thought it was too much content). I went in the group, got overwhelmed and couldn't post. I used to like it best when this group was set up as a challenge, but that is me. I love the simplicity of just having a place where I can drop in and chat. Downsides of a "group" is that it could deter future folks from joining. IMO I would like to keep the group as-is with your new banner and organized first page if that is possible, but maybe introduce one monthly mini-challenge and have that mini-challenge be more of a subgroup so folks wanting that "structure" have that option?
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@NonnieDoiron marshmallow and nutella please!
Today I will drink my homemade fizzy limeade soda and go burn 800 calories before the chocolates call my name.
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June and July were not without their challenges for me. We should get the results for the genetics test for my sister next week and then we can start planning the next steps. I am, and I’m sure my sister is too…, ready to deal with this issue and move on.
I can’t wait for vacation in early August. Good news… We are driving, so I think there will be more opportunities to have some AF days on vacation, and I’m ok with that.
@nbruns83 ~ you are doing very well. I have one of those wine vacuums to suck the air out of a bottle. I never used to need it, but lately, I've been using it, which is another good thing! How did the pork and vegetables kabobs turn out? I’ve never tried to do a pork one as I felt it might take too long to cook compared to the veggies.
@NonnieDoiron ~ thank you for the recipe correction. I get bored making the same stuff all the time so I’m excited to make these… I totally understand wanting a brain on/off switch!!
@globalhiker ~ that’s a lot of calories to burn!! Good luck! :) Appreciate the feedback, I don’t think you can add a banner, fonts and colors to a discussion. Just how MFP works….
Thank you all for the feedback on group vs discussion. It’s all valuable information. I will repost the link for the August discussion again.
Claiming today as AF as well. Actually better than June!! That’s a win.
July Stats
10 AF
19 A5 -
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July:
AF=12
A=163 -
July Goals:
12 AF days
AF=10
A=10
LA - 8 (at 2 glass limit)Really enjoyed the red wine last night with our delicious meal. Stopped at 2 and put a wine saver cork on it. This is what moderation feels like for me — carefully selecting a nice bottle to pair with my dinner and then stopping. Tonight is AF with my Key Lime Mocktail and a lighter meal.
Logged another 3-mile walk in nature this am but things are heating up here now @SparkSpringtime69 and others with he**ish heat waves!3 -
@LittleSurferGirl7 I'm sorry that you feel uncomfortable with the broad focus of what less alcohol means to various members of the group. I can certainly understand your realization that complete abstinence will be best for you. You are completely right in recognizing that any alcohol is a dangerous chemical and has cancer causing potential. I hope you can find the support you need here on MFP or in person, perhaps a 12-step group, to make the complete break. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers whatever you decide to do. Hugs, Nancy
@itladyee, In the past, I cut the pork cubes pretty small to grill evenly with the vegetables. But this time I just made separate skewers so we could start the pork earlier; they turned out great. Best of all, I kept all the heat out of the kitchen.
AF for me today, not sure what I'll be cooking. I wish I could be satisfied with "everyday food." 😏
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There is a bookmark ribbon on the discussion , but not on the group.
Ok. I don't think bookmarking a group is a function of MFP, but I could be wrong. And maybe that was your point….
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My Groups are under Quick Links and they pop right up so it’s doable for me.
As long as these conversations continue to support folks who are actively seeking Less Alcohol, I’d like to be here for the long run.
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Happy vacationing to @BurnMode05 and @itladyee - I hope you enjoy your trips.
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@LittleSurferGirl7 As you have verbalized, it does seem like this Less Alcohol community has not be meeting your expectations for a while. But it sounds like you are onto something by saying you want to quit alcohol!
Instead of quitting all alone, have you explored joining or starting a new Alcohol Free discussion around abstinence or sobriety? It could be very empowering and motivating. Good luck to you.
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16 AF
3 LA
10 A
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Went to a concert Friday night and had only one drink! If the trifecta of Christopher Cross, Men at Work and Toto come to town, it was a really enjoy concert and I encourage you to go!
Saturday I am proud that I did not have a drink while sailing! 2 wines and a port during and after dinner, honestly lot bad. Sunday I had two of each, and tonight and last night only one.
This heat! Holy cow! Went for a bike ride with my son and going my normal pace was so much more difficult than it normally is. I was lightheaded afterwords and couldn’t finish driving home! No amount of water or electrolytes during the day made me feel significantly better after being in the oven. So, I am continuing to drink fluids and hope tomorrow I’m back to normal.
@itlaydee I just put my response on the group thread!
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@NonnieDoiron glad to hear your MIL was released from the hospital. 7 liters, holy cow!!!! How long does dialysis usually take? Too bad it can’t come to her house if she’s having digestive issues.
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Well, they don’t have in-home dialysis unless she goes back to peritoneal dialysis (PD) which would require install of an abdominal catheter, but there is a high rate of infection with it. She ended up in the hospital A LOT when she was doing PD. So, she switched to hemodialysis and had the catheter removed.
She seems to constantly have gastric issues which is why I whole-heartedly believe she needs to be taken off Ozempic. But, I will say, some days it’s just worse than others. So who knows.🤷🏻♀️
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17 AF
3 LA
10 A
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July:
AF=13
A=165 -
@itladyee i noticed the counts aren’t working right on the spreadsheet. I updated the AF days on row 5 for July because it didn’t count to the last cell, but I’m not sure about editing the A days. I have 4 A days, but it’s only counting 3. Anyway, just thought you could check on those formulas when you had a chance. Thanks.
Went out to dinner tonight, and thought about getting a glass of wine. Decided not to do it. Normally if I drink while out to eat, I only have 1. So, it wouldn’t have been a bad thing. I also thought about swinging by the store to get a bottle, but I ended up skipping it.
Even after taking the day off yesterday, today was still a fairly light day at work. So, that was nice. My husband’s brother is here visiting until tomorrow sometime. There was a lot of discussion about my MIL. I learned she was pretty abusive towards them as they were growing up, and I come from a home where my parents made a paddle for punishments and know the difference between a spanking and getting beat. My parents spanked, my MIL… beat and she was also very mentally/emotionally abusive. My BIL was talking about a couple of episodes in particular and my husband couldn’t remember what he was talking about. It sounded like he blocked them out to cope. Knowing my husband endured this as a child was really heavy to learn. I knew my MIL was a bit of a manipulator and has told horrible lies about me and my husband to her brothers and sister, but I didn’t think it went this deep. I also learned she was quite the slut! 😳 Bringing weird men into her home for overnights when they were boys/teens, and she plays little Ms. Innocent all the time. The anecdotes and revelations today were just wild and confirmed some feelings I’ve had about her. I think there might be some interesting changes coming about in this house, just not sure yet.
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@NonnieDoiron ~ The sheet doesn't count A days…only AF days. So 31 less AF days will give you A days.
You have 26 AF days…if I add a check to 7/31 it increases to 27 so good. (I erased).
Your current streak is 3 days… if I add 7/31, it increases to 4, so again good. (I erased)
And your longest streak is 15 days…which adds up.
Let me know if I'm missing something…
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@itladyee oops! I don’t know why in thought that column was A days. Lol. But, please do look at everyone’s formula for checking AF days. Most rows stop at column AG, but I changed mine to AJ.
Anyone else have a jerk of a husband who wakes up at 3am and forgets that everyone else is sleeping and wakes them up by doing stupid crap like reassembling the Ring doorbell at 4:30 which rings inside your bedroom or decides it’s time to reset the beeping microwave and oven clocks due to a power outage the night before last which are right down the hall from your room? He will be a very lucky man if I don’t kill him before noon this morning!!!😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
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@NonnieDoiron your husband and mine must be related somehow. He got me up at 2:30. He didn't fidget with the doorbell though he's done that in the middle of a meeting where I was giving a presentation to about 20 people. To stay married, I really want a bigger house with a long corridor away from the main living area for my "own room".
No drinking yesterday but my husband drank during the day which resulted in him falling asleep before dinner and voila he's up at 2 am tinkering. All because he drank the day before. I get it life sucks for him right now. But pity plus alcohol is only making the situation worse. Really just makes me upset and makes me want to run out and buy a bottle of fizzy wine comfort but I didn't out of fear of the a very horrible hangover. I had to do something so I ate an apple instead and made myself a decaf.
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July:
AF=14
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But, please do look at everyone’s formula for checking AF days. Most rows stop at column AG, but I changed mine to AJ.
@itladyee It looks like my B column also has AG in the formula (I don't have the spreadsheet confidence that @NonnieDoiron has so I thought I'd ask you to adjust as needed 😁). Thank you very much.
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@itladyee Like @NonnieDoiron and @SparkSpringtime69 said it looks like that's happening to me as well on the spreadsheet (i'm listed under HYS). i tried too add in a check for today, as i had an A day yesterday, and my AF #'s did not increase (though the percentage did). you are doing such amazing work, creating the spreadsheet and shouldering the admin duties and i truly appreciate it. the spreadsheet is a fun way to track and helps keep me accountable.
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