Judging Others

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iwanttochangemylife
iwanttochangemylife Posts: 19
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Hi all! I want to touch base on a topic that everyone should be familiar with very well. And that is of course, judging people. Yeah say it all you want. Say how you don't discriminate and what not but you know the second you find someone unattractive walking down the street you say (or think) something. I am not here to bash anyone or deny the fact that I judge others. I am here to explain to people that this isn't a random walking down the street occasion. This isn't a "I saw a fat girl at McDonald's" thing. This is a website made specifically for people trying to lose weight or just become or remain healthy. If you are on here posting things along the lines of complaining someones fat OR even complaining someones trashy because they have pictures up showing how proud they are of their new body, then you should delete your account. IF YOU HAVE NOTHING NICE TO SAY THEN DON"T SAY ANYTHING.. Very kindergarten yes..? But seems like people don't understand.

That is all. :)
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  • JennsLosing
    JennsLosing Posts: 1,026
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    ill drink to that :drinker:
  • digitalsteel
    digitalsteel Posts: 374 Member
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    I never understood the thrill people seem to get from doing as you explain, it is childish.
  • Xaspar
    Xaspar Posts: 726 Member
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    ill drink to that :drinker:
    ^THIS^
  • kirstiey
    kirstiey Posts: 243
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    Trolls. I hate them!
  • SunLove8
    SunLove8 Posts: 693 Member
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    Well said!
  • speedyme
    speedyme Posts: 86 Member
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    Well said! I recently started noticing some comments other's have posted when responding to someone looking for help. I'm disgusted by it and hope that this site is being monitored and delete either the comment or the individual posting the comment.
  • neva4saken
    neva4saken Posts: 300 Member
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    MFP needs a like button ... with you all the way on that one :bigsmile:
  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
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    Today must be the day for lectures...
    :flowerforyou:
  • MissFit0101
    MissFit0101 Posts: 2,382
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    ill drink to that :drinker:
    ^THIS^

    DITTO!
  • PantalaNagaPampa
    PantalaNagaPampa Posts: 1,031 Member
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    Well said! I recently started noticing some comments other's have posted when responding to someone looking for help. I'm disgusted by it and hope that this site is being monitored and delete either the comment or the individual posting the comment.

    I couldn't agree more, MODS where are you on that?
  • ncole3
    ncole3 Posts: 164
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    IF YOU HAVE NOTHING NICE TO SAY THEN DON"T SAY ANYTHING.. Very kindergarten yes..? But seems like people don't understand.

    That is all. :)

    Touche!:drinker:
  • rbryntes
    rbryntes Posts: 710 Member
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    Well said! I recently started noticing some comments other's have posted when responding to someone looking for help. I'm disgusted by it and hope that this site is being monitored and delete either the comment or the individual posting the comment.

    Well, do you report the comments you find offensive? If you don't report them, the mods won't necessarily know about them.
  • rbryntes
    rbryntes Posts: 710 Member
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    Well said! I recently started noticing some comments other's have posted when responding to someone looking for help. I'm disgusted by it and hope that this site is being monitored and delete either the comment or the individual posting the comment.

    I couldn't agree more, MODS where are you on that?

    The mods respond when people report the comments in question.
  • k2quiere
    k2quiere Posts: 4,151 Member
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    I, personally, feel the need to make fun of people who make fun of others based on the way they look. Usually those people (haters) do not have the intellect to come up with anything other than appearance-based comments.
  • chocolatefairey
    chocolatefairey Posts: 97
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    Hi all! I want to touch base on a topic that everyone should be familiar with very well. And that is of course, judging people. Yeah say it all you want. Say how you don't discriminate and what not but you know the second you find someone unattractive walking down the street you say (or think) something. I am not here to bash anyone or deny the fact that I judge others. I am here to explain to people that this isn't a random walking down the street occasion. This isn't a "I saw a fat girl at McDonald's" thing. This is a website made specifically for people trying to lose weight or just become or remain healthy. If you are on here posting things along the lines of complaining someones fat OR even complaining someones trashy because they have pictures up showing how proud they are of their new body, then you should delete your account. IF YOU HAVE NOTHING NICE TO SAY THEN DON"T SAY ANYTHING.. Very kindergarten yes..? But seems like people don't understand.

    That is all. :)

    Amen to that! :)
  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,119 Member
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    I am so glad someone finally spoke up on this. . . . oh, yeah, I just read 20 other threads just like this.


    By starting this thread, you are judging.
  • billsica
    billsica Posts: 4,741 Member
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  • rileamoyer
    rileamoyer Posts: 2,411 Member
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    I agree, no need for bashing. However, some folks do complain over and over about the same thing, and some of us will call them out on it. It is called support. There is a difference. I personally have found most folks on this site extremely supportive, either by cheering me on or calling me out when I need it. And yep, I am one who posts pictures of the new me a lot! Some of us should do it more often!
  • Buddie616
    Buddie616 Posts: 167 Member
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    I agree!
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
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    Judging others is rude in real life.

    It's forbidden in MFP.

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