POST-PARTUM PACK - October 11
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I am very excited to be a part of this group. I just read through everyone's posts, and I kept nodding my head and saying, "yep, yep, that is me". It sounds like we all have many things in common. My sweet baby boy is 18 months, and I am still working on the "baby weight". I gained 45 pounds during pregnancy and still have 20 more to lose to get back to PPW. Then I would love to lose 10 more, so I guess that makes my goal 30 pounds. Yikes! That sounds daunting to me. I spent my whole pre-baby life always trying to lose 5 or 10 pounds, and I was never successful. So I am a little overwhelmed with trying to lose 30 pounds.
My barriers....same as everyone else. Work, time, child, husband, chores, errands, friends, TV, naps! But truly I can make it work both with the food and the exercise if I will just suck it up and do it! So that is where you guys come in...I need someone to tell me to stop whining and complaining and JUST DO IT!!!!0 -
Welcome newcomers! And happy birthday Robin's twins! My twins turn 1 in a month (but will still be 10m adjusted). Where does the time go? Oh right, I spent the first six months eating a pound of M&Ms a day. No wonder the weight wasn't coming off!
I have to retrain my brain a little. I used to love working out, but then I wasn't allowed to for a year. And I indulged when pg, because I figured if there was EVER a time in life when I could eat what I wanted it was when pg with twins! I only gained 50, and 30 came off in the first week postpartum. But I needed to lose 40-50lbs BEFORE I got pg, so getting back to ppw is just the beginning!
My biggest challenge coming up is that I'm losing my nanny (yes, I know how lucky I am!) for 5wks when she's on vacation, so I'll be on my own with the boys. I will also be done my mat leave but i work from home, which can be tough to juggle. DH works and travels a lot, so I'm trying to make up a kind of schedule to keep us relatively focused during the day and reminding me of times every day when I can exercise and eat healthy. Otherwise it will be too easy to use their nap time to rest myself and stress eat.
Nononononono!
MFP has been such a great support in working on getting healthier. I know I would have given up by now if it weren't for people cheering me on every day and watching other people succeed.0 -
Wow, so many of us are facing the same issues. It helps knowing I'm not the only one trying to reduce "baby" weight. I had my second child in Dec last yr at 29 weeks. Him being a preemie and all the stress associated with having a baby in the NICU and then worrying about his calorie intake etc made my weight loss a lesser priority task. Right now, he is a thrivng 10 month old, hitting his milestones somewhere between actual and adjusted ages and keeping his weight steady in the lower percentiles for adjusted age. Finally, I can focus on myself.
I had a very easy time losing pregnancy weight from my first child. I gained 50 lbs and lost 65lbs by the time she was 15 months old by eating whatever I chose. The pounds justed melted off, by breastfeeding. This time around, my body is hanging onto the fat and I've not lost a single gram from 6 weeks PP until last week. I guess I have to work on it this time around.
My biggest challenge is the Carbs/Sugar cravings I have thanks to breastfeeding. No matter how hard I try, I need a chocolate/ice cream or some other snack by the late evenings. I'm trying hard to curb my craving but am running short of ideas. If any of you have any tips, please do let me know.
My second biggest challenge is that I'm a vegetarian and I hate eggs. So my diet seems to be lacking in proteins(which I found out from MFP). I'm trying to add lentils/sprouts/cottage cheese/yogurt etc into my diet to get some proteins in but I still never make it to my goal intake.
Btw, I do an additional 300 cals since I'm nursing my 10 month old. He still nurses quite a bit but since he is on solids, I figured 300 cals should suffice. I add it to my food diary daily
I'm going to measure myself now and update the site. Thanks for the reminder!0 -
Gah!! I just did my measurements yesterday and omg! I didn't realize pregnancy had added 5 inches to my hips and waist! No wonder my clothes aren't fitting right even thought i was the same weight. I was the same weight when i got married a year ago, and i didn't realize i was that much tighter than now.
franciscoj1- I get the working mom guilt too, this is my first baby, it didn't know it would hit me this hard. Luckily she falls alseep by 7:30 and i can start to get stuff done. I actually squeezed in 10 minutes of simple upper body exerciese.
Oh I found time to walk to, after I get out of work, I walk to a further train station then meet up with my carpool Its about a mile or so.0 -
pmur - Glad to hear your little one is doing so well! I can't even imagine how emotionally trying that must have been for you and your family...
I get the whole carb/sugar craving thing...and I can't blame it on breastfeeding Here is what I've been doing...I bought a few different small-portioned choices of sweets (mini chocolate bars, some dark chocolate, skinny cow ice cream bars, jelly belly jelly beans). I try to make really healthy choices throughout the day, and if I'm doing well then I get to treat myself. It helps me not to make stupid choices (i.e. I don't waste my sugar intake on apple juice or pop, since I want to have my chocolate!!!). I indulge in a treat EVERY DAY - I just make sure it stays within my calorie allowances. Sure, I'm over for sugar everytime, but I figure that I am trying to change my lifestyle slowly, not everything in one day. So far so good - I'm losing weight, milk production is still good, and I'm sticking to it!
Regarding the protein...have you ever tried quinoa? It is a grain (I eat it instead of rice) but it has complete protein (i.e. all 8 essential amino acids, unlike legumes!!!). In a one cup serving, it has 8 g of protein...not as high as meat, but I find it helps (and it is tasty too!).
feydruss - I struggle to use my son's nap times effectively too! My guy often naps for only short periods, so I convince myself that there is no point starting anything...Not a good habit!
rodriguezs - I definitely need a kick in the butt sometimes too! WE CAN DO THIS!0 -
Hi Everyone! I'm so happy to have found this group. It's always great to see other mommies going through the same challenges in losing weight. I hope it's not too late to join?:flowerforyou:
I am a working mommy of two boys, 18 months apart. The youngest is almost 11 months old. I am also a breastfeeding mommy; the first one weaned himself at 14 months. I guess I'll let this one tell me when he's ready too. I definitely enjoy eating the extra calories for nursing, so I'm not complaining
My biggest challenge is feeling guilty about taking time to workout when the baby/eldest is cranky or wants to be held. It is pretty much a guarantee that they will start crying or wake up from a nap right when I jump on the elliptical for a quick workout I also struggle with eating too much on the weekends when I don't have my weekday work routine. I guess it's not so much that I'm eating too much as WHAT I'm eating(death by chocolate cake, beer/wine, etc):blushing:
I'm gonna have to update my measurements when I do my weekly weigh-in tomorrow! Thanks for the reminder.0 -
i am probably too late to join, my baby is almost 17 months old. i wanted to tell you all something to keep you from falling in the same track. i was doing great at weight loss while breastfeeding. i could eat tons and never gained any weight. i actually lost it, getting to my pre-pregnancy weight when my daughter was about 7 months old. but then she wanted less milk as she ate more foods. i kept my eating the same and couldnt' stop it or slow down the weight gain. i wasn't really trying very hard, but i wish i had. i always had an excuse not to exercise. i kept saying i was worried i woudl haven't any milk if i lost weight. this wasn't true, of course. so then around 1 year old she stopped bf'ing and i kept my eating and not exercising the same. b/c of that i gained 10 lb from may to august 2011. i got on here with a goal of losing 20lb. i am halfway there. i stopped exercising when i was pregnant back in Dec 09 and didn't start again until august of 11. which i think was why i have a lot of body fat now. i am not overweight but not happy with how i look due to high body fat. so that is what i'm working on. the last 10lb and toning. just wanted to say please be aware of what will happen when you stop breastfeeding if you are. those pounds go on quick. i think if you stay on here you are on the right track.0
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MaureenJ79 and lovecola06 - It is definitely not too late to join! This is an open, informal group - we are always accepting new members
MaureenJ79 - Thanks for the advice! I am currently breastfeeding a 7 month old. I was hoping that bfeeding would help me lose a lot of weight, but it wasn't really working out that way for me. I stalled out at around 20 lbs over my pre-preg weight - which is why I am on this site. It is a good thing to be aware of what can happen when the bfeeding stops - I hope that by being on this site, I will be able to stay on track.
lovecola06 - Wow! You have done amazingly well already!! Sounds like you have the same challenges as many of us. Welcome to the group!0 -
it is so tough (at least it was for me) to keep the unwanted weight from happening when you stop bf. i could have done a much better job of watching it. but i didn't. but at least i found this site. one thing is good though, when you are done bf i think your body recognizes that you shouldn't have such a high fat amount and even though it's hard to start the weight loss, it's not too bad once you get rolling with it. you get kind of back to where you are supposed to be.. at least i did with a little effort. now i am back at pre-pregnancy weight again but want to be less than that. i was a little bit bigger than i wanted to be when i got pregnant so now i have to work on that.0
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Hi all
I currently have my reason for doing the weight loss sitting near me. I have always been overweight but I dont want to be anymore! I want to set a good example to my daughter so she grows up healthy too
I have just always been full of excuses, or give up too easy.
But this time I have stuck with it so far and not given up
My measurements currently are:
Waist: 112cm
Hips: 120cm
Thighs: 60.5cm
I only lost 0.2 kilos this week. But I am aiming to lose another kilo before going on holiday to vietnam next Friday!0 -
Hi! My name is Aly. I have two children 19 month old boy and a 3 month old baby girl. I am a single mom- finally left an abusive relationship after my daughter was born.
My children are so close together that I didn't have much time to get the weight off in between. Now, I want it OFF! I have already dropped 37 lbs since her birth, but I have a LOT more to go. I want my kids to be proud of me, and to be able to keep up with them.
I am finally caring about my myself. I am sooo worth it!
I am determined to get down to 125. And I will!
My biggest enemy is Nutella...0 -
Hi! My name is Aly. I have two children 19 month old boy and a 3 month old baby girl. I am a single mom- finally left an abusive relationship after my daughter was born.
My children are so close together that I didn't have much time to get the weight off in between. Now, I want it OFF! I have already dropped 37 lbs since her birth, but I have a LOT more to go. I want my kids to be proud of me, and to be able to keep up with them.
I am finally caring about my myself. I am sooo worth it!
I am determined to get down to 125. And I will!
My biggest enemy is Nutella...
Congratulations for getting out of the relationship - I too have gotten out of a abusive relationship in the past so kudos to you for finding the strength!
Don't give the nutella away, just limit how often you have it0 -
Hi is it to late to join??
Im Ange and i have a 6yr old and a 14 week old, im getting married in Feb and planning to honeymoon on a beautiful beach in Phuket hopefully in something smaller than board shorts and a singlet.
I lost weight eventually after my first pregnancy then changed jobs to a more sedentary position, got into a new relationship, got pregnant again then looked in the mirror and went OMG. I am currently the heaviest ive ever been and it has completely knocked my confidence.
I want my children to be proud of me, i want to live to see my grandchildren, i want to be a good influence for my children but mostly i want to LOVE me again.
My biggest enemy is cheese - i love cheese and anything i can put cheese on, in or around.0 -
Carolina_r - Thanks for the tips! I've never heard of quinoa. I live in India. I'm sure it has an "Indian" name. Let me ask dr google
I love the idea of the small treat at the end of the day! That will so make my day!!!
Btw, what's everyone doing to drop those inches and get your waist in shape? I don't think I ever had a toned mid-section but would love to work towards it now. Any ab/thy exercises? I found some on youtube but has somebody found something that delivers results??0 -
Hello! I just wanted to say I went through the same thing after the birth of my son. I was exclusively breastfeeding, and although that helped me drop a lot of weight after birth, I got to a number and just stalled. I didn't diet much because I was nervous it would effect the quality of the milk for my baby, but honestly once I got serious it wasnt an issue.
You can add breastfeeding into mfp, if you are exclusively breastfeeding its 500 calories burned, and I just started working out...when I did eat, I made sure most fo what I was eating is nutritious (also ate oatmeal, its good for milk supply, low calorie and very healthy!)
I lost the weight I put on after baby, but I'm working on losing the weight I put on after marriage..and I'm still breastfeeding my 7 month old0 -
pmur - I too have never had a set of toned abs...Even at my thinnest, I always had a little tummy. I too am looking for ways to tone up, but I've been cautious because of the pregnancy. Your abdominal muscles do separate, and I've been told to be cautious to make sure that the gap is closing before being too hard core when it comes to abs.
SmangeDiggs - Definitely not! Just add the tagline
“The POST-PARTUM PACK – It took us 9 months to pack on the pounds…Watch us take them off!”
to your signature and stay tuned to this thread! In a few days, there will be a link here to next week's topic:) I really like how you phrased your motivation for losing the weight...and I share your love for cheese!!! It makes any dish better, no?
ghadeer86 - Thanks for the tips! Bfeeding and losing weight is definitely a touchy issue for many of us. We want to look and feel better, but we are torn with the concern of not taking good enough care of our baby.
Aly - I haven't had nutella in so long!!!! Mmmmm....it is good! Do you treat yourself with a little each day? Or do you try to avoid it?0 -
Hello fellow moms! It's so nice to see others who are going through the same things as I am. I am the mother of 2 boys, 7 years old and the most recent 4 1/2 months old (born May 28, 2011). I started exercising around 7 weeks post partum (end of July) and was able to drop the baby weight pretty quickly with the help of breastfeeding. I recently stopped breastfeeding since I will be returning to work in a couple months and now the weight loss has stalled . I have increased my cardio to an hour per workout to counterbalance. I am still hovering at 120 which I don't have a problem with because I believe it's from turning fat into muscle (and we all know muscle weighs more than fat) so now I'm concentrating more on getting stronger than losing pounds (I'm still trying to lose body fat though). Some barriers I have are eating at night after dinner...especially ice cream. love love love it. To stop myself I have been going to bed early haha.
My normal workout routine:
Mon - 1 hour elliptical (burning anywhere from 500 to almost 600 depending on incline and resistance)
Tues - full body strength training
Wed -1 hour elliptical (burning anywhere from 500 to almost 600 depending on incline and resistance)
Thurs -full body strength training
Fri -1 hour elliptical (burning anywhere from 500 to almost 600 depending on incline and resistance)
I haven't started working yet so I don't have that time hindrance, but I'm sure I will. I'm hoping to keep myself motivated to find the time to workout once I do, with the help of you ladies of course :-)
PMUR - I do planks and side planks which really help to strengthen your core! regular planks twice holding for 30 second intervals each and once per side holding for 30 second interval. You'll really start to notice a difference.
I also recently was able to do a regular pushup!!!! I have not been able to do that in I can't remember how long. It's really nice to know that I'm getting stronger.0 -
My twins are 6 months old today! Yay babies! Boo Mommy, I have no idea what I ate yesterday. Ever been in such a sleepy fog that you literally don't know what you've done? I know I had some sweets (big no no for me, not supposed to have sugar or wheat) but which ones and how much I don't know. I was just so out of it and trying to get through the day at work.
My problem (obviously) is self control. Today I walked in craving sugar and had one tiny little chocolate Halloween candy. I will NOT have more because I'll get sick if I do. When we move I'm going from an office job to working daycare and I'm praying that moving more and not working somewhere with the snacks just sitting there will help.
How exactly do I accurately measure myself? I've never done it because I wasn't sure and I have a measuring tape sitting on my nightstand at home waiting for me to do it.0 -
My major barrier is getting the energy and motivation to workout. Having a 3 month old, I don't usually have a lot of extra energy during the days, and once I've done my daily housework, the last thing I want to do is work out. (If my daughter hasn't woken up from her nap or decided that mum doesn't get any free time!). I usually am able to eat fairly well while I am home alone, but I am a total sucker for iced cream. I never buy it at the grocery store because I know it will get the best of me, but once in a while at the gas station I have to fold
I just want to get back into my pre-pregnancy clothes... But I am finding it ALOT slower than I had expected. Everyone say that breastfeeding makes you shed pounds like nothing else, but I am not finding this. Hopefully soon I will have more energy so I can start feeling like doing something again!0 -
HI everyone, My story is a little different being that my daughter will be 4 tomorrow, I gained about 60lbs while pregnant i know way tooo much, then lost 30lbs after having her. And have struggled the past 4yrs with the last 30lbs.
I have tried before but have never had much success, this time around is different because I am doing for a lifestyle change and not a diet. I am holding myself accountable and set on loosing this weight!0 -
elz22 - Welcome to the group! You have had tremendous success already...inspiring!
jmc111 - I thought breastfeeding would help me lose a lot of weight, but it hasn't been my experience either. With a three month old, I imagine you aren't getting a ton of sleep...kudos to you for being on MFP and taking the initiative! When my son was 3 months, I was still in such a fog due to lack of sleep and feelings of isolation...BTW - have you ever tried skinny cow products? They make this chocolate truffle bar that is full-sized (you don't feel cheated one bit) but is only 100 cals...mmmmm....
SaraSatin - I think the most important thing is to try to measure the same spot every time. I am measuring my waist at the narrowest point, my thigh at the widest point, and my hips at the widest point. I found the hips measurement to be the toughest to be consistent (my butt gets in the way and adds a lot of variation!!!), so I've tried adding a hip measurement at my belly button (not the widest point, but at least it is consistent).
goodntentions - Welcome to the group! I am impressed with your workout schedule....good for you! I have heard that planks are a great exercise for abs - thanks for reminding me! I am pretty weak, but hopefully I can build up my endurance.0 -
Lol Carolina! My DH discovered my skinny cow truffle bars and next thing I knew, they were all gone!
I'm out of town this weekend, so my eating isn't great. I think today is the most I've been over in two months! But I'm going to chill out about it and remember that a few days of relaxing isn't going to kill me, just slow my progress for the week. But now that I'm logging I'm discovering how many cals are in foods I used to eat regularly here, and phew!
Tomorrow morning I've got a spa appt with a friend, and I've convinced her to walk to it. It should take about 45min.
As for measurements, when I was at my thinnest as an adult (and not very healthy) I was 36-26-36, which I thought was just about perfect. Now I'd be over the moon to get to 36-28-40, which I think is a little more realistic given post-twins redistribution. Right now I'm 40-33-46, but so much of that hip number is twin skin now. I guess we will see how it goes! I might never get my hips under 42 again.0 -
Hello, my name is Sarah and I am a new-be. I am 29 years old and a stay at home mom curently. My weightloss challenges are not having the motivation to exercise on somedays or the energy. I have 5 kids now and they keep me going also trying to eat healthy is a big challenge for me everyday but I am trying really hard to and have been trying to cu out all sweets and sodas.0
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Welcome to the group, Sarah! It must be a huge challenge with such a full household...I have a tough enough time with one! Good for you!!0
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Hello, Ladies!
I am so glad to find this group! I had a sweet baby boy in May, and I am still not even back to my pre-pregnancy weight (which was too high)... I am really lacking motivation. My husband just got a new job in a small town, where I don't know many people, and I am home all day with the baby... and the refrigerator.
I will be reading your posts as often as I can.0 -
McCallsmommy - Welcome! If you'd like to join, just add the tagline:
“The POST-PARTUM PACK – It took us 9 months to pack on the pounds…Watch us take them off!”
to your signature and you are in
Don't feel bad about not being at pre-preg weight yet...I had my little guy in March and I'm not there either! Although I have lived in my city for a number of years, I also felt quite isolated (especially in the beginning). Feel free to visit us for motivation and support! I will post the link to next week's thread at the end of this one0 -
Hi,
My name is Nicole. I just started. My 2nd baby girl is almost 4 months old. I'm stuck at 140. Pre-baby weight is 120 to 125. It took me almost a year to loose it with my first daughter, and then I was pregnant again by the time she was 15 months!
I'm wondering if anyone knows how to adjust for breastfeeding. I don't want to lose the weight too fast, and want to make sure I'm getting enough protein. WW allows you to add extra points for BF'ing but MFP didn't seem to have an option to add that into your fitness plan. Any thoughts from other momma's out there?
I'm looking forward to reading through other posts and meeting more of the community.
Thanks,
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Hi! My name is Aly. I have two children 19 month old boy and a 3 month old baby girl. I am a single mom- finally left an abusive relationship after my daughter was born.
My children are so close together that I didn't have much time to get the weight off in between. Now, I want it OFF! I have already dropped 37 lbs since her birth, but I have a LOT more to go. I want my kids to be proud of me, and to be able to keep up with them.
I am finally caring about my myself. I am sooo worth it!
I am determined to get down to 125. And I will!
My biggest enemy is Nutella...
Good for you! If you are courageous enough to get out...then you are strong enough to reach all of your goals!0 -
Sorry Im lagging behind a bit this week, its been a rather busy week last week and this weekend ive been out visiting!
My names Chrissy, I have 2 daughters who are teenagers and have a son whos 18 mths in a few days. I wanted to get right down to my pre pregnancy weight when I had my first daughter and Im about 12 lb away! Its getting harder now to lose as Im fitter and need to work harder to burn as my body is becoming more efficient !! Im still breastfeeding my son, so still take my pre natal vitamins as few times a week and keep my carbs/protein up to make sure the quality is there
My motivation..... my holiday at Christmas, My daiughers are away with their dad in Florida ( we live in UK ) so my partner, my son and I are off to Tenerife. YAY. I would like to be around 10 stone and a size 12 ( uk sizes ) After Christmas we are trying again for our last child, so I want to be at my optimum. I have lost around 30 lb i think since may 2011 and i have really enjoyed my journey , mainly as Ive seen it as a change of lifestyle rather than a " quick fix", Now i have got back into regular exercise I love it and still eat what I want, just smaller portions!
Lots of positive vibes going out to u all xxx0 -
No apology necessary!!!
Here is the link to the next thread:
http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/369658-post-partum-pack-october-17
See you there!
carolina0
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