NSV - Self Confidence Success

So... If you view my profile u will see my reference the "That Guy" - every girl has him I think...... well having started to gain confidence I decided... instead od waiting around for him to ask me, I will just say it.... don't get me wrong - i'm not looking to marry the guy but with feelings having built up over 6/7 years between us I figured hey if it doesn't go anywhere I still have a good friend but at least I would know....... So when our conversation got onto that subject.. I planted to seed and said "if we both wanted the same things, u wuyda asked me by now"..... more than 3 hours in conversation later we are going for drinks and to spend some time together to get to know each other better...

More to the point.... 12 months ago I NEVER would of dreamed of saying that..... Now i feel happy that because I made clear what I wanted and whether it pays off or not is not a big deal... I am just so happy I made a move