HATERS!!

"It's funny how people don't think twice about saying something to a person who they think is too thin but, you get crucified if you say something about a person who could lose some weight!"

SO TRUE!! When I was at my lowest weight a few years ago, my "best friend" from CA commented on one of my myspace pictures (years ago) telling me "You're too skinny." I weighted 159 lbs. That is not "too skinny" for a girl my height (5'9")! Jealousy is a nasty trait. People can't handle others DOING what they can't or haven't done. You're losing weight, they WANT to but haven't..

Keep doing what you're doing! I definitely support those who are doing well for themselves!

That's right! You just keep doing what you're doing, and take care of yourself and let them be jealous - that's the only reason they are hating! Great job. I bet her comments just gave you even more inspiration and movtivation!

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Trying to post a photo and failing miserably. I even used the search function to see how to put an image in.

FAIL. Also, I can't delete this comment because that's how these boards work.

HATERS BY MAYA ANGELOU

A hater is someone who is jealous and envious and spends
all their time trying to make you look small so they can look tall.

They are very negative people to say the least. Nothing is ever good enough!

When you make your mark, you will always attract some haters...

That's why you have to be careful with whom you share
your blessings and your dreams, because some folk can't
handle seeing you blessed...

It's dangerous to be like somebody else... If God
wanted you to be like somebody else, He would have given you what He gave them! Right?

You never know what people have gone through to get what they have...
The problem I have with haters is that they see my glory, but they don't know my story...
If the grass looks greener on the other side of the
fence, you can rest assured that the water bill is higher there too!

We've all got some haters among us!

Some people envy you because you can:
a) Have a relationship with God
b) Light up a room when you walk in
c) Start your own business
d) Tell a man / woman to hit the curb (if he / she isn't about the right thing)
e) Raise your children without both parent being in the home

Haters can't stand to see you happy.
Haters will never want to see you succeed.

Most of our haters are people who are supposed to be on our side.

How do you handle your undercover haters?

You can handle these haters by:

1. Knowing who you are & who your true friends are (VERY IMPORTANT!!)
2. Having a purpose to your life:
Purpose does not mean having a job. You can have a job and still be unfulfilled.
A purpose is having a clear sense of what God has called you to be.
Your purpose is not defined by what others think about you.
3. By remembering what you have is by divine prerogative and not human manipulation.

Fulfill your dreams! You only have one life to live...when its your time to leave this earth, you 'want' to be able to say, 'I've lived my life and fulfilled 'my' dreams,... Now I'm ready to go HOME!

When God gives you favor, you can tell your haters,
'Don't look at me...Look at Who is in charge of me...'

Pass this to all of your family & friends who you know
are not hating on you including the person who sent it to
you. If you don't get it back, maybe you called somebody
out! Don't worry about it, it's not your problem,
it's theirs.. Just pray for them, that their life can be as
fulfilled as yours! Watch out for Haters...BUT most of all don't
become a HATER!