Ladies!!! What do you consider "skinny" for a guy?

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edited October 2024 in Chit-Chat
I just read another thread about preferred body types, and I kept seeing "not too skinny", but seldom a qualification for that term.

I know this is going to be across the board for answers, but I was just curious what you considered "too skinny" for a guy.

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  • Posts: 3,095 Member
    Skinny-Guy-Flexing-e1313339349425-223x300.jpg


    ewwwwwwwww

    but perfect.


    Or also think Michael Cera.
  • Posts: 379 Member
    ^^^Exactly! :laugh:

    Scrawny with no muscle tone
  • Skinny-Guy-Flexing-e1313339349425-223x300.jpg

    LMAO!!!! This.
  • Posts: 1,199 Member
    Where did you ladies find my old picture?!?!?!?!
  • Posts: 248
    I like a good 32" - 34" waist on men :)

    I hate scrawny men, I like them to be able to give me nice cuddle and keep me warm. Not vice-versa.
  • Posts: 2,670 Member
    Well, the guy I'm talking to is 5'9" or 5'10" and about 140. I like 'em skinny. :) But he wants to gain 10 or so to which I have no objection.
  • Posts: 1,645 Member
    I like a good 32" - 34" waist on men :)

    I hate scrawny men, I like them to be able to give me nice cuddle and keep me warm. Not vice-versa.

    Yes perfect size.
  • Posts: 3,095 Member
    I'd go for a bigger guy over a "scrawny" one.

    Women like to feel safe, we like to feel small.


    I do not want to feel like I'm going to crush some dude.
  • Posts: 2,286 Member
    I just don't want to feel like I'm going to break the guy.....:noway:
  • Posts: 347 Member
    I just don't want to feel like I'm going to break the guy.....:noway:

    This^
  • Posts: 999 Member
    I like a good 32" - 34" waist on men :)

    I hate scrawny men, I like them to be able to give me nice cuddle and keep me warm. Not vice-versa.


    I just recently broke into the sub 32" waist category. But I have a 46" chest.
    Although my mother now calls me skinny, I highly doubt anyone else could consider me "Skinny" at 6'1" 197.
  • Posts: 680 Member
    Muscle tone is key here. Skinny and flaccid is not hot. Skinny and toned, hot. A qualifier, my type has always been "tall, skinny and weird."
  • Posts: 147 Member
    I prefer the soccer guy look, some muscle definition but not ripped.
  • Posts: 1,809 Member
    I have issues about my own frame. Even when I weighed 128lbs I still had broad shoulder and wide hips. I like to be with a man who makes me feel smaller. It all goes back to that primal, can he save me from the wild animals, thing. We are slaves to our DNA whether we wish to admit it or not.
  • Posts: 1,645 Member


    I just recently broke into the sub 32" waist category. But I have a 46" chest.
    Although my mother now calls me skinny, I highly doubt anyone else could consider me "Skinny" at 6'1" 197.

    You sound perfect to me, I know you look d.a.m.n. good in your jeans. :wink:
  • Edward Cullen aka Robert Pattinson
    Skinny but not scrawny
  • I just don't want to feel like I'm going to break the guy.....:noway:

    exactly!
  • Posts: 699 Member
    I have issues about my own frame. Even when I weighed 128lbs I still had broad shoulder and wide hips. I like to be with a man who makes me feel smaller. It all goes back to that primal, can he save me from the wild animals, thing. We are slaves to our DNA whether we wish to admit it or not.

    This, this, this.

    And also the one that mentioned muscle tone... Whoever said soccer player was good. Not skinnier than that. A lot of avid cyclists and runners are too skinny. (no offense to the OP, as I'd say you're definitely in the "just right" category. :wink: )
  • Posts: 1,162
    my first husband.... 6'4" and 160#! Skin and bones....
  • Posts: 885 Member

    Yes perfect size.

    This!! I want strong arms around me!! He can not be thinner than me!
  • Posts: 1,797 Member
    anyone skinnier than me ;) LoL
  • Posts: 4,383 Member
    Perfect to me is 30-32" waist and fairly broad shoulders and nice arms, chest, and shoulders. "nice" meaning not scrawny or flabby, but not solid sculpted muscle either, I don't want to cuddle a rock.
  • Posts: 129 Member
    I'm a husky chaser :) I like my guys to have broad shoulders big arms big hands feet calves you name it. Although my husband was VERY skinny when we first started dating so I fattened him up real quick lol. Now he is overweight but he looks healthier than before.
  • Posts: 123 Member
    I just don't want to feel like I'm going to break the guy.....:noway:

    Co-sign! I like it rough sometime, LOL!
  • Posts: 1,540 Member
    Muscle tone is key here. Skinny and flaccid is not hot. Skinny and toned, hot. A qualifier, my type has always been "tall, skinny and weird."

    Hahah.... you said flaccid ;)

    Damn. My 12 year old humor is showing again.
  • Posts: 144 Member
    Honestly, I have always been attracted to larger men. But "skinny" for a guy would be anything smaller than me, and that encompasses a wide range of body types!
  • Posts: 411 Member
    Edward Cullen aka Robert Pattinson
    Skinny but not scrawny

    Are you saying that Robert Pattinson is a good size, or too skinny?

    To me - Pattinson is borderline too skinny. I tend to like stockier guys, but I have always had a thing for soccer players :love:
  • Posts: 104 Member
    I actually prefer skinny guys. :) My husband is one of those skinny guys, just enough muscle tone but he's always weighed less than me (not now though since i"ve lost weight). Too skinny means you can see the ribs very well, where you can tell they definitely don't take care of themselves. I've finally gotten my husband to eat regularly and he's at a healthy mid-range BMI finally. He was on the too skinny side when we first met, had to love 'em so he'd eat more. ;)
  • Hmm.. looks like I need to post since I think the 'ideal' male body is lean but not skinny. :) That basically means lean muscle (i.e. moreso from aerobic activity than body building) but not to the point where you can see knobs or bones poking out.

    That said, for me, a body akin to that of Maksim Chmerkovskiy-- a little 'meatier' than lean-- is quite masculine and attractive, teheh. :bigsmile:
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