13.1 joggers?

JennBennett410
JennBennett410 Posts: 229
edited October 4 in Fitness and Exercise
So like many of you here, exercise hasn't always been on my priority list... Learning to love an exercise was a huge accomplished for me. The first time I crossed the finish line for my first 5k I cried. In may I completed my first half marathon! This is a very a big accomplishment and something I am beyond proud of. My husband bought me a 13.1 magnet for my car. Today I was leaving the running store and I was walking towards my car. A couple was walking past my car and one says to the other "really? 13.1 and you think you deserve a magnet." the other one giggles and says "silly joggers". I was crushed and hurt and worst off pissed. If I didn't have my two year old attached to me I would have said something, and I know it would not have been good.
Maybe it's nothing to them, but to me, it was one of the most incredible feelings to cross that finish line. Just had to vent!

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  • sarahbarah25
    sarahbarah25 Posts: 26
    Jenn - 99% of runners are supportive and this sounds like a couple of arrogant *kitten*! That is a HUGE accomplishment ... Don't let anyone take that away from you! I'm proud for you!!!!
  • MissFit0101
    MissFit0101 Posts: 2,382
    You're amazing for what you have accomplished and those people are self righteous *kitten*!
  • BrentGetsFit
    BrentGetsFit Posts: 878 Member
    I'm training for my first half right now. I CAN'T WAIT until I can put a 13.1 magnet on my truck! Keep up the great work :)
  • sufikitkat
    sufikitkat Posts: 583 Member
    Sounds like they aren't fellow runners!!! Only a fellow runner truly understands :-) I just bought my sticker and cannot wait to put it on my car proudly!!!!
  • stef_3
    stef_3 Posts: 173
    They're just haters!! Don't mind them. See if they run 13.1 when they have kids. We all know life with kids is a whole different world.
  • wbgolden
    wbgolden Posts: 2,066 Member
    There are going to be elitist *kitten*-waffles no matter where you go. You had the unfortunate chance to see a couple of them in person.

    I have a 3.1 magnet on my car and could give a **** what anyone thinks of it. My first 5K was the best moment of my life, even though I've gone on to many more miles.

    You wear that badge proudly.
  • lcnelson
    lcnelson Posts: 279 Member
    True runners don't insult other runners. We are a cohesive pack. Sounds to me like they were wanna-be's shopping at a running store for athletic gear. Don't you dare feel bad...I too, can't wait until I can put that sticker on my car!
  • soccermum75
    soccermum75 Posts: 588 Member
    I don't think they ever tried to run. Couch potatoes! Seriously be proud of yourself! It's an amazing accomplishment to have completed a half marathon. You rock!
  • jrusharound
    jrusharound Posts: 16 Member
    A half marathon is something big! And when I do my first one in 3 weeks, I'm getting a magnet or license plate frame or something to show it off! Those people were rude! Continue to be proud girl! :)
  • sc1572
    sc1572 Posts: 2,309 Member
    Wow...they are RUDE! Just ignore them! I am doing my first half marathon and will be proud! Why? Because two years ago I couldn't even run two minutes. They don't know you, and they don't know your story. Ignore negative people like that, and focus on those who give you support and love. :heart: Hold your head up! You're AMAZING! :flowerforyou:
  • JennBennett410
    JennBennett410 Posts: 229
    Thanks everyone,,, I am cracking up now! Some people are just d-bags and such is life! Thankful for this site and all the support I get here!
  • fittertanme
    fittertanme Posts: 259 Member
    well theres not at lot I can add to what others have said but they are right what you did was massive for you and you deserve to feel good so dont let others knock you down you have done well I have only started and no were near what you have done but hope to get there in a year or so lol but again well done
  • Kellie0710
    Kellie0710 Posts: 95 Member
    ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!?!?!? 13.1 miles is a HUGE accomplishment!!!! You should be soooo proud of that and dont let anyone ruin it for you =)
    I completed my first Half marathon in September and so far that is my greatest accomplishment =) and I plan on doing more in the future, even if I have to 'jog' or walk it!! lol
  • billtownsend
    billtownsend Posts: 75 Member
    I've done 4 and everyone was a challenge, you have every right to be proud and makes me wonder if the couple were even runners. You keep up the hard work, remember these knuckleheads when your having a hard run, great inspirations.
  • EmpressOfJudgment
    EmpressOfJudgment Posts: 1,162 Member
    A half marathon is a huge deal. I agree with everyone else here. Runners are usually very supportive of one and another. These were just rare elitist snobs. Don't let them bug you. They are probably miserable people who are only happy when putting other people down. Let karma take care of them and you display that magnet proudly!
  • EricInArlington
    EricInArlington Posts: 531 Member
    There are going to be elitist *kitten*-waffles no matter where you go. You had the unfortunate chance to see a couple of them in person.

    I have a 3.1 magnet on my car and could give a **** what anyone thinks of it. My first 5K was the best moment of my life, even though I've gone on to many more miles.

    You wear that badge proudly.

    where can I get one of them 3.1 magnets? :) at least you don't have people honking the horn and laughing at you like do to me, I just shoot them the bird keep on running = )
  • philOHIO
    philOHIO Posts: 520 Member
    you said "a couple". A couple of what? I know what I am thinking... and a good reason NOT to carry a loaded weapon. LOL
  • ooOOooGravy
    ooOOooGravy Posts: 476 Member
    Seriously, some people!?!? I ran 10K (6.2Mile) last night, for the first time! It wasnt a race or anything. And i am soooooo proud of the fact i did it! Absolutely comendable to you for completing a half! I only dream i can one day do that! There would have been some expletives said if i was there, i tell you!
  • lawkat
    lawkat Posts: 538 Member
    Personally I don't think they are runners. The fact that they said joggers indicates to me they don't take running seriously or don't run. I bet they have only run one marathon, if that and they walked most of it. I never let what others say about me bother me. I know how I feel and I know what I have achieved. I am running my first half marathon next month and I can't wait. All of my friends think it is a huge accomplishment that I am running a half marathon.

    People like that are insecure and aren't worth a second thought.
  • dietfree2012
    dietfree2012 Posts: 801 Member
    agreed with everyones comments; those were losers, sorry you have to see them, ugh!! 13.1 miles is a hugeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee accomplishment that people only dream about and others actually do and you fall into the second category, so kuddos to u and screw the losers!!
  • hotcouponmama
    hotcouponmama Posts: 24
    When I run a half I will proudly display one of those on my swagger wagon! I read this blog last month talking about those and it was pretty funny so I'm gonna share:
    http://www.motherhooduncensored.net/motherhood_uncensored/2011/09/its-all-in-the-numbers.html
    Good luck on your journey--don't sweat the haters!
  • TreadmillManiac
    TreadmillManiac Posts: 20
    And who were they to mock? Have they run the marathon des sables? what puts them in a position of superiority?
    As has been said, REAL runners would have given you the thumbs up.
  • TinaDay1114
    TinaDay1114 Posts: 1,328 Member
    WTF??? Sounds those two need to put big "LOSER" magnets on their trucks. Even if they had Olympic gold medals at home (which I SERIOUSLY doubt), they don't have the right to be such haters. And for WHAT?? :noway:

    I say just smack them with your sweaty running shoes and let them eat your DUST.

    Wear that badge loud and proud, and don't let people like that take anything away from you!!

    And P.S. -- I LOVE your numbers hanging up on the wall. I'm looking forward to my 1st 1/2 marathon next spring, and I can't WAIT.
  • BrittSwimsJDRF
    BrittSwimsJDRF Posts: 50 Member
    Your story reminds me of the other day driving down the road. I passed a car with a "0.0" sticker on it. I didn't know if they were trying to make fun of those of us that run, or making fun of herself for NOT being a runner. Either way, I got pissed, and Chris found it funny. Chin up... most people can't finish a 1/2 marathon, or a 5K for that matter. Like everyone else has said, real runners are supportive... I've passed so many on the road that always say "keep it up" or "good job". Just think of those a*holes every time you hit the road, and it'll be great motivation!
  • miami_mimi
    miami_mimi Posts: 325 Member
    F*$k those people! jealousy at its best! my dream is to run a half marathon! so you're my inspiration and those people are my motivation! Keep on running!!!!!
  • JennBennett410
    JennBennett410 Posts: 229
    Thanks guys! I really really have a hard time letting go of things. It's like I quickly forget all the compliments and I focus the negative. BUT the support I get on MFP really helps!
  • emmaleigh47
    emmaleigh47 Posts: 1,670 Member
    I was very nervous to get involved with running - to admit that I was a runner, to use the word runner, and to talk to the "real runners" and what I realized in 99.5% of runners are super nice. They dont care what we do (as long as we dont get in their way) ... they are just as proud of us finishing the race.

    I have a debate going with my elite running friends... they say they could never be me because they couldnt imagine being on their feet for 3 plus hours... I say I could never be them because I couldnt run a 6 min mile. We all have our "cross to bear" persay ... some have a bigger cross of course.

    I would have told them to F off .. and yes I probably would have done it too ... I would have told them that real runners respect anyone for just getting off the couch and dont feel the need to belittle others.

    Last week I went for a run with an ultramarathon friend... I was nervous because she runs like 5-6 min/miles ... she was a doll. Ran WAY slower than usual for her of course, chatted happily along, and even when I was struggling NEVER made me feel bad at all. She was just happy to have someone to run with because she just loves running... and that is what it is all about!!
  • tiffanykeaton
    tiffanykeaton Posts: 17 Member
    shoooot, i can't even get through the couch to 5k training! haha i say that lighthearted, but i really can't :S my blood pressure gets dangerously high. i wish i could do a 5k, i can't even imagine a half-marathon! be proud and let the haters hate. who cares? :)
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