married woman,does your man...?

someonelikemyself
someonelikemyself Posts: 192
edited October 4 in Chit-Chat
care about how chubby/thin you get? let's say your bmi is 25-24, proportional ,and shorter than him ... does he care if you're not thin or fit as long as your proportional?... any experiences i'm just curious about what husbands think
thanks in advance i know it's a weird question.

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  • Rae6503
    Rae6503 Posts: 6,294 Member
    My husband prefers when I'm thin, fit, and he likes my muscles. But he also loves me AND finds me sexy when I'm chubby and/or 9 months pregnant. I'm 150 now. I was 170 when we met. And was 180 a few weeks after birth.
  • bnjajoyce
    bnjajoyce Posts: 23
    He loves me no matter what but likes me better thinner. And knowing how I feel about myself, he's doing what he can to help me by eating better with me and exercising too.
  • AlsDonkBoxSquat
    AlsDonkBoxSquat Posts: 6,128 Member
    My husband prefers me horny, it happens more often when I'm skinny because I feel sexier. However, he doesn't prefer me overly thin because he knows I had an ED as a teen.
  • Iamfit4life
    Iamfit4life Posts: 3,095 Member
    My significant other prefers me healthy and happy.
  • mrshickey
    mrshickey Posts: 239
    my husband of 2 yrs (partner of almost ten) has seen me a uk size 6 and a uk size 16. bless, him, he loves me regardless. but he does prefer when im happier, whatever weight that may be, bc im more confident and want to go out more. he likes seeing me strutt my stuff lol!!
  • macpatti
    macpatti Posts: 4,280 Member
    My husband prefers me healthy. He's not concerned about my weight, but we both encourage each other to eat healthy and exercise as much as we can.
  • kb455
    kb455 Posts: 679 Member
    My husband tells me all the time that I don't need to lose anymore weight. When I was trying to lose my pregnancy pounds he was supportive of me trying to lose it but never made me feel unattractive or chubby or like I needed to lose it.
  • knittnponder
    knittnponder Posts: 1,953 Member
    My husband still told me I was beautiful when I was wearing a size 20 and somewhere between 230-250 pounds. He's loved me and told me I'm beautiful at every pound from here to there and never once in 20 years together has he made any negative comments about my weight or proportions. Judging my his reaction to how I'm looking these days he appreciates the weight loss and muscle development but he has always been my biggest supporter and encourager. Yes, I do know I'm blessed. :)
  • soccerella
    soccerella Posts: 619 Member
    hes never expressed a preference as to my weight......hes acted the same about me when I was at my smallest and at my biggest......I think i'm the one who has the issue about my size, and I obviously feel sexier when i'm in better shape.

    In fact the only real "negative" comment my husband has ever made about my appearance is to tell me i "look funny" when I'm wearing too much makeup
  • someonelikemyself
    someonelikemyself Posts: 192
    woww... all your replies are somewhat similar i guess married guys are different than single ones when it comes to weight. Or maybe it jist happens to be that you all got married to great guys LOL thans a lot for the replies !!!!
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