OOOOH NOoooo
iwantniceabs
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I just ran into my ex's girlfriend at the gym!! I have never seen her there before, didn't even know she went there. That is MY happy place and now it has been desecrated WHAT DO I DO?
I want to eat an entire chocolate cake right now...
she better not show up at the boxing gym, too....
.....just needed to vent
I want to eat an entire chocolate cake right now...
she better not show up at the boxing gym, too....
.....just needed to vent
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You are going to be fine. It's just a person. Keep it as your happy place. She may have walked in the doors....but she may have been coming to your gym all along. Chocolate cake will do nothing for you but leave you bloated tomorrow. Use it as motivation...if she recognizes you and sees what she has to live up to, it might be intimidating!!0
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Workout harder than her!!!0
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I bet she went home and posted somewhere "oh no, I just ran into my bf's ex-girlfriend at the gym, I'm never going back there!".
Ignore her if she does show up again.
PS. looks like you already have nice abs!0 -
Just work your hardest and ignore her. it is his loss, not yours! You are keeping yourself healthy and up to par, she can just be jealous of you0
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Workout harder than her!!!
Yup - that's what I would do too!!!0 -
VENT! Get it all out! Then, tell yourself - I will not give her that control! Remember . . . you are awesome! You will do fine.0
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Use your anger to fuel your workout. When I'm mad or frustrated, I work out harder and longer than usual, and it feels so good!
I'm so sorry she invaded your territory- don't let it get to you love, you were there first.0 -
I couldn't agree more! [
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VENT! Get it all out! Then, tell yourself - I will not give her that control! Remember . . . you are awesome! You will do fine.
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Me too!0
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Leave it in the past...0
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That chocolate cake will not taste as good as being thin feels. Don't give your power away. Don't empower that woman to take away your happy place. Most likely she will be more uncomfortable than you.0
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Nothing will bother him more than you acting like you don't care (except, of course, you making friends with her). Be nice/civil and go about your day like you have no idea who she even is. Because, honestly, who cares who she is? She's the one picking up your leftovers. Keep doing what you are doing and don't let it get to you. You're better than that.0
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Make her jealous! Lol JK (unless that works)
Use your energy on the machines!0 -
Remember, he's an Ex for a reason. You're a better person than to let childish things get you down! Do you're thing and train like there is no tomorrow.0
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How long have you been going there? I'm reckon it would be rare to run into her again seeing as you've only seen her once (unless either of you just started there).0
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Vent acknowledge. Don't give them any power..... it boils their potatoes OR they think nothing of it and neither should you.
Oops sorry ... male here ... trying to fix. Vent heard and acknowledged.
Cheers
Gary
ps, how's my ticker lookin ? vvvvvvvvvvvv ticker lookin good ? ) grin0 -
She probably showed up there to check YOU out!!
From your profile pic, you are a FORCE to be reckoned with and I doubt you will see her again!!
Good vent, now move on........0 -
I just ran into my ex's girlfriend at the gym!! I have never seen her there before, didn't even know she went there. That is MY happy place and now it has been desecrated WHAT DO I DO?
I want to eat an entire chocolate cake right now...
she better not show up at the boxing gym, too....
.....just needed to vent
This should be the fire to your furnace, use her to get your *kitten* in gear and have a workout that will put her to shame0
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