Stay at Home Mom Questions

merkinney
merkinney Posts: 1 Member
edited October 5 in Introduce Yourself
Hi! Im new to the site and have a few questions. I am a stay at home mom of 2 boys, a five year old and a three year old. I wanted to know what activity level most SAHM put themselves in. I put lightly active, since Im not at a "desk job" and I do spend time on the playground with the kids. However, Im not running around on the playground. Im standing around on the playground chatting with friends, and pushing them on the swings. Plus I am also doing light housework. Sweeping, laundry etc. But a lot of the day we are sitting and coloring or playing blocks. So to sum up, am I lightly active or sedentary?

Also there seems to be a lot of debate about activity level calories, and exercise level calories. Am I right in the fact that I should not enter any exercise goals even though I work out 3 times a week, so I can eat back the calories? Or should I just put my activity level at sedentary in order to under estimate my calories burned?

Thanks!

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  • JennW130
    JennW130 Posts: 460 Member
    im a stay at home mom, and mine is set to lightly active as well.
  • udallmom101
    udallmom101 Posts: 564 Member
    I am a stay at home mom to 3 girls, 10, 9, and 3 and I put sedentary. I find when I put lightly active I actually gain weight. It's kind of your own preference and what works best for you.
  • LJ102011
    LJ102011 Posts: 110
    Hello! I am a SAHM but also work about 15 hours a week. I put myself at a lightly active lifestyle because it seems like I am always up doing something! I almost feel like I should have marked "active" lifestyle somedays!
  • raisingbabyk
    raisingbabyk Posts: 442 Member
    I set mine to sedentary and then log exercise like walks, or more "intense" house work.
  • NicolCook
    NicolCook Posts: 489 Member
    I actually will change mine on any given day. If I have been up a lot that day, I will change it to lightly active. If I have had a calm, lazy day I make sure it is sedentary. If you do put sedentary, just make sure you log your activities.
  • sandy2006
    sandy2006 Posts: 483 Member
    Im a SAHM too amd I put lightly active. I do not log housework or stuff like that but I do log all my workout and exercise and I also eat back atleat 80-90% of those calories.
  • mytwobabies
    mytwobabies Posts: 113 Member
    I also had put sedentary, I felt that doing those things with my kids were normal activities not exercise. BUT everyone is different. You could start by putting lightly active and if you start to lose you are fine if not just adjust it to find what setting you fall under :) Best of luck!!
  • meli_medina
    meli_medina Posts: 594 Member
    Hello! I'm a SAHM also and I put myself as lightly active, but here's why:

    I prepare at least one meal, most days, from scratch. The only thing that might come from a bag is frozen veggies. But I generally spend some amount of time doing food preparation during the day.

    I do at least 1 load of laundry per day, which includes going down a flight of stairs and back up carrying a full laundry basket, and then folding those clothes and putting them away.

    I sweep most of the floors in my house at least once per day because we have hard wood/ceramic throughout about 80% of our house.

    I pace when I talk on the phone. When I talk to someone for a half hour, that's the equivalent of about a 1-2 mile walk for me. I don't always talk on the phone everyday, but most of the time I do.

    I walk my kids about 2 blocks to school in the mornings, and then again in the afternoon when I pick them up from school.

    On top of all of that, I exercise 30-60 minutes 3-5 times per week.

    I have my calories set to maintenance, and have continued to lose .5-1 pound per week based on that activity level, so I would say that unless you are sitting on your keester all day, eating bon bons, and watching soap operas, lightly active is a good choice. If you find you aren't losing weight after about a month, then you could always try lowering your activity level and then logging everything you do. :)
  • JoanWill
    JoanWill Posts: 217
    I am a SAHM too. I consider myself lightly active just because I don't really get to sit for a straight 4 hrs with a short break in between. I also just log things I don't do everyday, like the occasional heavy/complete cleaning but I log it as cleaning with light effort. I don't log food preparation as exercise, but that's just me. I use to log yard work because I don't get to do it everyday. On those days when I don't have any exercise logged it kinda helped me to really look at healthy food choices to be able to stretch my calories so to speak. And to know that it is possible to survive on at least 1200 cals per day since we are not always exposed to fast food short cuts like most working people do.

    Oh and i do work on the weekends too and exercise at least 3 times a week for at least 60 mins.

    Welcome to MFP
  • carolina_r
    carolina_r Posts: 359 Member
    Also there seems to be a lot of debate about activity level calories, and exercise level calories. Am I right in the fact that I should not enter any exercise goals even though I work out 3 times a week, so I can eat back the calories? Or should I just put my activity level at sedentary in order to under estimate my calories burned?

    The great thing about this site is that you can adapt it to your needs. You can start with "lightly active" - but if you feel you are not seeing any results after a few weeks, then you can change it! As for exercise goals, as far as I can tell, this does not make any difference in the number of calories you are assigned, it merely helps you track whether you have met your goal of number / duration of workouts.

    I am at home with my 8 month old. I spend a lot of time sitting as well (playing on the floor, breastfeeding) but I also do light house work. I put myself as "lightly active", though I don't enter activities such as "cleaning" as exercise. I only log it if it is a specific "workout" - i.e. going for a walk, doing an exercise video, riding a bike.

    I have found that this works for me - I lose about 1 pound a week, as planned. You will need to figure out what works for you...and when it stops working (i.e. weeks go by with no loss) then change it until it does work! Everything is customizable - as you play around with the site, you will be able to find a setting that works for you!

    Good luck and welcome to MFP!!
  • _VoV
    _VoV Posts: 1,494 Member
    I'm a SAHM, but my kids are teens who can run after themselves, finally! I do a lot of cooking from scratch and housework, but I rate myself sedentary just the same. I don't currently exercise, but when I do, I will log it, and plan NOT to eat back my calories.
  • meli_medina
    meli_medina Posts: 594 Member
    I am a SAHM too. I consider myself lightly active just because I don't really get to sit for a straight 4 hrs with a short break in between. I also just log things I don't do everyday, like the occasional heavy/complete cleaning but I log it as cleaning with light effort. I don't log food preparation as exercise, but that's just me. I use to log yard work because I don't get to do it everyday. On those days when I don't have any exercise logged it kinda helped me to really look at healthy food choices to be able to stretch my calories so to speak. And to know that it is possible to survive on at least 1200 cals per day since we are not always exposed to fast food short cuts like most working people do.

    Oh and i do work on the weekends too and exercise at least 3 times a week for at least 60 mins.

    Welcome to MFP

    I don't log any of my normal daily activities, either. Those are the things I do that I consider to make me lightly active. The only exercise I log is actual workouts or if I am down on my hands and knees scrubbing the tile grout or something, because it takes a long time and I don't do it often. lol.
  • sleepytexan
    sleepytexan Posts: 3,138 Member
    I"m a SAHM of 4 kids ages 4 - 13. I do the usual home stuff, cooking, laundry, etc. I workout hard 6 days/week, sometimes more than once a day, activities include teaching spin 2x week and dance classes 2x week, road riding at least 35 miles 1 or 2x week at about 16 mph, standup paddleboarding 2-3 x week. I also have a weekly dance performance and work quick choreo run-throughs at home (30-60 minutes) nearly every day.

    I recently changed my lifestyle from "active" to "very active", PLUS I log and eat all my exercise calories. Upping the stated activity level helped me budge the last few pounds.

    blessings.
  • Hi All, I'm a SAHM as well but I put sedentary since my baby girl is only 10 months. Plus I find that if I put lightly active that I don't lose as much weight that I'm aiming for. Just like all mom's I clean and cook everyday plus play with my daughter but I don't log those. I only log my exercises and by logging my 30-60min/day 5 days a week I find that It raises my calories intake. So If I was to log everything that I did throughout the day I find that I feel like I'm eating too much. And I just found out that you need to make sure to at least get 1200 calories a day or your body could go into starvation mode and actually prevent you from losing weight. Which is something I have a problem with since I eat really healthy. Eating 1200 calories actually gets pretty hard when your always full of greens.
    Anyways...
    Good luck all you SAHM's!!!! This Mom's getting her sexy back!!! And I Wish you all Luck with your weight loss Journey.
  • Hello! I'm a SAHM also and I put myself as lightly active, but here's why:

    I prepare at least one meal, most days, from scratch. The only thing that might come from a bag is frozen veggies. But I generally spend some amount of time doing food preparation during the day.

    I do at least 1 load of laundry per day, which includes going down a flight of stairs and back up carrying a full laundry basket, and then folding those clothes and putting them away.

    I sweep most of the floors in my house at least once per day because we have hard wood/ceramic throughout about 80% of our house.

    I pace when I talk on the phone. When I talk to someone for a half hour, that's the equivalent of about a 1-2 mile walk for me. I don't always talk on the phone everyday, but most of the time I do.

    I walk my kids about 2 blocks to school in the mornings, and then again in the afternoon when I pick them up from school.

    On top of all of that, I exercise 30-60 minutes 3-5 times per week.

    I have my calories set to maintenance, and have continued to lose .5-1 pound per week based on that activity level, so I would say that unless you are sitting on your keester all day, eating bon bons, and watching soap operas, lightly active is a good choice. If you find you aren't losing weight after about a month, then you could always try lowering your activity level and then logging everything you do. :)

    THIS!!!! Perfect :drinker:
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