the master o' confusion...

masterofconfusion
edited September 19 in Health and Weight Loss
has gotten confused!!
I am a female, 5'3, 136lbs, 18 yrs and my BMR is 1369....
Which means if I eat the minimum of 1200 calories a day, I should lose .2lbs a week??? :brokenheart:
ONLY?? :noway:
I'm new here btw so help me out!! I want to lose 1-2lbs a week to be ready for my ball! Is this too mush to ask? I've got 9 weeks.

If you were me what would your calorie intake and expenditure be?
Do I eat my exercise calories?
Do I wear my Polar all day or only during exercise?

WHAT SHOULD I DO???

Please help!! (great site too!!)

Thanks guys!! xoxo Sara :flowerforyou:

Replies

  • has gotten confused!!
    I am a female, 5'3, 136lbs, 18 yrs and my BMR is 1369....
    Which means if I eat the minimum of 1200 calories a day, I should lose .2lbs a week??? :brokenheart:
    ONLY?? :noway:
    I'm new here btw so help me out!! I want to lose 1-2lbs a week to be ready for my ball! Is this too mush to ask? I've got 9 weeks.

    If you were me what would your calorie intake and expenditure be?
    Do I eat my exercise calories?
    Do I wear my Polar all day or only during exercise?

    WHAT SHOULD I DO???

    Please help!! (great site too!!)

    Thanks guys!! xoxo Sara :flowerforyou:
  • sarahiris
    sarahiris Posts: 82
    how much do u want to lose, and how strict are you with you diet, if you go below 1200 your going to slow down your metabolism, remember to drink loads of water, you'll get there good luck, your weight sounds okay to me so i expect you don't have much to lose:wink::smile:
  • katattack
    katattack Posts: 45
    When you're already in the target BMI range weight will tend to come off slower -- this isn't a bad thing though! It'll come off, slowly but surely! What I would suggest is letting go of the scale for this phase and get in touch with weight training. This way, your body will become leaner and you'll notice the results more even if the scale isn't moving as quickly as you'd like. The trick is, weight training will initially make your weight go up a couple pounds, but then as you slim down and keep eating healthily, the results will speak for themselves.

    Instead of aiming for 1200 cals a day, I've started eating anywhere from 250-400 cals every 2 to 3 hrs (depending on how active I have been/will be). This way you're responding to your bodies caloric needs a little better.
  • SHBoss1673
    SHBoss1673 Posts: 7,161 Member
    so, I have limited information, thus it's hard to give you any real solid advice. I can only work off the "flawed" tool called BMI which has you around 23.5, which is well into the "normal" or "healthy" range.

    This being the case (as kat said), your focus should probably be not of losing weight, but increasing muscle density, and dropping your body fat percentage.

    this means eating at or very close to your maintenance calories. My best advice would be to go get a body fat percent test done. You can find labs that do it relatively cheaply at most colleges that have either a sports medicine department, or some other medical department. Sometimes for free. Or you can go to one of almost any gym and ask for one, they'll use callipers which aren't as accurate, but it should get you within 5% to 10% accuracy which should be good enough. Woman should shoot for 15% to 19% Body Fat %. You achieve this, and your body will look KICK *kitten*!

    IMHO weight shouldn't even enter the equation for you besides being one of the metrics you use to calculate body fat and how many calories you should be eating. I CAN say this, there's no way, at your weight, you should be even close to your BMR. You should be far higher then that NET calories wise.
  • arewethereyet
    arewethereyet Posts: 18,702 Member
    Banks here in lies the real issue for us shorties! I am 5'2" 138 pounds. I have a petite frame but use medium for calculations.....well just cuz:wink:

    I haven't lost a pound since around January. I still have obvious fat on my body. I know BMI and BMR and all that good stuff............but for me

    1200 + exercise cals= no weight loss
    1350 + exercise cals = no weight loss
    1600 + no exercise cals= no weight loss

    Here is the kicker. When I was really sick a few months ago, I ate approx 1000 cals a day. I was forcing THAT much down with the way I was feeling, but because of MFP I was smart and knew I had to eat and ate all really good, high protien foods. egg whites, boiled chicken, protien shakes with fruits.

    The point is no exercise + 1000 calories and I lost 2 pounds.

    I am at maint. cals now 1685, exercise 3 days a week, with weight training. I am taking a break from the low cals to see what happens.


    I just cant keep my brain from the desire to eat 1k a day!
  • megan0313
    megan0313 Posts: 394
    Hi There!
    I'm also small, 5'3' and reached my goal weight about a month ago. My BMI is about 17.6 according to this site. It took me about a year to lose 18 lbs, so it was definitely slow! But I never went below 1200 cals. I usually ate about half of my exercise calories and I did 60- 90 mins of cardio 6 days/wk.

    having said that, I can now say that Banks is dead on with focusing on muscle! After I got close to my goal I really started working on weight training. I upped my calories to a maintainence level and in less than one month I lost 3 more lbs (without trying to)! I've always done yoga and ballet to tone, being afraid I'm become bulky...but it just doesn't happen! I'm more toned than I ever have been, and my metabolism is obviously much higher. I'm a total convert now for weight training in addition to your cardio!

    Good Luck!:flowerforyou:
  • SHBoss1673
    SHBoss1673 Posts: 7,161 Member
    Banks here in lies the real issue for us shorties! I am 5'2" 138 pounds. I have a petite frame but use medium for calculations.....well just cuz:wink:

    I haven't lost a pound since around January. I still have obvious fat on my body. I know BMI and BMR and all that good stuff............but for me

    1200 + exercise cals= no weight loss
    1350 + exercise cals = no weight loss
    1600 + no exercise cals= no weight loss

    Here is the kicker. When I was really sick a few months ago, I ate approx 1000 cals a day. I was forcing THAT much down with the way I was feeling, but because of MFP I was smart and knew I had to eat and ate all really good, high protien foods. egg whites, boiled chicken, protien shakes with fruits.

    The point is no exercise + 1000 calories and I lost 2 pounds.

    I am at maint. cals now 1685, exercise 3 days a week, with weight training. I am taking a break from the low cals to see what happens.


    I just cant keep my brain from the desire to eat 1k a day!

    Right, you probably have a depressed metabolism. I mean, I'm guessing, but it's an educated guess. it takes a LOOOOONG time for your metabolism to do a 180.

    Here's my reasoning.

    1200, way too low, you were still suppressing your metabolism's desire to increase calorie burn.

    1350, ditto above.

    So in reality you've been at a decent calorie range for what? A few weeks? A month? Not long enough necessarilly. Takes a long time for your body to recover from famine. 1st it has to recognize that you're feeding it more, that takes a few weeks, then it has to adjust the chemical processes that increase your metabolism, another few weeks, then it has to begin building muscle, another few weeks, it takes a while to reverse.

    Put it this way, for someone with a BMI near healthy, the turn around is 4 to 12 weeks to start losing weight, and even then, it's gonna be 1/2 to 1 lb a month. So you may not immediately notice.

    You mentioned that you lost weight at 1000 calories. Well yeah, sure you did. I'll bet 1/2 of it was muscle though. I know you know this stuff already so I'm not going to beat you up about it. My other thought is that maybe because you have been working so hard the last few months, that your metabolism needs MORE then the average, so the deficit is actually LARGER then you think it is. Also a possibility. Keep tweaking. Keep giving each tweak 3 to 4 weeks, you'll find it. I know you will.
  • Dave198lbs
    Dave198lbs Posts: 8,810 Member
    has gotten confused!!
    I am a female, 5'3, 136lbs, 18 yrs and my BMR is 1369....
    Which means if I eat the minimum of 1200 calories a day, I should lose .2lbs a week??? :brokenheart:
    ONLY?? :noway:
    I'm new here btw so help me out!! I want to lose 1-2lbs a week to be ready for my ball! Is this too mush to ask? I've got 9 weeks.

    If you were me what would your calorie intake and expenditure be?
    Do I eat my exercise calories?
    Do I wear my Polar all day or only during exercise?

    WHAT SHOULD I DO???

    Please help!! (great site too!!)

    Thanks guys!! xoxo Sara :flowerforyou:

    you say you want to lose 1-2 pounds a week for 9 weeks. Let's go with 2 pounds a week for 9 weeks so 18 pounds to lose...

    now this is not a long term plan so you might gain some weight back after the Ball...but to answer your question-

    the way ro get a quick loss like that is simple AND hard-

    the number of calories you take in is important but noone has mentioned the type of calories...very common here....everyone is so hung up on the number of calories and just as much importance if not more should be placed on the quality of the calories expecially when you want to drop faster than the "lifestyle" change we all promote-

    to drop weight fast you need to limit carbs- to get enough calories you want to increase protein

    for nine weeks-
    cut out all bread
    cut out all rice...cut out all pasta...no pizza...no cereal...no white potatoes

    cut out all crap- no sugar (cookies, cakes, etc)

    no chips.. you know what crap is

    increase your protein.. ,,,,get some protein powder and take protein shakes

    eat a bowl of oatmeal and some protein for breakfast...the oatmeal has good carbs to fuel your day

    do cardio everyday assuming you have no heart..blood pressure issues....get sweaty every day

    do not simply limit your calories but do limit your carbs

    please understand that I do not promote this regimen for the long term...but to drop the weight for your Ball....this will do it
  • arewethereyet
    arewethereyet Posts: 18,702 Member
    Banks here in lies the real issue for us shorties! I am 5'2" 138 pounds. I have a petite frame but use medium for calculations.....well just cuz:wink:

    I haven't lost a pound since around January. I still have obvious fat on my body. I know BMI and BMR and all that good stuff............but for me

    1200 + exercise cals= no weight loss
    1350 + exercise cals = no weight loss
    1600 + no exercise cals= no weight loss

    Here is the kicker. When I was really sick a few months ago, I ate approx 1000 cals a day. I was forcing THAT much down with the way I was feeling, but because of MFP I was smart and knew I had to eat and ate all really good, high protien foods. egg whites, boiled chicken, protien shakes with fruits.

    The point is no exercise + 1000 calories and I lost 2 pounds.

    I am at maint. cals now 1685, exercise 3 days a week, with weight training. I am taking a break from the low cals to see what happens.


    I just cant keep my brain from the desire to eat 1k a day!

    Right, you probably have a depressed metabolism. I mean, I'm guessing, but it's an educated guess. it takes a LOOOOONG time for your metabolism to do a 180.

    Here's my reasoning.

    1200, way too low, you were still suppressing your metabolism's desire to increase calorie burn.

    1350, ditto above.

    So in reality you've been at a decent calorie range for what? A few weeks? A month? Not long enough necessarilly. Takes a long time for your body to recover from famine. 1st it has to recognize that you're feeding it more, that takes a few weeks, then it has to adjust the chemical processes that increase your metabolism, another few weeks, then it has to begin building muscle, another few weeks, it takes a while to reverse.

    Put it this way, for someone with a BMI near healthy, the turn around is 4 to 12 weeks to start losing weight, and even then, it's gonna be 1/2 to 1 lb a month. So you may not immediately notice.

    You mentioned that you lost weight at 1000 calories. Well yeah, sure you did. I'll bet 1/2 of it was muscle though. I know you know this stuff already so I'm not going to beat you up about it. My other thought is that maybe because you have been working so hard the last few months, that your metabolism needs MORE then the average, so the deficit is actually LARGER then you think it is. Also a possibility. Keep tweaking. Keep giving each tweak 3 to 4 weeks, you'll find it. I know you will.

    Thanks Steve. I do know this stuff, just like we knew alcohol shrinks brain cells but still during our late teens early 20s we pickled some organs!

    Sometimes we just need someone who is educated,caring, but with a boxing glove to put us in the right frame of mind!!:blushing:

    So we shall see with my little experiment. I am eating 1600 cals of good food, exercise 4 x week with weight training (no wimpy crap either) and lets see what happens in 4 weeks.
  • arewethereyet
    arewethereyet Posts: 18,702 Member
    Hi There!
    I'm also small, 5'3' and reached my goal weight about a month ago. My BMI is about 17.6 according to this site. It took me about a year to lose 18 lbs, so it was definitely slow! But I never went below 1200 cals. I usually ate about half of my exercise calories and I did 60- 90 mins of cardio 6 days/wk.

    having said that, I can now say that Banks is dead on with focusing on muscle! After I got close to my goal I really started working on weight training. I upped my calories to a maintainence level and in less than one month I lost 3 more lbs (without trying to)! I've always done yoga and ballet to tone, being afraid I'm become bulky...but it just doesn't happen! I'm more toned than I ever have been, and my metabolism is obviously much higher. I'm a total convert now for weight training in addition to your cardio!

    Good Luck!:flowerforyou:

    Thanks Megan. You have helped me put my brain back on thr right track!
  • arewethereyet
    arewethereyet Posts: 18,702 Member
    has gotten confused!!
    I am a female, 5'3, 136lbs, 18 yrs and my BMR is 1369....
    Which means if I eat the minimum of 1200 calories a day, I should lose .2lbs a week??? :brokenheart:
    ONLY?? :noway:
    I'm new here btw so help me out!! I want to lose 1-2lbs a week to be ready for my ball! Is this too mush to ask? I've got 9 weeks.

    If you were me what would your calorie intake and expenditure be?
    Do I eat my exercise calories?
    Do I wear my Polar all day or only during exercise?

    WHAT SHOULD I DO???

    Please help!! (great site too!!)

    Thanks guys!! xoxo Sara :flowerforyou:

    you say you want to lose 1-2 pounds a week for 9 weeks. Let's go with 2 pounds a week for 9 weeks so 18 pounds to lose...

    now this is not a long term plan so you might gain some weight back after the Ball...but to answer your question-

    the way ro get a quick loss like that is simple AND hard-

    the number of calories you take in is important but noone has mentioned the type of calories...very common here....everyone is so hung up on the number of calories and just as much importance if not more should be placed on the quality of the calories expecially when you want to drop faster than the "lifestyle" change we all promote-

    to drop weight fast you need to limit carbs- to get enough calories you want to increase protein

    for nine weeks-
    cut out all bread
    cut out all rice...cut out all pasta...no pizza...no cereal...no white potatoes

    cut out all crap- no sugar (cookies, cakes, etc)

    no chips.. you know what crap is

    increase your protein.. ,,,,get some protein powder and take protein shakes

    eat a bowl of oatmeal and some protein for breakfast...the oatmeal has good carbs to fuel your day

    do cardio everyday assuming you have no heart..blood pressure issues....get sweaty every day

    do not simply limit your calories but do limit your carbs

    please understand that I do not promote this regimen for the long term...but to drop the weight for your Ball....this will do it

    I agree. The 1st 10 pounds I lost were just from eliminating anything white from my diet and adding protein.

    :drinker:
  • Tamrahan
    Tamrahan Posts: 29
    What Dave says sound pretty much like the cutting diet that body builders/figure athetes use to start getting ready for contest so it does work.


    And no, no need to wear a hrm all day-you will just wear down your battery unnecessarily. just wear during exercise.
  • arewethereyet
    arewethereyet Posts: 18,702 Member
    has gotten confused!!
    I am a female, 5'3, 136lbs, 18 yrs and my BMR is 1369....
    Which means if I eat the minimum of 1200 calories a day, I should lose .2lbs a week??? :brokenheart:
    ONLY?? :noway:
    I'm new here btw so help me out!! I want to lose 1-2lbs a week to be ready for my ball! Is this too mush to ask? I've got 9 weeks.

    If you were me what would your calorie intake and expenditure be?
    Do I eat my exercise calories?
    Do I wear my Polar all day or only during exercise?

    WHAT SHOULD I DO???

    Please help!! (great site too!!)

    Thanks guys!! xoxo Sara :flowerforyou:

    I wear my HRM when exercising only, and when doing strenuous houswork (like gardening or a heavy day of laundry).

    It is really hard to lose 2 pounds a week when you are within 10% of your ideal weight. You will have to work very hard with cardio and clean calories to get there. I did this when I was younger and my metabolism was better.

    Good luck to you Sara!!
  • mrsyac2
    mrsyac2 Posts: 2,784 Member
    has gotten confused!!
    I am a female, 5'3, 136lbs, 18 yrs and my BMR is 1369....
    Which means if I eat the minimum of 1200 calories a day, I should lose .2lbs a week??? :brokenheart:
    ONLY?? :noway:
    I'm new here btw so help me out!! I want to lose 1-2lbs a week to be ready for my ball! Is this too mush to ask? I've got 9 weeks.

    If you were me what would your calorie intake and expenditure be?
    Do I eat my exercise calories?
    Do I wear my Polar all day or only during exercise?

    WHAT SHOULD I DO???

    Please help!! (great site too!!)

    Thanks guys!! xoxo Sara :flowerforyou:

    you say you want to lose 1-2 pounds a week for 9 weeks. Let's go with 2 pounds a week for 9 weeks so 18 pounds to lose...

    now this is not a long term plan so you might gain some weight back after the Ball...but to answer your question-

    the way ro get a quick loss like that is simple AND hard-

    the number of calories you take in is important but noone has mentioned the type of calories...very common here....everyone is so hung up on the number of calories and just as much importance if not more should be placed on the quality of the calories expecially when you want to drop faster than the "lifestyle" change we all promote-

    to drop weight fast you need to limit carbs- to get enough calories you want to increase protein

    for nine weeks-
    cut out all bread
    cut out all rice...cut out all pasta...no pizza...no cereal...no white potatoes

    cut out all crap- no sugar (cookies, cakes, etc)

    no chips.. you know what crap is

    increase your protein.. ,,,,get some protein powder and take protein shakes

    eat a bowl of oatmeal and some protein for breakfast...the oatmeal has good carbs to fuel your day

    do cardio everyday assuming you have no heart..blood pressure issues....get sweaty every day

    do not simply limit your calories but do limit your carbs

    please understand that I do not promote this regimen for the long term...but to drop the weight for your Ball....this will do it

    No Dairy either- also pound down water 3liters-to a gallon a day

    Now he said No carbs- You are able to eat complex carbs such as brown rice, sweet potato and vegetables and the oatmeal needs to be Original none of that sugary stuff- (your just gonna have to give up the simple ones) this meal plan is fairly strict but you will do fine and you should eat 5-6 times a day

    And hit the gym!

    Basically No processed food (nothing in a box) Don't forget to hit the weights.-
  • StiringWendel
    StiringWendel Posts: 3,904 Member
    I'm 5'2" and started out in January at 143. I currently weigh 116. Here's how I did it.

    I ate 1300 healthy calories a day. I worked out six days a week, alternating strength and cardio. I did not eat my exercise calories at all until I hit about 125. When I hit 125, I upped my calories to about 1400 (sometimes a little bit more). I consistently lost 2 pounds a week right down to where I am right now. I didn't lose muscle at the lower calorie deficit because I wasn't at much of a lower calorie deficit AND I was doing strength training (in fact, I've gained quite a bit of muscle). At this weight, I only need 1400 calories to maintain my weight, so eating 1300 calories is NOT starvation mode for me, even with working out.

    At this weight/height, it is actually difficult to burn many calories working out. I burn about 1/2 what MFP says I would burn doing any given activity (especially cardio). This has been confirmed over and over with my HRM. So do wear your HRM when exercising and pay attention to that. You don't need to wear it otherwise.

    Your metabolism is going to be faster than mine because you are 25 years younger than I am. However, as somebody who is relatively short in stature, the general rules sometimes don't apply.

    My recommendation would be to keep your calories around 1400 (or in the 1300-1400 range if you are comfortable there) and not eat your exercise calories until you are burning more than about 300-500 calories working out per day. You need to create that 500 calorie deficit using exercise instead of diet if your AMR (in other words, your maintenance calories) is below 1700. That's just the way it is for those of us who are shorter.

    I lost weight very easily listening to my body, being smart about what I was eating (because what you are eating does matter), and working out hard. I know you are getting alot of conflicting information, but, quite honestly, if you take the time to figure out your body (for example, knowing what your current maintenance calories or AMR is), then it becomes a pretty simple math equation. I didn't plateau once and actually blew right through my goal (of 120lbs). I'm as fit and healthy as I have been in years and am finding it quite easy to maintain this weight, so I obviously didn't do any permanent damage to my body.

    Best of luck to you.
  • Thanks so much!! :flowerforyou:
    Sorry for the long reply time!
    What I'll do is eat 1400 and exercise (get all sweaty!) and aim to burn 500ish, possibly eat some and I'll do weights. NO junk!! And plenty of water... I'll tell you how it went after!

    Thnaks again!!!!! :drinker:
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