Im Not Giving up, New to MFP and looking for friends, and bu

TattedLiLdiVa
TattedLiLdiVa Posts: 21 Member
edited October 5 in Introduce Yourself
Im 23, and im sick of being the BBW....."FAT GIRL" and "Bigger friend" ..... Hiding behind the words "Plus size".....its getting old and the more i use the words, and live the lifestyle , the more i let it take power over me (The weight), and keep getting bigger and bigger....im sick of it....and i would love to find friends....mentors....because i have alot of temptation around me im my home..my family...everyone is over weight....and its going to be hard...not to have anyone to lean on when needed.. so if your out there and u want a new buddie...men or women .. going on the walk to a healthier life and a better body ...feel free to message me and or add me ..
Thanks Bunches
Charity

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  • luppic8
    luppic8 Posts: 580 Member
    I would be happy to help you get to fit and healthy...however I am a brutally honest person(honest but not mean or insulting) and I will tell you when I think you are not doing well. I am not one to say WTG without looking at your diet and exercise diary or to make you feel good. so if that is fine by you (some people can't take constructive criticism and get easily offended), please feel free to add me to your buddy list. If I don't hear back from you, I would like to wish you well and I hope you reach your goals! Take care!
  • stryfe101
    stryfe101 Posts: 61
    good place to be, you won't find a better place to get support and motivation...good luck!
  • penrbrown
    penrbrown Posts: 2,685 Member
    I hear you and I feel you. Sending an add request. :)
  • TattedLiLdiVa
    TattedLiLdiVa Posts: 21 Member
    Thank you, and thats what im looking for is honesty.. i dont want to be bashed and ridiculed lol but at the same time.. being honest is what its all about.. without honesty..
  • KriscoOil
    KriscoOil Posts: 305 Member
    You came to the right place! All kinds of support up in here! Welcome!:smile:
  • abfit4life
    abfit4life Posts: 220 Member
    I need to hop on this bandwagon because I need a double dose of honesty. Experienced a major setback but I must turn this around.
  • TattedLiLdiVa
    TattedLiLdiVa Posts: 21 Member
    You can do it!! we can do it...we WILL do it!!!
  • ChitownFoodie
    ChitownFoodie Posts: 1,562 Member
    Welcome to MFP! You will find most people very helpful and friendly.
  • eddie8131
    eddie8131 Posts: 600 Member
    Glad you are here, you are beautiful. I love your enthusiasm!!! Hope you find this place as motivating and supportive as I have. Feel free to add me if you wish. :)))
  • teagin2002
    teagin2002 Posts: 1,900 Member
    I understand how you feel and I felt the same. I was a slim woman in a huge body, and I was uncomfortable. I still fell that fat or large people are very beautiful I just didn't like myself being that big.
  • MelissaE27
    MelissaE27 Posts: 682 Member
    Hi.. I know all to well. about the the*bigger girl* syndrome.. all my friends are small and they say you know Mel the bigger girl.. grrrrr... so lets do this.. anyone feel free to add me :)
  • TattedLiLdiVa
    TattedLiLdiVa Posts: 21 Member
    Yeah thats kinda how im introduced.."you know ....charity the bigger girl with all the tattoos" it sucks... i mean...lol...i wish for one day they could put on a suit and walk around and see what it felt like
  • hsk1019
    hsk1019 Posts: 235 Member
    Feel free to friend me, I'm on all the time and happy to offer motivation!!
  • CathiAnne
    CathiAnne Posts: 193 Member
    First of all let me say you are a courageous person "to put it all out there" as you say. That is probably your first step. Second step, you joined MFP. You will find a lot of opportunities here to give and receive encouragement. You have come to the right place. Best wishes on your journey. :flowerforyou:
  • TattedLiLdiVa
    TattedLiLdiVa Posts: 21 Member
    Yeah.. i have never said.. typed or told anyone my true weight......EVER
  • sheshe32
    sheshe32 Posts: 195 Member
    Feel free to add me if you like. I have a long journey, but you got to start somewhere. Im just under 300lbs...You can do this, eat still like a "normal" person but learn to be accountable for it. Good luck!
  • Suzanneandab
    Suzanneandab Posts: 2
    This has been an ongoing struggle for me, losing weight, but mostly keeping it off. I try to tell myself that all the yummy foods I want I can have periodically, that they'll be there when I want them, & I don't need to eat everything all at once! You CAN do it, just remember it's not something that starts & then you're done when you lose weight. You will indeed need to work on it always, it will be a challenge, but it's worth how good you'll feel about yourself for sticking w/ it!
  • t_n_nelson
    t_n_nelson Posts: 3 Member
    I've been using this site along with EA Sports Active 2 for the Xbox, thus far going on 3 weeks and down 9 pounds. Keep it up the good work its all worth it in the end!
  • t_n_nelson
    t_n_nelson Posts: 3 Member
    I've been using this site along with EA Sports Active 2 for the Xbox, thus far going on 3 weeks and down 9 pounds. Keep up the good work, its all worth it in the end!
  • TattedLiLdiVa
    TattedLiLdiVa Posts: 21 Member
    Yes, i know and the foods will only fill me for a bit.. and i know NOW in the end....will do more damage later than i reolize
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