He better not!!!!

FitJoani
FitJoani Posts: 2,173 Member
edited September 19 in Chit-Chat
I went to an outlet mall with my boyfriend and decided to walk into the coach store. I am gonna make a coach bag my reward when i finish my quest. I dont wanna "reward bad behavior" right now so I am gonna wait and hopefully it will be my happy birthday to me from me present as well. But he asks "sooooo if you were gonna get one which one would you get? Which one do you like?" Last time he did that the overly romantic man got me a dozen roses and the time after that was over a pound of dark chocolate. He tends to do that cause come to think of it he did it for easter from bath and body works(after I told him please dont) So I am reeally hoping he doesnt get it in his head to go buy a coach bag. Thats way too much. But i am still getting used to a man like him my past BFS usually are the ones who have the gual top ask, maybe you can get a case of beer before you come over???? Can you buy me some food please???(thats what the cheating ex did and i put up with it stupid me)

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  • FitJoani
    FitJoani Posts: 2,173 Member
    I went to an outlet mall with my boyfriend and decided to walk into the coach store. I am gonna make a coach bag my reward when i finish my quest. I dont wanna "reward bad behavior" right now so I am gonna wait and hopefully it will be my happy birthday to me from me present as well. But he asks "sooooo if you were gonna get one which one would you get? Which one do you like?" Last time he did that the overly romantic man got me a dozen roses and the time after that was over a pound of dark chocolate. He tends to do that cause come to think of it he did it for easter from bath and body works(after I told him please dont) So I am reeally hoping he doesnt get it in his head to go buy a coach bag. Thats way too much. But i am still getting used to a man like him my past BFS usually are the ones who have the gual top ask, maybe you can get a case of beer before you come over???? Can you buy me some food please???(thats what the cheating ex did and i put up with it stupid me)
  • havingitall
    havingitall Posts: 3,728 Member
    Joani,

    I had some loser men in my past too. I have been married to the kindest sweetest man for almost 5 years now. He loves me completely, no matter what and is my biggest fan.

    Get over the past guys. If your boyfriend wants to spoil you, let him. He is doing it because he loves you. Allow yourself to enjoy the feelig of being cherished. There isn't enough of that around.
  • HealthierMamasita
    HealthierMamasita Posts: 1,126 Member
    Oooohhhh I :heart: :heart: :heart: Coach bags!! I need another one :wink:

    That is a very nice reward for yourself Joani.
    I agree with Vicky, if he wants to spoil his girl, let him. He loves you that much to want to buy you something that you really want.

    ~Jo :flowerforyou:
  • mszSHOGAN
    mszSHOGAN Posts: 2,277 Member
    Just be happy you have a man who WANTS to spoil you...my husband is great and compared to past men its a BIG change! Get used to it - the past is just that, THE PAST! REJOICE AND BE GLAD! :bigsmile:
  • iRun4wine
    iRun4wine Posts: 5,126
    I think MFP is the only place where you'd see a girl hoping her boyfriend doesn't buy her a coach bag. :laugh:

    I totally get what you're saying, just had to chuckle! :tongue:
  • msamson31
    msamson31 Posts: 45
    I'm not one to want to be spoiled either but I say let him. I have been in bad relationships and expected bad behavior. When you find someone that is good to you this is what they are supposed to do. A coach bag is a very expensive purchase but obviously this man cares about you alot. Honey, be happy that you have a great man in your life and forget about the past ones!
  • Phoenix_Rising
    Phoenix_Rising Posts: 11,417 Member
    I think MFP is the only place where you'd see a girl hoping her boyfriend doesn't buy her a coach bag. :laugh:

    I totally get what you're saying, just had to chuckle! :tongue:
    :laugh:
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