Misery loves company

Hummmingbird
Hummmingbird Posts: 337 Member
edited October 6 in Motivation and Support
So, I LOVE this site! I cant get enough of all the positive messages, happy people becoming fit and healthy, I LOVE progress pics (im addicted)! However most recently I cant see to stop eating, work out, or feel motivated by any of this. Mostly it makes me feel fatter, uglier and crappier. So, what I think I need is a real good SULK. You know, like when you were 8 and you rolled your eyes and crossed your arms and huffed. I know, i know I know, keep a positive attitude, look on the bright side, tomorrow's a new day...I KNOW, but i also know i want a good old fashioned "my life sucks" day too. Im tired of being so damn shiny all the time! So, Im sending out this invitation to SULK FEST.....what is pissing you off about life, this site, yourself that is making you sulky? Ill start!

Im soooo tired of seeing these awesome girls that lost 150 freaking lbs but I cant even lose 2
I hate that i have never been able to acheive abs. EVER.
I hate my 5'4'' frame and the fat that sits on my hips constantly
backfat.

more to come...


youre turn :)
I hate how i dont like sex anymore because of my weigh

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  • VeganInTraining
    VeganInTraining Posts: 1,319 Member
    I hate making all this progress, then having to sit on my butt for 6 weeks because of surgery and knowing that I wont be able to just jump up when this is all over and run a 5k anymore.

    Oh and I hate watching my best friend be sad and unhappy with herself.....so, you are allowed to sulk today and ONLY today, then you need to get up off your *kitten* and hit the gym which will make you feel better. Oh, and run an extra mile for me! AND......you get to see me in less than a week EEK :)
  • Dave198lbs
    Dave198lbs Posts: 8,810 Member
    absurd pity pot....get off it
  • Nikki582
    Nikki582 Posts: 561 Member
    Oh YAY! A Pity-Party! I'm joining in!

    I started at 92kg, I got on the scales midweek and was 81.9 !! MAGIC 10k lost! Whooping and celebrating.
    THen I got my period AND for whatever reason I'm at 82.6 ! Official weigh in tomorrow. I hate it and it sucks. I wanted to celebrate a 10kg victory, but nooo. I work out for an hour a day, I started on free weights and upped my recovery run speed... and this is what I get?
    *twitch*

    *exhales*
  • Hummmingbird
    Hummmingbird Posts: 337 Member
    absurd pity pot....get off it


    I didnt ask your opinion
  • kit_katty
    kit_katty Posts: 992 Member
    Ha! I agree with the friend who doesn't like their weight yet refuses to do anything about it! Both my best friends, and a few relatives dislike their weight... I've told them about this website, and that I've lost 20lbs! So... get off your butt and join and see results! Ug.

    Oh, and I may have plateaued. Or just too much sodium. Sigh.
  • HisBeachgirl
    HisBeachgirl Posts: 51 Member
    I need a pitty party! I'm so sick of working my tale off and getting no support what so ever from my husband. The people on mfp are great! They're full of "good job!"s, and "great burn"s. But I don't know any of them in real life (which doesn't make them any less awesome, it's just their awesomeness is kinda lost on me). The one who matters the most, the one who is supposed to give a "woah, you're looking good hon" couldn't care less. All he cares about is his frickin computer games. It's SO tempting to just go back to eating chocolate and drinking soda. (Yeah, I had two pieces of fudge today). I want to bury myself in loads of sweet delish calories. A calorie coma! Then I won't feel it so much any more. But then I'll feel even worse the next day! So I'm trying to not do that.

    One day I'll get there... until then I'll have to work my butt off. And fight to not give in to this woe is me mentality.
  • ChrisStoney
    ChrisStoney Posts: 479 Member
    I hate being stuck in the 240's, would love to go into the 230's.. And about 8-10 of my MFP friends I know in real life and some of them have done really well, and continue to do so. I like 90% of everything on this site, I have a good friend list and they motivate me, definately!

    My pitty party would be can someone kick my but and get me into the 230's!!
  • Bullygirl30
    Bullygirl30 Posts: 82
    It's like you read my mind today. Pitty party here I come. I love that on here I get so much support and encouragement but In my life it's like I have to beg for any good words to be sent my way. I go to the gym by my self and work out as hard as i can but at times I don't think that I push myself hard enough. I get told that certin body parts are lossing weights but not the whole body. Im tired of feeling bad for what I eat and look like. I tired of hearing that if I want to get married I need to loss the weight. Im tired of being told that I am doing ok but not really feeling it.

    Im tired of being (very stupid) jelous of a friend who got the lap-band. She is losing weights and twice the rate that I am!!!! I want to feel normal again and loved.
  • Hummmingbird
    Hummmingbird Posts: 337 Member
    Im so glad im not the only one!
  • 65PONY
    65PONY Posts: 68 Member
    Hey Keep the Focus & Finish Strong!

    I will be glad to help keep you motivated...add me as a friend :-)

    Cheers, Joe:drinker:
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