Has weight loss given you more confidence?

fteale
fteale Posts: 5,310 Member
In my case, I don't think it has. I have never been unconfident, but I don't feel any more so now that I am in better shape. I have more energy, but I think overall I make less of an effort on myself. My skin is worse, and I worry more about what people think. In fact, I think people judge me more.

Don't get me wrong, I am not a shy or paranoid person. I am mostly friendly and outgoing to everyone I meet, but I definitely feel more judged now than I did as a more frumpy mother figure. And I care more what people think of me. I seem to make enemies left right and centre these days, whereas I used to be the funny, happy go lucky one.

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  • wish21
    wish21 Posts: 602 Member
    I think so. Maybe a little I smile more lol even to strangers:smile:
  • momtimesone
    momtimesone Posts: 85 Member
    I find myself looking in the mirror more and enjoying photos being taken of me and as a side note my liebedo has increased greatly which I find really odd but maybe its because I have been single for 8 years now LOL
  • Scorpioangel
    Scorpioangel Posts: 951 Member
    Yes it has for sure!
  • Yes it has given me alot more confidence because I believe in myself! I also feel better about how I look so I put myself out there more.
  • angiek941
    angiek941 Posts: 97 Member
    Yes, I agree with the PP about catching glimpses of myself in the mirror and enjoying pictures more. I haven't done that in a long time. Looking better helps me feel better, and I hope I project that.
  • SassyCalyGirl
    SassyCalyGirl Posts: 1,932 Member
    Definitely. My clothes fit good again and I hold my head high knowing how much work I put into it. That is an awesome feeling!
  • JeSuisPrest
    JeSuisPrest Posts: 2,005 Member
    I would say yes, I no longer hide in the background when a photo is being taken, now I jump out in front of everyone!!! :wink:
  • Sd0510
    Sd0510 Posts: 295 Member
    I only lost 13 pounds so far, but it definatley has given me a lot more confidence!
  • KaleidoscopeEyes1056
    KaleidoscopeEyes1056 Posts: 2,996 Member
    Being awesome has given me more confidence.
  • MaximalLife
    MaximalLife Posts: 2,447 Member
    Oh, BIG TIME!
    I knew I looked like a blubbery whale, and while I pretended it mattered not, my wife found me unattractive, my kids were embarrassed and I felt like a bloated, unlovable slug.

    After 65lbs gone, I am a totally different man.
  • SassyCalyGirl
    SassyCalyGirl Posts: 1,932 Member
    I would say yes, I no longer hide in the background when a photo is being taken, now I jump out in front of everyone!!! :wink:

    I love your ticker!
  • I think I know where you are coming from. I was tiny before the kids, but being slightly overweight, mummy figure seemed to be a safer place to be (hide?). But, this year, for lots of different reasons, I finally decided after quite a few years of hiding that I am not doing that anymore. I am not at my goal, but next year I intend to be and make lots of other changes as well. I'm not sure that will suit everyone but I am not shortchanging myself anymore. Phew, that was deep! What I mean is, don't give up.
  • mem50
    mem50 Posts: 1,384 Member
    Yes, most definitely Yes! I feel I look pretty good for a 50+ gal. I even have men saying hello and trying to chat me up....till I flash the wedding ring, still...it does feel good. .:blushing: Plus you would have never caught me in a pair of skinny jeggins. (my first pair)

    I have noticed my skin has gotten really dry. As in, it looks like powder type of dry. I drink plenty of water so I just don't understand that.
  • thelovelyLIZ
    thelovelyLIZ Posts: 1,227 Member
    Weight loss is weird for me, because while I think it improves my comfort in my own skin more, it can also really damage my self esteem, because I become more observant and critical of my body. I was never self conscious about my arms until my weight loss attempt in March, but now I've become aware of how flabby and large they are, and I'm feeling less and less comfortable wearing sleeveless clothing, which is something I've always worn and was comfortable wearing, even at my heaviest.

    On the flip side, I'm finally starting to notice a change in my body and that I look better, so as a whole that makes me feel better. It's so strange. I'll feel great and then an hour later I'll be picking my body apart. I try to stay positive and stuff, but sometimes it's hard to see the progress.
  • JeSuisPrest
    JeSuisPrest Posts: 2,005 Member
    I would say yes, I no longer hide in the background when a photo is being taken, now I jump out in front of everyone!!! :wink:

    I love your ticker!

    Thanks!!!
  • TheBraveryLover
    TheBraveryLover Posts: 1,217 Member
    Same as before. I've always had above average confidence and never really lacked attention.
  • godroxmysox
    godroxmysox Posts: 1,491 Member
    For me, definitely. I've always been the quiet type, but I've noticed that losing the weight and getting the compliments has lead to many conversations that I normally would have avoided.
  • shack1157
    shack1157 Posts: 97 Member
    No I have never had a confidence issue! Weight loss has made it so I want to do more things! That is because I have so much energy now! It really has given me a new outlook on life now! Me and the wife do some much more than we use to! But again we have all the confidence we need!
  • Yes it has. I actually feel pretty now. I have a long way to go to reach my weight loss goals but I know that in time I will get there.
  • Queen_Christine
    Queen_Christine Posts: 342 Member
    Well, I'm 53 years old and I'm wearing "skinny jeans"! (or could It be that I just like clothes again?)
  • kimi131
    kimi131 Posts: 1,058 Member
    Heck yeah it does! I wrote a blog about it today actually -
    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/blog/kimi131/view/old-me-vs-new-me-184027
  • I've never lacked confidence, really, and on occassions I did/do, I can usually bluff it until the real feeling catches up lol
    BUT, it's only in the last few weeks (Oct 29th for the first time!) that I have found myself bearing my arms and shoulders in tops and dresses. Sounds silly, and I'm still very overweight, but what a bloody liberating feeling! It was always something I avoided without thinking about it, but since 'daring to bare' that first time, it's made me feel so empowered......even though I've only done it a couple of times since lol But going shopping and not subconsciously writing off every sleeveless top/dress is a revalation in itself, and just further fuel to my weight loss resolve! It's nothing to do with how I look, and all about how I feel. I can go from shower to club in 45 minutes now, I no longer spend days trying on a million outfits. I don't always think I look amazing....but I know I don't look awful!
  • rsdgirl
    rsdgirl Posts: 241 Member
    ive always been loud and obnoxious and pretty confident so not really havent gotten many compliments or anything of that nature. i have alot of medical issues so people tend to see that before they see the real me :/ but all is good I LOVE ME and always will

    AND........ godroxmysox statement is SOOOOOO true, so proud of her and couldnt be happier for her!! love you Ash-e and congrats as always!!
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