Too embarrassed to be seen in public

letsdothis1971
letsdothis1971 Posts: 4
edited October 7 in Introduce Yourself
I'd love to meet some new friends that plan on being on here daily. Today is my first day on here and I started my diet today. I plan on being on here daily since I'll need the support because my self control after the "new" wears off is really bad! It's going to be a great year!

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  • shad1018
    shad1018 Posts: 191 Member
    One day at a time and before you know it you'll have made many positive changes. My advice... don't wait to go back to Church. YOu may find support and encouragement there that you need OR you may be the encouragement som eone else needs.
    God Bless you - Susan:smile:
  • Iamkim73
    Iamkim73 Posts: 924 Member
    Welcome! Feel free to add me.
  • Jen2Bfit
    Jen2Bfit Posts: 125 Member
    I will add you as friend. I joined a couple of months ago, but it is now time to check in daily and make this work. I did something similar last year and had very good progress and results, but the holidays threw me off target. Now I am ready to work it again and with support I know it can be done! :-)
  • Thanks Susan! I know I shouldn't wait on church. I don't have anything nice to wear and I feel about as low as someone can feel about their weight. I do worship but in my own way until I can get to a goal that I feel confident enough to go buy some decent clothes. I have allowed my self esteem to take this from me but I'm getting it back and soon!
  • AutieBell
    AutieBell Posts: 32 Member
    Feel free to add me we all need support!!!
  • Angel1066
    Angel1066 Posts: 816 Member
    Always happy to give support, feel free to add me.
  • Dani724
    Dani724 Posts: 30 Member
    You will love mfp and the great people you'll meet on here. Feel free to add me. I hope you have a happy and healthy new year!
  • JayneWilson1963
    JayneWilson1963 Posts: 543 Member
    Welcome to MFP. Feel free to add me as a friend, we all need support. This is a great place for the support you need.
  • allierae14
    allierae14 Posts: 113 Member
    Welcome to MFP. There is so much support and encouragement here - you will be successful in no time!
  • Lanna74
    Lanna74 Posts: 203 Member
    Just takin' it a day at a time. That's the way we'll reach our goals. :)
  • Melanie1967
    Melanie1967 Posts: 238 Member
    Welcome on board! The more support you have, the better you will do. Never be afraid to ask for help here. Someone will have the answer! Add me if you would like!!
  • moran1917
    moran1917 Posts: 1,133 Member
    you can add me, i'm a daily logger!
  • Poohsta0
    Poohsta0 Posts: 147 Member
    Always glad to have another friend. Add my if you like.
  • Canadien
    Canadien Posts: 122 Member
    Welcome to MFP! :) You can add me if you like. Best of luck & have fun on your fitness journey!
  • MB_Positif
    MB_Positif Posts: 8,897 Member
    First off...you have a beautiful face and amazing hair! Flaunt it :) I agree with other posters about not waiting to go back to church, my church family has been one of the greatest inspirations and supporters throughout this process for me! Also, last January I was reading a great Christian book called "Made to Crave" by Lysa TerKeurst. Amazing. Really helped kick start the mental part of this for me :) I will send you a friend request!
  • uboom
    uboom Posts: 69 Member
    Not sure why a good looking woman like you would be embarrassed to be seen in public. Millions of Americans are overweight and your actively getting involved to get healthier.... I also liked that your doing it for you kid.... awesome. Feel free to add me if you like.
  • RenCara
    RenCara Posts: 300 Member
    Welcome! I am on daily and always love new friends. Feel free to add me. :happy:
  • Hey we are all in this together, feel free to add me. I am constantly on here, my phone is glued to me because I am always thinking about my new diet.

    Best of Luck,

    Lady
  • quiksandy
    quiksandy Posts: 246 Member
    Welcome to MFP. This is a great place to find support and friendships. Feel free to add me as a friend. I'd love to help support you on your journey.

    (By the way, you look beautiful in your profile pic!)
  • shellsie_j
    shellsie_j Posts: 132 Member
    Hi I would love to have you as a friend. I only joined on the 29th December so am new here too...lets encourage each other!
  • yankeedownsouth
    yankeedownsouth Posts: 717 Member
    I sent you a friend request. I'm on MFP every single day!
  • nalliebell
    nalliebell Posts: 61 Member
    remember it is not a diet instead it is a new healthy lifestyle :-)

    feel free to add me:flowerforyou:
  • TNoire
    TNoire Posts: 642 Member
    Welcome! add me if you wish!

    Here is some tips!

    females no less than 1200 cals a day
    males no less than 1800 cals a day

    why?

    if you eat less your body goes into starvation mode which causes it to store which causes weight gain

    3500 burned cals = loss on 1lb of fat
    3500 cals = 1lb of fat put on

    low carb is key my dietitian says 150 or less per day is a pretty good amount =)

    Don't call it a diet just be wise on what you put into your body and treat yourself when you meet your goals

    lean meats, red meat and taters 3-4 times in a 2 week period, whole grains keep you fuller longer, heavier meals in the morning, sodium no more than 2400mg a day, fresh fruit and veggies, don't drink you calories, 8+ glasses of water a day, stay away from junk food/fast food/processed food, treat it when you meet your goals, don't eat the samethings daily or do the same workouts or your body will plateau

    but i learned all this when I gained 195lbs from quitting smoking, got on track with healthy eating and workouts and lost 156lbs in 19 months (put some back on with stress of buying/selling houses) but back on track now =)

    you can do it! promise!
  • kalexander2005
    kalexander2005 Posts: 223 Member
    Feel free to add me. I am losing about 1.5 pounds a week. Slow but sure progress. Started out in 20's that were tight, and now I'm in 14's that are loose! I didn't think I could lose weight after 40, but one day at a time, I'm doing it.

    Hang in there! You can do this.
  • Doulos24x7
    Doulos24x7 Posts: 37 Member
    I'd love to meet some new friends that plan on being on here daily. Today is my first day on here and I started my diet today. I plan on being on here daily since I'll need the support because my self control after the "new" wears off is really bad! It's going to be a great year!

    I'm here for the same. Friend me.
  • Shortymax
    Shortymax Posts: 1 Member
    I am new on here started yesterday. Really like the app it's showing me exactly how many calories I am taking in rather then just my mental note of it which makes it easier to cheat. Seeing I went over 75 calories helps me not make the same mistake the next day. I'm going to loose these 10 pounds & get in better shape. :) wouldn't mind making a few friends :)
  • Doulos24x7
    Doulos24x7 Posts: 37 Member
    Diet is definitely not a good word.

    Life change. That's what it is, that's what it has to be. If I don't make it a life change, I'll die of a heart attack ("very high cholesterol") before I even have grand kids.
  • Cynduck
    Cynduck Posts: 255 Member
    I sent you a friend request. Always happy for new friends :)
  • bjfmade
    bjfmade Posts: 543 Member
    Add me!! This is a wonderful place to be and we all need support.
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