Was it just the alcohol talking?

ImJDLookatME
ImJDLookatME Posts: 288 Member
edited October 2024 in Chit-Chat
So I went to the mountains and partied on NYE with group of friends. There was this guy that I met once or twice in college, but wasn't really friends with. As the night went along, he kept talking about hanging out and doing things together since we live near by. As this was getting more detailed, more drink were being poured. Lol, we exchanged numbers and I can talk to him about random things but how do I approachthe actually hanging out? (I am very shy in the dating world, but want to change that...any suggestions are helpful.)

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  • onefourone
    onefourone Posts: 212 Member
    us guys are simple creatures and I myself like the straight forward hey you want to hang out sometime approach. Don't make him guess or hint to him. Say hey you want to hang out have a beer or something? If you do it over the phone take a deep breath and let it fly.

    the pull of the band aid method
  • Elzecat
    Elzecat Posts: 2,916 Member
    I had a very similar experience on NYE...I hate playing games, but I'm trying to wait a couple days and see if theperson calls me. Some guys like if you call them, but I've had bad experiences with that. I think lonetygra's advice is good :)
  • Sh0ewh0re7_BlingItOn
    Sh0ewh0re7_BlingItOn Posts: 501 Member
    us guys are simple creatures and I myself like the straight forward hey you want to hang out sometime approach. Don't make him guess or hint to him. Say hey you want to hang out have a beer or something? If you do it over the phone take a deep breath and let it fly.

    the pull of the band aid method


    ^^^this, JUST DO IT!^^^ If you don't, you'll never know and keep wondering.
  • ItsMeRebekah
    ItsMeRebekah Posts: 909 Member
    if you had fun with him call him first! just go for it and have fun.
  • ImJDLookatME
    ImJDLookatME Posts: 288 Member
    us guys are simple creatures and I myself like the straight forward hey you want to hang out sometime approach. Don't make him guess or hint to him. Say hey you want to hang out have a beer or something? If you do it over the phone take a deep breath and let it fly.

    the pull of the band aid method

    Thanks for the advice! I think I am going to see if he wants to watch some football on Sunday...weird question, do I as the day of or day before etc?
  • _Aimée_
    _Aimée_ Posts: 190
    LOL bless your cottons. I'd like some notice before a date..ring him the day before.
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