Anyone else not satisfied with the progress?

I have always been in the size 5-7 range 120-140 lbs and this weight gain is new for me- within the last 4 years. I had multiple pregnancies then BF'd which was a struggle. I was not one of the luckies that just "loses weight" from BFing. I also have fibromyalgia, which I've been dx'd with for 11 years. the last few years its been worse and worse mostly compounded by my constant hormone fluctuations and weight gain. I know all this but still...
So a few month ago I decided to get my butt in gear and find myself again under all this extra blub. And its been working (not fast enough but still) I exercise 6-7 times a week, eat within my calories every day, usually under but not enough to get the "your starving yourself " message. I'm on a weight plateau right now but I've amped up my workouts so hopefully that helps. I can see a difference, my clothes are definately bigger and people are commenting on it. Everyone says "you look great" and asks how much weight I've lost...I don't look "great" I still look fat I'm still lumpy and I still am not happy when I look in the mirror. When I was 130 I looked great, now I look 30 lbs overweight. Better than 50lb overweight, but still 30. So I try not to be negative when ppl comment but I can't help having this in my own head. I really want to be excited about the progress I've made, but I'm not. I'm certainly motivated to keep it up but definately not satisfied.
I really don't want to be a downer. I'm actually a very happy person, I love everything about my life except how I look in it. And my clothes are getting too big, but I really still don't want to shop for good fitting stuff until I get a bit smaller. I can't afford a wardrode replacement more than once. SO any suggestions for keeping the faith??