GIRLS...WHAT MAKES A GUY SEXY???

A pulse...... :laugh:

Good hygiene, healthy, smart, confident, goal and family oriented and Single if you want to date him

Someone who is willing to do what needs to be done, even if it's dishes or laundry.

Great smile, brains and personality are a must as well.

banking on Giants Jersey and a beer making the list....

maybe not but sense of humour is a must!

Will have to work on that...

of course the first thing you notice is the physical stuff, but without the other important stuff to back it up, looks are worthless.

PHYSICAL:
kind eyes...like, as in sweet
sheepish smile
height - 6' or higher is nice
Not too many muscles....weird, huh? but I don't want a man that looks too hard, I want a sweetie that will cuddle me!
And I have to admit I really like cute nerds with black glasses!!! :happy:
a couple tattoos can be hot as long as they are not too visible and not all over and not red-neck or offensive
drkbrown-haired guys are my favs for some odd reason. and sexy or messy hair.
and yes age does matter to me. I am still young (sorta) and would like to have children one day....so between 28-33 is ideal but I know that's being really picky...lol

IMPORTANT STUFF:
intelligence. really a must.
I am Christian so he must be the same.
someone who is ambitious and quietly confident but never ever cocky. arrogance is the biggest turn-off imaginable.
someone who cares enough about their health to do something about it; this is so important to me since I have finally become this person for myself. But definitely NOT those guys who are obsessed with muscles and take numerous pics of themselves flexing…just gross.
I would love someone who is a smart-ash like myself! This goes with having a good sense of humor. anyone who can make me laugh, girl or guy, really gets my friendship.
This next one will sound shallow: I absolutely cannot handle someone being a country bumpkin or red-neck, which is mostly what I am surrounded by here in Louisiana. It would be nice if we had common interests, such as sports (I'm a fanatic!), music, work life, health and fitness, and interest to begin traveling one day, among others. But I'm not interested in hunting, eating weird animals, mud-hogging, grunge, thug life, big loud trucks, or living life dangerously.
I want someone who is respectful of others. Anti-racial. never makes crude jokes or uses offensive names. But I love me some sly little innuendos though! Wink wink!


so basically I just want a tall guy with a nice face who makes me laugh, makes me smile, makes my heart flutter. who loves me and can't live without me. Who will be my best friend, my buddy. I don't think he exists, but if he does, he is probably already taken

there should be another thread added on to this one.....Which man is actually all of these things?!

no point in getting us all hot and bothered if this doesn't exist.

Constantly asking if you're OK, whining about not meeting his needs, asking lots of questions about that male co-worker, crying a lot, borrowing your sweater, and lots of black eyeliner.

^ thats funny...

eyes, teeth, body, sense of humor (my bf) :bigsmile:

There are many things that make a man sexy but it depends on the other person's perspective. I used to like men dressed more gothic-like as a teen, but now in my adult years, I think men that are shaven, clean cut, dressed in a suit (professional). Confident personalities and drive along with a man who knows what he wants (me) and is not afraid to go for it. Another is compassion, understanding, romantic, thoughtful and non-controlling personality. I flee when a man becomes a jerk because I know it goes downhill from that point. Oh yeah and facial hair and chest hair are huge turn offs for me.

I married my husband strictly based on his ability to continuously make me laugh! The fact that he is a wonderful stepfather to my children and a great provider doesnt hurt either....

A man is sexy to me when he treats me as his equal. When he notices im tired, and he says sit down and relax ill finish that for you. When he says I look stressed why don't you get out of the house and go do something for yourself. When he says get dressed were getting out of here. Or when he says you look beautiful no matter what you wear. And that is why I love my husband